Adamumd:

She's not only attractive but homely, more decent than my crush, she is jovial, kindhearted and cooks well. The exact kind of woman ve been looking for while the one i initially had a crush on is just a lazy ass, that kind of woman that would suck a nigga dry and has nothing to offer, i really wish you can understand my whole point since you re a woman.

Thought you said you just met them for the first time? How did you get to know them this much on the first day? Especially that your first crush, how did you know she's a lazy ass that can suck a man dry and offer nothing?

If I were the initial lady, will just let you go with my friend. Life isn't that hard. I was once in such situation, the guy was made to spend, comes on visit etc at the end of the day, they left each other. Don't know what happened though, didn't ask because it was none of my business.

Nothing wrong in taking a more beautiful friend to visit your partner, that way sef you know if a guy truly loves you and if he will be faithful.

How long will you keep shielding friends from your partner or ladies for that matter.

If I was your initial crush, I would let you go and bless your relationship self.

Adamumd:

Till you meet a beautiful woman who cooks well and is very homely, we all ve different priorities, some of you guys want a flashy girl with flashy nails, Brazilian hair, jumping from one restaurant club to the other but i only asked for little, just a beautiful homely woman who cooks well and that's the kind of wife I want.

I shake my head for you o. You met a girl just for 8hrs,if that is not even too much and you concluded that she is this,that and whatever you think she is.
Who would want to act stupid meeting a friend of her friend(a guy) for the first time? Think about it, bro. Don't be deceived.. Olewu!

Davash222:
So, with chilled soft drink and a plate of food, you just lose focus Na because of your type dey make pocohantas and co dey insult us for here.

Oga u didn't get the message, he was carried away by how the lady welcomed him. They say first impression matters

bjboss:

I shake my head for you o. You met a girl just for 8hrs,if that is not even too much and you concluded that she is this,that and whatever you think she is.
Who would want to act stupid meeting a friend of her friend(a guy) for the first time? Think about it, bro. Don't be deceived.. Olewu!

A friend me who is in Cameroon came home for Easter, attended one program and a gal he told his brother that he has found a wife. He followed the gal home, to cut the story short they have been married for close to 10 years, I believe love as t first sight

blesskewe:

That's y I would N. E. V. E. R take my friends on my date

Its better to go with the friend....

Peterosky:
Op kindly go for your crush friend after all it is not your fault that she showed up with a more beautiful friend. This will teach so many girls a lesson.

That's exactly what I ll do, she was doing nyanga for me but her friend is so nice to me and seem interested aside the fact she's more beautiful, comfortable and cool

24kmagic:


Thought you said you just met them for the first time? How did you get to them this much on the first day? Especially that your first crush, how did you know she's a lazy ass that can suck a man dry and offer nothing?

We ve been talking on the phone, aside that the few hours we met i took my time to observe her very well, she's not that kind of lady i can cope with.

Solsix:

A friend me who is in Cameroon came home for Easter, attended one program and a gal he told his brother that he has found a wife. He followed the gal home, to cut the story short they have been married for close to 10 years, I believe love as t first sight

Honestly bro he knows what he want and that's exactly what is happening to me here, the people saying once I see a more beautiful lady I ll go for the more beautiful one again don't understand this whole thing, as a lady i won't shield my beautiful friends from my bf instead I ll always try my best to be good to him womanly and leave the rest to him.

Adamumd:

That's exactly what I ll do, she was doing nyanga for me but her friend is so nice to me and seem interested aside the fact she's more beautiful, comfortable and cool

.Go ahead, you have my support.

Davash222:
So, with chilled soft drink and a plate of food, you just lose focus Na because of your type dey make pocohantas and co dey insult us for here.

God bless you! I tot as much.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Lol@ Esau.He fell in love because of a plate of food. Hahahahaha.

Lolz! because of iseiwu I guess!

Glutton!

ledaman:
Lolz! because of iseiwu I guess!

.. Hahahahaha.You don see am nah.

Because A Lady Do nice to you one day you decided to wife her. I pity for your soul.

Bros, na normal thing. No mind people acting perfect. FOLLOW YOUR MIND. Go for the one you love provided you both will experience peace. No pity marry waiting you no want again, after all, na Facebook things.
She'll not hesitate to dump you for your friend if she got the opportunity. Relationship is win win. No point if you lose in it.

