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Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by annford: 10:09pm On Oct 28, 2019
gabazin080:
My wife and I don't like condom and we are both very sexually active. to avoid stories that touch we did family planning but it failed in May and my twin girls are just a year old then, so we decided that we can't keep the pregnancy.

After clearing that mess she went back to the hospital to complain and was given another injection and some drugs that she should come back for the injection every 6 months.

Now she is pregnant again after just 4 months. family planning has failed again, what can we do to prevent another pregnancy because we are not going to keep this also and we planned not to have kids again till maybe after 10 years.


Please help with any local or natural method of family planning.



You both are married and young and you keep aborting your babies? It isn't like it is health-related. You asked for our advice and our advice you'd get; keep your. hands off of each other. Go celibate for ten years, get back together and then have another baby. I have an Uncle who's been married since 1998. He and his Wife have been working hard to get pregnant all to no avail and there you are with your WIFE not your girlfriend but WIFE, busy aborting pregnancies. Really, it is different strokes for different folks.

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Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by Sofistcatdmoron: 10:11pm On Oct 28, 2019
gabazin080:
My wife and I don't like condom and we are both very sexually active. to avoid stories that touch we did family planning but it failed in May and my twin girls are just a year old then, so we decided that we can't keep the pregnancy.

After clearing that mess she went back to the hospital to complain and was given another injection and some drugs that she should come back for the injection every 6 months.

Now she is pregnant again after just 4 months. family planning has failed again, what can we do to prevent another pregnancy because we are not going to keep this also and we planned not to have kids again till maybe after 10 years.


Please help with any local or natural method of family planning.
then why do keep cumming inside her ,,
withdrawal method works well, if u can control yourself
Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by farem: 10:11pm On Oct 28, 2019
gabazin080:
My wife and I don't like condom and we are both very sexually active. to avoid stories that touch we did family planning but it failed in May and my twin girls are just a year old then, so we decided that we can't keep the pregnancy.

After clearing that mess she went back to the hospital to complain and was given another injection and some drugs that she should come back for the injection every 6 months.

Now she is pregnant again after just 4 months. family planning has failed again, what can we do to prevent another pregnancy because we are not going to keep this also and we planned not to have kids again till maybe after 10 years.


Please help with any local or natural method of family planning.

You keep telling us you will not keep this one RATHER than tell us that you two have ALSO agreed to slaughter this one too. Continue, it's gonna be you alone!

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Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by Abfinest007(m): 10:11pm On Oct 28, 2019
sharp shooter I hail thee.is better she takes pills after sex since injection are not working u can even try traditional
Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by okefunsho41(m): 10:12pm On Oct 28, 2019
inbox me for natural lasting solution
Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by Skmoda360(m): 10:12pm On Oct 28, 2019
Kylekent59:
All I noted is that you both ain't matured.

So a full grown adults who are married can't control their sexual urge.

From my view, you are the problem. Who knows, you could have been the one that insisted on raw sex. When you were releasing / ejaculating inside her, you didn't know you were about to form a baby.


The deed had been done, endure it so that next time you are about to release inside her, you would remember your past mistakes.


If you are waiting for Nairalanders to advise you to abort it, you are wasting your time.
He shoulda try withdrawal method.....
Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by ninetyfive: 10:13pm On Oct 28, 2019
gabazin080:
My wife and I don't like condom and we are both very sexually active. to avoid stories that touch we did family planning but it failed in May and my twin girls are just a year old then, so we decided that we can't keep the pregnancy.

After clearing that mess she went back to the hospital to complain and was given another injection and some drugs that she should come back for the injection every 6 months.

Now she is pregnant again after just 4 months. family planning has failed again, what can we do to prevent another pregnancy because we are not going to keep this also and we planned not to have kids again till maybe after 10 years.


Please help with any local or natural method of family planning.


Inside life: Some spouse are barren for years, while some are fertile and looking for different measures not to produce many offspring. What a world!

