Martinez39:
The fact that people have a way of running their emotions is not a licence to be a fool.

pansophist:


Some years ago, the romance section of nairaland was littered with misandrist forming woke and enlightened, regurgitating feministic psychobabbles, and there was few red pill apostles to counter them. Meanwhile, lots of the apostles were underdogs breeding themselves into metamorphosis. Right now, romance section has been cleansed or at least, their points countered.

Ubunja was the spearhead that turned things around hence, the constant glorification by the mention of his name.

Fountainofyouth:



That is becos we are not like most of y'all males that don't respect people's wishes, we are sensible like that, unlike you males that jump about yapping dust and bile in a female only thread.

alexmakaay:


Young man, first of all.. you are afraid of the truth. unfortunately, it is the women bashers, clueless men and men that has never being in love will tell you the truth..only if you are wise.

secondly, you contradicted yourself or rather compromised your very self when you wrote
"To be better than you ever was".. my friend, what the hell do you want to better here?? you see some anomalies that is unhealthy for your relationship, you pointed it out, she fled..so be it!! for truth sake, I bet you don't wanna spend the rest of your life with a woman that can't appreciate your sincerity or truth.. I don't wanna say you are confused but this attitude of hers is a clear indication that she is not a wife material.

okoroemeka:
in situations like this you have to understand that you cannot have everything you desire in this world,pick yourself up and move on,no matter you said she's 99% of what you need,you will still meet another that will give you 99.1% love so don't despair,it is simply obvious that the girl didn't have strong feelings for you because if she did she will not leave you because of a shouted word in anger or a few criticism,I know a friend of mine that impregnated his wife's junior sister,the wife threatened fire and brimstone but did not leave her matrimonial home the sister later got married and my friend is living happliy ever after with his wife and the pretty child is been raised by the mother in law,how many women do you think that can tolerate such and still live happily ever after with their husbands?

realest2:
NO WOMAN OR LADY IS TOO SPECIAL TO BE REPLACED, except your family members of course

swaggzo:


Na wah for you. I only came here to see if there are people who have experienced such.. And to learn how they outgrew that phase.

Guy I no go lie. I cried no be small. With catarrh running down my face.
My mates are committing suicide because of this same situation. How am I worse?

I'm not you. I'm in for the red pills, but when I find a nice human I tend to be affectionate towards them. I won't stop falling in love mate.
The only thing is that I understand to fall in love with wisdom instead of play the fool.

Thanks for your additions.

Mobree:
And if all men take the "red pill" and all women become "feminists", what would Love look like? What would marriages be like?

Going through this thread made me sad. Looks like there's no longer "Selfless" in Love. Everyone is calculative, trying to know and counter his/her partner's next move. To those who do it, is there peace in it for you? I'm just wondering sha o. Looks like we all are always on our toes with this love thing. I'm not sure that's what it was meant to be like.

Anyway, OP, like I do say, Ticket wey go cut go cut...E no geh watin you wan do. I wish you all the best!


P.S: I'm a lady...Sue me!

Goalnaldo:
exactly!! Nobody is telling you not to fail in love. Just don't beg if she decides to leave!

cooooooks:
This idea that e don be if somebody leaves you needs to be shut down for good.

9jamyHome:
OP, you just displayed a bad attitude and it's a disgrace to the community of real men. Never beg to be loved! making people feel indispensable and is tantamount to mental slavery and you castigating your fellow guys just to look good in the faces of women is WRONG.

However, you just have to let go. You can't force people to stay with you....if they are not destined to be with you, they can never stay...so, you need to let go. It doesn't make her a bad person but it just mean that her part in your story is over. You have to let go so that you won't keep waking a dead dog; you need to know when it's dead.

pansophist:


Some years ago, the romance section of nairaland was littered with misandrist forming woke and enlightened, regurgitating feministic psychobabbles, and there was few red pill apostles to counter them. Meanwhile, lots of the apostles were underdogs breeding themselves into metamorphosis. Right now, romance section has been cleansed or at least, their points countered.