Adamumd:

Lols, what do we do now my colleague or how did you handle yours? I don't want to loose her but am scared my initial crush ll scatter everything out of jealousy and annoyance. We ve not started dating but I toasted her before seeing this her friend, ve not committed any crime na

I don't know why you "toasted" her when you know she doesn't meet majority of you specifications and you don't see the possibility of settling with her in the future.

I think you may suspend relationship with both of them, carry on as their platonic friend. If you first crush become hooked, you can go for the newer crush if she's still single. Otherwise, go for another person.

The easiest and shortest way to a mans heart is through is stomach.... You proved it all over

Op your matter just reminded me of what happened in my former place of worship some years ago.

A sister was proposed to by a certain brother in another church. Our church was fully aware and preparation for the wedding was in top gear because they'll be getting married as soon as they are done with the mandatory Church Counselling.

But my church has a law. That law states that as an unmarried sister or brother, you don't visit your fiancé or fiancée alone, in order to avoid temptation.

Our sister needed to visit her fiancé, and she decided to go with her fellow chorister friend. Immediately brother saw this other sister, he lost interest in his fiancée.

The next thing brother did was to come to my parish to inform our Pastorate that once he was blind but now he can see. That he just found his missing rib in the 2nd sister.

Like play, like play, na so brother married the 2nd sister ooo. Everybody pleaded with him not to jilt his original fiancée brother refused. He said God only used the first sister to bring his real wife to him. The first sister felt betrayed and bitter with the Church, that they were the cause of what happened to her. That if she had visited her fiancé alone, he wouldn't have jilted her. And she quit the Church.

After that incidence ehen, we only hear about wedding invitations read out to us at the altar. Brother and sister would have secretly done their courtship before informing members of the Church.

That matter be no funny at all.

So in your case Op, have you seek the face of the Lord? Marriage is not something you conclude by mere physical attributes.

Firstorderwizard:


I'm seriously confused bro,I just pity my gal anytime I think of taking a step towards wooing her friend.she has really sacrificed a lot for me.
I really want to wife her but my heart is some where else.
I'm really working on my emotions any way.

Then don't woo her friend. Your conscience is saying you shouldn't. Just obey already.

For someone who has really sacrificed a lot for you, doing this to her won't be fair. Her friend of all people? No, she doesn't even need to lift a finger because nature will fight for her.

Adamumd:
I met a lady recently on fb, she live close to my area so we got chatting and I stylishly asked her out, we booked a date and she asked i wait for her close to my house, she came with a very friendly, jovial, nice and beautiful friend of hers, actually her friend stay in my area and I needed a house so I told them and the friend to my crush asked that if I want she will give me her place because she's rounding up her program soon.

She asked if it's okay let's go to see her place and I followed them, on getting home she went to the kitchen and made some delicacy I've not had in a long time,l and served with a chilled drink. Wow I wonder what ve been missing and thought to myself "so if am this lady's bf this is what I ll be enjoying".

She is jovial, friendly, very homely and everything I want in a woman. I thought of it and i lost interest in the crush of mine I followed to her friend's place, she started acting jealous and asking if I like her friend, her friend jokingly asked if I have a gf and I said no and she was like wow she's single too. Infact a call came in and I asked my crush if that's her bf but she cut the call and came to answer me that no it's not and that she's serious she doesn't have a bf.

I knew somehow is she is interested in me just like my initial crush that am just meeting too but this my previous crush was just acting a bit jealous, cutting our conversations and the friend to my initial crush said i shouldn't worry we ll see on a good day and talk better. I left without collecting her number, I wanted to ask but I felt my previous crush ll feel bad but I only told the friend I ll get her number from my previous crush and she said okay. I got home and chatted the previous crush am no more interested in to give me her friend's number but she refused, I persuaded her and she gave me but am feeling she ll spoil the whole thing out of jealousy or her friend might not want to give me a chance if she discover her friend is interested in me. please what do you guys advise I do??

I really like her friend for something very serious, damn!! She's too cool, homely and nice for a wife, ve had similar experience where two friends i didn't ask any of them out yet got jealous and there both said there don't want the other one's trouble, i lost two of them just like that and this one again.

@ the bolded, laugh wan kill me.

Firstorderwizard:


What a coincidence! I was just contemplating opening a thread with similar topic. My babe is dying for me while I'm dying inside for her best friend. I'm seriously confused.

Give me your babe. I don't have any