luvyaself95:
have been doing fantatics than before you know in this life eh if someone can't value you , You have to value yourself.. well it going to two months now we break up...

Thanks. Mine was like a week ago. No wonder i feel bad

Blackivy27:
Thanks. Mine was like a week ago. No wonder i feel bad

that not long and i guess this your first time...

luvyaself95:
that not long and i guess this your first time...

Yep

Blackivy27:
260 jamb. Rewriting next year. Hoping for 300
uniabuja.

I'm proud of you, even if I don't know you like that. you will make a "fine doctor", academically and otherwise

bigmic111:


I'm proud of you, even if I don't know you like that. you will make a "fine doctor", academically and otherwise

Thanks alot. You should be a motivator. You're a peoples person.
its my dream to be.

Blackivy27:
Yep

i felt same way once like that experience is best teacher you will catch up soon..

luvyaself95:
i felt same way once like that experience is best teacher you will catch up soon..

thanks alot,

Blackivy27:
thanks alot,

Take care...

Blackivy27:
Thanks alot. You should be a motivator. You're a peoples person.
its my dream to be.

I'm a highly motivated person, thanks for noticing I am planning on running for a political post come next general elections. I feel that's the best way to motivate the masses. I'm gearing up to run, the world is ours, how about we grab it by the balls

bigmic111:


I'm a highly motivated person, thanks for noticing I am planning on running for a political post come next general elections. I feel that's the best way to motivate the masses. I'm gearing up to run, the world is ours, how about we grab it by the balls

and you'll get it the post. We need people like you in politics. Besides i heard a little rumor about you a wedding ring and a future mrs bigmic111

Blackivy27:
and you'll get it the post. We need people like you in politics. Besides i heard a little rumor about you a wedding ring and a future mrs bigmic111

lol, hope your night was blissful? where did you hear the rumor from I'm going to be 28 before the year runs out, I think it's a good age to settle down, plus I think emotionally, psychologically and materially I'm ready, or I should I still wait till I'm 29

bigmic111:


lol, hope your night was blissful? where did you hear the rumor from I'm going to be 28 before the year runs out, I think it's a good age to settle down, plus I think emotionally, psychologically and materially I'm ready, or I should I still wait till I'm 29

You're still so young. Get married this year you are more than ready. With the way you type one would think you're in your 40s. Even though I dont know you that much, you seem very mature, psychologically...
besides who knows next year. Just make sure she's the one..

Blackivy27:
You're still so young. Get married this year you are more than ready. With the way you type one would think you're in your 40s. Even though I dont know you that much, you seem very mature, psychologically...
besides who knows next year. Just make sure she's the one..

I'm hoping she is, but you can never be sure. she isn't even ready yet but I feel I'm ready or almost ready. I don't want to sound selfish( but if you must judge me, please be gentle), but it was one of the things required to run for office, in order to appear responsible. other than this I'm doing it for personal reasons.

bigmic111:


I'm hoping she is, but you can never be sure. she isn't even ready yet but I feel I'm ready or almost ready. I don't want to sound selfish( but if you must judge me, please be gentle), but it was one of the things required to run for office, in order to appear responsible. other than this I'm doing it for personal reasons.

Hmm... Then dont. Apart from moral reasons. Marriage is a big step. If you do get the position you'll be tied down to someone you might not have genuine feelings for. If you want to kill two birds with one stone, wait for mrs right. I dont even understand what kind of, mind my language, bull requirement that is. How does marriage influence responsibility??

Blackivy27:
Hmm... Then dont. Apart from moral reasons. Marriage is a big step. If you do get the position you'll be tied down to someone you might not have genuine feelings for. If you want to kill two birds with one stone, wait for mrs right. I dont even understand what kind of, mind my language, bull requirement that is. How does marriage influence responsibility??

you making a lot of sense, I get your point. it's just general African belief that a married man or woman is responsible and that is the image the party wants for their candidate in the eyes of the general public. I'm basically comfortable with her, I don't think it's true love, I believe it's kind of a mutualistic love where we both have things to gain from each other ( her dad is into politics, she knew about my aspiration before then, she linked me up and from there we started dating, she isn't bad at all and I am her kind of man.)

bigmic111:


you making a lot of sense, I get your point. it's just general African belief that a married man or woman is responsible and that is the image the party wants for their candidate in the eyes of the general public. I'm basically comfortable with her, I don't think it's true love, I believe it's kind of a mutualistic love where we both have things to gain from each other ( her dad is into politics, she knew about my aspiration before then, she linked me up and from there we started dating, she isn't bad at all and I am her kind of man.)

aww... Well it narrows down to you. You would know her better than me. You seem the kind of person who puts career first?

Blackivy27:
aww... Well it narrows down to you. You would know her better than me. You seem the kind of person who puts career first?

am ambitious, Yes! I have big shoes to fill, in my family anything we do we do it big. I also love love but I think that's just a fairy tale. I think mutualistic love is more practical, just my thoughts though, might be wrong.

bigmic111:


am ambitious, Yes! I have big shoes to fill, in my family anything we do we do it big. I also love love but I think that's just a fairy tale. I think mutualistic love is more practical, just my thoughts though, might be wrong.

