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Why Always Guys? Why Are Guys Most Victim On Nairaland? by DenreleDave(m): 9:48am On Nov 19, 2019
Go to family thread, romance section , every thread about problems in marriage and relationship is most created by guys.
Why aren't women coming online to post their relationship issues?
Are men the victim?
Are women the wicked ones?

Upon Ubunja miseducation, Omar, red pills, Martinez, yet every thread you open about marriage or relationship problems are created by men.

What is wrong? Men are supposed to be strong, why are we this weak?

See evidence:
https://www.nairaland.com/5533279/screenshot-experience-hands-terrible-gold
https://www.nairaland.com/5535255/what-could-wrong-girl-serious
https://www.nairaland.com/5536129/seems-lady-more-than-power
https://www.nairaland.com/5535996/how-whatsapp-hacking-saved-me
https://www.nairaland.com/5537245/think-girlfriend-abortion-hiding-it
https://www.nairaland.com/5535499/fiancee-lied-me-now-find



Ladies, are you guys not facing any issue in ur marriage or relationship?

Why are guys the victim on nairaland?

Cc: hamachi Pocohantas Omar Lalasticala and few to mention

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Re: Why Always Guys? Why Are Guys Most Victim On Nairaland? by DryMouth: 10:00am On Nov 19, 2019
Ladies prefer to die in silence

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Re: Why Always Guys? Why Are Guys Most Victim On Nairaland? by Larryfest(m): 10:05am On Nov 19, 2019
U think say na everyone get time to dey carry der private matter come nairaland

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Re: Why Always Guys? Why Are Guys Most Victim On Nairaland? by Bigflamie(m): 10:14am On Nov 19, 2019
I've aware of this too, that's why I hardly visit these sections you mentioned.

A lot of frustrated weaklings trying to get irrelevant consolation.

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Re: Why Always Guys? Why Are Guys Most Victim On Nairaland? by Lionpikin(m): 10:23am On Nov 19, 2019
DenreleDave:
Go to family thread, romance section , every thread about problems in marriage and relationship is most created by guys.
Why aren't women coming online to post their relationship issues?
Are men the victim?
Are women the wicked ones?

Upon Ubunja miseducation, Omar, red pills, Martinez, yet every thread you open about marriage or relationship problems are created by men.

What is wrong? Men are supposed to be strong, why are we this weak?

See evidence:
https://www.nairaland.com/5533279/screenshot-experience-hands-terrible-gold
https://www.nairaland.com/5535255/what-could-wrong-girl-serious
https://www.nairaland.com/5536129/seems-lady-more-than-power
https://www.nairaland.com/5535996/how-whatsapp-hacking-saved-me
https://www.nairaland.com/5537245/think-girlfriend-abortion-hiding-it
https://www.nairaland.com/5535499/fiancee-lied-me-now-find



Ladies, are you guys not facing any issue in ur marriage or relationship?

Why are guys the victim on nairaland?

Cc: hamachi Pocohantas Omar Lalasticala and few to mention
most of them are weaklings who are not matured enough to handle relationships talk more of marriages.....just sitting down to think for a moment will solve most of the problems they are crying of....too many sissies nowadays

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Re: Why Always Guys? Why Are Guys Most Victim On Nairaland? by Riele(f): 10:26am On Nov 19, 2019
cool

Because they can't bear to have a taste of their medicine .

Women are becoming wise dis days .

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Re: Why Always Guys? Why Are Guys Most Victim On Nairaland? by Hamachi(f): 10:50am On Nov 19, 2019
lipsrsealed
Lionpikin:
most of them are weaklings who are not matured enough to handle relationships talk more of marriages.....just sitting down to think for a moment will solve most of the problems they are crying of....too many sissies nowadays
Re: Why Always Guys? Why Are Guys Most Victim On Nairaland? by Nobody: 10:57am On Nov 19, 2019
Not really. Forget social media, women face more difficulties in relationships than men.
Take cheating for example. Among the males, its a natural thing to have a sidechick. Most even excuse it with that whole, 'variety is the spice of life' and 'males are polygamous by nature', crap!
But in our society, its a taboo for a married woman to cheat. Talk back at her husband, stay away from home, have a certain amount of male friends, party late at night, drink and smoke, etc.
This wayward lifestyle is now a norm that we women have learnt to tolerate and live with. A mother would even scold her daughter if she leaves the marital home because her husband is cheating/cheated.

