My Girlfriend still reaches out to her Ex Boyfriend for financial assistance. I admit it gets me really upset.

I want the best for her and want her to grow financially, but I feel help from an Ex is going too far and quite disrespectful.

Please advise, guys, is my anger justified and reasonable?

She is getting financial help + dick from him. How do some of you even tolerate things like this? Put an end to that ASAP.

General0847:
She is getting financial help + dick from him.
How do some of you even tolerate things like this? Put an end to that ASAP.

At the moment I can vouch diiiiiiick isn't in the value offering. Dude is outta town and will be so for a while. But when he returns....

iamadonis2:


At the moment I can vouch diiiiiiick isn't in the value offering. Dude is outta town and will be so for a while. But when he returns....

But when he returns can you still vouch dick won't be thrown into the value offering?

put and end to it or let her go to her ex full time. why would you even tolerate that

General0847:

But when he returns can you still vouch dick won't be thrown into the value offering?

Bro, this shiiiiit messes with my mind. One said thing that happens is this: Most times when he gives her cash, I find myself competing unconsciously to double or triple the said sum.

It's a bad habit. And I cannot continue doing that to my pocket and mind

iamadonis2:


Bro, this shiiiiit messes with my mind. One said thing that happens is this: Most times when he gives her cash, I find myself competing unconsciously to double or triple the said sum.

It's a bad habit. And I cannot continue doing that to my pocket and mind

You don't have to continue, get a new girlfriend. It might be a hard decision but you need your dignity intact, peace of mind and good pvssy.
Save yourself the heartache to come. I know from experience, my ex has a new guy but whenever she comes around i fvck her silly.

General0847:

You don't have to continue, get a new girlfriend. It might be a hard decision but you need your dignity intact, peace of mind and good pvssy.
Save yourself the heartache to come. I know from experience, my ex has a new guy but whenever she comes around i fvck her silly.

Thanks Bro. I needed a stranger to talk to. Every other person around us feels we are a permanently happy couple.

They wouldn't understand me or they'd judge her

Dude, if u gat no door in ur house pls let her use the window.
Exit nah exit.
If she cannot be contented with what you give her, then .... Danger

Leave that girl before it’s too late!!!





I’m talking from experience. I’ve been in exactly this situation...... TWICE!!!!!

I know how difficult it may be because you really like her but killing yourself will sound sugary when you eventually find out the extent of things she has going with her ex.

If it was another random guy, ehen you can fight that fight and will most likely come out victorious but her ex?? Na bruh, it’s a lost cause.

As long as a girl is still attached to her ex, you’re just a rebound

guy dont make d mistake of not trusting ur girl since she isnt doing secretly, mistrust can push her into his arms just b matured and cool. nothing gonna happen bad to u or her

Chai you have been manipulated....the babe already knows your weakness 'ego', she knows you'll have to compete with whatever she earns from her ex and its a double win for her
Ask for my advice and I'll tell

iamadonis2:


Bro, this shiiiiit messes with my mind. One said thing that happens is this: Most times when he gives her cash, I find myself competing unconsciously to double or triple the said sum.

It's a bad habit. And I cannot continue doing that to my pocket and mind

Sunnymatey:
Dude, if u gat no door in ur house pls let her use the window.
Exit nah exit.
If she cannot be contented with what you give her, then .... Danger

True. Lately this has made me hardhearted. I know she's broke and may want to give her cash but I just think to myself:

" Oh well, why bother? She's gonna call him for help"

IceColdVeins:
Chai you have been manipulated....the babe already knows your weakness 'ego', she knows you'll have to compete with whatever she earns from her ex and its a double win for her
Ask for my advice and I'll tell

I'm asking for your advice, Bro

iamadonis2:


At the moment I can vouch diiiiiiick isn't in the value offering. Dude is outta town and will be so for a while. But when he returns....

And how sure are you that he’s out of town?
What if he comes into town lowkey?
What if your babe also goes out of town?

Stay sharp bruh.

I can't believe what I just read...
The male gender has truly been fully emasculated.

NGRsenate:


And how sure are you that he’s out of town?
What if he comes into town lowkey?
What if your babe also goes out of town?

Stay sharp bruh.

That's the plan going forward, Sir

Tonnyray:
I can't believe what I just read...
The male gender has truly been fully emasculated.

I foolish, I no lie. What do you advise?

