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Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by pocohantas(f): 5:38pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
Why is it that when you lend people money once, you automatically become their go-to person for credit. I have noticed this among "friends" and colleagues. Like that is not enough, their payback tends to get worse with time. Seems they pay back promptly the first time to get your trust, subsequent ones would come with defaults. Why? 96 Likes 5 Shares
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Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by Mutemenot(m): 5:54pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
you get luck say them dey pay you back the first time ..dont lend what you can't forget 285 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by donbachi(m): 6:03pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
To a lasting friendship...dont borrow,dont lend. 58 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by pocohantas(f): 6:24pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
Mutemenot: They paid back, I have to give them some credit for that. Some after few days, some right on the agreed day. Then there was one I told to shun it, after he told me his salary and proposed repayment plan. I don't lend what I can't forget, but if I wanted to be forgetting- it won't be a loan. It will be a dash. My problem is, why do they keep coming back? Is there a rule that says, lend once and lend forever? 45 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by Nobody: 6:26pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
pocohantas: because they know you will lend them and because you are not a mean lender and because they know they may be able to get away with not paying back 46 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by pocohantas(f): 6:30pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
ornicus: So, I should stop lending? Or start charging interest? A colleague took a loan from me to play Bet9ja. Can you imagine? 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by Mutemenot(m): 6:31pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
pocohantas: The solution is simple. Dash the person whatever you can or tell the person you don't have . I have one I lend some cash last year, we see everyday...all he does is to greet me before I get to his stand 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by Nobody: 6:31pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
pocohantas: be a BITCH na. dey harass them. where my money. small passive aggressive. just know they will probably hate you afterwards - but then again - they borrowed from you.
Your colleague has much bigger problems than your generosity. he is a problem gambler. he is probably borrowing from everyone. 24 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by pocohantas(f): 6:40pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
ornicus: Hahahahaha. "Owo mi da?" That thing spoils relationships o. Hardly ever ends well. I think he does. Never taken my time to find out if he borrows from others, I like to mind my business a lot. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by pocohantas(f): 6:41pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
banji1: I don't do anything. I am a very plain girl: they just assume I have no responsibilities because I am singu, with a boyfriend. So, my boyfriend's money might be enough. Mine is to save and lend people. 11 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by Atlanticfire: 9:25pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
pocohantas: Getting your colleagues to pay back loans is easy. If they come for loan ask for a post dated cheque for the repayment. Once the repayment is due, walk into their bank on salary payment day and cash the cheque 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by samwash(m): 10:23pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
@Op, when next time they come to borrow from you, just tell them you don't have ,introduce them to go borrow from microfinance banks or introduce the online credit facilities to them. Its simple 14 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by Thegamingorca(m): 6:31am On Sep 13, 2019 |
pocohantas: My friends hardly have the nerve to ask. But even if dey do I try to give and never remind them neither do I look at them in the eye the same again. I can't stand the thanks you'll give me or the shame from you of my realization that you are pennyless. It breaks my heart. It makes me really uncomfortable I try to loan once and stop contacting or reminding you of it too 12 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by Kendumazy(m): 12:05pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
They return because they believe you once lend them and they returned it. Since they returned it and they didn't default on the repayment plan, they believed they can easily come back to you and you will lend them again. Remember, first impression last longer. A friend once lend me some amount. I was always texting and calling the guy before the payment date that I appreciate his kind gesture and I have him in mind. The payment date came and i paid him. The guy was surprised that he hasn't seen such kind of putting someone in mind every now and then. Told him, that's just my person. The guy tried the method with one of his bosses and his boss was amazed too. New stock arrival! Quality UK 1st, 2nd and 3rd grade men's shirts available for sale. Check link below for more details 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by SultanOfAbia: 12:06pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
START COLLECTING COLLATERAL... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by Ogbunigwe2018: 12:06pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
Always glad to lend money to my friends. But there's an amount I can't go beyond. Lastly, I lend what I can afford to loose. P.S You guys are confusing me. Borrowing isn't same as lending na. Topic says lending. Op says borrowing 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by femi4: 12:06pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
pocohantas:I have no problem if they continue to pay back as at when due The ones that act as if they don't know they are owing you are the most wicked of them all 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by sapientia(m): 12:07pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
Either they are Family Or They have no shame |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by Thermodynamics(m): 12:07pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
True. Money always have a way of revealing a person's character. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by Risingblue008(m): 12:07pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
U get money to borrow na,as for me,I don't understand dat word BORROW as in I no knw d meaning 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by Chanchit: 12:07pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
donbachi: You go stingy gan o. How won't you borrow or dash a friend money when he/she needs it. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by banji1(m): 12:08pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
Not all friends. If you have friends doing that to you all the time, check yourself. It might have a lot to do with your body language and what/ how you present yourself. Are you a teacher? Get FREE access to comprehensive lesson notes/plans for various subjects. Check my signature for details. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by lyriclekidd(m): 12:08pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
Okay |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by VillageHead: 12:08pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
If only you realize that friendship is pain and enmity, ease of mind, you will understand better. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by Davash222(m): 12:09pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
pocohantas:Do you pray for your debtors at all |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by Starboytwo(m): 12:09pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
pocohantas:bet9ja, Really?? Madam abeg help us ask the guy for the code, the game must be damn sure... Hmmm I fear fix match things... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by loadedvibes: 12:09pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
Hmm interesting |
Re: Why Do People Always Return, After You Lend Them Money? by mrtidy(m): 12:10pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
Hahahahaha he's very lucky. I have lost uncountable relationships as a result of lending money. They never payback! Mutemenot: |
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