Rubbiish:

He stated it in his post bro
Just him & his half sister

AssistntBoyfrnd:
Dear Uromite/Esan people,

I will be giving out my half sister in marriage. She's uromi while I am yoruba. Same mother but different dad. We both orphans left to fend for ourselves since we were little. No family and we want to stay far away from them cuz they didn't care to take care of us.

I would appreciate if uromi/esan people can give advice on how to go about marriage rites in esan land. Traditional wedding list and the likes.

Thank you all.

AssistntBoyfrnd:
Dear Uromite/Esan people,

I will be giving out my half sister in marriage. She's uromi while I am yoruba. Same mother but different dad. We both orphans left to fend for ourselves since we were little. No family and we want to stay far away from them cuz they didn't care to take care of us.

I would appreciate if uromi/esan people can give advice on how to go about marriage rites in esan land. Traditional wedding list and the likes.

Thank you all.

subtlemee:


Ok sis...he said they've been far away from them not that they don't have do you now understand sis?

jeff1607:

This is so me!! Am from Esan but am seriously working on my anger issue!!

how is her anger?


Esan ladies are known for their anger (e fit boil stone)

but they are also hardworking and would give their all to see the family succeed or go higher no matter what it takes, but if u take them for granted hmmmm OYO is your case

chanseroo:
20 Big Tubers Of Yam,4 Crate Of Malt And Beer, 25litre Of Red Oil, Plenty Native Kola,25 Litre Palm Wine, One Bag Of Salt For Women,4 Bottles Of Dry Gin,4 Bottles Of Wine Alcohol Ad Non Alcohl.Bag Of Big Onions, 1Big Odegbe Goat And White Hen. Stil Make More Enquiries. Oyemen Yan Wa. Ene Yan Na Welemi Wa Ge Eke Wa Fure,oba Gha Tokpere Ise.

Muscholes:
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fear them o

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perryy:
. As an Esan man, if u don't meet family members now, in the future u and your sister MUST surely look for them. Don't argue, just mark my words. Esan no be Yoruba oooo. I told my ex wife about Esan tradition but she waved it off and went into adultery, but at the end , she knew what she saw.

NwaBoy:
Un tag that stuff bish

johnmattew:
just go and perform some traditional rite.. otherwise,u or ur kids could be affected.

there is a reason why mercy Johnson isn't acting romantic movies anymore...thats because she is married to an esan man.


if a man woo or toast the wife of an esan man,she is supposed to let her husband know

my mother lost his cousin some years back...the man and his son had a quarrel and his son told his dad that he isn't his father and also hauled insults at him.fews weeks after,he had an accident with no injuries.doctors did scan on him and nothing was wrong,yet he was sick..few days after he died.not up to a month after his demise,his son became sick..his mother later confessed how his son and his father had a brawl.


just last year,my mother lost his elder sister.she slept and never woke up.we all thought she died as a result of HBP....few months after her burial,a man told her son how his mother went to eat at a party in his ex-husband's home( which is forbidden)


another dangerous one is when a woman insults her husband or draw his peni.s during a fight... consequently,they could lose their kids

no matter how powerful u are ,even if u are a pastor..esan tradition doesn't respect anybody.. sometimes,I keep wondering the enforcers of this traditional laws

sassysure:
So esan people are very wicked be that na.

More than half of esan people who commented had one bad experience or the other with their people.

They are still very diabolical.
Believe so much in spiritual stuffs.

Any wonder there is no development in edo state.

Useless traditional believes that does not move the people forward but retrogressive.

From what I gathered, If u are a married woman and commit adultery, u will die.
What about their married men?
Or the said tradition exempt them?

There are so many nonsense like this littered in igboland but the people came together and said enough is enough.
Although few towns are still into things like this but they too will abandon the nonsense.
Any traditional believe that rules out equality and progress is rubbish.

cococandy:
The worst part is that it’s all superstitious gibberish that of course doesn’t work.

But trust them to hold onto and protect anything that helps them keep their women in a position of subjugation. Disgusting

agbalej:
Dear OP, as has been mentioned, pls look for your sister's people and tell them about the wedding. Our list is not expensive, and you are not the proper person to give your sister out in marriage. You are not an Esan man but a Yoruba. Items collected from in-laws must be sent to her kinsmen. Its their entitlement no matter how badly they may have treated you guys... What you guys went tru is heartbreaking... However, the proper thing must be done. You may not take the wedding to uromi, go there, get the list and representatives would be sent (on your bills) to where ever the wedding is taking place to perform the marriage rites and take the marriage items back to the kinsmen. The only way to escape is to simply do "court" wedding. And move on.

midehi2:



I am just finding courage to laugh, i just lost my dad yesterday, everyone still grieving, have been playing games, other things to stop thinking about my dad, i want to rest my swollen eyes, can i even stop

chanseroo:
20 Big Tubers Of Yam,4 Crate Of Malt And Beer, 25litre Of Red Oil, Plenty Native Kola,25 Litre Palm Wine, One Bag Of Salt For Women,4 Bottles Of Dry Gin,4 Bottles Of Wine Alcohol Ad Non Alcohl.Bag Of Big Onions, 1Big Odegbe Goat And White Hen. Stil Make More Enquiries. Oyemen Yan Wa. Ene Yan Na Welemi Wa Ge Eke Wa Fure,oba Gha Tokpere Ise.

eternityk:

What's so special about rubbish esan
What do u mean esan no be Yoruba
Rubbish, be believing in stupid superstitions
Esan no be Yoruba
See this minority
Who be esan?
Rubbish

henryobinna:
Uromi?

very diabolical people.

Can't forget in a hurry my short experience in Eror-Uromi close to Uromi junction

Favor99:

God loves you dear. Im very sorry for your loss. The Lord will always be close to you and your family. Be reassured that the Lord will be with you and bless you and comfort you.

wisdompeters35:
Oga forget about the idea ur family abandon u. In esan land family is everything. A family must Stan for u. And if her family is uromi n are aware sorry my brother no other family can stand for her. I think it is now time for forgiveness or better still the perfect time for her family to perform their rite in her life.

johnmattew:
just go and perform some traditional rite.. otherwise,u or ur kids could be affected.

there is a reason why mercy Johnson isn't acting romantic movies anymore...thats because she is married to an esan man.


if a man woo or toast the wife of an esan man,she is supposed to let her husband know

my mother lost his cousin some years back...the man and his son had a quarrel and his son told his dad that he isn't his father and also hauled insults at him.fews weeks after,he had an accident with no injuries.doctors did scan on him and nothing was wrong,yet he was sick..few days after he died.not up to a month after his demise,his son became sick..his mother later confessed how his son and his father had a brawl.


just last year,my mother lost his elder sister.she slept and never woke up.we all thought she died as a result of HBP....few months after her burial,a man told her son how his mother went to eat at a party in his ex-husband's home( which is forbidden)


another dangerous one is when a woman insults her husband or draw his peni.s during a fight... consequently,they could lose their kids

no matter how powerful u are ,even if u are a pastor..esan tradition doesn't respect anybody.. sometimes,I keep wondering the enforcers of this traditional laws

seuncyrus:
I read this thread to the last page and I'm still in shock with what I've read about the esan/ uromi people . No offence , but most christians from this tribe really need to go for deliverance ....how can a tradition have such a strong hold over a person , is it really spriritual or psychological ?