Good evening Nairalanders.
Pls I matured advice here. My boyfriend n I dated for 2yrs den we broke up n stayed apart for up to 6months. But we talk if we bomb into each other. He's in his late 30's while I'm in my 25yrs. Few months back he started begging for us to come back, talk abt how he missed us etc etc...
Last week I decided to give in, n we started off. One of those days, I went visiting n I saw a drugs on his refrigerator, I googled d name. Only to find out dat it was for erectile dysfunction. I asked him nicely wat d drugs is meant for n he denied saying he doesn't know abt any drugs. After much talks he later said it's for treating body pains.
Since den he's been acting up with me. Not until today he apologised but things r still not right.
Aside that, he chats intimately with other girls on his WhatsApp, even to calling one my wife.
I thought abt the whole thing today n thought of ending it.

Pls Wat's d right thing to do in this situation, cos I hate anything stressing me emotionally.

Walking away is the right thing

Late 30s? Over 10 years in age difference?

Pro! Correct guy!

Confused women asking silly questions since jesus was breakdancing on the cross

PrettyMelly:
Good evening Nairalanders.
Pls I matured advice here. My boyfriend n I dated for 2yrs den we broke up n stayed apart for up to 6months. But we talk if we bomb into each other. He's in his late 30's while I'm in my 25yrs. Few months back he started begging for us to come back, talk abt how he missed us etc etc...
Last week I decided to give in, n we started off. One of those days, I went visiting n I saw a drugs on his refrigerator, I googled d name. Only to find out dat it was for erectile dysfunction. I asked him nicely wat d drugs is meant for n he denied saying he doesn't know abt any drugs. After much talks he later said it's for treating body pains.
Since den he's been acting up with me. Not until today he apologised but things r still not right.
Aside that, he chats intimately with other girls on his WhatsApp, even to calling one my wife.
I thought abt the whole thing today n thought of ending it.

Pls Wat's d right thing to do in this situation, cos I hate anything stressing me emotionally.

Are you so unattractive that you didn't get better guys in the space of 6 months? And you went back to your vomit?

That guy is only gonna use you to test if his drugs work well. Move on with your young life and upgrade your taste in men, you deserve better.

When you live someone NEVER look back o. Never ever look back. Improve yourself and keep moving forward.

If he could get you back after 6 months then you never moved from the spot where he first left you, you are better than he deserves. You are too high for him.


Players deserve players.

Stay strong sis

Never go back to your Vomit.

You're insecure


Tell him to break up with you, he deserves better

Erectile disfunction? I don't understand that part, before you left him, can't he do?

PrettyMelly:
Good evening Nairalanders.
Pls I matured advice here. My boyfriend n I dated for 2yrs den we broke up n stayed apart for up to 6months. But we talk if we bomb into each other. He's in his late 30's while I'm in my 25yrs. Few months back he started begging for us to come back, talk abt how he missed us etc etc...
Last week I decided to give in, n we started off. One of those days, I went visiting n I saw a drugs on his refrigerator, I googled d name. Only to find out dat it was for erectile dysfunction. I asked him nicely wat d drugs is meant for n he denied saying he doesn't know abt any drugs. After much talks he later said it's for treating body pains.
Since den he's been acting up with me. Not until today he apologised but things r still not right.
Aside that, he chats intimately with other girls on his WhatsApp, even to calling one my wife.
I thought abt the whole thing today n thought of ending it.

Pls Wat's d right thing to do in this situation, cos I hate anything stressing me emotionally.

He might have had or he having erectile dysfunction and uses the drugs to sort himself out

Take him Suprise and fundle with his dick to see if it will erect immediately or it will take time to get attention

Advice him to go for STD test to know his status

If possible go with him and chose a hospital and read the results together