Apus:




No offense, you sound unintelligent. Your comeback showed You didn't even understand what he typed.

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
ok so you saying that you'd rather chase kids or randy guys? bro you're either a peterfile or gay

DocH:


Disgusting.

Austineva:
peterfile?

GLYCOLYSISS:

Forget all these stuff guys are fond of saying ,that women are confuse ,they actually are not !
A woman know when she is attracted to you even earlier than a guy,but may decide to play cool so not to appear desperate.
But men are more expressive of their feelings.
A woman know if she is attracted to you ,even within 1 to 2 mins of meeting a guy,maybe may decide to get to know the guy better.
But the attraction is already there .
Note,there is a huge difference between attraction & like.
A woman may actually not like you,but could be attracted to you.
It takes time for you to like someone,but not the same applicable with attraction.

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
disgusting how cant you read? he clearly said that 0knm should chase men instead of women and that's very gay

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
disgusting how cant you read? he clearly said that 0knm should chase men instead of women and that's very gay

OlawaleBammie:


And wat is d assurance dat if i choose to kill myself der, chase her for three years, buys all d sophisticated items in dis world for her she wont agree later on?? but inside of me i knw dat her agreement to date me is nt intentional and free will, rather its mere presure of which she crumbled under. and wen she's done with me....VOOOOM..

Jaboyka:
What u r saying makes a whole lot of sense. What does a guy now have to do when a lady stares at you, and it's obvious she likes you but when u make a move to meet her, shr just shuts down every

but if she rejects you simply tell her to be friend with hope that she changes her mind and MOVE ON..."

SKhanmi:
"but if she rejects you simply tell her to be friend with hope that she changes her mind and MOVE ON..."


Who wan become chairman for friendzone.

Toks2008:


Platonic friendship is ok.

Bouncingbabyboy:
If person follow all this Nairaland romance advice person go turn gay sef!!!! Shu

DocH:


Pass

MrBrownJay1:


Not at all...in all what he has written there is no connection, no seduction....he expects an answer from a stranger, as if all women are the same. All women are different and some you can seduce in a short time while others take time.... and although that woman would know your INTENTIONS the minute you start to show interest in her, it would take time for her to know if you have the right attributes/characters/vibe to DESIRE YOU.

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
you're kinda cute tho

Bamz:


I totally agree with this oh. Women need a wee more time to warm up to men, and once that transitional period is over, even the guy would be tired. You can't keep jumping from one girl to another girl now every month. Sometimes you need to understand what she's thinking, what mKes her tick etc

medolab90:


I swear down

Toks2008:
For the benefit of this piece it is important i define what chase in this context mean.. "To chase simply means making repetitive attempt to win the desire of a lady who does not want you"

A man should show a desire for a lady and not desperation but when you begin to chase a lady then you have crossed the line and if she eventually says YES, it will probably be because she has run out of time waiting for her preferred type of man or she just feels worn out by the pressure you mounted on her and will rarely be because she really wants to be with you..and the worst part is that you will end up being the one who will be making more sacrifices towards making the relationship work since you made it look like you desperately won her like a trophy or medal you have to keep fighting to keep.

For every lady you chase, it is most likely that there is a man out there that she is craving for so why ridicule yourself?...It is interesting to know that Nine out of every Ten single ladies already have a mind made guy they would love to be with?...simply put, almost every lady has a spec and if you don't meet up to the spec there is absolutely nothing you can do than to move on to another lady who may likely have you as her kind of man.

Some ladies have crazy desires and turn-ons like beards, 6pack, height, skin color, Age, Tribe, P*nis size and several other weird and funny preferences that attract them to a man and if you don't have their desired qualities just forget wasting your time chasing them.

The best bet is to approach a lady in a mature way, tell her about your desire for her and be very sensitive to her body language.. if she wants you then go for her but if she rejects you simply tell her to be your friend with hope that she changes her mind and MOVE ON...

And no matter how you look or how your condition is, you must understand that there is a lady out there who is hoping to meet a guy just like you so stop wasting your time chasing a lady who does not want your type.

I hope this makes sense.

DocH:


Hmm seun, lala
Rule 23

marvelous000:
I really can't fathom why men have to configure their life to the dictate of the whim of women, that most time, is insatiable and falter with the wind of trend.

Men should focus on how to develop themselves for themselves, and how to be productive to their family, society and the world. we need to jettison this quest for feminine validation and acceptance.


going after women is fine, but men should only allow it inspire their life like any other human being. because the transience of that motivation, will make men miserable pulps, and peaked with a violating triumph; the kind of triumph a hunter feels when he has been able to maroon an animal giving him headache, and finally kill it.

At the end of the day, it is not good for man, neither for woman.

Toks2008:


It's better than cutting her off...not all relationship must be a romantic one.

Toks2008:


lol!

Lala is the best mod ever to work with Seun and it has nothing to do with my threads gracing frontpage but a statement of fact.

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
shakara

BIXYBABE:
I knw sum guys wil be shouting who dey chase girls but they wil stil cum here and start posting.....i create dis act 2 hide my indentity, am popular on dis forum, it started 2 years ago, there is this girl blah blah blah