Ardar:
[s] hy didn't you sit at the back with her despite her asking you to do so?

You were busy chit chatting with the taxi man leaving your girl alone.

I don't support her acting out like you claimed but you fvck up abeg.

You see little things like this no matter how inconsequential or negligible you think they are, are very much important to some people.

Just allow her time to cool off am sure she'll come around.[/s]

phintohlar:
if i decide to send you to those that has pussy in ur house now they will say am rude abi, cos you don't have pussy and if i have to reply you den i'll have to send you home. But no try am next time oh omo ale jatijati

ndidigood:
God blesss u my thought exactly

IjebuWarrior:

We sabi dem... arrogant pple from dat region.

WowSweetGuy:
Please Help Me Judge. Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?!

Excuse my grammatical blunders. I just feel like sharing this experience i had with my fiancee to be....

Yesterday being sunday, I decided to fix a movie and fun outing with my girl. I ordered a taxi from my base to her base to pick her up. She came looking fine and sweet to enjoy the sunday with...To cut the long story short to the main reason i'm posting this....

I came out of the taxi from the FRONT SEAT gave her a hug and opened the back door for her then closed the door to go back to my normal position, She gave me a bad look from nowhere, i asked her what's wrong, she told me to come to the back, the driver could hear us clearly, i playfully told her baby don't worry we have all day together u are even gonna spend the night at my crib, i sat at d front and told the taxi to go to the cinema. During the trip to the cinema i had a little conversation with the taxi guy, from nowhere again my lady told the taxi guy in a rude voice 'please oga face your driving and stop shaking me driving into potholes anyhow abeg'...later on again she told the taxi man to totally put off the low radio station that was playing in the car, the last time he had a call and received it on Bluetooth o,she shouted then very rude telling the man please just drop that call. That's when i cautioned her to take it easy na.

We arrived at the cinema, she told me i should give her transport to go back home that she doesn't feel like staying out again...I tried to pet her,she just abandoned me took a taxi and went home. She has refused picking my calls since yesterday. Im busy at work weekdays,i dont really have time to go to her house.

Ladies/Gentlemen please where did i really go wrong

uuzba:

Well, the show was already a spoilt one from the beginning. Guy was taking how out on a date and package here in the back seat as if she's crocodile that him and the driver have captured, and are carrying it to go and kill and eat.
He did not give her any single respect. He didn't treat her as his friend, babe, or even human being.
She was probably expecting some romantic music, that the boyfriend will play a special CD or mp3 on the car audio system. But who knows the Bullsh1t the driver was playing.
The boyfriend guy totally screwed up the whole situation because he's just a bush man, uncivilised.
She treated him as he deserves.

Freshprince91:




Sitting with her is not a big deal brother, its a ride, they have the entire day for themselves. Have you ever been on a date with someone that couldn't do away with her phone despite your attractiveness?
Baba, you fall my hand with this yarn wey you write so. Na una dey make all these girls feel say dem be demi-gods.
As long as you two love each other, this kind thing no suppose cause make she walk out on him. I dey very sure say the guy self go dey beg before him get the babe attention talk less of going on a date with him, that's like saying she did him a favour going out with him.

WowSweetGuy:
Please Help Me Judge. Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?!

Excuse my grammatical blunders. I just feel like sharing this experience i had with my fiancee to be....

Yesterday being sunday, I decided to fix a movie and fun outing with my girl. I ordered a taxi from my base to her base to pick her up. She came looking fine and sweet to enjoy the sunday with...To cut the long story short to the main reason i'm posting this....

I came out of the taxi from the FRONT SEAT gave her a hug and opened the back door for her then closed the door to go back to my normal position, She gave me a bad look from nowhere, i asked her what's wrong, she told me to come to the back, the driver could hear us clearly, i playfully told her baby don't worry we have all day together u are even gonna spend the night at my crib, i sat at d front and told the taxi to go to the cinema. During the trip to the cinema i had a little conversation with the taxi guy, from nowhere again my lady told the taxi guy in a rude voice 'please oga face your driving and stop shaking me driving into potholes anyhow abeg'...later on again she told the taxi man to totally put off the low radio station that was playing in the car, the last time he had a call and received it on Bluetooth o,she shouted then very rude telling the man please just drop that call. That's when i cautioned her to take it easy na.

We arrived at the cinema, she told me i should give her transport to go back home that she doesn't feel like staying out again...I tried to pet her,she just abandoned me took a taxi and went home. She has refused picking my calls since yesterday. Im busy at work weekdays,i dont really have time to go to her house.

