sometimes I feel women re been punished 4 the sin she committed by giving Adam the forbidden fruit to eat...a man will leaves all his responsibility of catering for the family to the woman alone or he will just abandon his family n elope with another woman.

Leave dis talk...papa Don die,anybody wey get money make him bury am...no man with money abandons his responsibilities,except a madman and no responsible man elopes with another woman except a man,married to a contentious wife...if d man never get job and d wife get.make she stand in d gap for her family..abi dem no be one again?

donbachi:
Leave dis talk...papa Don die,anybody wey get money make him bury am...no man with money abandons his responsibilities,except a madman and no responsible man elopes with another woman except a man,married to a contentious wife...if d man never get job and d wife get.make she stand in d gap for her family..abi dem no be one again?

guy some men dey wey go fold hand Sidon 4 huz dey wait make d woman go hussel cum...I mean complete man not handicap, he is unperturbed weda the family feeds or not

Because they are st..id

templegold:


guy some men dey wey go fold hand Sidon 4 huz dey wait make d woman go hussel cum...I mean complete man not handicap, he is unperturbed weda the family feeds or not

crazy breeds of men i say lol..but life issa complicated shit..

Op,i believe the title of your thread is 'most men'.
How did you arrive at most men?

Blame yourself for marrying an irresponsible idiot and insisting on sticking with him

I haven't abandoned my responsibilities. Neither have the men in my circle of friends and acquaintances. How then did you come about "most" men?

There is a saying that goes "show me your friends and I will tell you who you are". If your man or the men around you have abandoned their responsibilities, you need to check on yourself.

If not, why the false generalisation?

Maybe I guess or it seems like the giver of the other fruit is nicer and that other fruit is sweeter... just saying based on your Adam and fruit ideology

templegold:
sometimes I feel women re been punished 4 the sin she committed by giving Adam the forbidden fruit to eat...a man will leaves all his responsibility of catering for the family to the woman alone or he will just abandon his family n elope with another woman.

well,its so sad to see the turn out of marriages in this present time cos divorce rate its on the high side...buh am sure d man was not like dat right from the beginning...and u didnt tell us the whole gist of the story

templegold:
sometimes I feel women re been punished 4 the sin she committed by giving Adam the forbidden fruit to eat...a man will leaves all his responsibility of catering for the family to the woman alone or he will just abandon his family n elope with another woman.

ONE thing i try to let people know especially the youths who are aiming to get married is MARRIAGE IS AN INSTITUTION AND LOVE ALONE CANNOT MAKE U GRADUATE FROM IT.

Marriage has gone beyond financial benefits,sexual benefits,social status,religion even parental factor....

There a whole lot of things to be checked before considering to venture into marriage

Lanrex99:


well,its so sad to see the turn out of marriages in this present time cos divorce rate its on the high side...buh am sure d man was not like dat right from the beginning...and u didnt tell us the whole gist of the story

Actually a lot of the time the man was like that from the start and showed the signs but the woman overlooked it

Especially when it comes to being financially abusive or irresponsible...that one can be very obvious at times but the lady will be managing it hoping she can change him

templegold:


guy some men dey wey go fold hand Sidon 4 huz dey wait make d woman go hussel cum...I mean complete man not handicap, he is unperturbed weda the family feeds or not

What kinda man is that?

midnighter:


Actually a lot of the time the man was like that from the start and showed the signs but the woman overlooked it

Especially when it comes to being financially abusive or irresponsible...that one can be very obvious at times but the lady will be managing it hoping she can change him

well the truth is wat is done cannot be undone........

but if she has something doing can manage to take care of her children alone without him
.i would strongly advice she continues cos trust me does children will forever cherish her.

Hav experienced such so am not talking from facts but experience.

Lanrex99:


well the truth is wat is done cannot be undone........

but if she has something doing can manage to take care of her children alone without him
.i would strongly advice she continues cos trust me does children will forever cherish her.

Hav experienced such so am not talking from facts but experience.

but d man is also a burden to her. cus she will feed the man,cloth him.provide all his necessary needs

templegold:


but d man is also a burden to her. cus she will feed the man,cloth him.provide all his necessary needs

guess.. This is happening to you'

templegold:


but d man is also a burden to her. cus she will feed the man,cloth him.provide all his necessary needs

lol...who says she has to care for the man...

since he cant take care of his responsibilities,he should at least be able to sort himself out.And if he is gonna cos her trouble she can jejely find anoda place for her self and her kids.

Dat was the same thing my mum did trust me