I have a problem that's been disturbing my peace. But I need to give you guys a prelude to better understand my predicament.
I am from the Eastern part of Nigeria, but have lived almost a quarter of my life in the northern part of the country, went to university in the north, served in the north and currently working in kano.
I have been a Christian from birth. But I have never settled well with all the teachings and dogma of religion, any one for that matter, but I haven't been biased either.
I only go to church occasionally.
My recent romantic experiences haven't been rosy, most girls out there are only interested in who to suck dry and I frankly do not have patience for bullshit time wasters.
So recently I met a beautiful soul, she is 18 from kano and I am 25 from Enugu, and I was strongly drawn to her and wish to marry her.
She has finished secondary school, well educated and raised well though she is from a very humble background (I honestly don't care about that).
I approached her and made my intentions known to her, I got some of my elderly Muslim friends to talk to her and she agreed only on the condition that I would convert.
I am not overly bothered about converting, so as to marry her. But I am concerned that after the conversion and marriage that I may show the same lackadaisical attitude I gave Christianity. Though I sometimes wonder what old friends will say when they eventually find out.

You need to study Islam, be convinced about it and embrace it. If you can study it, you'll eventually come to love it.

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Faceless11:
I have a problem that's been disturbing my peace. But I need to give you guys a prelude to better understand my predicament.
I am from the Eastern part of Nigeria, but have lived almost a quarter of my life in the northern part of the country, went to university in the north, served in the north and currently working in kano.
I have been a Christian from birth. But I have never settled well with all the teachings and dogma of religion, any one for that matter, but I haven't been biased either.
I only go to church occasionally.
My recent romantic experiences haven't been rosy, most girls out there are only interested in who to suck dry and I frankly do not have patience for bullshit time wasters.
So recently I met a beautiful soul, she is 18 from kano and I am 25 from Enugu, and I was strongly drawn to her and wish to marry her.
She has finished secondary school, well educated and raised well though she is from a very humble background (I honestly don't care about that).
I approached her and made my intentions known to her, I got some of my elderly Muslim friends to talk to her and she agreed only on the condition that I would convert.
I am not overly bothered about converting, so as to marry her. But I am concerned that after the conversion and marriage that I may show the same lackadaisical attitude I gave Christianity. Though I sometimes wonder what old friends will say when they eventually find out.

Would you mind we discuss privately before you make this decision?

You can convert because of a woman.

I will convert if my faith permit me not cause of a woman heart

Alhamdu-lillah..... Islam is dominating

I love this

very soon Osibanjo go join ISLAM because of politic

Mumu

Nonsense

farouk2much:
Alhamdu-lillah..... Islam is dominating

dominating what?:Islam is just an endangered religion in the world

It is not about conversion, you are not basically drawn to religion because after marrying her you would certainly question the conversion.

When I told people sometime ago that your Religion & faith determines where you grew up, your Region & Country contributes a lot.

They usually disagree with this opinion, I told my Mum same thing & she became furious on me.

At the end of the day those who were born in Arab countries will surely be Muslims & they would continue in that path until someone travels down to a Non-religious country. A good number of people like my German friend, she thinks Evolution is how the World was created. I told her you believe that because It was what you kept listening to unconsciously. Your environment determines your reasoning & your brain in fixated.

For most, your Ideas are not yours, It is a conclusion of the unconscious information your brain has been storing over the years.

You are in the North, so being a Muslim now appeals to you.

If you love her, just go ahead

So what happens if she decides to divorce you or vice versa? Will you then RE CONVERT to Christianity?

Religion is our problem.its divides more than it unites.. I am in same predicament, but I don't care anymore.

Chaii see wetin woman dey cause. Ur indeed a woman rapper

No biggie.. Politicians join pdp decamp to APC, only to join PDP again but las las.. If na for money, i wont blame you but na toto wey full eveywhere.... Chineke... I wish you the best though... But why are we accepting to be muslims before we comment... Ooo Jesus is Lord, biko

Please do not convert because of a woman

Igbosmoker:
dominating what?:Islam is just an endangered religion in the world

you must be kidding me

Young man I can bet you'd regret your action in the future. My cousin who tried this is biting her finger today.

The idiot she got married to on the basis of one useless religion sold the property they built together and sent her packing out of the home with five kids.

The animal has married another wife now.

Do not think with your penis. Use your brain man!