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Re: Advice Needed! by Omega30(m): 9:29pm On Aug 26, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Don't be a puci when in love and love someone who loves and respect you.
Nice one!!
Re: Advice Needed! by SouthSouth1914: 9:42pm On Aug 26, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
I don't mind at all wink Fcmb

Sent!
Re: Advice Needed! by SouthSouth1914: 9:46pm On Aug 26, 2019
dogtails:
Tnx alot bro i appreciate 0170876039 gtb

Please check if your account details is correct! Or give another bank details
Re: Advice Needed! by Nobody: 9:47pm On Aug 26, 2019
SouthSouth1914:


Sent!
God Bless You. You definitely find a lady deserving of your love and care. Just don't let anyone treat you anyhow, it's either they with you or not. You can modify and delete d aza. Thx
Re: Advice Needed! by SouthSouth1914: 9:49pm On Aug 26, 2019
Omega30:
He's a guy, so he knows how guys relate with words. He understands. But that aside, you ladies can be frustrating sha.

Quit playing the perfect one! At some point in your life you must have made a mistake with a lady.. maybe I made mine and this might be a learning curve for me!

Stop playing perfect because you are not!
Re: Advice Needed! by Nobody: 9:49pm On Aug 26, 2019
Omega30:
Nice one!!
Lol. Don't worry when d right time comes, you'll find the one.
Re: Advice Needed! by SouthSouth1914: 9:50pm On Aug 26, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
God Bless You. You definitely find a lady deserving of your love and care. Just don't let anyone treat you anyhow, it's either they with you or not. You can modify and delete d aza. Thx

Keep up the good work! Your maturity will take you places! Cheers
Re: Advice Needed! by Fidelismaria: 10:03pm On Aug 26, 2019
Send her 10k and send the remaining 10k to me
Re: Advice Needed! by dogtails(m): 10:06pm On Aug 26, 2019
SouthSouth1914:


Please check if your account details is correct! Or give another bank details
5220001485 ecobank or 0170876039 gtb
Re: Advice Needed! by dogtails(m): 10:07pm On Aug 26, 2019
SouthSouth1914:


Please check if your account details is correct! Or give another bank details
There are both correct bro
Re: Advice Needed! by Omega30(m): 10:08pm On Aug 26, 2019
SouthSouth1914:


Quit playing the perfect one! At some point in your life you must have made a mistake with a lady.. maybe I made mine and this might be a learning curve for me!

Stop playing perfect because you are not!
I got you. Perfect for where! The only perfect man that came to this world never bother himself with relationship. I have consciously falling in love mumuly before self.
Re: Advice Needed! by Omega30(m): 10:12pm On Aug 26, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Lol. Don't worry when d right time comes, you'll find the one.
Thanks sweerry, I have been putting it into prayers. A wife not a knife. A helper not a destroyer. A partner not a parasite.
Re: Advice Needed! by SouthSouth1914: 10:14pm On Aug 26, 2019
dogtails:
5220001485 ecobank or 0170876039 gtb

Sent!!
Re: Advice Needed! by HeliosHay(m): 10:15pm On Aug 26, 2019
SouthSouth1914:
I am a guy in my 30’s, very comfortable and good looks. Met this girl couple of months ago at a business function at Asaba.., we chatted etc. Before going back to my base in Lagos, I gave her 20k to come and see me she agreed. Aside that, I have been sending her 10k, 5k non stop for plentora of things.. recharge cards, this and that..

Whenever I ask her to come see me, she will give one reason or the other which I normally brush off, but her financial demands remains constant. It got up to a point that I figured she is playing hard to get, I told her point blank that I won’t communicate again and she said okay! Only for her to send a message yesterday asking that I send her 20k. What do you think my NL brothers and sisters??

You started leading with money..
You're acting all desperate/thirsty for her to come see you..
You're probably giving her all your time and attention - like you haven't got a purpose or any other girl(s) in your life
She senses the desperation and figures she can leverage that to milk you for as much as she can before she even considers visiting you (if at all that happens - since she probably sees u as a maga by now)

You never lead with money when it comes to girls..makes it look like you as a person is not good enough. If you lead with money, better be prepared to keep shelling out the cash...once it stops she's gone

If I were in your position, I wouldn't have asked her to come see me.

I would chat, flirt, create sexual tension, never let her know the full story about me..create some mystery..make her want to figure out more about you..don't be too available for chit chat or what not.....do this well and she'll be the one to suggest coming to see you.

