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Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by Peterosky(m): 6:37pm On Sep 30, 2019
Last week end, a friend called to inform me he was coming to town from Uyo, which will require me picking him up from the park as well as running around with him since he was coming to see one or two people for something very important.
On arrival, I went to pick him up as agreed and proceeded to the filling station to top fuel for the running around, but my car messed up after buying the fuel. So we had to resort to using his brother's car while l managed my car to the workshop.
After all, we had to settle for some bottles and that was the point the elder brother whose car we have been using joined us with one of his friends. As we were about going home, the brother insisted I seat in front with my friend when I was thinking he should rightly take the front seat. The elder brother even argued that even if one is driving with his wife and friend, the friend deserves the front seat not minding who entered the car first,and surprisingly, he got the support of every body in the car.
My confusion now is, how is it possible for one to ask his wife to use the back seat and excuse the front seat for a friend not minding the fact that she was already seated at the front before the arrival of a friend? because for me, it's something I consider troubleshooting and can not do.
Fellow Nairalanders your contributions are needed for proper clarification and education on this confusing matter.
Thanks.
Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by Nobody: 6:41pm On Sep 30, 2019
Whoever gets there first stays, asking anyone to get down for the other is a height of disrespect.

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Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by seniorgozman(m): 7:24pm On Sep 30, 2019
Ariza:
Whoever gets there first stays, asking anyone to get down for the other is a height of disrespect.
Supported

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Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by amiibaby(f): 7:48pm On Sep 30, 2019
What rubbish. So imagine am seated in my husband car and his friend came to join us so Am to go to the back seat on top Wetin nah. My hubby dares not ask me to leave to the back cos I will so ......... let me just leave it until it happens. Nonsensical

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Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by Peterosky(m): 8:10pm On Sep 30, 2019
Ariza:
Whoever gets there first stays, asking anyone to get down for the other is a height of disrespect.
.Exactly my thinking.

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Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by Peterosky(m): 8:13pm On Sep 30, 2019
amiibaby:
What rubbish. So imagine am seated in my husband car and his friend came to join us so Am to go to the back seat on top Wetin nah. My hubby dares not ask me to leave to the back cos I will so ......... let me just leave it until it happens. Nonsensical
.I share your feelings, and that's exactly my point. But the way my friend and the brother were talking with all amount of seriousness made me feel I was just a learner.
Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by uboma(m): 8:17pm On Sep 30, 2019
amiibaby:
What rubbish. So imagine am seated in my husband car and his friend came to join us so Am to go to the back seat on top Wetin nah. My hubby dares not ask me to leave to the back cos I will so ......... let me just leave it until it happens. Nonsensical


Lol.

Some men are simply clowns!

Personally I would not take the front seat of my friend's car if his wife is with us.

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Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by pocohantas(f): 8:20pm On Sep 30, 2019
uboma:



Lol.

Some men are simply clowns!

Personally I would not take the front seat of my friend's car if his wife is with us.

Because you have sense...

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Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by amiibaby(f): 9:09pm On Sep 30, 2019
Don’t mind them. They will not be there when ur wife will be dishing you the bitter pill.. they are the learner and not u. Such friend are wise to be cut off they will mislead u in the long/short run
Peterosky:
.I share your feelings, and that's exactly my point. But the way my friend and the brother were talking with all amount of seriousness made me feel I was just a learner.

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Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by Jokerman(m): 9:15pm On Sep 30, 2019
What stupid friend ??

My wife will always be at the front seat... Even if my friend was already in the car, I will gladly ask him to vacate to the back that my wife needs the front seat... When it is his turn, he should do the same to me...

Moreover the kind of friends I keep won't dare do such rubbish

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Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by Biglittlelois(f): 9:21pm On Sep 30, 2019
Ariza:
Whoever gets there first stays, asking anyone to get down for the other is a height of disrespect.


Apt!!!
Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by Starz825(m): 9:26pm On Sep 30, 2019
If the wife don already dey inside..it will take a silly friend to insist on sitting in the front therefore prompting the wife to come down for him...
But if they(three of them) are leaving a joint or the house then the wife can sit at the back ...
Case closed

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Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by Nobody: 9:37pm On Sep 30, 2019
Starz825:
If the wife don already dey inside..it will take a silly friend to insist on sitting in the front therefore prompting the wife to come down for him...
But if they(three of them) are leaving a joint or the house then the wife can sit at the back ...
Case closed
Only u make sense here.. its only natural for the woman to take the back seat when all three are headed out at same time but u know what i have noticed slay queens who are not even wives will quickly jump on the front seat and wives always insist that friends seat in front with their husbands in such situations... it doesn't take much to know a woman that respects her husband. These little things tells a lot

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Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by Starz825(m): 9:43pm On Sep 30, 2019
dairykidd:

Only u make sense here.. its only natural for the woman to take the back seat when all three are headed out at same time but u know what i have noticed slay queens who are not even wives will quickly jump on the front seat and wives always insist that friends seat in front with their husbands in such situations... it doesn't take much to know a woman that respects her husband. These little things tells a lot
I dey tell u....
Even Messi wife siddon for back make Suarez for fit sit for front... couple of months ago....I be hear am for news

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Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by Nobody: 9:44pm On Sep 30, 2019
Dude,..it's just a seat

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Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by Peterosky(m): 9:45pm On Sep 30, 2019
amiibaby:
Don’t mind them. They will not be there when ur wife will be dishing you the bitter pill.. they are the learner and not u. Such friend are wise to be cut off they will mislead u in the long/short run
.Thanks, but cutting him off is going to be too too difficult. He is a very good friend. Just that sometimes we all make mistakes at some point. Trust me, I am very selective when it comes to friendship, so any body I call my friend is good.
Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by Peterosky(m): 9:50pm On Sep 30, 2019
Jokerman:
What stupid friend ??

