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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Preetychina22(m): 6:32pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Fashdeejay:Hilarious to say the least.
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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Nobody: 6:34pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124: Pls let it go. Please. The guy was looking for a reason to let the babe go. He didn't remember those things when he want to see her pant Now,after sometime,he suddenly woke up from sleep Tomorrow that babe will start seeing all men as promise and fail even the one she will eventually marry. They always seem to forget what they promise when they want to see the colour of ur pant Na today See that babe, she will get a man who will worship her and help her build her self esteem. People like her are looking for acceptance. If he had checked her background, her reason for going out with lots of men lies there. 4 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by mysticgal(f): 6:36pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Preetychina22: For real, I have just heard of it once or twice, i mean the okafors law and I thought it was just the movie that made people do that. Eitherways, laws are dynamic, which means that....from person to person, it differs and whatever this law is.....these people just want to cheat |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by austertee01(m): 6:37pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
From my experience in marriage, I can say marriage should not be about emotions or the feeling of where will I start from. Once there is a bad trait or some not-too-nice experience during courtship, then it is a strict NO. Bros please leave the babe and start a fresh relationship with a more decent lady. It would have been better if you don't know about her sex escapades or if those involved were not too close to you. It will definitely backfire if you go ahead with a marriage, you will never forget, she may not change 100% and that will always influence the trust in the union. For you happiness, please, it is a NO! 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by mysticgal(f): 6:38pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Davesaves: And you’ve met 100 people who have obeyed the okafors law, met not I heard. Don’t say what you don’t know man...100 people? |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by pocohantas(f): 6:38pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Preetychina22: Same way married men still pursue their single exes upandan. Yet you don't see women bragging about it, like it is the cure to HIV/AIDS. I don't know what it is it with men and sex. Maybe I might consider owning a penis for just a day. Let me see if fcking plenty women and running my mouth about some gadamn law has some effect on my account balance. 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by pocohantas(f): 6:40pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
What did Safarigirl do to buy this kind market bikonu? Anybody wey knack, na for your pocket na. No come paint the non-knackers bad. And vice versa... You don't have to pull anyone down to make a point. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by mysticgal(f): 6:41pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
seunfly: If you read my second post, you’d see where I said, if you have met 100people, I mean met, not heard about, 100 people who have obeyed the law, then basically it no more a generalization. It’s true. You people act as if this law is universal law. Besides I have met at least, 20 people, men and women who wouldn’t go back to their ex’s even with guns to their head, 21, of you include me. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 6:43pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
sassysure:A lot of girls have dated more than 7 men. Even some have 4 guys they are dating at once. But once they see who wants to marry them, they deny anybody they have ever dated . OP’s girlfriend is obviously naive to have admitted. Hahahahhaha. The day I read a blog post on how many men girls have dated and gbenshed, I was alarmed. Nigerian blog. Will those girls admit to their boyfriends? 2 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Macgabe(m): 6:44pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma: It's her past..so I believe. If you know that you won't be able to handle it in future even after you are married to her, please let her go. Don't pretend that you can handle what you know within you that you can't handle(from the way you are sounding now). Don't make her pass through hell with you in marriage, let her go if you can't handle her past. 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by mysticgal(f): 6:44pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Dizzyrascal: All my relationships ended well but I will never go back to those men for sex again, whether for asexual or monetary gains and I have met and can give you at least 20 people who wouldn’t go back to their ex’s even with guns to their heads, include me, 21. Have you met a 100 people who have cheated on their spouses with their ex’s, met mot heard about. Is your law universal? Man, please stop giving excuses for cheats. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Thegamingorca(m): 6:49pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
pocohantas: Same way you feel elated from being distinguished from the common rabble of girls wey never win 60 million before, after winning it; is how the average man feels after telling guys he lick toto of girl all him guys dey eye for long |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by ameh99: 6:49pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls: Be kiaful..
