Love is Horrible


Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life, You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.

Do you still want to be in love?

[size=13pt]@OP: Yes, I still wanna be in love despite the heartache. That's the beauty of life. Experiencing the good, the bad, and the ugly are all part of being a human being. I've been heartbroken before, I've been disappointed, I've met some of the most wonderful men in the world and I've had some not so nice guys in my life but I use those experiences to enable me to look at things from a different perspective. Its life!!! Ya just gotta take what you get and make the best of it. Personally, no matter how good or bad a relationship was, I use my experience with that person and try to grow and become a better person. Anyway, that's just my take on things. [/size]

Inked_Nerd, madam can I love you?

Love is life and i don't think im ready to give up on love yet, Yes i want to be inlove , FOREVER!

i want to love and be loved,

@OP,Kpele oh.
Me,im in heaven,I want to remain this way,if loving this "same" person is a dream than im gonna die sleeping.

izby:

i want to love and be loved,

Do we have somfin in comon here?

ifyalways:

@OP,Kpele oh.
Me,im in heaven,I want to remain this way,if loving this "same" person is a dream than im gonna die sleeping.

hmm

some one once said and i quote "if love hurts u, then love more. if it hurts even more, then love till it hurts no more becos honey cant be defined without sweetness and fragrance without smell". Yes i want to be in love.

are you heart broke? so u can't even keep your mouth shut when your lover broke your heart? i still want to be in love,

OF COURSE WHY WONT I ? LOVE IS PART OF OUR EXISTENCE ITS SOMETHING INSTITUED BY D CAPITAL GOD HIMSELF YEAH THERE ARE UPS & DOWNS BUT U CAN'T JUST RESIST IT

@poster yes i stil wanna be in love, cos love is a beautiful thing

love is a free gift of nature, so it is good to be i love,

no i want to be in hate and die alone? No kids No husbby = no mouth among relatives and society! ov course i wanna be in love again i pray for a loving bf soon

Yorisb:

Do we have somfin in comon here?
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hmm

It flew over your head

@ poster "then one silly person, no different from any other silly person, wanders into your silly life, You give them a piece of you."
Do you still want to be in love?[i][/i]
yes i stil want to be in love.
from what u said, u saw a silly person, gav him a piece of ursef
n the person sillized[s][/s] it,so dont blame him
u already kno he is silly

Love is a word that continuously loses its meaning.

I've never been in love; merely infatuated with a select few that were very present in my life at a time.

yeah, even though Poo happens wif being in luv sumtyms.

Yes ofcux. I fall in love everyday with beautiful women and is kool

Love is for suckers

Seen this quote before and the part that got my attention is-

then one silly person, no different from any other silly person, wanders into your silly life, You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore.

Funny, but true.

Topic : Ionno. . . .  It's a Yes and a No.

i will fall in love when the money comes,, but now, heart closed until further notice

forkinsonlolo:

i will fall in love when the money comes,, but now, heart closed until further notice

does it mean your jobless or how do you mean ''when the money comes'' just asking,

Agape love preferable or love between husband and wife

agape love is the best

@poster:   why not! be in love is inevitable but beware of infatuaton