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Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by MedicH: 10:13pm On Oct 28, 2019
Iud na the most satisfactory contraceptive technique. A bit expensive cos of it's invasive nature. Talk to ur doctor

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Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by webngnews: 10:14pm On Oct 28, 2019
Condom doesn’t fail . Don’t play yourself I have sexxz daily using condom and never get a girl pregnant

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Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by Jhayeahsam01(m): 10:15pm On Oct 28, 2019
see yourself, you think all nairalander get balanced brain.. go to the hospital bro
Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by crackhouse(m): 10:15pm On Oct 28, 2019
If your father cleared his mess then I wonder whether you will be here talking trash.

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Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by mechanics(m): 10:15pm On Oct 28, 2019
You and your wife just committed murder again, what you are doing is very wrong, to avoid pregnancy, you abstain for now.

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Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by vRendoh(m): 10:16pm On Oct 28, 2019
RedCreme21:
undecided hope it wouldnt damage her kidney?

grin grin grin grin
Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by AfroKnight: 10:16pm On Oct 28, 2019
The mess? Gosh! This is so offensive! Be sensitive na.



Back to the topic. Bro, you should have a vasectomy.

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Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by GREATESTPIANIST: 10:16pm On Oct 28, 2019
gabazin080:
My wife and I don't like condom and we are both very sexually active. to avoid stories that touch we did family planning but it failed in May and my twin girls are just a year old then, so we decided that we can't keep the pregnancy.

After clearing that mess she went back to the hospital to complain and was given another injection and some drugs that she should come back for the injection every 6 months.

Now she is pregnant again after just 4 months. family planning has failed again, what can we do to prevent another pregnancy because we are not going to keep this also and we planned not to have kids again till maybe after 10 years.


Please help with any local or natural method of family planning.
YOU AND UR WIFE ARE MURDERERS, HOW DARE U CALL AN INNOCENT LIFE A MESS......YOU ARE VERY WICKED, MAY
GOD FORGIVE U, HABA, HOW CAN PPL B DIS WICKED, AND U WANT TO KILL D ONE IN HER WOMB, MAY GOD ALMIGHTY DESTROY U BOTH IF U TRY THAT....

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Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by Nobody: 10:18pm On Oct 28, 2019
shocked

Op you and your wife cleared which mess?

You’re very stupid sha .... go for a vasectomy since you can’t stop raw sex or learn pull out method

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Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by Copa(m): 10:18pm On Oct 28, 2019
sinaj:
You can as well undergo a vasectomy coz its the safest and most reliable.
bro u are far from sense am sorry
Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by TheDoc: 10:18pm On Oct 28, 2019
I AM A MEDICAL DOCTOR (though specialising in ortho-bones not Gynea).

You know where the problem is? Where you got the contraceptives. As far as I know (remember I am not a gynaecologist) there is no injectable contraceptive that last 6 months. Max is 3 months, so the conception is not surprising.

MY ADVICE
1. SEE A GYNAECOLOGIST, preferably in a teaching hospital or a federal medical centre.
2. DON'T ABORT THAT PREGNANCY, your wife is becoming a high risk patient by so doing. That's why gynaecologists routinely ask of number of pregnancies and miscarriages. Minding you in medicine accidental and induced abortions are same i.e all carry risk.
3. NEVER BE SELFISH. in 10 years time your may have attended or close to attending menopause, so what about her?
4. NO CONTRACEPTIVE IS 100%, though some are as effective as 99%
REMEMBER, I be bone doctor not gynae.
CHEERS

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Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by Nobody: 10:19pm On Oct 28, 2019
CaptainMitch:
Cum inside and watch it flow like a boss cheesy
am telling you.. He kept cumin insyd and watch it flow out like a boss!
Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by CaptainMitch: 10:20pm On Oct 28, 2019
cheesy true
aro1:
am telling you.. He kept cumin insyd and watch it flow out like a boss!
Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by midnighter(f): 10:21pm On Oct 28, 2019
Kylekent59:
All I noted is that you both ain't matured.

So a full grown adults who are married can't control their sexual urge.

From my view, you are the problem. Who knows, you could have been the one that insisted on raw sex. When you were releasing / ejaculating inside her, you didn't know you were about to form a baby.

The deed had been done, endure it so that next time you are about to release inside her, you would remember your past mistakes.

If you are waiting for Nairalanders to advise you to abort it, you are wasting your time.

What are you saying They are married, they can have as much sex as they like and its supposed to be raw since they have already made contraceptive arrangements

How can somebody who went for family planning be immature?