Trust me on this, no babe is innocent, Just like in network security, They are all TROJAN HORSES (always having an axe to grind no matter how harmless and supportive they tend to seem).
Now this is why all these shiit should have been repelled from the onset of the relationship but you let lust and emotions play the most role, hence, you tolerated. You asked her out I assume, you invited her into your life, you are the host, its your game, hence, your rule!! Call it toxic masculinity.
fvck that!!

Now my advice is, I don't know who you are or how you run your game but you need to confront her on this, nigga you aint a wimp, are you? Her behaviour should keep you on your toes cos a girl like this is ready to rub minds even with your own enemies if she's got to gain from it. She is probably materialistic and parasitic, begging for alms repetitively is the number one symptom of a ho' cos its takes a humbly worthless heart to beg from an ex while in another relationship, IF I WERE THE EX, I'll bang her brains out in a reminder that you just won your heart a worthless LovePeddler. Let alone, from her ex, nigga this a slap on your face(whether you broke or not). I dont blame her though, you entertained this shii cos you are broke I guess!! but brokeness dont kill integrity you know?
You need to call her to order or dump her for your peace sake.

Now the problem is you can't dump her, you prolly love her to earth and bla bla blaa...When you are ready to dump, I might give you tips, if you need

The answer to Your caption is a Capital NO
But your last comments are a big YES!

IceColdVeins:
Trust me on this, no babe is innocent, Just like in network security, They are all TROJAN HORSES (always having an axe to grind no matter how harmless and supportive they tend to seem).
Now this is why all these shiit should have been repelled from the onset of the relationship but you let lust and emotions play the most role, hence, you tolerated. You asked her out I assume, you invited her into your life, you are the host, its your game, hence, your rule!! Call it toxic masculinity.
fvck that!!

Now my advice is, I don't know who you are or how you run your game but you need to confront her on this, nigga you aint a wimp, are you? Her behaviour should keep you on your toes cos a girl like this is ready to rub minds even with your own enemies if she's got to gain from it. She is probably materialistic and parasitic, begging for alms repetitively is the number one symptom of a ho' cos its takes a humbly worthless heart to beg from an ex while in another relationship, IF I WERE THE EX, I'll bang her brains out in a reminder that you just won your heart a worthless LovePeddler. Let alone, from her ex, nigga this a slap on your face(whether you broke or not). I dont blame her though, you entertained this shii cos you are broke I guess!! but brokeness dont kill integrity you know?
You need to call her to order or dump her for your peace sake.

Now the problem is you can't dump her, you prolly love her to earth and bla bla blaa...When you are ready to dump, I might give you tips, if you need

I appreciate that you took time out to write this. God bless you. We've had the call-to-order talk severally, no change.

Lalasticlala, good afternoon,please i need this topic on front page, it is worth it.

My gal dix my gal that, everyday on this forum and we all wonder why our citizens are so unproductive....

My only question for u is that can you keep helping ur ex financially without no string attached? If you can answer this right, you definitely have the answer to ur question

OK
Before I give my verdict, can you bullet out the things you stand to gain in that relationship against what you currently lose?
In that way we can make a fair judgement

iamadonis2:


I appreciate that you took time out to write this. God bless you. We've had the call-to-order talk severally, no change.

Headlesschicken:
My gal dix my gal that, everyday on this forum and we all wonder why our citizens are so unproductive....

Hahaha... Brother when we go out each day to chase "productivity" we have to come back home to share the gains of that productivity with the people we love.

Why did she leave her ex in the first place

Guys some of una too dey fall hand nowadays

Hillzy:
My only question for u is that can you keep helping ur ex financially without no string attached? If you can answer this right, you definitely have the answer to ur question

Me, nah. I'd sooner fuuuuuuck her than always give her cash with no strings attached

IceColdVeins:
OK
Before I give my verdict, can you bullet out the things you stand to gain in that relationship against what you currently lose?
In that way we can make a fair judgement

Business wise:

She's the other partner in our business. And in a bad month, I won't lie, her contacts and pitches bring no less than a 150,000 revenue

I would've advised you but you didn't indicate that you need matured advice or response in your post.

I give matured advice only.

So what are your losses? biz cant be the only gain bro
This is a relationship dont forget
be deep

iamadonis2:


Business wise:

She's the other partner in our business. And in a bad month, I won't lie, her contacts and pitches bring no less than a 150,000 revenue

I'll be real with you.

If you have talked to her about going back to her ex (which is actually a slap to your face and a kick to your balls) and she refuses to heed


Then, keep your relationship with her on a professional level since you gain something from having her around as a business partner

...and if you'll have sex on the side, USE PROTECTION.