MARRYING A SINGLE MOTHER.


Most folks, especially Nigerian men, do feel they are doing women favour when they marry them as single mothers, but it's a paradox and a social myth that must be educated.

In my research as a counselor, I have discovered that 90% of single mothers are BEST wives in the marriage market when we go to buy.

Firstly, why do women become single mothers?
Some are DELIBERATE, some are TRAGEDIES (widows) while some are MISTAKES. So if you happen to like a single mother, investigate her motive before you configure the drivers of your feelings. If it's deliberate because she doesn't want to marry a man, you can just date her and walk away; but if it was a MISTAKE OF TRAGEDY, trust me she can be the best WIFE you can ever think of.

12 EXPOS YOU SHOULD KNOW.
1. Single mothers that made mistakes do bring total SUBMISSION to the table of marriage once they know that the man is honest and sincere, because they will see marriage as a classroom where they must correct the mistakes the made in the past.

2. If you want to WIN her, love her child first, and you will see that she will LOVE you with her last breath and blood.

3. Don't forget that as a woman that has put to BED before, there's 85% assurance that she will conceive without toiling from one prayer house to the other to conceive; the baby is evidence of her fruitfulness.

4. Single Mums treat their husbands as LORDS for the sacrifices they make, and easily forgive them no matter the gravity of what they err.

5. If you marry her, do not discriminate the child in your children's budget, see them as equals so you don't sprout the seed of jealousy.

6. If she is a single mum as a widow you may not have problem but if the child's father is alive, both of you should have an agreement from the beginning on welfare and information management. Don't deny the father access to his child but put a password before he can have access to your wife; it implies the gateway should be defined while you monitor the parameters; trust me, the child will grow up to love you as the man that made his/her mother happy more than the biological father.

7. Ensure the child is in the same school with your kids, if not that child's educational setbacks will influence your kids negatively when they play together. If the father supports good, but if he does not be ready to train the child alongside your kids for uniformity of knowledge.

8. If the child is a female child/children, you will have less parenting to do because female children easily relieve parents once the are adult or even get married.

9. 90% of SINGLE MOTHERS are faithful in marriage and wouldn't pull infidelity string to damage the engine of TRUST in the marriage system; they feel you have sacrificed enough to win their trust and faithfulness.

10. Single Mums are SUPERWOMEN. For a woman to play the role of both parents and bear the responsibility of raising a child/children, don't joke with such a woman, because even if you die in future she can take care of your family.

11. Single Mums are SEX SATISFIERS. They will lock you down in bed for good sex so you don't look outside to avoid stories that will touch the heart.

12. Most Single Mothers are good cooks and God fearing; the fact that she did not abort the child justifies her SACREDNESS AND GOD'S FEAR.

Go Brother! It will go well. Buy her a ring and pop the big question "Will You Marry Me?"... I see tears of Joy in her eyes as she says.."Yes I will". You won't regret the step you have taken brother. May God see you through as I join my faith with yours in prayer. SHOUT OUT TO ALL SINGLE MUMS WORLDWIDE!

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To all the Single mothers that had their Child through promiscuous means(excluding divorcees and widows),you all are GOLD DIGGERS

Marrying or tying knot with them is at owners risk.

ALL NA BAGGAGE IN,BAGGAGE OUT
TUFIAKWA!!

baby mamas are the bomb

But the benefits of marrying a lady that hasn't given birth outweighs that of marrying a single mother

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chenzen:
baby mamas are the bomb

As logical as it sounds, No man would feel convinced enough to marry a single mother over a spinster/single lady

Funmisticqueen, are you a single mother?

Funmisticqueen, are you a single mother?

expo guys need to know is, only few can ever love their husband or man more than their kid, whether it's by the man or another father.

so the truth is a single mom may make a good wife not because she is better than the single ladies but because of the love she has for her child, she wants the child to grow up in a financially secure environment and have better prospect for the future.

this is true if you consider that most single moms who are not financially buoyant a seeking to get married again unlike financially buoyant single moms who seek only companionship but not marriage.

so here are your facts, the choice is yours to make.

Chiiiiiiiiiss

This is the most useless and stupid post i have ever read.
- Why won’t she be submissive when she has lost all?
- She made a mistake, deal with it, have you heard “ take responsible for your mistakes “
- Men make mistakes and pay for that, so let single mothers do same.

- A single mother is the worst human being on earth you will marry, any mistake of marrying her, don’t blame anybody.
- A single mother should go for a single Dad.
- A single mother will use excuses like, he cheated on me or was beating me but looking deep, they are the most disrespectful, rude ( like Tacha BIgbrother), biggest cheat on earth.
- A single mother will be cool for the man to marry but unvails her really character once in your house.
- A single mother compares you with all men she has slept with in this world.

I will never advice a single man whether you have money or not to marry such a woman.

My experience.

Except she's a widow (who didn't kill her husband btw) I'm not having anything to do with a single mother

Retrography:
Funmisticqueen, are you a single mother?

Hell no

funmisticqueen:
Hell no

Hehehehe.... I was not trying to 'spoil your market' o.
Anyways, so me that don't have skin issues should not say 'hello' abi?

Very brilliant post love. But majority of male nairalanders wont be able to comprehend all you just typed. Not because they dont have the mental capacity to do so, but they would rather wallow in ignorance.


Imagine that disillusion moniker that had the mind to comment. In another thread the HYPOCRITE was proudly stating he's a baby father that abadoned his kid and the mum. Is she not a single mum?