I am a guy in my 30’s, very comfortable and good looks. Met this girl couple of months ago at a business function at Asaba.., we chatted etc. Before going back to my base in Lagos, I gave her 20k to come and see me she agreed. Aside that, I have been sending her 10k, 5k non stop for plentora of things.. recharge cards, this and that..

Whenever I ask her to come see me, she will give one reason or the other which I normally brush off, but her financial demands remains constant. It got up to a point that I figured she is playing hard to get, I told her point blank that I won’t communicate again and she said okay! Only for her to send a message yesterday asking that I send her 20k. What do you think my NL brothers and sisters??

Since you're Father Christmas can you please send me 1,000 in South African Rands?

Wanna use it for something very urgent.

Me 2k GBp please.

Please don't even think of sending her that money, she's only playing with you and using you as ATM machine. Even when you said you would stop communicating she didn't even fight back now she wants money she remembers her ATM

SouthSouth1914:
I am a guy in my 30’s, very comfortable and good looks. Met this girl couple of months ago at a business function at Asaba.., we chatted etc. Before going back to my base in Lagos, I gave her 20k to come and see me she agreed. Aside that, I have been sending her 10k, 5k non stop for plentora of things.. recharge cards, this and that..

Whenever I ask her to come see me, she will give one reason or the other which I normally brush off, but her financial demands remains constant. It got up to a point that I figured she is playing hard to get, I told her point blank that I won’t communicate again and she said okay! Only for her to send a message yesterday asking that I send her 20k. What do you think my NL brothers and sisters??

Da owo mi, mbok kuno enye okuk mfo aba. Enye idoho interested ke relationship mfo. Enye Imaha fien, ama okuk mfo.

Send her the 20k.

After that, ask her out, then give her your atm and the pin.

Go back to the village and start doing gateman work, because na there your sense suppose carry you reach.

See broda broda wey mumu broda wey be ATM...

The cash cow with the leaking udders/titties Stop the cash flow. The end.

Please how can I unread this?? This is disturbing.

Next2Bezee:
Send her the 20k.

After that, ask her out, then give her your atm and the pin.

Go back to the village and start doing gateman work, because na there your sense suppose carry you reach.

I said opinions/advice not insults! Besides, I can’t go back to the village already came from there .

luvyaself95:
See broda
broda wey mumu
broda wey be ATM...

Not really! Sometimes, you too can be nice!

ubunja:
Since you're Father Christmas can you please send me 1,000 in South African Rands?

Wanna use it for something very urgent.

How much is that in Nigerian naira?

Sorry op but you're possessed and itll be better you share with your mom or family member

Sorry my foot sef, epe ti moyin op

Op, I must admit that your problem is without solution..pls continue to give her the money

Hahahaha, men like you still exist? #sigh. Some ladies are shameless though. They are the reason men think every woman acts this way. OP, u no try at all.

You started the giving to win her heart but you forget not all women thinks like a rat, once you started lavishing money some ladys know there's other motives in mind that's why you giving her money to make her come, she get scared away from ritualist.
Forget about the money, make her fall in love with you first then the rest will be history.
Since you started the giving please give her.

SouthSouth1914:


Not really! Sometimes, you too can be nice!

can and it depend on the person...

Are you doing promo or give away... If yes I'm interested please. I take this as a joke cos no man in this country can do such a thing anymore. Men don wise up.

Sometimes I wonder, a grown man will see the signs and yet still fall. It's not hard to put two and two together.

SouthSouth1914:


How much is that in Nigerian naira?

about 20K

hi op,send me 5k too,if u no follow send me 5k ogun go strike

U don knw wat is goin on, eventuarry

Na this kine mumu we dey like jam.

Receive sense in Jesus name

Simplep:
Na this kine mumu we dey like jam.

Receive sense in Jesus name

Because this is a faceless forum doesn’t give you the right to jump at the slightest instance to insult. I do not move with your kind, and you can as well shove your advice down your asss! Goodluck while doing that.

SmellySperm:
hi op,send me 5k too,if u no follow send me 5k ogun go strike

If you had asked in a polite manner, would have sent you..

pcguru1:
Sometimes I wonder, a grown man will see the signs and yet still fall. It's not hard to put two and two together.

I didn’t fall.., I only wanted to help, maybe when you get in my shoes you’d understand.

greatme2good:
Are you doing promo or give away... If yes I'm interested please. I take this as a joke cos no man in this country can do such a thing anymore. Men don wise up.

Sometimes you just wanted to lend a helping hand until you figure that you’re being taken for granted.

domwas2:
You started the giving to win her heart but you forget not all women thinks like a rat, once you started lavishing money some ladys know there's other motives in mind that's why you giving her money to make her come, she get scared away from ritualist.
Forget about the money, make her fall in love with you first then the rest will be history.
Since you started the giving please give her.

Didn’t see it that way until now. Cheers

SouthSouth1914:


I didn’t fall.., I only wanted to help, maybe when you get in my shoes you’d understand.

Never, I'm too smart for that if I help someone it's not someone using my head. Even look at the tone that she's writing to you.

pcguru1:


Never, I'm too smart for that if I help someone it's not someone using my head. Even look at the tone that she's writing to you.

Perhaps he's helping without wanting anything in return. Purest form of giving

You must be joking OP

AwkaetitiBabe:
Perhaps he's helping without wanting anything in return. Purest form of giving

I will break it down so there's no confusion there's a difference in giving someone money and dealing with a leech. She knows there's nothing there but still hangs to the money that's a leech someone who takes and offers no value. I don't mean sexual