Ladies/Gentlemen please where did i really go wrong

OmoEpe:


Why is everybody asking this foolish question? I personally view seating at the back seat of the car as not too nice to the one doing the driving, true he's working for his money but your attitude towards him speaks volume about your person.

The girl is no good, the earlier you realise that the better for you. She isn't someone worth wifing. She is an apt example of the biblical description of a contentious woman who sharing a bed with is worse than sleeping on the roof of a house instead of inside it

She is absolute bad news

ImaIma1:


So sitting in the front seat with the driver is showing solidarity or empathy? You need to sit there to show that you don't look down on him as a driver. So you mean sitting in the back seat while the driver drives says something about one's attitude. This is very funny. You need to change this mindset and let go of irrelevant sentiments.

Psoul:


Well, I will not blame you or ur opinion. You just speak according to ur level of understanding. Moreover, I beliv u are not married and don't even understand what it means to be in a serious relationship. What u understand is boyfriend/girlfriend affairs. If a any babe f*ck up, I dump her and pick another one.

Oga, when u get to that point, ur brain go reset. Just enjoy ur exploitation age.
Now, let me tell you, if you can't make ur girl feel like she is everything in the world, then u don't deserve to be in a romantic affairs.
In the same manner, if your girl fails to make u feel same, she is not ready to be in a love affairs. It is a mutual thing.

You don't enter a love affair with the mindset of, I am the man, my order must always be obeyed at all times. If you do dat, you are bound to fail in that relationship. You treat ur woman as if she is the last woman on earth. She does same to u.

That you are the one going to spend ur money on a girl does not mean that she will not have contributions to the outing. If u think her opinion does not count, why not go alone and pend ur money on urself and see if u will feel the same way u will if u had spent it with her.

So if i fall ur hands cos I said the guy did not behave well by denying his baby that little presence she requested, that means u are still doing kindergarten kind of love. U are still feeling that so long as u ar the man, you will always have ur way. Oga, they no dey carry that style go marriage ooo.

Women, love petty petty things. Only a matured man can handle them well. Wen you are able to handle them well and win their heart, (if you like call it worshiping them) forget it bro, they will in turn worship you for life.

EmptyCoconutHead:
are u supporting the girl?

ImaIma1:


So sitting in the front seat with the driver is showing solidarity or empathy? You need to sit there to show that you don't look down on him as a driver. So you mean sitting in the back seat while the driver drives says something about one's attitude. This is very funny. You need to change this mindset and let go of irrelevant sentiments.

ImaIma1:


Read my initial comments and come back and ask this question

chigoizie7:


You fucccked up nah, what do you expect her to do?

See all these people saying that she was rude. Yes, she was. But it would have been avoided too.

You made it clear that the date was for the both of you. You should have started her day great by joining her at the back seat.

See, me, when ever I am using a cab, I sit on the front , but this case is different, you should have sat with her, had some little chats with her while the driver minds his wheels. You even abandoned her to chat with the driver. Baba, you neglected her that little time she needed your attention.


Some will say that she is still a kid. But bros it takes a mature mind to date a mature lady.it is only mature people that see the needs to compromise at all times.


If you think she is a kid to act they way she did, it made the both of you kids, because you shouldn’t have acted the way you did. Relationships are not for kids bro.

phintohlar:
trust me i won't, but i expect them to have understood each other perfectly well dan dat

delishpot:
Yes you messed up by not sitting with her since you say na romantic outing. But she is also a big disaster waiting to happen. She is rude and obnoxious. Has no class basically.
Na one chance she be. Shine your eyes before you take it a step further. Make sure she has the character you can live with.

Ryan03:
like is he begging her? Seriously? Someone you ought to delete her contact instantly. Where to you find such girls sef?

WowSweetGuy:
Please Help Me Judge. Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?!

Excuse my grammatical blunders. I just feel like sharing this experience i had with my fiancee to be....

Yesterday being sunday, I decided to fix a movie and fun outing with my girl. I ordered a taxi from my base to her base to pick her up. She came looking fine and sweet to enjoy the sunday with...To cut the long story short to the main reason i'm posting this....

I came out of the taxi from the FRONT SEAT gave her a hug and opened the back door for her then closed the door to go back to my normal position, She gave me a bad look from nowhere, i asked her what's wrong, she told me to come to the back, the driver could hear us clearly, i playfully told her baby don't worry we have all day together u are even gonna spend the night at my crib, i sat at d front and told the taxi to go to the cinema. During the trip to the cinema i had a little conversation with the taxi guy, from nowhere again my lady told the taxi guy in a rude voice 'please oga face your driving and stop shaking me driving into potholes anyhow abeg'...later on again she told the taxi man to totally put off the low radio station that was playing in the car, the last time he had a call and received it on Bluetooth o,she shouted then very rude telling the man please just drop that call. That's when i cautioned her to take it easy na.

