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My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Nobody: 8:31pm On Oct 14, 2019
I know am not supposed to bring my relationship issues here but I can't help it��
I stay with him at school cuz am having issues with my admission didn't want to go home cuz I will keep reminding my parents of the huge amount of money they wasted. I love this guy very much I don't joke with him and am a very good cook so I love cooking for people to eat, he cooks too so he is this kind of person that likes bragging about what he can do, so at times I ignore him. But what he did today is really painful. He was sick so I decided to make moi moi for us(with his sister) was washing d beans then he came to the kitchen, started telling me how I should have washed d beans(Wai I shud select d shafts first before pouring water) I was like it's still d same thing then I complained to the sister and she had to tell him (oga na dsame thing) I continued 4rm where I stopped (I was already provoked) but I didn't shout later I trekked to the market to grind the beans came back (mixed the stuff, started cooking) he was like it will take 40 minutes to cook I didn't talk.
I went to sit waiting for the moi moi to get ready within a while he came oooh (my name) it's ready ooo so I stood up didn't want to argue with him went straight to the kitchen brought the stuff down, removed them from the hot pot. Guess what the moi moi didn't cook well, he said is because I didn't put them well. (note) it's not my first time of cooking moi moi in the house ooo, so I got angry I swear the thing pained me then I told him to stop telling me what to do in d kitchen that I don't like it (it's annoying) pls stop he was like he will slap me we exchanged words. Right now am pained cuz it's not the first time he doing this he does strange things that I can't even say. His cousin came last time he was telling her how cooks very well Wai have she tasted his food before a guy for that matter, which one is dragging with ur girlfriend who cooks better than the other

Pls nairalanders help me I don't know what to do
Ur advice is need
Pls don't mind my write up
Thanks

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by greatmarshall(m): 8:32pm On Oct 14, 2019
Hmm babe if you no get admission go back to your papa house...

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Mjsghost: 8:32pm On Oct 14, 2019
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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by STFUand4kMeHARD(m): 8:37pm On Oct 14, 2019
I suggest U quickly go report your situation to your parents. No time for you and your moimoi boyfriend.
I am only concerned about you fooling yasef and ya parents. Don't be a prodigal child.

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:42pm On Oct 14, 2019
STFUand4kMeHARD:
I suggest U quickly go report your situation to your parents. No time for you and your moimoi boyfriend.
I am only concerned about you fooling yasef and ya parents. Don't be a prodigal child.
.. I love this.Her eyes will open by the time she becomes pregnant and Mr moi moi will vamoose.

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by faithfull18(f): 8:49pm On Oct 14, 2019
STFUand4kMeHARD:
I suggest U quickly go report your situation to your parents. No time for you and your moimoi boyfriend.
I am only concerned about you fooling yasef and ya parents. Don't be a prodigal child.
Supported, you are wasting your time because the guy may not marry you in the end.

Go back home to your parents, no matter your misdeeds, family will always be family.

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Nobody: 8:49pm On Oct 14, 2019
Mandyvicky:
I know am not supposed to bring my relationship issues here but I can't help it��
I stay with him at school cuz am having issues with my admission didn't want to go home cuz I will keep reminding my parents of the huge amount of money they wasted. I love this guy very much I don't joke with him and am a very good cook so I love cooking for people to eat, he cooks too so he is this kind of person that likes bragging about what he can do, so at times I ignore him. But what he did today is really painful. He was sick so I decided to make moi moi for us(with his sister) was washing d beans then he came to the kitchen, started telling me how I should have washed d beans(Wai I shud select d shafts first before pouring water) I was like it's still d same thing then I complained to the sister and she had to tell him (oga na dsame thing) I continued 4rm where I stopped (I was already provoked) but I didn't shout later I trekked to the market to grind the beans came back (mixed the stuff, started cooking) he was like it will take 40 minutes to cook I didn't talk.
I went to sit waiting for the moi moi to get ready within a while he came oooh (my name) it's ready ooo so I stood up didn't want to argue with him went straight to the kitchen brought the stuff down, removed them from the hot pot. Guess what the moi moi didn't cook well, he said is because I didn't put them well. (note) it's not my first time of cooking moi moi in the house ooo, so I got angry I swear the thing pained me then I told him to stop telling me what to do in d kitchen that I don't like it (it's annoying) pls stop he was like he will slap me we exchanged words. Right now am pained cuz it's not the first time he doing this he does strange things that I can't even say. His cousin came last time he was telling her how cooks very well Wai have she tasted his food before a guy for that matter, which one is dragging with ur girlfriend who cooks better than the other

Pls nairalanders help me I don't know what to do
Ur advice is need
Pls don't mind my write up
Thanks

Go home to your parents

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Nobody: 8:50pm On Oct 14, 2019
JONNYSPUTE:
.. I love this.Her eyes will open by the time she becomes pregnant and Mr moi moi will vamoose.


