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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Pchidexy(m): 7:30am On Oct 31, 2019
bdchange:

Must you call her a fool to prove your points? Just dish out your own opinion and move on..is that too hard to do..haba
She threw the first shot.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Pchidexy(m): 7:35am On Oct 31, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Form boss? Are u sure u even okay upstairs? Is that what u could deduce from my post? Abeg some get it twisted biko
Nne, ihe jiri gwa gi okwu bu maka na I bu onye Igbo. You can't be Igbo and be making divisive remarks! You can't have the same stereotypes as your parents did in this modern time. Talking down on others to make yourself feel good isn't fashionable. Ka anyi kwanyere onwe anyi ugwu!

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by ken6488(m): 7:40am On Oct 31, 2019
Gforce2015:



See this mofo... You dey cover the shame of your people... If I wan marry 50 Fulani ladies for kebbi, kaduna , Abuja etc I go marry... Most of your FOOLani ladies no get level..... They are the easiest to marry among any tribe in Nigeria....

One of the northern governor recently did mass wedding... Nah only FOOLani land Dem dey do mass wedding.... You come here come dey form too-difficult-to-get...

Leave that one alone..

Though Fulani bae can be crazy in bed.




But go north for a wife no no
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Zinny25(f): 7:50am On Oct 31, 2019
what an interesting thread.

just here to read comments

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Nobody: 7:54am On Oct 31, 2019
Pchidexy:
Nne, ihe jiri gwa gi okwu bu maka na I bu onye Igbo. You can't be Igbo and be making divisive remarks! You can't have the same stereotypes as your parents did in this modern time. Talking down on others to make yourself feel good isn't fashionable. Ka anyi kwanyere onwe anyi ugwu!
Odinma. Anugom.

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Nobody: 7:54am On Oct 31, 2019
bdchange:

Both of you can still share different opinion without insult. I find it disturbing when two mature people can't discuss in peace..
Thx
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Rukkydelta(f): 8:00am On Oct 31, 2019
Igbo
Mum says they marry women from other tribes, use them from money ritual and later marry their own tribe and this I can attest to (cos I have seen two occasions like that and heard stories). My mum's friend was used for money ritual by an anambra man after that incident made my mum to say NO NO to any Igbo man. She said her sons can marry an Igbo girl sha but not someone from Imo state but her daughters it's a no kiss
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by djoe21(m): 8:12am On Oct 31, 2019
Sirvingeo:

You are very correct . I am from Imo state but I will never marry a lady from my state. Imo ladies have made themselves fit only to cure sexual urge. My Mom is from Anambra and she is a typical representative of a virtuous woman. Enugu state is a good state to marry too.

Your mom is the virtuous woman while mothers and women from Imo State are promiscuous. How fitting. You try well well. Continue. undecided

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by djoe21(m): 8:15am On Oct 31, 2019
lyndaway:
I can marry from where ever my parents don't have problems with that there major concern is my happiness

Hmmm
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by chinchonglee(m): 8:15am On Oct 31, 2019
nairalandposter:




All this because someone on the thread is underage?

So if I hadn't enquired further after noticing he called himself a boy and mentioned mum and allow in the same sentence, you wouldn't be implying this crap?

You're evil, change your ways.
Who is dis??

U smoke weed?
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by djoe21(m): 8:18am On Oct 31, 2019
vicben27:
l can't imagine my self marrying from any other tribe. my mom and dad never had any serious marital issues in good times and in bad times. they are both from the same tribe, that is the secret to happiness and peace of mind if both parties are understanding. Soo l can only marry from my tribe, l'm currently engaged we are both from the same Village God will always give us our heart desires if be seek Him diligently

If I understand you correctly, you are saying the secret to a successful marriage is marrying from the same tribe?

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by djoe21(m): 8:20am On Oct 31, 2019
BiggyB242:


You have more of landladies than landlords in Edo State, the women always want to be in control. Their husband usually die early from what I noticed.

cheesy cheesy could be coincidence though.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by OGwales: 8:23am On Oct 31, 2019
Dating/marrying igbo was my mum nightmare... And now, I see the truth in her voice after two trials.

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by vicben27(m): 8:38am On Oct 31, 2019
djoe21:


If I understand you correctly, you are saying the secret to a successful marriage is marrying from the same tribe?
to some extent, l have observed from many over the years, intra tribal marriage are more successful, the level of synergy is second to none, ur wife is more like a sister, ur kids are at advantage because they will hear and speak ur native language, is a form of cultural preservation. l will not have kids that are lost and confused lol, that's my own point of view Sha. why will l marry a woman only to come and be speaking English with her? English is for white man a borrowed culture
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by djoe21(m): 8:41am On Oct 31, 2019
vicben27:
to some extent, l have observed from many over the years, intra tribal marriage are more successful, the level of synergy is second to none, ur wife is more like a sister, ur kids are at advantage because they will hear and speak ur native language, is a form of cultural preservation. l will not have kids that are lost and confused lol, that's my own point of view Sha. my will l marry a woman only to come and be speaking English with her? English is for white man a borrowed culture

You have said it all, it's your point of view. I can't argue with you on that.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by djoe21(m): 8:43am On Oct 31, 2019
midnighter:


