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Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Saragold: 9:23am On Nov 16, 2019 |
so long as you are still the man in this case you should be able to sit your wife down and talk sense into her.. Let her know how you feel about the way she behaves, as adults, talking things through is the best way to resolve issues. And if she is a woman thats willing to learn and correct things in her marriage she would definitely apologize and change.. 1 Like |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Colb461: 9:23am On Nov 16, 2019 |
U wlc quirus: |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Joyincrease(f): 1:27pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
It's very true....most women don't do it. I know a couple who stayed for over a year. The woman was starved for dis long.quote author=thesicilian post=84031251]You have a wife that still wants to have sex with you even when she's angry with you. Lucky you![/quote] 1 Like |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by dinero101(m): 7:22am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Bros So far After the sex, the fight go end... Please Bleep on... And talk to her while doing it..... It may change a lot... U never can tell |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Emioga: 4:26pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Na wa o. Emotional blackmail. So sorry OP understand how you feel. Trust me she won't change even if you discuss issues with her. They're proud beings. Na so my husband be. |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by samuelonyewueny(m): 10:45pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Viking07: please read the caveat.. matured minds only!! he's asking cos he needs help. is it better for his marriage to crash?? 1 Like |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Tony142: 6:10am On Nov 20, 2019 |
dview001:sir, i will like to ask u something privately, pls can i have your whatsapp number? |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by concept65: 6:10pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
byna: OP i don't have time now to read through the replies - not sure if someone has already given you this advice. Your seem to be very emotionally intelligent which your wife totally lacks. She is also very prideful of which you have demonstrated some humility in this post. Your wife needs you to "man up" and Im not being insultive here, I am talking from her standpoint. Her perception of you is that you are a "softie" and her type needs very "firm" hand. I am talking from experience, you need to change a little bit from the way you usually do things around the house, even if its outside your comfort zone. You need to bark orders once in a while and not ask politely, rough her up a little bit during sex, alternate and have gentle sex sometimes, find ways to keep your wife on her toes most of the time without being abusive. This is what she needs. I grew up around "alpha males" and my ex was an alpha male too. My husband is the sweetest and most humble, gentle man ever, but I am emotionally intelligent enough and mature enough to appreciate that that is how he is, I don't see it as a weakness but I do wish he had some "alphaness in him" though I dare not show him. Be more domineering, you seem intelligent, Im sure you'll find balance. |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by concept65: 6:20pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
concept65: I also totally disagree with folks who keep saying how lucky you are that your wife still wants to have sex with you even after disagreements. She is not doing you any favors, it is your conjugal right. It is also your right to be listened to and heard when you have any concerns to express in your marriage, she is failing to emotionally take care of you. Once you master showing her who's boss around the house as per my humble advice above - she will soften up and you will find ways to make her listen to you and you will find ways to talk and listen to each other and iron out any arising issues maturely as any married couple should. |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by concept65: 7:30pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
luminouz: I really like this write up of yours - I totally get it. Please read my two posts advising the OP and tell me if you agree. My advise if a polite version of your option B |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by naija4life247: 7:03pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
concept65: The poster is a very experienced fucck boy. |
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