Once you start throwing money around and then start making requests, it sends the wrong message
Re: Advice Needed! by Nobody: 10:15pm On Aug 26, 2019
Omega30:
Thanks sweerry, I have been putting it into prayers. A wife not a knife. A helper not a destroyer. A partner not a parasite.
Gbam! Your God will answer ya.
Re: Advice Needed! by Nobody: 10:17pm On Aug 26, 2019
HeliosHay:


You started leading with money..
You're acting all desperate/thirsty for her to come see you..
You're probably giving her all your time and attention - like you haven't got a purpose or any other girl(s) in your life
The senses the desperation and figures she can leverage that to milk you for as much as she can before she even considers visiting you..

You never lead with money when it comes to girls..makes it look like you as a person is not good enough.

If I were in your position, I wouldn't have asked her to come see me.

I would chat, flirt, create sexual tension, never let her know the full story about me..create some mystery..make her want to figure out more about you..don't be too available for chit chat or what not.....do this well and she'll be the one to suggest coming to see you.

Once you start throwing money around and then start making requests, it sends the wrong message
Create sexual tension? Nice strategy Sha
Re: Advice Needed! by Omega30(m): 10:20pm On Aug 26, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Gbam! Your God will answer ya.
Amen!!! You seem very bold, displaying your real pics, won't it attract both real and unreal guys to you?
Re: Advice Needed! by dogtails(m): 10:21pm On Aug 26, 2019
SouthSouth1914:


Sent!!
Tnx alot bro May God uplift u from everyside
Re: Advice Needed! by SouthSouth1914: 10:23pm On Aug 26, 2019
HeliosHay:


You started leading with money..
You're acting all desperate/thirsty for her to come see you..
You're probably giving her all your time and attention - like you haven't got a purpose or any other girl(s) in your life
She senses the desperation and figures she can leverage that to milk you for as much as she can before she even considers visiting you (if at all that happens - since she probably sees u as a maga by now)

You never lead with money when it comes to girls..makes it look like you as a person is not good enough. If you lead with money, better be prepared to keep shelling out the cash...once it stops she's gone

If I were in your position, I wouldn't have asked her to come see me.

I would chat, flirt, create sexual tension, never let her know the full story about me..create some mystery..make her want to figure out more about you..don't be too available for chit chat or what not.....do this well and she'll be the one to suggest coming to see you.

Once you start throwing money around and then start making requests, it sends the wrong message

I didn’t start throwing money.. I explained I saw her at a business function and wasn’t based there! I should have asked her to visit me with her funds? I am sorry, am not like that.
Re: Advice Needed! by HeliosHay(m): 10:25pm On Aug 26, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Create sexual tension? Nice strategy Sha

A woman has to DESIRE you to come see you.

If she doesn't want to come then it's either she doesn't desire you at all or she once did but you started being too pushy/desperate/thirsty and she lost that desire.

I advise cutting her off totally...don't ask her to come see you again.

Once you make that threat and have the courage to stick to it, she'll see you're not a pushover and she might desire you again and actually come see you
Re: Advice Needed! by HeliosHay(m): 10:29pm On Aug 26, 2019
SouthSouth1914:


I didn’t start throwing money.. I explained I saw her at a business function and wasn’t based there! I should have asked her to visit me with her funds? I am sorry, am not like that.

The point is not to ask but to let her be the one to suggest coming to see you because she desires you.

She wants to know more about you, she wants to be with you, she likes you a lot and see the friendship going somewhere, she sees you couldn't care less whether she comes to see you or not, she sees other girls desire you (girls want things other girls want and can't get. That raises your sexual status as an alpha male).

If you're too available, you're giving her all she wants, you're an open book and there's no mystery there to figure out...why would she make an effort to come? she knows all she needs to know and has probably concluded she doesn't see the friendship going sexual

Once you start being too pushy, it gives the impression you're desperate.
Re: Advice Needed! by Nobody: 10:44pm On Aug 26, 2019
Omega30:
Amen!!! You seem very bold, displaying your real pics, won't it attract both real and unreal guys to you?
Doesn't matter, I only reveal what I wanna reveal. And I scrutinize profiles before replying a pm sef
Re: Advice Needed! by Nobody: 10:45pm On Aug 26, 2019
HeliosHay:


A woman has to DESIRE you to come see you.

If she doesn't want to come then it's either she doesn't desire you at all or she once did but you started being too pushy/desperate/thirsty and she lost that desire.