We arrived at the cinema, she told me i should give her transport to go back home that she doesn't feel like staying out again...I tried to pet her,she just abandoned me took a taxi and went home. She has refused picking my calls since yesterday. Im busy at work weekdays,i dont really have time to go to her house.

Ladies/Gentlemen please where did i really go wrong

OmoEpe:


Irrelevant sentiments you said? Even when my driver drives me I seat with him in front except am ill or need to sleep.

The true test of ones character is how he/she relates to people lower than him/her on the social ladder. This same lesson I inculcate in my children daily in order not to get caught up in situations like this.

I relate absolutely with what he did, the only difference is the character/content of the wife/fiancee of the person involved.
I for one wouldn't have married my wife if she was such a person not to relate with people working for us with empathy and care.

That's who I am and the kind of person I want my kids to grow up to be. Everyone decides their priorities by the values they hold on to, I can only speak based on the values I hold dear.

Based on my values I will advise the poster to look for someone who shares his kind of values because the girl obviously doesn't

EmptyCoconutHead:
if you're supporting the girl then all I know is that doom will befall u rude egocentric creatures one day if u don't change
mark my words

ImaIma1:


Stop being a prejudiced ignoramus and read up. Just so quick to pass judgement without thinking

EmptyCoconutHead:
if you're supporting the girl then all I know is that doom will befall u rude egocentric creatures one day if u don't change
mark my words

WowSweetGuy:
Please Help Me Judge. Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?!

Excuse my grammatical blunders. I just feel like sharing this experience i had with my fiancee to be....

Yesterday being sunday, I decided to fix a movie and fun outing with my girl. I ordered a taxi from my base to her base to pick her up. She came looking fine and sweet to enjoy the sunday with...To cut the long story short to the main reason i'm posting this....

I came out of the taxi from the FRONT SEAT gave her a hug and opened the back door for her then closed the door to go back to my normal position, She gave me a bad look from nowhere, i asked her what's wrong, she told me to come to the back, the driver could hear us clearly, i playfully told her baby don't worry we have all day together u are even gonna spend the night at my crib, i sat at d front and told the taxi to go to the cinema. During the trip to the cinema i had a little conversation with the taxi guy, from nowhere again my lady told the taxi guy in a rude voice 'please oga face your driving and stop shaking me driving into potholes anyhow abeg'...later on again she told the taxi man to totally put off the low radio station that was playing in the car, the last time he had a call and received it on Bluetooth o,she shouted then very rude telling the man please just drop that call. That's when i cautioned her to take it easy na.

We arrived at the cinema, she told me i should give her transport to go back home that she doesn't feel like staying out again...I tried to pet her,she just abandoned me took a taxi and went home. She has refused picking my calls since yesterday. Im busy at work weekdays,i dont really have time to go to her house.

Ladies/Gentlemen please where did i really go wrong

WowSweetGuy:
Please Help Me Judge. Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?!

Excuse my grammatical blunders. I just feel like sharing this experience i had with my fiancee to be....

Yesterday being sunday, I decided to fix a movie and fun outing with my girl. I ordered a taxi from my base to her base to pick her up. She came looking fine and sweet to enjoy the sunday with...To cut the long story short to the main reason i'm posting this....

I came out of the taxi from the FRONT SEAT gave her a hug and opened the back door for her then closed the door to go back to my normal position, She gave me a bad look from nowhere, i asked her what's wrong, she told me to come to the back, the driver could hear us clearly, i playfully told her baby don't worry we have all day together u are even gonna spend the night at my crib, i sat at d front and told the taxi to go to the cinema. During the trip to the cinema i had a little conversation with the taxi guy, from nowhere again my lady told the taxi guy in a rude voice 'please oga face your driving and stop shaking me driving into potholes anyhow abeg'...later on again she told the taxi man to totally put off the low radio station that was playing in the car, the last time he had a call and received it on Bluetooth o,she shouted then very rude telling the man please just drop that call. That's when i cautioned her to take it easy na.

We arrived at the cinema, she told me i should give her transport to go back home that she doesn't feel like staying out again...I tried to pet her,she just abandoned me took a taxi and went home. She has refused picking my calls since yesterday. Im busy at work weekdays,i dont really have time to go to her house.

Ladies/Gentlemen please where did i really go wrong