2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.

first on its not a crime for adults to mastubate , what i mean is responsible adults who know they can hardly go without sex, adults who wont rape a woman or cheat because they realise that masturbation doesnt go against their marital vows but also satisfy them sexually , it prevents them from doing a lot of damage and helps them gain control over their sex lives, i may not be a masturbator but i would rather recomend they do that than use a condom on a woman, they are more on a safer side, but if you feel the act makes you feel ridiculled or bad then you can stop, its no big deal.

Bonatheripper:
I started when I was 13.
I'm about 3times that now and I stil enjoy masturbation.
Seriously why do people even think masturbation is a much bigger sin than fornication?
Is not the same semem u release?

Why do people think constant masturbation makes u ejaculate faster while constant fornication makes u learn how to last longer?

People are seriously crazy.
Masturbation helps u save money, saves u from STD, saves u from unwanted pregnancies and babbies, saves u from breaking girls hearts.

Masturbation is a blessing.

Fornication was condemned by God.

Anyone who thinks fornication is better than masturbation is an idiot who wants to feel less guilty with what he or she is doing.
People sha are weird

Baba d Baba. Hope u know excessive masturbation numbs the Penile organ leading to weak erection? It's one of the causes of erectile dysfunction

Amarabae:
Untamed premarital sexual habits.
Go to mountain of fire for deliverance

So there are no masturbators in the whole of Mountain of fire congregation currently abi them no like "deliverance".

Except you're getting at a joke though.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Baba d Baba. Hope u know excessive masturbation numbs the Penile organ leading to weak erection? It's one of the causes of erectile dysfunction

Keep shut.

I'm a man an I own a dick.
My penis have bin the same for years now.
So if I fornicate once everyday I'll also get erectile dysfunction?
Go and sleep....it's just like saying a girl who gets hard nipples everyday will also get nipples dysfunction.
They're many causes of erectile dysfunction... It is never masturbation.
Masturbation itself makes u last longer on bed cause u already release too often and your sperm bank isn't always filled to the brim which causes delay in ejaculation.


Sugar, excessive beer, drugs like tramadol, old age and some other diet are the root causes of penile dysfunction.
Not masturbation.
I know because I masturbate and fornicate actively

2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

Former American President Bill Clinton once said that 95℅ of men masturbate and the remaining 5℅ lie about it.

Medically, psychologists say masturbation is a NORMAL part of child development - ID, Ego, Super ego etc and then we had Pastor Chris Oyakhilome on video saying it is not a sin and people should stop beating themselves up over it.

A foolish woman with her own hands tears her home apart and your wife is lucky that when she denies you sex you did not take a girlfriend outside to do her work for her.

If only women knew how men's brains are wired when it comes to sex then maybe their husbands will remain faithful to them BUT these ignorant women will not listen to advice that WILL save their marriages.

Brother nothing do you as what you have just described is common to a lot of men especially if their uncooperative wives starts using sex as a weapon. In the haughty vindictive ignorance of these wives, they think they are punishing their husband by denying him sex not knowing that they are digging the grave of their own marriages with their very own hands with their foolishness.

2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.

The truth is, you love sex, let her know

Once you are getting steady and constant sex, you will forget about masturbating

It weakens the vain and nerves in your dick which might affect your Sperm production

Talk to her to always give you sex and you too avoid anything that will be bringing issues for both of you

She will always use sex as punishment for hurting you

Lastly by the time your breed so many kids and you don't have the money to provide for them, your sex urge and your dick will be flacid

2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.

You need to stop watching porn. Masturbation is good but excessive masturbation is evil. You are suffering from the later, if you are not careful it ll tear your marriage apart and reduce your productivity at work

Masturbation is evil only God can deliver one from it

dalongjnr:
Meet ur wife and tell her that you are a mastubator.
Be open minded about it.
2.meet you pastor and tell him so that he should pray for you.
3.Meet a counselor or psychotherapist and discussed the issue.
4.Don't stay alone in an enclosed place.
5.Meet the eldest man in your village to allow you be or else u will be 60yrs and be doing the same thing.

#2 and #5. Pls, take dis for being too stupid.

Go for deliverance. Even married, what do you watch in porn that you can't do with your wife?
Lesson for those who use masturbation or pornography as any excuse for not getting the real thing. It is a selfish thing that focuses and promotes only self satisfaction.

YorubaNinja:


#2 and #5. Pls, take dis for being too stupid.

,people can't joke in peace again? Imagine oh,I'm his therapist or his special adviser!
Remember this is a public forum,OK.

