acesboy:
Hello all.... Pls pardon any of my grammatical blunders. I 'm about 31, i hoped to find love before or during nysc, but unfortunately i could'nt. Now i have monthly sources of income and i want settle down. I met a lady this year, she is in her final year in university. But we are not living in the same state but i do call her atleast every 3days and anytime i did'nt call, she use to called or flashed me. We got attached to each other very well that we confined in each other. (each time i called her we spent close to 1hr) on phone. Of which i was happy that i have found my missing rib, not until out of my benevolence i decided to foot her academics expenss like project and others. She now ask me, if i am doing it base on mere friendship or i want to date her. When i said i want to date her, she now told me, she has a boyfriend. But nevertheless she likes me, that we can still continue as friend. For i don't know what tomorrow may hold for us. My people i need ur kindid opinion here, if she is into a serious relationship why would she be having all this talks with me, That made me so emotionally attached to her? mind you, 1st of this month was her birthday, which i ask her if she want it to be celebrated but she say no. Although i gave her 5k over two weekend ago but highly appreciated by her. Pls advice me am i wasting my time with her.

Busy003:

Cc Ubunja

PUSSYHOE:
Why waste your resources when she clearly stated she is your friend

Blackivy29:
Drop an advice too

Busy003:


This one pass me na.

How person go tell you say "we can continue as friends but no Dating" yet you are asking for advice?

Ok, here is mine;
Besties has the besties have the best chops

If you know you know

Blackivy29:
i know.

the situation is really serious. If the op is looking for commitment then she might not be the one. I hate when women lead a guy on to drop the "lets just be friends" statement. I wont take it likely. Cause i would be confused like the op.

Busy003:

Op is 31 already and ready to settle.

Nothing more will come out "between" the two except for "small chops"

2dice01:

You single handedly turn yourself to a MAGA Your Maga is legendary my Brother

Continue sowing Your reward is in Heaven

ValCon888:
You don't need advice on the internet on how to stop being an idiot.

Blackivy29:
Dont mind him. Asking us as if it isnt obvious.

Blackivy29:
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2dice01:
Well its happens to guys who think a lady is doing them favor by dating them

Yohans:
atleast say something he needs it

Blackivy29:
Nothing to say really. If i were a guy i wouldnt tolorate this from any girl. If you want us to be friends just say so from the beginning not after i have started planning a life with you. Thats annoying.
But in her defense she wasnt interested in her cash. Maybe she liked him too. But she messed up.

acesboy:
Hello all.... Pls pardon any of my grammatical blunders.

Blackivy29:
i know.

the situation is really serious. If the op is looking for commitment then she might not be the one. I hate when women lead a guy on to drop the "lets just be friends" statement. I wont take it likely. Cause i would be confused like the op.

Omar09:


Tell me if you haven't used that line. N oh btw... I just remembered you are still a little girl via your post where you revealed your age. So don't be too sure you won't use that line.

E vex me small as you yarn that thing you yarn in case you want to know

Blackivy29:
i know.

the situation is really serious. If the op is looking for commitment then she might not be the one. I hate when women lead a guy on to drop the "lets just be friends" statement. I wont take it likely. Cause i would be confused like the op.

psalmuelwater:
RomanceLanders, lets tell him the truth. My brother, you have been friendzoned for life. The worst zone a man can ever find himself