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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Conceptman: 10:56pm On Oct 10, 2019
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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by fowlyansh181(m): 10:58pm On Oct 10, 2019
If your wife has refused you sex, go ahead and mastubate , it’s not a crime and not your fault at all

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Eazyll(m): 10:59pm On Oct 10, 2019
The act of masturbation and start from watching porn and being idle air all the time.. My advice is to stay away from watching porn, and always engage itself with activities and to keep ur mind away from it

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Eberex(m): 10:59pm On Oct 10, 2019
All of you are just throwing advise as if you know what it is to be an addict or masturbation.

Only the grace of God will solve it.

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by delpee(f): 11:01pm On Oct 10, 2019
Long term masturbation has some negative consequences.
@Op
Warm up to your wife. What you’re doing is unfair.

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by tintingz(m): 11:02pm On Oct 10, 2019
delpee:
Long term masturbation has some negative consequences.
@Op
Warm up to your wife. What you’re doing is unfair.
Mention the negative consequences?

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by sylve11: 11:03pm On Oct 10, 2019
dalongjnr:
Meet ur wife and tell her that you are a mastubator.
Be open minded about it.
2.meet you pastor and tell him so that he should pray for you.
3.Meet a counselor or psychotherapist and discussed the issue.
4.Don't stay alone in an enclosed place.
5.Meet the eldest man in your village to allow you be or else u will be 60yrs and be doing the same thing.

pastor? cool
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Nobody: 11:03pm On Oct 10, 2019
[quote author=GuyWise post=82994352]Your wife is the problem here because she knowing fully well about your condition and still refuse you entering her honey well is an act of wickedness.


You guys going upto weeks without sexual intercourse speaks volume of the fact that your wife is seeing someone else or she too is a MASTURBATOR (just that


she's being to careful for THINK I AM QUITTING ANYTIME SOON NOT EVEN WHEN I AM MARRIED.....

What a sick advice. SMH

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by XavierD(f): 11:03pm On Oct 10, 2019
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I don't think you and your wife are very close yet.

I mean, if I masturbate, my partner should be the first to know about it, maybe when my partner travelled or something. We will talk about it, make jokes about it. And later do it together sef.

At 27, you should be very sexually active. Your wife should know that too and your limits.

Partners masturbate in front of each other all the time. Nothing to be ashamed of ...

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by tintingz(m): 11:04pm On Oct 10, 2019
Study says, marriage doesn't stop masturbation.

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by stasius: 11:05pm On Oct 10, 2019
Your wife is evil!


Divorce her and marry another!

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by bmos(m): 11:05pm On Oct 10, 2019
Cutehector:
There is no solution to your problem


Of course no one can provide you with solution. You already know the one and only solution. Since demons are behind that dastard act, you need to go back to God for your solution

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Nobody: 11:05pm On Oct 10, 2019
your prblem is that u get married but u you dont marry a wife. ##she denied you sex she caught you masturbating and she still ignored you. and ##you. she denied you sex and you ignored her and continue with your masturbatiin and she still lives in your house and u feed her

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Sofistcatdmoron: 11:06pm On Oct 10, 2019
that same question i keep asking, is sex food??
grin

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Sofistcatdmoron: 11:07pm On Oct 10, 2019
wiseone28:
Get a second wife, if you still Masturbate after the second one, get another one till your libido reduce

grin grin

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by sircrabo: 11:08pm On Oct 10, 2019
masturbation is for those that don't have a dedicated Kpekus. As a married man, why will such an act still cross your mind when you have a P**y at home waiting for you ? Its a bad habit that you have nursed over years. Try to stop it. You no longer need it.

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by iukpe: 11:08pm On Oct 10, 2019
dalongjnr:
Meet ur wife and tell her that you are a mastubator.
Be open minded about it.
2.meet you pastor and tell him so that he should pray for you.
3.Meet a counselor or psychotherapist and discussed the issue.
4.Don't stay alone in an enclosed place.
5.Meet the eldest man in your village to allow you be or else u will be 60yrs and be doing the same thing.

I tire..

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Sofistcatdmoron: 11:08pm On Oct 10, 2019
Xirmuhel:
Please when someone masturbate Is it counted as a sin?
yes oo, its a big sin dont do it

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by mzeefitz(m): 11:10pm On Oct 10, 2019
GuyWise:




I LOVE MASTURBATION AND I DON'T THINK I AM QUITTING ANYTIME SOON NOT EVEN WHEN I AM MARRIED..... I love to masturbate.


Secondly "If you want to enjoy masturbation don't do it with porn, just use your imagination, you will last longer and enjoy the beautiful act"
Is that your own advice for him?

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Sofistcatdmoron: 11:10pm On Oct 10, 2019
your wife refused u sex for 10 months?
i can't stand that, i will bring another woman home aswear to gad bro

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Nobody: 11:11pm On Oct 10, 2019
GuyWise:
Your wife is the problem here because she knowing fully well about your condition and still refuse you entering her honey well is an act of wickedness.

Secondly "If you want to enjoy masturbation don't do it with porn, just use your imagination, you will last longer and enjoy the beautiful act"

Kai, people dey this world.

Just use your imagination? shocked

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Sofistcatdmoron: 11:12pm On Oct 10, 2019
GuyWise:
Your wife is the problem here because she knowing fully well about your condition and still refuse you entering her honey well is an act of wickedness.