You need to also get girlfriends to help distract you

KrazzyAndy:
mehhhn i dont know bout y'all but porn in question have finish my life
growing up was very rough and i went through a lot of emotional trauma cause i was raped twice by my uncle ex fiancee and my neighbour and both of them are atleast 10 years older than me so cause of the very bad experience i almost lost my self, i'm also dealing with extreme low self esteem nobody knows am dying inside cause i'm always smiling and helping others in times of crisis...now look at me 18+ and still masturbating....please you guys above me saying is cool and everything
it's NOTTTTT....this shiii is causing me serious pains....some times i might go days but once it is going to 2 weeks....problem tii deyy well i thankGod for my life right now i just gained admission into the uni so i probably wont have time for such again....now i'm gonna drop my own 2kobo on howw to manage porn....there are just 3 ways to manage your addiction
1)always pray bout it cause masturbating is not physical but spiritual
2)make sure you get yourself always BUSY!! cause i don't know if you're cursed or something that you have a goal let say gettiing good grades or making money that you will na go to one corner in your house or somewhere very private to masturbate ok let say you have the money and you are always less busy get a playstation or a laptop play online games if you dont like that you can sign up for gymclasses or better still have your own gym inside your house excercise a lot just do thing that will fix you mind on something other than porn
3)lastly we're human beings and body no be firewood so get yourself a gf to be precise a girl that can give you sex even you dont ask trust me you will kill the vibe of anything porn in your life
so guys please masturbation is bad porn is bad try to stay off it and see how happy and pleased with yourself you will be

men and their rape stories. How does someone rape u n u cal it a bad experience?

Bonatheripper:

Keep shut.

I'm a man an I own a dick.
My penis have bin the same for years now.
So if I fornicate once everyday I'll also get erectile dysfunction?
Go and sleep....it's just like saying a girl who gets hard nipples everyday will also get nipples dysfunction.
They're many causes of erectile dysfunction... It is never masturbation.
Masturbation itself makes u last longer on bed cause u already release too often and your sperm bank isn't always filled to the brim which causes delay in ejaculation.


Sugar, excessive beer, drugs like tramadol, old age and some other diet are the root causes of penile dysfunction.
Not masturbation.
I know because I masturbate and fornicate actively

I'm a sex therapist so I know what I'm saying. Anyways, ur life ain't my biz

odaniel1:

men and their rape stories. How does someone rape u n u cal it a bad experience?

Stfuuuuu
So I knew what I was doing at age 9 right

Bro, I really don't know what to say but, wth!!!
I feel for you Bro. Your wife isn't helping matters at all, you still feel like you ain't married even when you are.

You should try and work things out with your wife.
You both should settle everything inside the other room. Example you both should watch porn together and try new styles.

That's a good start.

AwkaetitiBabe:
I'm a sex therapist so I know what I'm saying. Anyways, ur life ain't my biz

Quack sex therapist I guess.
Cox I'm sure u have no degree in it

Bonatheripper:

Quack sex therapist I guess.
Cox I'm sure u have no degree in it

Whatever. Google d shii and be wise. Having a flaccid junk ain't my biz

AwkaetitiBabe:
Whatever. Google d shii and be wise. Having a flaccid junk ain't my biz

Ok.
But stop Miseducating others

PabloAndreas:
"Whoever is hitting ain't hitting her right cause she act like she need dick in her life"...
up ur game bruv and she ain't never gon turn u down no more...huh? How's that

lil Wayne ,washere!

You are facing the challenge you are facing because your wife think she can starve you sex because she has vagina while you have penis.
Tell her in the face that is because she is denying you sex, that is while you are cheating on her with masturbation.

PabloAndreas:
". Whoever is hitting ain't hitting her right cause she act like she need dick in her life"...
up ur game bruv and she ain't never gon turn u down no more...huh? How's that

Lil Wayne

NO FRAUDS

KrazzyAndy:

Stfuuuuu
So I knew what I was doing at age 9 right

you bet u did perv! When 'sister' was asking you to 'piss inside' tell me u didn't feel that tickle in ur anus dt ran straight into your rolling eyes, tell me you didn't like the feeling hypocrite.

If masturbation is a sin eh, many people will end up in hell.

odaniel1:

you bet u did perv! When 'sister' was asking you to 'piss inside' tell me u didn't feel that tickle in ur anus dt ran straight into your rolling eyes, tell me you didn't like the feeling hypocrite.

At age 9?? Is like you have started watching porn the moment you were born

Joystark:
If masturbation is a sin eh, many people will end up in hell.

Many people my sister!

AwkaetitiBabe:
Baba d Baba. Hope u know excessive masturbation numbs the Penile organ leading to weak erection? It's one of the causes of erectile dysfunction

Honestly

GuyWise:
Your wife is the problem here because she knowing fully well about your condition and still refuse you entering her honey well is an act of wickedness.


You guys going upto weeks without sexual intercourse speaks volume of the fact that your wife is seeing someone else or she too is a MASTURBATOR (just that she's being to careful for you not too see her doing it)


I LOVE MASTURBATION AND I DON'T THINK I AM QUITTING ANYTIME SOON NOT EVEN WHEN I AM MARRIED..... I love to masturbate.


Secondly "If you want to enjoy masturbation don't do it with porn, just use your imagination, you will last longer and enjoy the beautiful act"

Imagine wat

..? Is your wife very religious? Why did she get angry that you masturbated...

Maybe you should reduce it though

I think you and your wife are not on the same page...you probably need discuss it instead of getting angry with each other