Okija_juju:

Tink_sh, First of all, Let me extend to you my sincere simpathy for the abuse metted out on you by whoever, I dont think abuse is good nor funny and neither do I think it should be tolorated.

That said, you ladies are always in a hurry to cry abuse at the slightest meanwhile you have been emotionally and mentally abusing the guy. WHy should this thread be lopsided in its question?!

Why should a woman provoke a man by slapping him?! When she was slapping him what did she think would be his reaction?! Since you girls are making we guys look like beasts, then why go slap a beast?! If you saw a lion, would you slap it?! Puleeeze!!!

Any girl that slaps a guy should be slapped back twice. Next time she would think twice about laying her hands on a man.

KAYD007:

she slaps me! 

*ventilating like abija while chanting incantation*
by the time am thru with her
her reconstructed face after surgery will certainly *with strong Fela tone* certainly ooh certainly
looks like this

buccaneer7:

@ Inked Nerd


I GUESS YOU HAVE BEEN A GOOD GIRL ALL THROUGH YOUR RELATIONSHIP(S) AND YOUR GUY(S) HAVE ALWAYS FALL FROM THE SKY.

nikkykay:

I have never been physically abused and i dont pray to have such a man in my life.I know some guys are gentle and on a very good day will never abuse or lay hands on women but one situation can provoke them to do that. which they can even regret after the action.
I have provoked a guy while he was driving and he found it very hard to hit me back.I always respect him for that.
But the most painful one to me is that he abuses me emotionally .
Am soft when it comes to love so when am been abused emotionally, it hurts and it so painful.

omo_to_dun:

Queeneve, seriously? If a man slapped a woman after she had slapped him, the world would label him a woman beater and coward. If he walked away nko, would it still be right to call him a coward? Wetin una women want sef?

Honey, no one has the right to slap anyone, but if you are bold and strong enough to dish it, you should be bold and strong enough to receive it.

oluclem:

It is a bad thing for a guy to slap a girl, but it is worst for a girl to slap a guy.
As for me, if a girl tries to slap me and i was able to caught her hand before she dished out the slap, I will let her go free with a warning but if she succeed in slapping me. Then she should be ready to go for plastic surgery. GBAM

They gets into an argument about something silly. The argument intensified to the point where they both swinging and gauging, she gauges him in the eye which caused a little nick on the side of his face. He gets into this rage where he lunges over and picks her up and throws her against the wall. He then turned around and picks up a belt and beats her while her body lay lifeless against the wall. She screaming in agony and tries to defend herself. He then starts by stomping her in the head. By the time his rage have subdued her soul have already made it resting transition and someone who heard her cry came to rescue, she was pronounced dead on site and he is now doing life in prison plus 75 years.

queeneve:

Okay,

I do agree there are some women who will INTENTIONALLY provoke a man because that is how she functions,

Now let change the scenery a bit,

A man comes home from a hard day of work and he frustrated.  He takes a shower and afterward sits in front of the TV, his wife comes in and sits by him and let him know that dinner is ready.  The couple then moved to the kitchen and he looks at the plate, PICKS UP the plate and throws it on the floor and slapped her.  He shouts out you been home all day and you cooked me some PIZZA? 

Now you can change the he to a she or a she to he, BUT THE QUESTION REMAINS after you change the PRONOUN,

Why did he or she used violence WHEN THERE WEREN'T any physical provoking? 

My point in this paragraph is that MANY TIME PEOPLE WHO SLAPS OTHER does not have A PERMISSIBLE reason to slap the other person, what is your response now?

omo_to_dun:

While some may think that your anecdote can only exist in one's imagination, I agree that such situations and people abound. Since I grew up in an abusive home, I am no stranger to such a scenario. Men, or women, who behave in such unruly manners should be locked in jail; that's why I love the Western judicial system; it is not perfect, but it protects women from weak men whose answer to a problem is physical abuse.

The sad part is the double standard: almost no man will report his wife to the law or tell his friends if his wife is abusing him, I know I wouldn't; I am sure you know why.

Queeneve, I am a perfect gentlemen! If a woman slaps me, I'll do what I did to the last girl who did so: I will turn my left cheek, then after 3 months, pay someone to f u c k her up, that way, no one can ever suspect me(I do not want to go to jail). Trust me, this is something I have actually done before. It only cost me a blunt.