You guys going upto weeks without sexual intercourse speaks volume of the fact that your wife is seeing someone else or she too is a MASTURBATOR (just that she's being to careful for you not too see her doing it)


I LOVE MASTURBATION AND I DON'T THINK I AM QUITTING ANYTIME SOON NOT EVEN WHEN I AM MARRIED..... I love to masturbate.


Secondly "If you want to enjoy masturbation don't do it with porn, just use your imagination, you will last longer and enjoy the beautiful act"
you are killing your penis, it will eventually become weak when u have real match with a babe, stop mastbtng

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Nobody: 11:13pm On Oct 10, 2019
Joystark:
If masturbation is a sin eh, many people will end up in hell. lipsrsealed

hmmmn..chronic masturbator spotted, wetin u dey use.. cucumber or soft drink bottle?
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Eluwilussit(m): 11:13pm On Oct 10, 2019
2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.

Guy, get your wife to always give you hand. Masturbation isn’t a crime. Some women don’t mind. You didn’t say anything about your wife’s reaction.

Men play with themselves, just like ladies. Find out if it is okay with her. It is still better than going outside. And do it when you are alone with the doors locked. Alternatively, play together with her. I mean play for her. Some women like to watch. You may be surprised.

Don’t be ashamed bro. There’s nothing to be ashamed of.

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by InvertedHammer: 11:14pm On Oct 10, 2019
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You ain't hurting anyone.

Rub one out. It is a champagne of victory.

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Eluwilussit(m): 11:16pm On Oct 10, 2019
grin
Ilekokonit:


Former American President Bill Clinton once said that 95℅ of men masturbate and the remaining 5℅ lie about it.

Medically, psychologists say masturbation is a NORMAL part of child development - ID, Ego, Super ego etc and then we had Pastor Chris Oyakhilome on video saying it is not a sin and people should stop beating themselves up over it.

A foolish woman with her own hands tears her home apart and your wife is lucky that when she denies you sex you did not take a girlfriend outside to do her work for her.

If only women knew how men's brains are wired when it comes to sex then maybe their husbands will remain faithful to them BUT these ignorant women will not listen to advice that WILL save their marriages.

Brother nothing do you as what you have just described is common to a lot of men especially if their uncooperative wives starts using sex as a weapon. In the haughty vindictive ignorance of these wives, they think they are punishing their husband by denying him sex not knowing that they are digging the grave of their own marriages with their very own hands with their foolishness.

Like bubu, abi? grin grin grin grin grin
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by jclassiq(m): 11:17pm On Oct 10, 2019
Bonatheripper:

Keep shut.

I'm a man an I own a dick.
My penis have bin the same for years now.
So if I fornicate once everyday I'll also get erectile dysfunction?
Go and sleep....it's just like saying a girl who gets hard nipples everyday will also get nipples dysfunction.
They're many causes of erectile dysfunction... It is never masturbation.
Masturbation itself makes u last longer on bed cause u already release too often and your sperm bank isn't always filled to the brim which causes delay in ejaculation.


Sugar, excessive beer, drugs like tramadol, old age and some other diet are the root causes of penile dysfunction.
Not masturbation.
I know because I masturbate and fornicate actively

You seem to be quite uninformed at the subject matter. I currently suffer from the issue being discussed due to excessive masturbation. Not to mention reduction in sperm quality and quantity.

Sha be careful is all.

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by tomdfirst(m): 11:17pm On Oct 10, 2019
Guy don't feel sorry or bad about your Act, see many married men here talking too masturbate, it is in the nature of man, Yes fine masturbating isn't a practise/act.
Your wife isn't helping you, she knew this is your challenge, She is in the best position to help you out from this mess.
Let her understand you are helpless.
Mind you please don't cheat on her.
Lastly pray and go on counsellin
You will be free.

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by profbayo: 11:18pm On Oct 10, 2019
[quote author=LOMBARDY post=82994242]The question should be..Why did your wife refuse you sex??[/q
uote]
Stop thinking like a Teenager...Na eveeytime body they feel like ?
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by kushme: 11:18pm On Oct 10, 2019
2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.
Do not be ashamed of yourself simp', it is normal, like I said, men don't just stop masturbating (rubbing one out) because they got married..
Again, married women wouldn't allow you(husbands) to Bleep them all the time..
Too many cheats around..

They(wives) want to be your only source of sexual pleasure, if they could achieve that then they can manipulate and control your life and resources
God punish marriage...

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Eluwilussit(m): 11:20pm On Oct 10, 2019
Bonatheripper:

Keep shut.

I'm a man an I own a dick.
My penis have bin the same for years now.
So if I fornicate once everyday I'll also get erectile dysfunction?
Go and sleep....it's just like saying a girl who gets hard nipples everyday will also get nipples dysfunction.
They're many causes of erectile dysfunction... It is never masturbation.
Masturbation itself makes u last longer on bed cause u already release too often and your sperm bank isn't always filled to the brim which causes delay in ejaculation.


Sugar, excessive beer, drugs like tramadol, old age and some other diet are the root causes of penile dysfunction.
Not masturbation.
I know because I masturbate and fornicate actively

Chairman. You too much. Bobo-Hot cheesy

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Realdeals(m): 11:21pm On Oct 10, 2019
Your mental set is the key, what you consider as sin is a sin to you other may not view it same way.
Is your wife rejection of your sexual advances when you needed her not a sin? Is she not breaking the marital vow?
See, some religious rules and regulations which are man made but ascribed to God has condition us to self torture.

You should be prepared to defend your actions and ensure their is justification, don't be arm twisted to believe that masturbation, side chicks are outright sin. Be ready to stand by your action.

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