Ubunja was the spearhead that turned things around hence, the constant glorification by the mention of his name.

ubunja:

Posting by Friday:

1Pleasures Of The Cash [book excerpt]
2The Female Source Code
3Chosen
4No Green Lights No Approach.
5All The Sex In The World.
6On Shît Testing.

ubunja:

Ekemeze:
Even before Ubunja's MISEDUCATION. My male's ego would never allow me beg a lady.
I always feel so disguted seeing a guy beg a lady.
THE DAY U BEG A LADY FOR LOVE, YOU HAVE LOST YOUR BALLS AS A MAN.
Even women themselves hate men that beg. go and Research on that.

ubunja:
even God Himself hates people who beg.

ubunja:



Posting by Friday:

1Pleasures Of The Cash [book excerpt]
2The Female Source Code
3Chosen
4No Green Lights No Approach.
5All The Sex In The World.
6On Shît Testing.

daharry:

And i don't think we have to beg for the miseds

swaggzo:


Na wah for you. I only came here to see if there are people who have experienced such.. And to learn how they outgrew that phase.

Guy I no go lie. I cried no be small. With catarrh running down my face.
My mates are committing suicide because of this same situation. How am I worse?

I'm not you. I'm in for the red pills, but when I find a nice human I tend to be affectionate towards them. I won't stop falling in love mate.
The only thing is that I understand to fall in love with wisdom instead of play the fool.

Thanks for your additions.

ubunja:
no one is asking you to. If it's taking too long then the internet is your friend. Don't you guys always say I copy stuff from the internet anyways? Go get it from there then.

daharry:

Those whose accused you of copying and pasting should have provided evidence,i never did. When would the blog be launched?
Your write up needs to have its own space.

ubunja:
the space is there and I will introduce it soonest.

You could have asked me what was delaying. Instead of that line about me needing to be begged. That was very entitled of you.

Martinez39:
Well spoken. Don't mind him. Just like a weak child, swaggzo wants sweet illusions instead of reality. Whether you like it or not, no woman can love you except what you can provide and how you make her feel (the is very secondary as what you can provide is her top priority). To a woman, a man is always a utility. Once that utility cannot perform it's duties anymore (provide), it is no longer welcomed or loved. A woman will always end up with the highest bidder she can lay her hands on. I say this not because a woman hurt me or because I learnt the hard way but because this is the reality of things and I accept reality whether it turns out to be what I like or not. In fact, I have never had a girlfriend in my life or spent money on a girl since I consider romantic relationships to be overhyped and a pure waste of time and resources.

All women are like that. Even the one that you think is good, churchy, and descent is like that. Just like true friendship, romantic love doesn't exist instead it exists only in the heads of men. Women are brutal survivalists and no matter how much you sacrificed for her, she will dump you cold without remorse when you can't provide and she has found someone else that can. Even if you donated a kidney or lost an arm to save her life in the past, you get the same thing. If she is married to you with children, have lost her sexual market value, and can't find a higher bidder, you get to face her disrespect, loathing, irritability (she gets upset and mad at you at any little thing) and nagging. It's worse when she making massive money and you are broke.

For many men, they will never learn early and in the easy way. They will wait until they learn the hard way after investing so much and close to drinking sniper. Good day.

Omar09, healthserve, CAPSLOCKED, Ubunja, astroG

Ekakamba:
Whether you're saying the right thing or not, I just forking love one thing about you. Your bluntness!

swaggzo:
Elder0001, Martinez39, tintingz, seun
Jeff1607, lordreed, just4fun, rottennaija, banjicom, Michellekabod2, Joseph1013,
Tillaman, JONNYSPUTE, 1Sharon, astrog

After this thread was made she came around again and it felt like everything was on it's way to be alright, in the last 4 days.

However, yesterday, she has gone back to the old things again, trying to say it won't work and we can't be and stuff. Her excuses are the old things from months back which are even insignificant. She says she's scared and "there's no love for me in her".

There's no love for me but you started to text and call last Sunday.. After I had moved on pretty well, and we've hung out pretty much since then.
What is wrong with this person? I'm in a maze right here.

Then right now, I get a good morning text from her. I'm a soccer game now.