As a teacher my candid advice is for you to teach her lessons. Marry her friend.

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Somebody remind me never to do girls!
Thank you

Best advise is to keep that girl at arms length/ That lady is determined to wreck your sister's life and she had better watch her back.

If possible, it won't be a bad idea if the guy is posted abroad and they stay there forever.

One thing about jealousy is that it is very hot at the beginning, but in time it cools down. It is just too hot too handle now by the shallow minded girl but with time, her temper with cool.

Presently, your sister's wedding is all that is on her mind. What is hurting her is that her life is empty. If she was married to man richer than your sister's beau, she won't really care.

No one knows tomorrow. She could fall into the hands of a wealthy man or she can become an old frustrated spinster (which I suspect)having spun eligible men that were not financially up to her standard. It is worse now as the bar is raised higher. She'll want to marry a man either as rich as your sister fiance or even richer. That will seriously complicate things.

She may eventually become a prayer warrior or even a pastor. looking for that elusive prince charming until her brain resets. Just be careful and watch her back. That lady is out for blood

sweerychick

Naija gals and ready made guys. Vultures girls everywhere. Now the food is ready she’s now in love. Omo alee jatijati.

Nollywood stories are always dry devoid of intelligence even Op had the mind of pushing this nonsense to FP

radarada

Owo lobirin mo

as long as your sisters fiance is over the other chick, i don't see what the issue is.
the only thing is that your sister and her fiance have to completely sever ties with the other lady
i hope the guy doesn't still have any feelings for that chick, because i can almost guarantee she will try to seduce him in some way

hope this is not fabu sha. how a person with teaching experience only gets 5 year contract job with exxon mobil - particularly as contracts are typically on a yearly basis, subject to renewal -

sweerychick:
I'm married already. And it's no Nollywood story

show us your wedding certificate or we don't believe tì

sweerychick:
I'm married already. And it's no Nollywood story

Right now, the man in question speaking up to counter that lady is your sister's only defence. Anything else will be that you and your sis are something else. Let the man at the middle do the fighting or talking for her.

Take this to Alaba, some movie producers will turn it to money for you.

after wedding plan don set you cum dey ask for advise. abeg move on with the wedding but did your sis inform her friend when the guy propose and when the relationship started going on?

I will advise your sister to be very careful wherever she goes. She should take her security very serious. Her friend is enbittered already and she could go extra miles to hurt or try to eliminate your sister. It may be advisable if you report her to the police. Let them inviter her and warn her. This will stop any evil plan she might have for your sister

sweerychick:
Whose Fault Is It Anyway?

Good evening nairalanders!

I need serious opinions on this issue, as it has bothered me so much so I decided to bring it up here. It's about my younger sister and her girlfriend.

About 2 years ago my younger sis girlfriend met a guy that indicated interest in her, according to my sis her friend wasn't into this guy, in fact her friend was using him from the onset, my sis said that her friend told her that she doesn't like the guy at all because the guy according to her was a teacher in one private school and he isn't really what she wanted in a man.

But this guy loved her and my sis recounted one time the guy paid her tuition fees and gave her money for her project work. The guy was always there for her but her sis friend never liked him sometimes my younger sister will tell me that she should go for him she thought she was joking but little did she know that her girlfriend was serious.

When it was obvious she couldn't play the guy anymore, she had to confront the guy and told him face to face that they can't continue together, that she can't put up with him anymore and that he can have my younger sister as a friend since my sister is her roommate.

The guy was shattered and devastated, and it equally shattered my sister as well because my sister knew how much sacrifice the guy has made for her girlfriend. So the guy would meet my sister and start begging her to talk to her friend, and each time my sister tries to talk to her girlfriend to reconsider, she would turn it down.

So the guy gave up his efforts but maintained communications with my sister.

As time went by my sister and this guy became close, and they were good friends, so early February this year they guy got a contract job with Exxon mobile for 5 years at Akwa ibom, and he is now asking for my sister's hand in marriage. He's so serious that he has brought wine to my Father with his family members.

