Temitope009:
Me: Hello bae
Bae: Me?
Me: Yes, you. You swagalicious babe.

So today, I'm gonna tell you a story. It's about my friend. Let's call her Jay.
While we were still in school, according to Jay and our society, age wasn't on her side. She was apprehensive about getting married and making her parents proud (due to some reasons, she felt getting married will make them proud, which is true). However, Jay's suitors were either serious on having sex or just wanted a fling while they had their fiancees waiting for them.
Jay tried not to be desperate though. We, her friends also tried not to make her desperate.
One day, sexy got a call from a childhood friend from a far away land from us. The gist was, one uncle was interested in my friend Jay after seeing her pix on her phone.
Good news abi?
No o, Jay wasn't having it. Why? Uncle was still a student...


Sorry, duty calls. I have to run. I'll complete my story soonest. But don't forget, not all that glitters is gold. Shine your eyes..
LIVE.. LAUGH... LOVE....

Sorry guys, I thought no one was actually interested in the story. This is the completion.

For some other reasons, Jay wasn't having it because
1. Uncle did not pass her "standard looks" criteria.
2. Uncle wasn't even tall, just some inches taller than her. Can you imagine how her dream of a tall Prince Charming would come crashing if she went for uncle?
3. Uncle was still a student.
4. Uncle is not exactly her tribe though similar.

Other reasons best known to her as a lady, because we all have different standards.

Uncle also, wasn't having it. He said no her or nobody.
Toh.
Somehow somehow sha, they fixed a meeting. They met and uncle swept her over her feet with his wonderful personality, it appeared, his personality was exactly what she wanted in a man though other things appeared off from a distance.
I kid you not, they're married with 2 kids now.
Uncle is now working somewhere reputable.
Uncle still sings her praises and is still so much in love with her.
They're happily married (at least from what we can see from a distance).

Who is like me and is viewing this thread?
Please pop in and give me some tips to be better.

Several time I've had to meet up with a deadline, I totally forget to eat or sleep until it's done. And whenever I'm under this duress of meeting up with an aim/goal, I wouldn't eat, my sleep will suffer, I'll easily not stay focused as I'm thinking of how to meet up with whatever goal. Like I told you earlier, it affected my culinary skills in the kitchen. Things will easily slip away from my mind etc.

What should I do?

Okay. Let me drop this here so it helps someone out there viewing this thread.

I've had 2 cs.
First : Oct 2017
Second : Dec 2018.

First experience.
I dilated till 10cm and was pushing for what seemed like forever. I was already begging the nurses to bring out my baby however it takes. I didn't mind whether it was by suction, cs or anything to ease me from the excruciating pains I was going through. I cried. Hit my hands on the wall with heavy blows. Stretched my legs out like it would fall off (that leg did not remain the same for months, I couldn't walk well with it, felt like it removed from my ball and socket joint).
Oh God, how I begged to be relieved from that state (God, you're wonderful, hurray to every mother out there).

Fee minutes later, the doc entered and asked why I was bleeding so much.
Note: Baby had already engaged, they were seeing her head already. It was just to push her out remaining.
Immediately, he said cs.
All I wanted was to see myself in the theatre and he should just remove the baby anyhow he could. Or better still, he should tear me there gangan and relieve me of this pain.
Alas, he finished the paperwork and everything in what seemed like forever and I was taking to the theatre.
I was shouting to be injected with whatever it is they give people o. Just give it to me, at least, I wouldn't feel this pain again.


I woke up some hours later..

ME : where's my baby?
Mum : She's fine, they're taking care of her.
ME : Drifted off again..



You might not be following the pregnancy thread. I told you this is like a diary to me.
So let me drop this here for our intending brides

ME : Drifted off again as the aneasthsia hasn't weared off completely.
Some minutes or hours later, I don't know..
ME : where's my baby?
Mum : She's fine. They're taking care of her.
I drifted off again. I didn't know for how long.
Later..
ME : Did my baby make it?
Aunt : No, she nodded her head.

I lost her on the 28th of October, 2017.

I'll write the second experience later.

Just to remind you, we're still in business. You can check us out @rayslounge_undies

Sebi I told you I'd show off my now slaying kitchen skills *inserts dancing emoji*.
For recipe, check out @rayslounge_undies

Wow.

I like this thread. I will stay here.

I am not married. But in a relationship.
And I am believing God that he would settle us come 2020.

You are doing a great job.

Well-done

Mood11:
Wow.

I like this thread. I will stay here.

I am not married. But in a relationship.
And I am believing God that he would settle us come 2020.

You are doing a great job.

Well-done

Yaaaay *where's the dancing emoji na?*
Wow. Good to have you and amen, I also pray God will settle you guys soon
So any fears so far?

Temitope009:



Yaaaay *where's the dancing emoji na?*
Wow. Good to have you and amen, I also pray God will settle you guys soon
So any fears so far?

Yeah. Maybe because from the start of the relationship we decided we wanted it to be our last.
So much has happened and it only brings us closer

But Everytime I think about the big picture, it gives me goosebumps
New family, living and sharing my space forever, pregnancy, children, chaii.

Mood11:


Yeah. Maybe because from the start of the relationship we decided we wanted it to be our last.
So much has happened and it only brings us closer

But Everytime I think about the big picture, it gives me goosebumps
New family, living and sharing my space forever, pregnancy, children, chaii.

Hehehehe. Think of the brighter side. When you have the right spouse, it's sincerely one of the best things that could happen to anyone, not a bed of roses though.
I pray that your spouse will be a comfort and not trouble to you.

Let's eat.

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Kindly help me view this video on ig. It's less than a min. Support a dream pls. God bless.

New Stock Alert

I've turned this place to my business page. Lol. Not that I intend to though.
Where are the new or intending brides?
Hit me up for your lingerie problems, ill solve them for you at ridiculously affordable prices, trust me.

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Cabbage sauce with rice

The real answer is YES, YES YES, a wedding planner is very good to have. Not just an event planner. Corporate and political event planners are very talented. Still, unless they also specialize in wedding song choosing (mother-son dance songs), they won't be able to provide you with the specific details you need.