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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Pafoma: 6:52pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Hey Guys!!! No point cursing and abusing each other please!! can guys not just ignore people and stay focused because i honestly appreciate all that have given sincere contribution based on their opinions to my post, those that abused and attacked, still something to learn.. thank you too Its tiring reading people having a go at themselves, please lets all interact, learn a thing or two while keeping the thread sane! Thank you for understanding. OP 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by badrudeen14: 6:55pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Guy it's better u JP I mean japa run for ur life pls, because it's dangerous |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Thegamingorca(m): 6:55pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by pocohantas(f): 6:56pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Thegamingorca: Hehehehe. Who told you I feel elated? I get the knacking a hard to get girl, maybe an angry feminist , but the ego stroking for toto matter though? Do some outgrow it or something? |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 6:58pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
sassysure:See everything you're typing here is exactly what I have heard all too many times and 99% of the time, it's always women saying it doesn't matter. What's you women's obsession with dating friends in the same circle and boasting about it? I've noticed this with ladies, it's almost as if looking for where to cause division is an enjoyable hobby. You even mentioned cases of brothers...brother oo Una matter strong I swear. Boasting about being responsible for ending friendships between friends and brothers because they chose to go against the unwritten G rule and marry you, is not a good look and certainly does not mean such women are special. Forget all those talk about self-esteem and insecurity, that one na una usual emotional blackmail. It doesn't work on guymen anymore. Real guys who have been close buddies for years do not automatically make new friends because they got married. The kind of friendships Gs nurture goes way beyond drinking, smoking, and dissecting women. It's much deeper than that - something that a woman will never understand because lasting friendships is not something most of you can nurture for years without problems coming up. Such friendships are also certainly not something women can easily come between. You will never understand this so don't even bother trying to make sense of it. I don't get the talk about your hometown. So all of una dey live for the same area and marry each other? As in na village things or what exactly are you typing? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Nobody: 7:01pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Thegamingorca(m): 7:02pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
pocohantas: Outgrow wetin...the memories are idolized into trophies and kept in their galleries or treasure troves to be shared as stories to their children and grandchildren. There is this episode of blackish were the fada and grandfather were teaching the son how to woe girls They are accolades to be shared with friends as bragging rights as they were alleged masters of the game |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 7:03pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124:This one no even understand wetin I de yarn. Okay wait, is Prince Philip, the husband of Queen Elizabeth, a King? Even married to the Queen of England, what is his official title? You mostly just type for typing sake, don't you? Lol 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by almarthins(m): 7:04pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma: Oga dont mind all those guys that told u to grab ur copy too. End the relationship and tell her why, that will knock some sense into her. Opening legs to any one is nt the way. Awon animashaun obirin! |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 7:08pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
crackhaus:Wow. Didn’t know you were this misinformed!!! I am arguing with someone that is actually clueless! He can’t be king because he is not from the royal family and the Queen is the ruler and she is female. Giving him a title king will assume that he is the ruler and over the Queen. This is why he was given a lesser title. When Charles becomes King, Camilla will be Queen! You absolutely don’t know what you are talking about and you are ARGUING. Please do your research. I sign out biko!!! 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Nobody: 7:09pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma: Let me leave you with a quote from Warren Buffet, “You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you. True power is sitting back and observing things with logic. True power is restraint. If words control you, that means everyone else can control you. Breathe and allow things to pass.” 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by 8k2nuts: 7:21pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
BRATISLAVA: How do you know? Tou are responding from your point of view I am responding from mine. Maybe you've never met people who really dont give a F. they are doing fine. I am aware of some quarrels which happens in every marriage so no biggy and to the best of my knowledge he has never said my guys bleeped you. His eyes where open when he went to pay bride price. You cannot honestly be sure they arent happy 2 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by frozen70g(f): 7:23pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma: If you do much love her that you really want her Teach her how to be sensible and live a decent life The person you are talking about is a woman that will be the mother of your children But if within you, you are not really comfortable with her, stylishly withdraw from the relationship Make sure you don't break her heart 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 7:26pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124: I said you are just typing because you only feel like making sense without actually knowing anything. The reason Philip was never King is because he never held the title "Prince of Wales" reserved for the first son of a King/Queen of England, or "Duke of York" reserved for second son of a King/Queen of England. This is the exact same reason why Camilla will not be Queen because she is not holding the title "Princess of Wales" reserved for the wife of the first son of a King/Queen of England, or "Duchess of York" reserved for the wife of the second son of a King/Queen of England. Only a PRINCESS OF WALES or a DUCHESS OF YORK can hold the title of Queen/Queen consort after her ascension. The last Princess of Wales was Diana, she is still holding it even in death. No living person has it for now. The last Duchess of York was Queen Elizabeth's mother and the person currently holding the title is the wife of Prince Andrew, Charles' younger brother. You're just obtuse and proud in your ignorance, it's hilarious. I don't even know why are u are embarrassing yourself. A Duchess of Cornwall (Camilla) does not graduate into holding the title of Queen/Queen consort in GB. 6 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Nobody: 7:30pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma: Cooked up story.. just to generate traffic. May story you just narrated happen to you soon |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Nobody: 7:30pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
crackhaus:If it matters that much, why will a man propose to a babe he knew that went out with his friend Which friendship unless you belong to a fraternity. I do understand a lot o. I grew up in the mist of so many boys( reason why I often see things from a man's point of view). U know when your big brother's think u are so small and young to understand their parole If not self esteem, insecurity(U even mentioned this in one of your posts,) let me add jealousy, what again. Ok, pride? Male ego? U haven't told us why u think men are not supposed to do this. This guy, this guy, na only mouth u carry for this place. It's your type that will do everything for his woman. I hope we will still be part of this forum in few yrs time. U have mellowed down a lot, u will still start defending women very soon . 2 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 7:35pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Prince Philip is a prince consort.Read this 10 times. Camila would be Queen! You don’t know what you are talking about. You even expose your ignorance with confidence . Do you know what giving him title King means? When the actual royal is the Queen They gave him title of Prince Consort and not King consort because he is not a British Royal by Birth. People with King title are obviously more superior to Queen title and the Brits are not that stupid to give their crown to a foreigner and one not in line to the throne. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.harpersbazaar.com/celebrity/latest/amp29748471/prince-philip-title-not-king/ crackhaus: 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by midnighter(f): 7:38pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
crackhaus: Sir she is actually the princess of Wales. She has been since she married Charles She's using that "duchess of Cornwall" because their marriage was not supported by the public. But actually she's the princess of Wales, she just doesn't use it She is supposed to be queen consort or even queen when queen Elizabeth dies but if she is not popular enough by then they will use "Princess consort" so as not to annoy people. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 7:40pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
sassysure:Of course I am exactly that type. How does that cancel out my opinions here? Like I said, you will not understand the kind of deep friendship between men. As for those guys who still marry women they know have dated their friends, check well and you will see they hardly ever hold down any long-term friendships. No principles or codes of conduct. 5 Likes |
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