I advise cutting her off totally...don't ask her to come see you again.

Once you make that threat and have the courage to stick to it, she'll see you're not a pushover and she might desire you again and actually come see you
Na ur type go tell girl, use ur money when you come I'll give you. cheesy
Re: Advice Needed! by Omega30(m): 10:46pm On Aug 26, 2019
SouthSouth1914:


I didn’t start throwing money.. I explained I saw her at a business function and wasn’t based there! I should have asked her to visit me with her funds? I am sorry, am not like that.
Bro, I see that u are a nice guy, but ladies are complicated. Just follow some simple rules and u will be fine
* Dress and look good.
* Be confident and carry yourself with style
* Be outcome independent, whenever u see a babe u like ,follow my little formula
“ Excuse me,( or Hello), I saw u and I just have to say u look good. ” Do that with a smile on your face and with a body language of I want u badly. Look her from eyes to lips,to boobs and you check her back too. She will get the signal that u are a what's up guy. Don't be apologetic about it. It is either she stays or leaves. But most will stay. Don't talk much, tell her that u are in a hurry but would like to see her maybe tomorrow so as to get to know her better. Say it with a tone of indifference. She will likely say no problem, then just say, 0 what( her digits)? She will call her contact then, touch her a little behind or hold her hands a little longer. That's it. You have a date without spending.

Note: Girls don't play a player, they only play a pussy.
Re: Advice Needed! by Omega30(m): 10:47pm On Aug 26, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Doesn't matter, I only reveal what I wanna reveal. And I scrutinize profiles before replying a pm sef
You are good!!
Re: Advice Needed! by HeliosHay(m): 10:51pm On Aug 26, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Na ur type go tell girl, use ur money when you come I'll give you. cheesy

I won't ask her to come see me but if she does (and finances the trip herself), ofcuz I'll give her something - she's shown commitment and it's only fair I reciprocate
Re: Advice Needed! by Nobody: 10:55pm On Aug 26, 2019
HeliosHay:


I won't ask her to come see me but if she does (and finances the trip herself), ofcuz I'll give her something - she's shown commitment and it's only fair I reciprocate
I wouldn't mind learning how to make 2k dollars in a week. Show me way. Wanna be a millionaire wink
Re: Advice Needed! by HeliosHay(m): 11:03pm On Aug 26, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
I wouldn't mind learning how to make 2k dollars in a week. Show me way. Wanna be a millionaire wink

Lol. You can start with the free information on my thread and grow from there.

After that, if you want to take it seriously, then the blueprint or mentorship might be the next logical step.
Re: Advice Needed! by Nobody: 11:10pm On Aug 26, 2019
HeliosHay:


Lol. You can start with the free information on my thread and grow from there.

After that, if you want to take it seriously, then the blueprint or mentorship might be the next logical step.
Long talk. Thanks though
Re: Advice Needed! by SouthSouth1914: 11:20pm On Aug 26, 2019
Omega30:
Bro, I see that u are a nice guy, but ladies are complicated. Just follow some simple rules and u will be fine
* Dress and look good.
* Be confident and carry yourself with style
* Be outcome independent, whenever u see a babe u like ,follow my little formula
“ Excuse me,( or Hello), I saw u and I just have to say u look good. ” Do that with a smile on your face and with a body language of I want u badly. Look her from eyes to lips,to boobs and you check her back too. She will get the signal that u are a what's up guy. Don't be apologetic about it. It is either she stays or leaves. But most will stay. Don't talk much, tell her that u are in a hurry but would like to see her maybe tomorrow so as to get to know her better. Say it with a tone of indifference. She will likely say no problem, then just say, 0 what( her digits)? She will call her contact then, touch her a little behind or hold her hands a little longer. That's it. You have a date without spending.

Note: Girls don't play a player, they only play a pussy.

You barely know me! But thanks for the advice!
Re: Advice Needed! by HeliosHay(m): 11:26pm On Aug 26, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Long talk. Thanks though

You're welcome
Re: Advice Needed! by Bush2013: 1:02am On Aug 27, 2019
SouthSouth1914:


Keep up the good work! Your maturity will take you places! Cheers
Boss your a good man. Seems she felt your meekness is weakness. I suggest you erase her from your phone and memory too. God will give you a good girl. Bless you guy too as I dey type I dey one of the medical school in Lagos oh with zero account bless your nigger .i can dm you my AC digit I fit see you self if possible make you teach me how to fish oh if you wouldn't mind

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