My wife will always be at the front seat... Even if my friend was already in the car, I will gladly ask him to vacate to the back that my wife needs the front seat... When it is his turn, he should do the same to me...

Moreover the kind of friends I keep won't dare do such rubbish
.Hhhmmm not stupid, just that sometimes we all make mistakes mostly when you have a bottle or more in your system.
Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by Peterosky(m): 9:52pm On Sep 30, 2019
Starz825:
If the wife don already dey inside..it will take a silly friend to insist on sitting in the front therefore prompting the wife to come down for him...
But if they(three of them) are leaving a joint or the house then the wife can sit at the back ...
Case closed
.Thanks bro.
Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by Nobody: 9:52pm On Sep 30, 2019
Starz825:

I dey tell u....
Even Messi wife siddon for back make Suarez for fit sit for front... couple of months ago....I be hear am for news
Lolz really... but for real u know say ur wife go know how u and ur paddy take dey before u even know her na she go insist make u stay front so u and ur guy go fit dey gist una tory wella afterall ur car is her car no be front seat she go come begin drag na cheesy Some guys go even insist make ordinary control sit for front and their root paddy go dey back.. If u check those guys well them no really be guy men per say. It goes to tell u a lot about a lady for real... but modern girls won't know this and would even argue about sitting in front and when u start to shelve her side she go dey try reason where she for error not knowing say na small shiit when dey spoil yansh... respect man cool

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Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by DMerciful(m): 12:21am On Oct 01, 2019
My wife stays in front! Infact non of my friend will even try to stay in front in the first place. I too will not try to stay in front of my friends car when his wife is coming along. A married woman is already a madam irrespective!

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Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by Nobody: 1:51am On Oct 01, 2019
1. If the wife is already seated at the front seat, the friend should go to the back.

2. If the friend is already seated at the front seat, they wife should go to the back.

3. If you're all heading to the car at the same time and the friend is visiting for a day or two, the wife should gladly take the back seat so that hubby and his friend can gist properly at the front, at least that's what I would do. There would only be problem if 1# has taken place and I'm being told to get down for the friend. A husband who respects his wife won't even try it.

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Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by Nobody: 2:10am On Oct 01, 2019
What if the friend is your boss,a benefactor,a richer person you look up to for favours?
Them no dey tell person na....Your wife will just humble and enter boot.
Money good ooo.I love money men cool

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Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by uchman(m): 3:24am On Oct 01, 2019
Depends,
If only 1 friend,
He will be in the front
More than 1 friend,
They stay at the back.
Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by Nobody: 4:05am On Oct 01, 2019
If my friend won't be sensible enough to sit or move to the back seat for my wife to sit at the front(if he has been in the car before her), I will personally tell him to.
My girlfriend or fiancee maybe but my wife, hell no.
Even my mother will have to sit at the back seat for my wife to be at the front, that's the proper thing to do.

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Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by khiaa(f): 4:58am On Oct 01, 2019
The wife comes first even before your mama. undecided

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Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by Mystiquefia: 5:09am On Oct 01, 2019
What's all the fuse about with who seats with the driver?? I don't think anybody is entitled to front seat of my heart ride as long as it's my car, except maybe he or she is a force man or woman on duty. Not my wife or friend. Come to think of it, theres more prestige sitting at the back seat of a car assuming you're been driven around by a driver.
If i had a driver, the same wife or friend who's so obsessed with the front seat would rather sit at the back of the car with me like they own it. How the front seat obsession ceases to be of concern to them on this scenario is Amazing. Wife or friends should work hard for their cash and buy their own car, I won't make a fuss about who sits where in their ride. Next

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Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by Mystiquefia: 5:09am On Oct 01, 2019
khiaa:
The wife comes first even before your mama. undecided

Balderdash... Do u see men complaining about who seats where in their wive's cars??

I'm yet to see any thread on that. You women are a problem to us honestly, u make noise about everything. Assuming you and the OP were being rational then your comment and his response should be fair to both genders. He ought to have used "spouses" in his headline and then maybe u'd have been able to use your senses

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Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by Igetmyown247: 5:39am On Oct 01, 2019
Any sensible person will know not to sit in front of the car when the friend’s wife is in the same car. I don’t know who raised some of you.

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Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by JERRY1925(m): 6:57am On Oct 01, 2019
Seriously, depends how close they were, if it's a friend the husband have been telling the wife all about. Then it's normal for the wife to vacate the seat just for a day, just for probably an hour for friends to gist..it shows respect, the friend might even say no, but she must insist.
But if it's just some normal friend then, I think it's who sat their first.
But if the marriage na new one, like some months, my brother leave front seat for newly wed couple o.
Truth is, the car is hers.
No big deal in sitting at the back.
Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by khiaa(f): 7:16am On Oct 01, 2019
Mystiquefia:


Balderdash... Do u see men complaining about who seats where in their wive's cars??

I'm yet to see any thread on that. You women are a problem to us honestly, u make noise about everything. Assuming you and the OP were being rational then your comment and his response should be fair to both genders. He ought to have used "spouses" in his headline and then maybe u'd have been able to use your senses

My bad, I thought common sense would tell you that it goes with either gender of the spouse. undecided

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Re: Wife Or Friend: Who Deserves The Front Seat? by SmellingAnus(m): 7:24am On Oct 01, 2019
Logobenz:
What if the friend is your boss,a benefactor,a richer person you look up to for favours?
Them no dey tell person na....Your wife will just humble and enter booth.
Money good ooo.I love money men cool
I swear... You have a point ... Sometimes it could be an Uncle or aunt you hold in high esteem...

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