Tribe has an impact on behaviour, to be honest

What somebody's culture teaches them to do has an impact on their behaviour but its just that there are other factors like education, environment, religion, individual personality, parentage, upbringing, financial status etc that offset the impact of cultural background

There must be some basis for stereotypes even if we dont really like them. To an extent its good to discuss them so we can see how others regard us

Its a good intention but its naive and somewhat disingenuous to say that it doesnt matter where somebody comes from, because we all know that it does

Very true.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Nobody: 8:44am On Oct 31, 2019
Please what do you people know about Ondo girls? I heard they are sex freaks and very wicked and stubborn? Is this true? Please I need answers.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by djoe21(m): 8:51am On Oct 31, 2019
bdchange:
I have read all the comments from first page to this one here and all I see is my parents say this and that. This is modern age and so many things has change yet some people still take it upon themselves to still leave in the past. How can your parents decide who a grown up woman or man should marry? All tribes have wicked people for sure and no tribe is excluded from bad behaviours. Your experienced with people you meet should determine who you marry not your parents or someone else. That person who is good to your parent is worst to another person in the same clan and conditions. What is racism if not what I just read all through these comments. Hmmmm

Bro you are right. There was a particular comment that made me speechless based on its level of 'my parents....' But then, it could just be an indicator of the age of the commenters on this topic.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Kapilta(m): 9:01am On Oct 31, 2019
Rukkydelta:
Igbo
Mum says they marry women from other tribes, use them from money ritual and later marry their own tribe and this I can attest to (cos I have seen two occasions like that and heard stories). My mum's friend was used for money ritual by an anambra man after that incident made my mum to say NO NO to any Igbo man. She said her sons can marry an Igbo girl sha but not someone from Imo state but her daughters it's a no kiss
where you from?
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Kapilta(m): 9:05am On Oct 31, 2019
condemn:
Please what do you people know about Ondo girls? I heard they are sex freaks and very wicked and stubborn? Is this true? Please I need answers.
which of the ondo? The city or the state in general?
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Fountainofyouth(f): 9:08am On Oct 31, 2019
nisai:
Haba grin grin grin grin Ogun state and Yoruba!



Yes, and I am Yoruba, before you think I'm a hater, I have so many examples around me that's why I agreed to what she said.

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Nobody: 9:26am On Oct 31, 2019
Kapilta:
which of the ondo? The city or the state in general?

Akure
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by nlPoster: 9:43am On Oct 31, 2019
condemn:
Please what do you people know about Ondo girls? I heard they are sex freaks and very wicked and stubborn? Is this true?

Yes.

Stay away from them. That's how one idiot claimed women from Ondo state were filling brothels somewhere in the east?

What the heck?

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Rukkydelta(f): 10:03am On Oct 31, 2019
Kapilta:
where you from?
Delta state.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Okiksjay: 11:11am On Oct 31, 2019
Rukkydelta:
Delta state.
You're an Urhobo.....Your name is Rukevwe....Lol
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Rukkydelta(f): 11:24am On Oct 31, 2019
Okiksjay:

You're an Urhobo.....Your name is Rukevwe....Lol
Yeah that's right kiss
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Kapilta(m): 11:27am On Oct 31, 2019
nairalandposter:


Yes.

Stay away from them. That's how one idiot claimed women from Ondo state were filling brothels somewhere in the east?

What the heck?
did you just say yes to his question that 'Ondo girls are wicked and stubborn? Very funny. Stubborness is in our blood generally both male and woman buh wickedness, that's totally not true.

The only thing is ondo girls dont have problem changing husbands, they can remarry till they find the right place which is not bad. When you don't treat them right, don't even think they will stay a seconds in your home. They don't do this i'm doing it for my children tinging. Not at all. You treat them bad, they move back to their fathers house, they find love and marry again, if same happen, they return to their fathers house. That's just the thing. And to me that's not bad, they need to stay alive to take care of their children.

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Kapilta(m): 11:28am On Oct 31, 2019
Rukkydelta:

Delta state.
lemme see your pinshure. I'm searching for a delta woman to marry.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Kapilta(m): 11:31am On Oct 31, 2019
condemn:


Akure
The only thing is ondo girls dont have problem changing husbands, they can remarry till they find the right place which is not bad. When you don't treat them right, don't even think they will stay a seconds in your home. They don't do this i'm doing it for my children tinging. Not at all. You treat them bad, they move back to their fathers house, they find love and marry again, if same happen, they return to their fathers house. That's just the thing. And to me that's not bad, they need to stay alive to take care of their children. The thing is more common with Akure/Ondo/Ile-Oluji girls.

Sex freak? Heard it from people countless times buh i'm sorry, don't know anything about that. Never been with one before, so i woudn't know.

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by ken6488(m): 12:34pm On Oct 31, 2019
Kapilta:
lemme see your pinshure. I'm searching for a delta woman to marry.

Where are you from
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Kapilta(m): 12:42pm On Oct 31, 2019
ken6488:

Where are you from
why? You no dey see my siggy?
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by ken6488(m): 12:54pm On Oct 31, 2019
Kapilta:
why? You no dey see my siggy?
OK probably ogun

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