My sister told him let her put it in prayers. Because she's currently doing her NYSC.
Upon hearing the news of my sister and this guy, her silly girlfriend that rejected him because he was low, is now beefing my sister and telling the whole world that my sister snatched her boyfriend away from her. it was so bad that she even tried to re establish communication with this guy again.

My sister told me that her girlfriend sent a message to this guy and told him that my sister once had an abortion when she was in her 3rd year, and some stupid lies. But she said that the guy knew that her girlfriend was lying and decided to block her. This got my sister infuriated and me also but the guy begged us to let her go That she's just desperate.

But I'm really really really angry now because she has been spreading malicious lies about my younger sister. And my sister is planning her traditional wedding with this guy by January So please I need suggestions on how to deal with this issue because I don't see my sister at fault here, and I only see a wicked and desperate friend trying to cause wreck in someone's happiness..

Mods I really appreciate if this topic is on front page because it's a serious issue..

Is your sister a banker?

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Anyway just tell your sister's friend not to be angry that I will come and marry her this Saturday.... U hear...leave those lies, they no fit do ur sister anything... We are with you...








uote author=sweerychick post=83912286]Whose Fault Is It Anyway?

Good evening nairalanders!

I need serious opinions on this issue, as it has bothered me so much so I decided to bring it up here. It's about my younger sister and her girlfriend.

About 2 years ago my younger sis girlfriend met a guy that indicated interest in her, according to my sis her friend wasn't into this guy, in fact her friend was using him from the onset, my sis said that her friend told her that she doesn't like the guy at all because the guy according to her was a teacher in one private school and he isn't really what she wanted in a man.

But this guy loved her and my sis recounted one time the guy paid her tuition fees and gave her money for her project work. The guy was always there for her but her sis friend never liked him sometimes my younger sister will tell me that she should go for him she thought she was joking but little did she know that her girlfriend was serious.

When it was obvious she couldn't play the guy anymore, she had to confront the guy and told him face to face that they can't continue together, that she can't put up with him anymore and that he can have my younger sister as a friend since my sister is her roommate.

The guy was shattered and devastated, and it equally shattered my sister as well because my sister knew how much sacrifice the guy has made for her girlfriend. So the guy would meet my sister and start begging her to talk to her friend, and each time my sister tries to talk to her girlfriend to reconsider, she would turn it down.

So the guy gave up his efforts but maintained communications with my sister.

As time went by my sister and this guy became close, and they were good friends, so early February this year they guy got a contract job with Exxon mobile for 5 years at Akwa ibom, and he is now asking for my sister's hand in marriage. He's so serious that he has brought wine to my Father with his family members.

My sister told him let her put it in prayers. Because she's currently doing her NYSC.
Upon hearing the news of my sister and this guy, her silly girlfriend that rejected him because he was low, is now beefing my sister and telling the whole world that my sister snatched her boyfriend away from her. it was so bad that she even tried to re establish communication with this guy again.

My sister told me that her girlfriend sent a message to this guy and told him that my sister once had an abortion when she was in her 3rd year, and some stupid lies. But she said that the guy knew that her girlfriend was lying and decided to block her. This got my sister infuriated and me also but the guy begged us to let her go That she's just desperate.

But I'm really really really angry now because she has been spreading malicious lies about my younger sister. And my sister is planning her traditional wedding with this guy by January So please I need suggestions on how to deal with this issue because I don't see my sister at fault here, and I only see a wicked and desperate friend trying to cause wreck in someone's happiness..

Mods I really appreciate if this topic is on front page because it's a serious issue..[/quote]

sweerychick:
I've thought about locking her up, but my sis guy said we should ignore her, let's not go to that extent

Get a lawyer and Sue her useless gold-digging ass for defamation of character and threaten to lock her up. Cos the way that werey girl is she will only add more lies to the ones she's already spreading around. Nip it in the bud before she does the extreme.

