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Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by victorian(f): 3:35am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Fxwarrior: 3:56am On Sep 14, 2019 |
asdfjklhaha: Well, it depends on the economic status of the man. If he's struggling financially then it would be inconsiderate making him spend more. The anger stems more from keeping it as a secret. Another thing is to know if the wife is working or a full house wife. If she's a full house wife then the upkeep money will include money for her personal use. But if the man is doing well. This won't be an issue as there will be more from where the money is coming from. The man won't even mind if you decide to save from it as he gives you more than enough as long as its not being wasted and you are not compromising on the richness of the food or what the money should be used for. Finally its an individual thing. Keeping secrets in marriage is not healthy. If the woman married an understanding man, then he will even encourage and support her and it builds love between them. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Born2Breed(f): 4:05am On Sep 14, 2019 |
JasonScoolari: See as you hammer the matter like Mathias. You be carpentar? Take this one flex small. @Op, this bros don yarn the Koko. 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Fxwarrior: 4:09am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Acidosis: This reminds me of a joke where a headmaster told the teachers to inform students to pay #100, teachers told students to pay #120, students told mum they were asked to pay #150, mum told a struggling Dad that his son was told to bring #200 to school. 1 Like |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Fxwarrior: 4:11am On Sep 14, 2019 |
asdfjklhaha: Is she a full time house wife? |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Fxwarrior: 4:17am On Sep 14, 2019 |
bukatyne: If the wife is working, is there really need for personal allowance except if the man is financially buoyant. How does the woman come up to help the man financially. Our Sunday school teacher taught us that year that a wife is a help meet. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by renewable1(m): 4:19am On Sep 14, 2019 |
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Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Fxwarrior: 4:24am On Sep 14, 2019 |
vickydevoka: That's right. Its the man's condition we should consider. He who wears the shoe knows where it is pinching. What if he's making sacrifices like trekking to work, skipping meals just to meet up while the wife is tasking him just to keep some aside. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by asdfjklhaha(f): 4:35am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Fxwarrior:No. She has a shop but it's been closed for some weeks now cos she's nursing a baby |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by LordKO(m): 4:59am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Bbbwings: Lol. What God has joined together, let no one separate. She's married. Truth is that, she's the real definition of an independent/strong-minded woman. Strength of character, not money, is what makes one independent - this doesn't invalidate the importance of money in any way. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by taiyeayodeji: 5:01am On Sep 14, 2019 |
corruption starts when money meant for a purpose is not utilized for this purpose.The purpose of her saving the money is what will determine if she was right or wrong.Both people have to be interviewed before judging.if the man has been broke and had asked the woman for help and she denied having money. the man has a reason to be angry.There are women who will save a whole lot of money from house upkeep to use for their own selfish personal needs.They wil even still pretend to be broke and ask for more money ornicus: |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Edusouls(m): 5:05am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Women are natural manipulative beings you have reported this case one sided making your sisters husband look foolish, he gives your sister hard earned money in this buhari era to get enough food stuffs, and other necessities for the house, she cuts it and buys things that won’t last long, in few weeks she would complain again that food is finished, this strains the mans pocket cos he is already projected that food would be enough for a month.. that’s women gameplay inorder to get money to give their mums, .. 1 Like |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Fxwarrior: 5:10am On Sep 14, 2019 |
asdfjklhaha: Communication is important in marriage. She alone knows the type of man she married. His anger could be if she hides this, who knows what else she could be hiding. Lack of communication brings distrust. Its little things not sorted that leads to bigger issues. 1 Like |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by capitalzero: 5:23am On Sep 14, 2019 |
asdfjklhaha: That man is not wise. The woman is a rare gem. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by fortune1968: 5:36am On Sep 14, 2019 |
nextstep:Some women will save the money to shortchange the home . Adequate provision of food and other necessities are not taking care of ,and when the need arises for petty spendings , she will still bother the husband .I know some of them , very selfish and wicked ! 1 Like |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by fortune1968: 5:38am On Sep 14, 2019 |
