I have noticed a couple of married people on here creating groups online to meet up.. I actually came accros a thread that said Married but bored and lonely? lets meet up
Couldn't help but lmfao

It really should have said "unhappy in your marriage? Hook up for extramarital affairs" There is even a whatsApp group attached to it... Yes u can only but imagine what goes on there.

What a tangled web is weaved as growing numbers of married women and men sneak into Internet chat rooms for romantic or sexual thrills.

Never before has the dating world been so handy for married men and women looking for a fling. With cybers3x, there is no longer any need for secret trips to obscure motels. An online liaison may even take place in the same room with one's spouse.

All u have to do is turn on ur computer, and u have thousands of options to choose from. (It) can't get any easier than that internet groups are the fastest-rising cause of relationship breakdowns, and the problem only stands to get worse as today's population of Internet users continues to grow.

The Internet will soon become the most common form of infidelity if it isn't already. Unlike some fatal attractions, a simple click of a mouse button ends contact – should the person want to break it off – without any explanations or apologies.

Married people mingle online for different reasons. Some go online for a quick "s3x fix," while others established more meaningful connections where they talk about personal problems and marital issues... even this is not totally meaningful. Others hope to have a real-life affair. Still, others want to engage in cybers3x, exchanging sexxual fantasies with someone while masturrbatingg.

This doesn't mean they do not love their spouses. They do love their spouses but seek an erotic encounter online because of boredom, a partner's lack of sexxual interest or the need for variety and fun.

Just to capture back some of those butterflies they felt when they were young and then before u know it u start flirting and dating.

A lot of marriages lack excitement, no fire, no magic... It's just dead. Many men complain their wives are so involved in childrearing that she isn't interested in having s3x. Same goes for the men aalways so busy with work, who don't take time out to spoil their wives pamper and love them every now and then, slow down get away sometimes out of the busy schedule.. Communicate with each other... Open ur heart out to ur spouse and show them where it hurts if they can't seem to figure it out due to their busy schedule or loss of interests. Don't go about seeking solace in an online chat room or group that woul lead u to more dirt.. Because there is no touching involved in online chat conversations, married people often rationalize their behavior as harmless fun.

Research has shown, however, that most spouses feel as betrayed, angry and hurt by online infidelity as they would if skin-to-skin adultery had taken place. What usually starts as innocent, friendly exchanges, progresses quickly to strong desires for s3xual relationships... believe me or not.

A lot of people meet up with the persons on the other side of the phone or computer whom they have been engaged in this "harmless" online relationship with & most end up having real life affairs. It gets worse when it becomes addictive. They start jumping from one online affair to another all the while still keeping their legally married partners in the dark.

According to research, online s3xual activity is a major cause of marital problems. The slippery slope that starts with online flirting often ends in divorce.

One can reveal the most intimate emotional and sexual details to an unseen stranger at any time of the day or night.
Some even divulged more about themselves to online partners than to their wives or husbands. You start chatting about life, your marriage, what u like to eat, what s3xual positions u like the best. Sometimes u get this feeling like u have known urselves in another life.

To prevent future problems, young couples, as well as long-term committed couples, need to talk about what role the Internet will play in their relationship... It's never a good thing getting into an online group or whatsApp chat group without ur partner's involvement and not expect the unexpected. It's inevitable...

Instead of comming online to hook up with other married people who's partners are also not in the group because they're unaware, look for solution to solve your boredom. Go out, shop, do movies, visit families and real friends and don't forget to communicate with ur partners, talk, talk and talk about it.. u don't need another lonely married man or woman to fix u. U will only end up fixing each other and unfix ur marriage in the long run.

Except ur secretly into dating and Fvcking other married people on code u have no real business joining such internet groups in the first place.
So before u go too far with those worthless wolves in sheepskin ask yourself. What do i really want? If u can sincerly define what it is u want then u will definitely know whether to continue on the path or retrace ur step before it gets deeper. A word is enough...

noted

Well said.

Noted