You are being too judgemental, please. It would have been better if you hadnt commented at all

I dont think you even read the post

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Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by fortunechy(m): 10:22pm On Oct 28, 2019
Two major effective form of family planning are; 1.Condom
2.pull out
Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by Overself: 10:23pm On Oct 28, 2019
gabazin080:
My wife and I don't like condom and we are both very sexually active. to avoid stories that touch we did family planning but it failed in May and my twin girls are just a year old then, so we decided that we can't keep the pregnancy.

After clearing that mess she went back to the hospital to complain and was given another injection and some drugs that she should come back for the injection every 6 months.

Now she is pregnant again after just 4 months. family planning has failed again, what can we do to prevent another pregnancy because we are not going to keep this also and we planned not to have kids again till maybe after 10 years.


Please help with any local or natural method of family planning.
Me and my wife did family planning n we insisted for drugs instead of injections. When we decided to have a baby after two years,she stopped taking the drugs n she still didn't get pregnant for another 6mths. I reckon that family planning drugs are more effective than the injections.
Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by RalphJean: 10:25pm On Oct 28, 2019
OP:
You are a very SELFISH Man.

You killed baby(ies) beginning of the year.
You want to kill another one(s).

You want ‘solution’ yet you keep saying family planning failed your wife.

It has failed twice on your wife, it’s now time for you to have your vas deferens cut or tied up.

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Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by Howellz(m): 10:25pm On Oct 28, 2019
My wife has an implant in her left hand, so far so good it hasn't failed us with all the SERIOUS
RAW NAKING. since February 2018 and im still NAKING

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Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by AgentMiah: 10:27pm On Oct 28, 2019
gabazin080:
My wife and I don't like condom and we are both very sexually active. to avoid stories that touch we did family planning but it failed in May and my twin girls are just a year old then, so we decided that we can't keep the pregnancy.

After clearing that mess she went back to the hospital to complain and was given another injection and some drugs that she should come back for the injection every 6 months.

Now she is pregnant again after just 4 months. family planning has failed again, what can we do to prevent another pregnancy because we are not going to keep this also and we planned not to have kids again till maybe after 10 years.


Please help with any local or natural method of family planning.

Abortion is murder in the sight of the creator.
Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by valentineuwakwe(m): 10:28pm On Oct 28, 2019
Oh a n.a. your fault..you too like sex...go strike small
Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by Nobody: 10:32pm On Oct 28, 2019
[s]
Righteousness89:


@ Bolden..

You Conciously Commit Murder and u have a dead Conscience. You say it like it's Nothing...

I Pray For you, may GOD have Mercy on you and your wife ! Be the cry of those innocent kids you murder can make GOD to deal with you guys..

It's sooo unfortunate that Human Heart has been Seared to do Wickedness with no feelings..

May GOD Have Mercy on the Wicked inhabitants of this Wicked World!

Lastly ,let Me Warn you and Your wife..

I Speak as a man with the Spirit of GOD!

If you guys try to take off this baby again.... You guys will pay the Price.. if u doubt me, go ahead....


If you don't know what to do with babies then you use a Protection before having sex or you give the babies to those that need them..

[/s] Please shut up abeg. What nonsense. Since when did you become God's P.A? Issuing warnings? It's fake criminally minded pastors scammers like you that give Christianity bad names. Rubbish.

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Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by BrilliantF: 10:34pm On Oct 28, 2019
So you and your wife prefer aborting incase of pregnancy to using condom. Are you thinking of the health implications at all?

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Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by nappy760(m): 10:35pm On Oct 28, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Withdrawal method plus you guys should calculate her safe and unsafe period.

undecided I doubt this op would be willing to withdraw when it is time to ejaculate...He 'd rather die than withdraw grin grin grin grin

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Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by babtoundey(m): 10:35pm On Oct 28, 2019
I think it is time our law take drastic steps towards aborting whoever aborts pregnancy willingly for whatever reason. What nonsense, he was even hammering on we "are going to get rid of this too" as if he was expecting to win some medals or reward for doing so.

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Re: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by Arthurhills: 10:36pm On Oct 28, 2019
Hmmmm you are just committing murder may God have mercy on you.

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