Any man can cheat for any reason – you can even find those who do it just for fun; but for most men; cheating on their spouse is a game – a game of wits, smartness and a tussle of freedom…then you have those that are just being stupid! Now gals, you are most-def going to learn the how from this piece – it is not every day you get to read stuffs like this from a former chronic cheat, who at a point was a spouse to a devoted woman and yet had dozens of women to make out with!

This piece is more like a testimony than it is a self-help article but by the time you are through with it, you must have learnt some of the world’s most guided secrets of proactive seduction and vengeful persuasion. Now you don’t have to believe any of my recommendations; just try them out, after all: if they fail, your guy still remains a cheat (no offense intended) – at least you got a chance.

But let me warn you and probably help you with a resolution I stumbled upon on the internet: “the truth is that there is really nothing you can do to stop your man from cheating. No matter how much you fret or check up on him, if a man wants to cheat, he will”. Now I guess you are wondering, ‘so, why the title; a hype?’ Not really; what most women do is to tell (and they usually have so many ways of doing this) their men to stop cheating on them. This hardly helps matters for these guys just go on and do the opposite! So the tips in this article are a little out of the ordinary but they worked against me; not only am I now devoted to my woman, I’m working towards helping women like you curb guys like the former me.

The first thing you need to do is: let your man know you are aware he is cheating on you; and that you can’t waste a puff for that. The urge to cheat is promoted by deception and the desire to deceive; when he knows you know and don’t mind, he can only last a while as a cheat. Especially when he can’t figure out what is cooking up in your mind. Some guys, at this point, will start thinking you are even into the game with them and the fear of the unknown will eventually freak them out and into paying more attention to; and guide you more closely. But hey, you need to see the red button on this: If he thinks rather that you are just being weak or scared of opposing him; then you have yourself a situation. You must convince him you don’t really care; both for what he is doing and for what he thinks about your indifference.

The next tip is a little bit weird. I say: if you know his fields, go there and plant mines that will discourage his team mates from running around with him. For instance; if he sleeps around with women at his place of work; plant a rumour in his block that he is HIV positive or has some very scary STDs. Make sure he can’t trace this rumour to you, then sit back and watch; in fact people around will start pitying you and his mates will fly for their lives. You can also get contract seductress to lure him, and scare the hell out of his life. She can blackmail him against someone he fears, or another who respects him or even an institution he might be scared to show that aspect of his life to. When all this gets on his nerves he will run to you and hold on; as you are supposedly the only woman who can protect him. Be glad to welcome him like a prodigal son!

Now you know he is a cheat; the next thing is for you to find out why he is cheating on you. Are you denying him something; or is he just insatiable? Are his friends responsible for this? Could you tell if he had always been like that – may be you knew but decided to manage him, hoping you will change him? Is he trying to get your attention; or is he drowning in the much you are providing? Or worst still is he just a perpetual cheat…an uncommitted brute? Whatever; when you find out why, stop everything you are doing that had encouraged or is encouraging his habit.

To be continued on www.lovebirdsguide..com

Brightmind:


Any man can cheat for any reason – you can even find those who do it just for fun; but for most men; cheating on their spouse is a game – a game of wits, smartness and a tussle of freedom…then you have those that are just being silly! Now gals, you are most-def going to learn the how from this piece – it is not every day you get to read stuffs like this from a former chronic cheat, who at a point was a spouse to a devoted woman and yet had dozens of women to make out with!

This piece is more like a testimony than it is a self-help article but by the time you are through with it, you must have learnt some of the world’s most guided secrets of proactive seduction and vengeful persuasion. Now you don’t have to believe any of my recommendations; just try them out, after all: if they fail, your guy still remains a cheat (no offense intended) – at least you got a chance.

But let me warn you and probably help you with a resolution I stumbled upon on the internet: “the truth is that there is really nothing you can do to stop your man from cheating. No matter how much you fret or check up on him, if a man wants to cheat, he will”. Now I guess you are wondering, ‘so, why the title; a hype?’ Not really; what most women do is to tell (and they usually have so many ways of doing this) their men to stop cheating on them. This hardly helps matters for these guys just go on and do the opposite! So the tips in this article are a little out of the ordinary but they worked against me; not only am I now devoted to my woman, I’m working towards helping women like you curb guys like the former me.

The first thing you need to do is: let your man know you are aware he is cheating on you; and that you can’t waste a puff for that. The urge to cheat is promoted by deception and the desire to deceive; when he knows you know and don’t mind, he can only last a while as a cheat.  Especially when he can’t figure out what is cooking up in your mind. Some guys, at this point, will start thinking you are even into the game with them and the fear of the unknown will eventually freak them out and into paying more attention to; and guide you more closely. But hey, you need to see the red button on this: If he thinks rather that you are just being weak or scared of opposing him; then you have yourself a situation. You must convince him you don’t really care; both for what he is doing and for what he thinks about your indifference.

The next tip is a little bit weird. I say: if you know his fields, go there and plant mines that will discourage his team mates from running around with him. For instance; if he sleeps around with women at his place of work; plant a rumour in his block that he is HIV positive or has some very scary STDs. Make sure he can’t trace this rumour to you, then sit back and watch; in fact people around will start pitying you and his mates will fly for their lives. You can also get contract seductress to lure him, and scare the hell out of his life. She can blackmail him against someone he fears, or another who respects him or even an institution he might be scared to show that aspect of his life to. When all this gets on his nerves he will run to you and hold on; as you are supposedly the only woman who can protect him. Be glad to welcome him like a prodigal son!