Hmm... In a way, you're like me. Although im sure, careers a major priority. Im ambitious too. With my first taste of love i guess you're right. I've learnt to look beyond the illusion of "fairy tale" love. But still dont give up. You wont find love with everyone just one person. And she might still be there. Besides what if something goes wrong with your mutual benefit relationship. When she wouldnt be able to deliver. Your union will suffer a shocking blow. Any choice you make though be sure of it.

Blackivy27:
Hmm... In a way, you're like me. Although im sure, careers a major priority. Im ambitious too. With my first taste of love i guess you're right. I've learnt to look beyond the illusion of "fairy tale" love. But still dont give up. You wont find love with everyone just one person. And she might still be there. Besides what if something goes wrong with your mutual benefit relationship. When she wouldnt be able to deliver. Your union will suffer a shocking blow. Any choice you make though be sure of it.

that's another angle to look at it...hmmm. I share your sentiments, nothing actually is certain in this life and people of cause change but it means I'll have to wait until after the polls before making a decision (like marriage) , and that's in 2023. but how can I be sure waiting that long would work (for love and politics inclusive) ?

bigmic111:


that's another angle to look at it...hmmm. I share your sentiments, nothing actually is certain in this life and people of cause change but it means I'll have to wait until after the polls before making a decision (like marriage) , and that's in 2023. but how can I be sure waiting that long would work (for love and politics inclusive) ?

We cant. The future is vague. The only way to conquer it is to take risk. But it depends on if you prefer the safe side of life. Do you??

Blackivy27:
We cant. The future is vague. The only way to conquer it is to take risk. But it depends on if you prefer the safe side of life. Do you??

I love taking risk, I have been doing that almost all my life. I most certainly do not prefer the safe side of life. I have decided to postponed any talk of marriage indefinitely. as a lady what is the best way for me to handle my girlfriend with this new development, what do you suggest?

bigmic111:


I love taking risk, I have been doing that almost all my life. I most certainly do not prefer the safe side of life. I have decided to postponed any talk of marriage indefinitely. as a lady what is the best way for me to handle my girlfriend with this new development, what do you suggest?

then we think alike. But i hope you're certain...
As a girl my best advice is to be honest. And i mean it. Im not her and we dont think alike for sure but every one wants a good amount of honesty. Dont tell her all you told me, so it wouldnt seem you cherish your career more even if its the truth.

MJBOLT:

dont get your hopes up,i have 4 girlfriends

MJBOLT:

dont get your hopes up,i have 4 girlfriends

Blackivy27:
then we think alike. But i hope you're certain...
As a girl my best advice is to be honest. And i mean it. Im not her and we dont think alike for sure but every one wants a good amount of honesty. Dont tell her all you told me, so it wouldnt seem you cherish your career more even if its the truth.

I'm certain, my mind is made up! I'll take that advice on honesty. of cause she won't know what we discuss, I like your way of reasoning, although I know you have your emotional side too. you are mature emotionally but I'm not so sure age wise

bigmic111:


I'm certain, my mind is made up! I'll take that advice on honesty. of cause she won't know what we discuss, I like your way of reasoning, although I know you have your emotional side too. you are mature emotionally but I'm not so sure age wise

thanks. Very emotional. Age wise. Im still little.

Blackivy27:
thanks. Very emotional. Age wise. Im still little.

a lady that is emotional is gold, one tear in the sight of the guy that loves you and all your wishes will be granted. I like emotional ladies- I'm the opposite and you know how unlike charges attract?!

bigmic111:


a lady that is emotional is gold, one tear in the sight of the guy that loves you and all your wishes will be granted. I like emotional ladies- I'm the opposite and you know how unlike charges attract?!

I've heard.

But being emotional/sensitive usually has its downside. And I've suffered alot cause of it. Most people are ungrateful to the care you give.

Blackivy27:
I've heard.

But being emotional/sensitive usually has its downside. And I've suffered alot cause of it. Most people are ungrateful to the care you give.

everything has downsides but I choose not to focus on that cause everything also has upsides, like being emotional.
but you just need someone to appreciate it and not the other way round. I'll hate to find you bitter and emotionally cold.

bigmic111:


everything has downsides but I choose not to focus on that cause everything also has upsides, like being emotional.
but you just need someone to appreciate it and not the other way round. I'll hate to find you bitter and emotionally cold.

Thanks alot for the concern. I too would hate to find myself so. You arent emotional?

Blackivy27:
Thanks alot for the concern. I too would hate to find myself so. You arent emotional?

for most part no, I'm an alpha: emotions really isn't our thing. but if a girl can get us to show REAL emotions then she is forever ours. that's how I am. you have a problem with that?

bigmic111:

for most part no, I'm an alpha: emotions really isn't our thing. but if a girl can get us to show REAL emotions then she is forever ours. that's how I am. you have a problem with that?

Nope. Every one has his/her own choice.

besides you're the first really mature alpha i've encountered. Thats cool.

Blackivy27:
Nope. Every one has his/her own choice.

besides you're the first really mature alpha i've encountered. Thats cool.

that's a nice thing to say, thank you. most here aren't alpha's but are beta guys that are bitter, girls reject them. so they come online and rant like alpha.
you get the difference?