capitalzero:it is either you are a woman talking out of sentiments or a man who have no experience of women's behaviors |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by femi4: 5:40am On Sep 14, 2019 |
asdfjklhaha:The guy struggles every month to meet up with the monthly upkeep. It is a wrong move from his wife |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by fortune1968: 5:42am On Sep 14, 2019 |
LordKO:Independent woman ? Then what does she do with the money she should be making from her own work ? I think an independent woman should be working too . This one is obviously greedy and selfish 1 Like |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by awoluyi(m): 5:54am On Sep 14, 2019 |
I will not be angry with her since I know her ATM PIN number. You understand want I mean?�� |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by DesChyko: 6:00am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Nah. It's a wonderful thing. It means she is smart. Trust me, that money would come in handy someday. The man should just learn to overlook it and instead, focus on meeting the weekly/monthly requirement. The wife too needs some things she needn't tell the husband. But... I love my wife |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by capitalzero: 6:06am On Sep 14, 2019 |
fortune1968:is it a crime to save from upkeep money? I have budget for my family-kids, wife,food etc. Budget is budget,I stick with it.. If she is saving the money or sending to her people, that is not my business as long as she uses the money for intended purpose . Some women know to manage money, spending less to get more commodities. There should be reward for wise spending. So let them save remaining change . Life is too short to argue over simple matter. 3 Likes |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by capitalzero: 6:06am On Sep 14, 2019 |
DesChyko: Thank you. My thought |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by lollybizzu(m): 6:12am On Sep 14, 2019 |
asdfjklhaha:She no get work or personal business she runs? |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by LordKO(m): 6:15am On Sep 14, 2019 |
fortune1968: It's obvious that you quoted the wrong person, because you neither know the genesis of my submission nor understand it. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by fortunejum: 6:21am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Abeg, make una forgive the man. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Cutehector(m): 6:27am On Sep 14, 2019 |
victorian:my friend go and look up the meaning of cool in the dictionary and stop embarrassing yourself in my presence. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by yeyeosoronga: 6:32am On Sep 14, 2019 |
asdfjklhaha: You guys had better advice your sister to gear up and start looking for a job as soon as her child is 6months. She needs her own money to at least take care of her personal needs since the husband is not happy for her to save from the money he drops. Let her not be carried away by saying she is a full housewife looking after their children. With that kind of husband vexing that she's saving, she will have regrets later if she doesnt start earning her own money soon |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by mechanics(m): 6:43am On Sep 14, 2019 |
It's wrong, she should have told him she has some change left with her instead of demanding for another money again, that's not love, it means she's not trustworthy, as an house wife, the man should be giving her money even before demanding for it, in that way she won't keep the left over upkeep money. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Acidosis(m): 6:43am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Fxwarrior: Lol, and the struggling dad may defraud his employer to foot his bills. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by stormborn28(m): 6:51am On Sep 14, 2019 |
What concerns me with money that i have given my wife to prepare food... Provided food dey dey table |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Caseless: 6:52am On Sep 14, 2019 |
JasonScoolari:did you read this part? that if she had any left overs she should have told him so he'll add it to the next money he'll give and spend less. he said she's selfish and inconsiderate. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by yeyeosoronga: 6:57am On Sep 14, 2019 |
ornicus: No Nigerian woman should be a housewife, giving up her dreams, personal development and career for nanny duties/housekeeping and chef duties. Unless of course if your husband is a Dangote or a Danjuma, or if he at least understands you need money of your own and makes provision for it Most times it ends in tears. However, many Nigerian men are still not ready for that either. They want all the benefits a full housewife can provide such as childcare, housekeeping, chef duties but still expect the same woman to be at the top of her career with her own money. Struggling couples should both be working, contributing to the home together financially, in the kitchen, with childcare, housekeeping etc. That way, both will have the opportunity to grow individually. 3 Likes |
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