How did his ex got wind of his proposed wedding with your sister, especially since they are no longer room mates? Your sister would have called to inform her.

You see, ehen, we are sometimes the architect of our problems.

Advise your sister to ignore her and never divulge the date of her wedding to her or to any of their mutual friends, especially the ones with leaking mouth.

That guy used your sister as a rebound just to pepper his ex.

I hope he is ready to stick to his new decision.

If you worry about the opinions of others, you might never enjoy your own life.
Dont let the desperate girl get your attention. Except you wish to silence her permanently which comes at an irredeemable price.
Just move on.

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just tell your sister to Ignore her and continue to plan her wedding, but let her fortifies herself with prayer because the people of this word are wicked

Get her arrested and charge her with perjury simple.
Ensure she gets a full cup of disgrace in the court room.

I think I blame your sister for trusting her friend without applying wisdom. A simple wedding without her friend's knowledge would have resolved this. It doesn't end there as your sister's friend is out on a mission to wrecked her friend's marriage.

Collect that friend's pant let me use it for yahoo plus

What issue? You don't have to do anything please go and sleep.

From my vast experience in nollywood movies, na Acid they settle this kin matter las las

happney65:
Tell us the truth..You are the one..

Don't mind her.

I'm even doubting the entire story.

sweerychick:
Whose Fault Is It Anyway?

Good evening nairalanders!

I need serious opinions on this issue, as it has bothered me so much so I decided to bring it up here. It's about my younger sister and her girlfriend.

About 2 years ago my younger sis girlfriend met a guy that indicated interest in her, according to my sis her friend wasn't into this guy, in fact her friend was using him from the onset, my sis said that her friend told her that she doesn't like the guy at all because the guy according to her was a teacher in one private school and he isn't really what she wanted in a man.

But this guy loved her and my sis recounted one time the guy paid her tuition fees and gave her money for her project work. The guy was always there for her but her sis friend never liked him sometimes my younger sister will tell me that she should go for him she thought she was joking but little did she know that her girlfriend was serious.

When it was obvious she couldn't play the guy anymore, she had to confront the guy and told him face to face that they can't continue together, that she can't put up with him anymore and that he can have my younger sister as a friend since my sister is her roommate.

The guy was shattered and devastated, and it equally shattered my sister as well because my sister knew how much sacrifice the guy has made for her girlfriend. So the guy would meet my sister and start begging her to talk to her friend, and each time my sister tries to talk to her girlfriend to reconsider, she would turn it down.

So the guy gave up his efforts but maintained communications with my sister.

As time went by my sister and this guy became close, and they were good friends, so early February this year they guy got a contract job with Exxon mobile for 5 years at Akwa ibom, and he is now asking for my sister's hand in marriage. He's so serious that he has brought wine to my Father with his family members.

My sister told him let her put it in prayers. Because she's currently doing her NYSC.
Upon hearing the news of my sister and this guy, her silly girlfriend that rejected him because he was low, is now beefing my sister and telling the whole world that my sister snatched her boyfriend away from her. it was so bad that she even tried to re establish communication with this guy again.

My sister told me that her girlfriend sent a message to this guy and told him that my sister once had an abortion when she was in her 3rd year, and some stupid lies. But she said that the guy knew that her girlfriend was lying and decided to block her. This got my sister infuriated and me also but the guy begged us to let her go That she's just desperate.

But I'm really really really angry now because she has been spreading malicious lies about my younger sister. And my sister is planning her traditional wedding with this guy by January So please I need suggestions on how to deal with this issue because I don't see my sister at fault here, and I only see a wicked and desperate friend trying to cause wreck in someone's happiness..

Mods I really appreciate if this topic is on front page because it's a serious issue..

Your sister broke the don't "date my friend from our circle" but she owes here no single apology.
The pained soul could go to hell for all I care.