Now you know he is a cheat; the next thing is for you to find out why he is cheating on you. Are you denying him something; or is he just insatiable? Are his friends responsible for this? Could you tell if he had always been like that – may be you knew but decided to manage him, hoping you will change him? Is he trying to get your attention; or is he drowning in the much you are providing? Or worst still is he just a perpetual cheat…an uncommitted brute? Whatever; when you find out why, stop everything you are doing that had encouraged or is encouraging his habit.

To be continued on www.lovebirdsguide..com

Long tori, this na simple matter of "do me i do you", God no dey vex

@Busy Body, them u dont have to worry about a cheating dude! Good for you, trust me.

Just get him to wear one of this of cos, the key remains with you. . .see, all your problem solved with a lock and key

This topic should be renamed how to get a divorce cos if my wife tries that rubbish of spreading rumour, or hiring someone to blackmail me and i find out which i surely will. She is finished.
The suggestions in this topic can most times lead to an endless cycle. Wife spreads rumour hr has aids. Man spreads rumour she has gonorhea or better still aids as well

Story

@Gbomo, that's just wierd.
@Wacky, that's if you ever discover, if she is gud it will work naturally. Think about it: a cheating spouse can invite the virus into the home. Is it not better to be thought to have it when you dont have the HIV than to actually have it?

Ah, but is it not the stigma of having HIV that makes people hide it and contributes about 40percent to the fear of HIV

Jomo-gbomo:

Just get him to wear one of this of cos, the key remains with you. . .see, all your problem solved with a lock and key

Any man that can be persuaded to wear that stuff shouldn't be called a man.

@Topic
will this work with Nigerian guys?

Abeg OP- u made sum sense esp wit d mindgames-kip d cheat guessin

Jomo-gbomo:

Just get him to wear one of this of cos, the key remains with you. . .see, all your problem solved with a lock and key

Exactly, what a good idea. , Lock it and keep the key to yourself and whenever your ready to access it, open it, SIMPLES!!

^^^ Men are in trouble, women have started getting ideas

^^it's good that i'm reading this. So i'll know when she's trying to be funny.

@WackyJ1, I have written to help the ladies deal with a cheating mate not to curb or fight the spread of HIV – I have a project for that. Besides, that was just an instance; there are other weird mines she can plant in her husband’s field.

@My Kali, Nigerian guys and men are humans with emotions (Fear, Shame, Anger, Love etc); it all depends on how you apply my recommendations. The idea is to pull off the rug from his foot and give him a shoulder to hold back on. About knowing when she starts acting funny…it wouldn’t even cross your mind. Instead you will think nemesis has caught up on you or that your sins are being revisited. Trust me

@Wackyj1 whats da big deal abt divorce, u think its easy stayin forever with one man? Comot jor with ur silly treats! Who u be wey ur wife go finish, she go even happy sey she get oppurtunity to try another di!ick without guilt!!

@busy_body something wey dey untop ur head u come quote. Ena sabi abuse NL quote no be small oh!!

@poster the option of spreading HIV rumour is very wrong & wicked "u don't use evil to conquer evil"

@poster the option of spreading HIV rumour is very wrong & wicked "u don't use evil to conquer evil"

why stress your self spreading lies and baseless rumors?


whats that thingy up dia? a cork meter?

Chastity belt for a man??

ahahahahahahahahahah

lolololololololo

What in God's name?  I thought I knew everything

What man will strap this on?  TELL ME

hahahahahahahahahahaha

My baby better NEVER EVER put that contraption on himself - EVER!!!!! God is my man's chastity belt - he doesn't cheat.

hahahahahahahahahaha - Man you are too much, just too much for me today!! hahahahahah - lolololololololo - oh my side - it hurts me,

Jomo-gbomo:

Just get him to wear one of this  of cos, the key remains with you. . .see, all your problem solved with a lock and key

lovemoi2:

@Wackyj1 whats da big deal abt divorce, u think its easy stayin forever with one man? Comot jor with your silly treats! Who u be wey your wife go finish, she go even happy sey she get oppurtunity to try another di!ick without guilt!!

@busy_body something wey dey untop your head u come quote. Ena sabi abuse NL quote no be small oh!!

save dis page, because u will try as many di!ick as possible o. say amen 2 dat.NONSENSE

busy body na god go bless that ur hand wey u take type that thing wey u type

if i put this kind effort into running a business or into my work am sure i wld be smiling all the way to the bank

cheat if u like ---no be ur PENIS----but if i catch u and ur bloody bulucus---then it is on baby boy
who has time to be spreading rumours that he has an std---so that people wld start to look me with corner eye----i call that cutting ur leg to spite ur toe

as for the first one---like u said , it cld be interpreted as weaknes----simple just tell am do me i do u---or simply--if i catch u---the last thing u will hear is that door being slamed in ur face

^^^^ Them dey fit catch breeze? Some guys sef its when they cheat seriously that their women love them more, cos they show their partners more luv(out of guilty conscience)

Story.

Smh @ plant mine such as HIV STD rumour.

My husband has been cheating for long and he still is, should I let him have sex with me even when I know he's cheating or what should I do cos u said d wife shouldn't complain

Pls should I stop aving sex with my husband cos he's cheating or I should inroduce condom and be firm with it