A news got to us that a young man from Eastern part Nigeria got into argument with his wife.
From our report, he advise his wife to get familiar with the wife of a neighbour instead of being closer to the husband and the wife got mad at him and said her husband actually accused her of sleeping with the neighbors which the husband reportedly told our correspondence that all he said was "TRY AND GET CLOSER TO THE WIFE INSTEAD OF THE HUSBAND".
This argument turn more brutal as the wife destroyed the man car glasses with Stone in their compound and bursted her husband head with what we are not sure of but all we can gather from the incident are few pictures.
The husband and the wife are just married for 3years and several family meetings are been held as we talk...

Christian marital vow is d cause of all dis...women should be told d simple truth..they are not one,but two different people living together as husband and wife.dat word "one" makes a lot of women feel or think they are equal.

orientalzimperi:

This argument turn more brutal as the wife destroyed the man car glasses with Stone in their compound and bursted her husband head with what we are not sure of but all we can gather from the incident are few pictures.
The husband and the wife are just married for 3years and several family meetings are been held as we talk...

As a young man who wants to really be married, the signs of violence should be your watchword during courtship. When a violent man is upset, he can be calmed; but not same can be said of a violent woman.

Your experience is not the best teacher because there are some experiences that may mar you for life. Let the experiences of other people who refused to learn be your teacher.

donbachi:
Christian marital vow is d cause of all dis...women should be told d simple truth..they are not one,but two different people living together as husband and wife.dat word "one" makes a lot of women feel or think they are equal.

To an extent, what you wrote here makes sense.

So whats the issue here?

LadySarah:
So whats the issue here?

You're seeing blood and still asking what the issue is.

Are you a wrestler?

crackhaus:

You're seeing blood and still asking what the issue is.

Are you a wrestler?

Yes

Talk true, this sounds like you're the husband.

If na you sha, no be divorce be the issue here. The two of you have more serious issues to deal with underneath.

In the first place, as a man, nothing should normally concern you about your wife fraternizing with "yard women". In fact, if she no dey mingle with them, e better for you... Less wahala.

But the issue you should really tackle is your wife with another person's husband as yard bestie. Na serious something be that one o.

Focus on that and ensure the relationship does not stand else, 20 years from now, them go come dey tell you say no be you get 4 out of your 6 children.

God no go shame us o.

LadySarah:


Yes

No wonder.

Your boyfriend/husband needs to know now before he tries any stunt with you. Please tell him on time.

donbachi:
Christian marital vow is d cause of all dis...women should be told d simple truth..they are not one,but two different people living together as husband and wife.dat word "one" makes a lot of women feel or think they are equal.

For me I think the problem is “till death do us part”
For better or worse etc
And the way our societies make it a family affair
This is as is seen in Igboland where I come from
I prefer looser marriage ties personally (Niger Deltan, Yoruba, Liberian tribes etc)
But I acknowledge that stronger marriage ties contribute positively to the values children acquire in life, a lot.
Oh well!
But I still prefer looser ties
(We are on the same side somehow but we have different reasons and motives, and you are beefing women )