My God cry cry cry

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Nobody: 8:51pm On Oct 14, 2019
faithfull18:

Supported, you are wasting your time because the guy may not marry you in the end.

Go back home to your parents, no matter your misdeeds, family will always be family.

I will
Thanks

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Mutemenot(m): 8:51pm On Oct 14, 2019
Are you supposed to live with a man you aren't married to ? I think the major issue now is on how to advise you to go home . Please leave, don't mess yourself up in d name of boyfriend

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Nobody: 8:52pm On Oct 14, 2019
Instead of you to drag your destiny with your village people, you are there dragging moi moi with boyfriend. Don't worry your village people will soon win and gift you the real moimoi that takes nine months to get done. undecided

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by FROGMAN101(m): 8:53pm On Oct 14, 2019
LOOOL Sigh.

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Toduntee: 8:53pm On Oct 14, 2019
STFUand4kMeHARD:
I suggest U quickly go report your situation to your parents. No time for you and your moimoi boyfriend.
I am only concerned about you fooling yasef and ya parents. Don't be a prodigal child.
Lol..@Moimoi boyfriend

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by AfroKnight: 8:55pm On Oct 14, 2019
My sister, go home to your parents. Don’t let one boy turn you to housewife and still be dragging wrapper with you.

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Nobody: 9:02pm On Oct 14, 2019
This validates my theory that a man shouldn't be an expert in the kitchen.
I'm proud that I can only cook my usual concoction so whatever my girl cooks, I go appreciate and chop am well with neither complaints nor corrections. grin

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Tokziby: 9:06pm On Oct 14, 2019
Children of nowadays doing a living-in partner without getting married. angry

U really deserved to be fluged like 100 lashes. angry

Firstly, for lying to ur parent about gaining admission and collecting pocket money.

Secondly, for living with ur boyfriend that is helping u in trying to seek admission in same school.
I guess u dont know the dangers of living-in with ur so called boyfriend that is not even ready to put a ring on ur finger. Your pregnancy is just a stone thrown away, and ur first abortion loading cos u won't want ur parents to find out which might leave u barren(as a result of complications ). He will "see u finish" which is already happening, and by the time he's done with u, he'll dump ur sorry ass.
Thirdly, for bringing this type of issue that should be treated between married couple.

I pray and hope u come back to ur senses before it's too late. Have pity on ur parent and stop wasting their hard earned money. Education is not the key to success but the pathway that can lead to success when it's utilised effectively in an enabling environment. It's not by force to attend the four walls of a tertiary institution. If u start learning a "handwork" today it's even better these days than higher education. You 'll learn in few months or years and starts earning something to become somebody in future.
Kindly change ur wayward way before it's too late. A word is enough for the wise.

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by General0847: 9:07pm On Oct 14, 2019
Go home to your parents and open up to them about your situation in school.
Familiarity breeds contempt, the more you stay there the more your value drops.
If you're doing all these for a boyfriend then what will you do for your husband?

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by AWFCNAIJA: 9:14pm On Oct 14, 2019
They don come again... Awonlilyval

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Tajbol4splend(m): 9:15pm On Oct 14, 2019
Gibberish, he's not even your hubby, just boyfriend that can pack and go anytime he pleases. Meanwhile, your reaction to what happened says a lot about your level of maturity, I don't think the guy did or said something in excess, what I think provoked him was the way you took his gesture, you didn't take it well, it's not worth getting angry over, just try to grow up.

