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Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by makydebbie(f): 2:14pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
lefulefu: Long time dear. 1 Like |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by shadeyinka(m): 2:14pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
LolaO:Five years is too long. What were you doing? Have you done your introduction ceremony? When did you plan your engagement for? Are you still doing boyfriend-girlfriend or fiance-fiancee relationship? |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 2:21pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
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Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Saintmary(f): 2:24pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
LolaO:What were you doing for your own personal future during your relationship, if you were not doing much, you will hurt badly when it ends, its looking like that already. Solution: 1. Grieve, go through your withdrawal symptoms, anger, etc 2. Pick yourself up, start doing things for yourself, no matter how small, take your eyes off boys and men 3. Make yourself a woman of value, Nigeria is running at a deficit of talents because women are wasting their God given gifts while chasing men and marriage all over the place. Please help us bridge the gap in your own small way 4. Let this be your focus from now on: Making God proud, making your parents proud (they did not send you to school so you can waste it all in a man's kitchen), making you proud to be a valuable person Have a lovely day 3 Likes |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 2:26pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Guest007:ogini? hairy wetin? ![]()
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Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by makydebbie(f): 2:29pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
lefulefu: I'm good oo, you? |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 2:31pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
makydebbie:sure i can see u good cos u really look good on ur display pix ![]() ![]() |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by shineeye1: 2:33pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
LolaO: He endured the relationship for five years! His job outside your town may have been self designed. It was probably an escape route ! You may be guilty of nothing before him. He may even still love you beyond your imagination. He may have realized that there is just no hope of future happiness for you or himself or both of you if you continue together because of an unresolvable issue. |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by chyammy(f): 2:53pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Op I feel your pain I had once been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years ,we were both discussing the future and all of a sudden he stopped communicating Always withdrawn and never told me what the problem was....then one December I called him that I was coming to see him at his sisters place where we usually see if I couldn't get to him in ph where he reside and he said no, It dawned on me that this guy was no more interested.....I felt hurt but I had to move on, though moving on wasn't easy because I kept asking myself what I did wrong. I even called him after some months to ask what I did and he told me it was not me at all that it was him and I should put the blame on him....didn't know what that meant but I had to move on After few years we were both married with kids and I ran into him in Lagos at a mall...he then told me why it didn't work out was that the parents wanted him to marry from his place (ngwa) and not from mine (nnewi) and he didn't know how to relate that with me .....hence his withdrawal from me In a nutshell u need to see him to enable you get closure ...my thoughts though 3 Likes |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by farady(m): 3:21pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
chyammy: Is there really any need for OP to see him for possible explanations? The OP has tried to reach out to him but the guy seems to be incommunicado. It's best she forgets him fast. Time is a healer. Maybe by chance they could run into each other just like in your case and all the unanswered questions would be cleared. 4 Likes |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Rozan10: 3:25pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
LolaO: Missy, I'll say my bit and I hope you read this. It will hurt, it's supposed to hurt. Finding out who is at fault for the abrupt end of the relationship is another waste of time. Just Learn what you need to learn from the ended relationship and move on. Also if you dwell on any of the trash these microdick incels on the previous pages have posted you are on your own. 5 Likes |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by chukel(m): 4:27pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Asaba babes have done it. Generally delta babes are too pretty |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Supergirl19: 4:54pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Take heart babe,I know it hurts but time heals all wounds. You'll get the right man LolaO: 2 Likes |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by alphaNomega: 5:20pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
LolaO: This one touch me, it's still a one-sided story so I will not comment further. |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by jogsman01(m): 5:29pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
LolaO:At this point, take a decision and stand by it. The Lord is your strength |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by tiffanyfan(f): 5:56pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
boiz2men: Can you hold a grudge of 5yrs against a lady and still be her boyfriend ?...aiye ma le o |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 6:08pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
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Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by bekinyaro: 6:10pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Go and pay him. Visit. Everything would be clear...... LolaO: |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by dview001(m): 6:15pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
LolaO: Stupid bitch, no man will just leave his girlfriend of five years...my guy don discover say you be coded runs girl. |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Mairice125: 6:15pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Vibes Cartel �� Offpoint: |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by keloskid: 6:27pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
I am cutie and a lovely guy Lola my advice to u is for you to try something new and stop worrying urself abt nothing. [color=#000099][/color] |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Memyselfu2009(m): 6:53pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
I perfectly understand how you are feeling somethings most guys are sick in the head. The fact is if you are in a relationship for one year going to two and the person is not talking about seeing each other parents or settlement down or having plans for you Boths it’s best you leave. I know you are hurt right now please go out spend time with family and friends your heart would heal that I assure you. Say safe and be happy 1 Like |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by virago(f): 7:12pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Ab025: It's what guys like to do , once there's an issue of distance or a break in communication they usually just fizzle out of the relationship. I can totally relate with her , there's no fvck up from her , all the blame belongs to him |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by aquadude15: 9:07pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
LolaO:not the end of life. maybe he did it because of me. removing L from your name in my name. nice meeting you |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by DonroxyII: 9:12pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Na for girls to travel with their boo to Asaba ooo ... Asaba girls dey snatch husband and bf now oo !!! |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by boiz2men(m): 9:16pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
LolaO: ![]() Hope you didn't lie... That thing dey pain. It will make a guy feel like a fool.. Lie and cheating with a known or mutual friend are unforgivable sins in a relationship. Anybody can forgive cheating.. But you see that lie... E too dey pain |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by boiz2men(m): 9:18pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
tiffanyfan: Resentment is different from grudge 1 Like |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by hkidola00(m): 9:19pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
LolaO:shutup |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by DonroxyII: 9:19pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Mcslize:]This is not always right .... some relationship are a failure ab initio no matter what either partner do !! Ednut has said it all .... some person just wait for the right time to dump the partner...... Deep down we all know what we are doing !! ..... The other party might have fall in love deep enough not to see the hands while you see your partner as destination, he/she sees you as a Journey ..... Always watch out for the inequality...... Don't be surprised..... Love but don't fall in love !! Always Stand in Love ![]() |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 9:25pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
makydebbie:odor e be like u carri o |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by hkidola00(m): 9:57pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Guest007:u words reeks of prostitute |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 10:01pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
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