Tippy Top:

I hope the Yorubas don't "Peckhamnize" Hackney.
I stopped going to cringe worthy  Peckham years ago.

r231:

if anything hackney is more dangerous

vanitty:

That julie girl get hot temper. Pele pele

Hackney is not dangerous. There is nothing dangerous about Nigerians.

ROSSIKE:

That Julie's outrageous behaviour shows the dangers of raising your kids in the UK, USA etc. She's selfish, with zero manners, no discipline, no respect. Tragic.

Sagamite:

I had a girlfriend exactly like her once. They also look alike a bit (bodywise at least).

The sad thing was that deep down all she really wanted was happiness but she just does not know how to communicate it effectively and without anger. The lack of good communication was a manifestation of the environment she grew up in (the hood) where that gets you through from child years.

Worse still, she hated being judged and struggled with feedback or correction, which was a hard thing not to give considering that kind of behaviour. Very aggressive and argumentative and hardly stops to listen for a while. She just raised her voice and talked over someone, no matter how nicely you are talking to her about what she has done wrong. No matter what you try and tell her, she saw it as an attack on her personality instead of a weakness to ruminate over and change. I coincidentally met someone years later and she was talking about one of her friends that had anger issues. And when I asked her the name, she said it and I said "She is my ex".
Now Julie has seen a film of herself, hopefully she would see how dysfunctional girls like her are. But deep down, from my experience with a girl like her, she will live in denial and be defiant. She would excuse it as just TV editing that made her look that bad. She would say she is lovely and just principled and so was just standing for her "principles" that others don't get.

No, Julie, you are a dysfunctional brat!!!

ElRazur:

Lol @the white garment.

I am guessing them be Cherubu or Cele? Lol

y me:

you are one HELL of a Man to be able to put up with that behaviour she gat

Sagamite:

She desperately wants to be loved and cherished but she is not lovable and unfortunately she does not realise that, that is the sad thing.

And the only way she knows how to respond, and applies in responding, to not being shown the love she craves is to be even more belligerent and even less lovable as she sees the lack of love as a trigger.

She is going to struggle in relationships in future except she finds some crazily mellow guy that can take her bullshit and still be showing love.

She is a pretty girl and will not struggle to find a guy but holding to the guy would be the challenge and when she grows older and loses her prettiness, she risk being alone as hardly any man will settle for a woman with that attitude without looks except he is strongly into sadomasochism.

I have an ex-colleague female friend from Zambia that is far more older than me as she is now around 40s, she is very gentle and cool but when I said it, she told me I did not know her when she was young. She basically described this kind of Julie, that is how her marriage with a Nigerian guy broke down in her early 30s after dating since her late teens. Despite only hearing her side of the story, it was obvious she was the problem of the relationship as she admitted she was ridiculously hot-headed despite her still insisting it was 50:50 fault. But I noted she was so bad she could not even put majority blame on the guy as most women will do when you hear only their side of the story.

She is around 40s now and still single and now trying to build relationships as a remarkedly mellow and nice woman. Obviously she meets mainly divorcee guys that are more willing to enjoy their regained freedom than quickly return to jail down an aisle.

r231:

Saw the last episode of the family, always knew the girl was frustrated but no proof until the mum found the surprise, :-)
It's the right thing for the mum to suggest donating the surprise to charity and put a little smile on someone else face this festive season,

Epiphany:

Hey brov, is it that you've been hurt real bad before or are you a budding psychologist? 
I read the write up on the link you posted earlier and you dey analyse well o! And hell yeah, that Julie girl has issues. At this rate, its going to be pretty hard for her to live with a man.

Maybe thats why she uses that 'surprise' Lollllllllllll