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Starz825(m): 9:20pm On Oct 14, 2019
JONNYSPUTE:
.. I love this.Her eyes will open by the time she becomes pregnant and Mr moi moi will vamoose.
Na to cook moi moi and share am for their naming ceremony oo cheesy

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Heroclitus(m): 9:22pm On Oct 14, 2019
Hmmmmm... I'm really surprised to know a guy could really do this...its unmanly to me
Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by maya007: 9:24pm On Oct 14, 2019
Lol pls go back to your fathers house and focus on ur life a better person will eventually come...by d way wai ba ur from d north ko?

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by PresidentAde(m): 9:29pm On Oct 14, 2019
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give him space, make yourself wanted.... you're choking him...
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wait sef, no be schooll Dem send you?

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by chudu(m): 9:32pm On Oct 14, 2019
Mandyvicky:
I know am not supposed to bring my relationship issues here but I can't help it��
I stay with him at school cuz am having issues with my admission didn't want to go home cuz I will keep reminding my parents of the huge amount of money they wasted. I love this guy very much I don't joke with him and am a very good cook so I love cooking for people to eat, he cooks too so he is this kind of person that likes bragging about what he can do, so at times I ignore him. But what he did today is really painful. He was sick so I decided to make moi moi for us(with his sister) was washing d beans then he came to the kitchen, started telling me how I should have washed d beans(Wai I shud select d shafts first before pouring water) I was like it's still d same thing then I complained to the sister and she had to tell him (oga na dsame thing) I continued 4rm where I stopped (I was already provoked) but I didn't shout later I trekked to the market to grind the beans came back (mixed the stuff, started cooking) he was like it will take 40 minutes to cook I didn't talk.
I went to sit waiting for the moi moi to get ready within a while he came oooh (my name) it's ready ooo so I stood up didn't want to argue with him went straight to the kitchen brought the stuff down, removed them from the hot pot. Guess what the moi moi didn't cook well, he said is because I didn't put them well. (note) it's not my first time of cooking moi moi in the house ooo, so I got angry I swear the thing pained me then I told him to stop telling me what to do in d kitchen that I don't like it (it's annoying) pls stop he was like he will slap me we exchanged words. Right now am pained cuz it's not the first time he doing this he does strange things that I can't even say. His cousin came last time he was telling her how cooks very well Wai have she tasted his food before a guy for that matter, which one is dragging with ur girlfriend who cooks better than the other

Pls nairalanders help me I don't know what to do
Ur advice is need
Pls don't mind my write up
Thanks
you are not serious at your age you are cohabiting with a woman beater if I had the phone number of your parents I would have called them. You better pack your bag and go home.

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Premiumwriter: 9:32pm On Oct 14, 2019
You're not even responding to anyone here.

Tell us why your parents believe that you're in school but you're staying with a guy


And your bf did bad. I understand how it feels like to be treated like you are dumb as f*ck or don't know what you're doing when you have everything in perfect control.


Please leave your bf and go back to your parents house. Please eh. It'll be painful and maybe shameful at first but it's the right step to take

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Lamanii22(f): 9:33pm On Oct 14, 2019
greatmarshall:
Hmm babe if you no get admission go back to your papa house...


Yes oo... Cause he would still use "her lack of not gaining admission" to insult her... It's best she goes back home... It's not really advisable to live with your SO when you're unmarried...

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by JONNYSPUTE(m): 9:34pm On Oct 14, 2019
Starz825:

Na to cook moi moi and share am for their naming ceremony oo cheesy
.. Lol.
Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by dave4rella(m): 9:40pm On Oct 14, 2019
shocked

So you're living with a guy, fvcking raw
And have the guts to report to us?
If you ever climb his sick you will get pregnant
Mark my words


Go back home

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by LadySarah: 9:40pm On Oct 14, 2019
This thread deserves frontpage grin grin grin

Beans never grind,moi moi grin don dey smell.

Nne,it is called'see finish'.

Go home to your folks asap!

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Iamtony(m): 9:56pm On Oct 14, 2019
Please try to let your parents know about your admission first cause it's d reason they sent u there
Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Bigflamie(m): 9:57pm On Oct 14, 2019
The kinda threads I see these days on Nairaland baffles me.
So many kids opening useless and immature threads.
angry angry

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Re: My Boyfriend does This And I Don't Like It. Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by captainking(m): 10:02pm On Oct 14, 2019
Boyfriend is a baby.. Girlfriend is a baby too.. Both of you are just babies...

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