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Re: Why Always Guys? Why Are Guys Most Victim On Nairaland? by Nobody: 11:08am On Nov 19, 2019
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Re: Why Always Guys? Why Are Guys Most Victim On Nairaland? by Nobody: 12:02pm On Nov 19, 2019
DenreleDave:
Go to family thread, romance section , every thread about problems in marriage and relationship is most created by guys.
Why aren't women coming online to post their relationship issues?
Are men the victim?
Are women the wicked ones?

Upon Ubunja miseducation, Omar, red pills, Martinez, yet every thread you open about marriage or relationship problems are created by men.

What is wrong? Men are supposed to be strong, why are we this weak?

See evidence:
https://www.nairaland.com/5533279/screenshot-experience-hands-terrible-gold
https://www.nairaland.com/5535255/what-could-wrong-girl-serious
https://www.nairaland.com/5536129/seems-lady-more-than-power
https://www.nairaland.com/5535996/how-whatsapp-hacking-saved-me
https://www.nairaland.com/5537245/think-girlfriend-abortion-hiding-it
https://www.nairaland.com/5535499/fiancee-lied-me-now-find



Ladies, are you guys not facing any issue in ur marriage or relationship?

Why are guys the victim on nairaland?

Cc: hamachi Pocohantas Omar Lalasticala and few to mention

Different generation, men of those days were a bit hardcore, I guess times have decided that men should be in touch with their emotions and all. I for one can't imagine posting personal relationship issue here. As much as I diss Ubunja most of what he says are red pill and they really apply most times. Men are much more weaker and sentimental than previous generation. It should be a good thing , back then most of the married men I know as long as the children are alright, the wife can turn the house upside down, what concerns him there will be another woman to keep him comfortable. However some woman get it rough too in marriage the ones who complain I would say are the ones who want to save the marriage

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Re: Why Always Guys? Why Are Guys Most Victim On Nairaland? by ubunja(m): 1:08pm On Nov 19, 2019
DenreleDave:
Go to family thread, romance section , every thread about problems in marriage and relationship is most created by guys.
Why aren't women coming online to post their relationship issues?
Are men the victim?
Are women the wicked ones?

Upon Ubunja miseducation, Omar, red pills, Martinez, yet every thread you open about marriage or relationship problems are created by men.

What is wrong? Men are supposed to be strong, why are we this weak?

See evidence:
https://www.nairaland.com/5533279/screenshot-experience-hands-terrible-gold
https://www.nairaland.com/5535255/what-could-wrong-girl-serious
https://www.nairaland.com/5536129/seems-lady-more-than-power
https://www.nairaland.com/5535996/how-whatsapp-hacking-saved-me
https://www.nairaland.com/5537245/think-girlfriend-abortion-hiding-it
https://www.nairaland.com/5535499/fiancee-lied-me-now-find



Ladies, are you guys not facing any issue in ur marriage or relationship?

Why are guys the victim on nairaland?

Cc: hamachi Pocohantas Omar Lalasticala and few to mention
girls talk. You have to know WHERE they talk. They have their own spaces far from the judgy eyes of men where they open their hearts and frustrations.

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Re: Why Always Guys? Why Are Guys Most Victim On Nairaland? by Nobody: 2:40pm On Nov 19, 2019
ubunja:
girls talk. You have to know WHERE they talk.[b] They have their own spaces far from the judgy eyes of men [/b]where they open their hearts and frustrations.


You mean a " coven " .

Re: Why Always Guys? Why Are Guys Most Victim On Nairaland? by Omar09(m): 2:57pm On Nov 19, 2019
Lionpikin:
most of them are weaklings who are not matured enough to handle relationships talk more of marriages.....just sitting down to think for a moment will solve most of the problems they are crying of....too many sissies nowadays

It is not about how weak or strong a man is. Or how matured a man is. Most of them don't even know what they were headed into before going into a relationship. Like what Ubunja just said when we're busy playing construction man, Spider-Man and all fictional characters, these women are busy playing life. At the age of three, a woman already knows what she'd see in a relationship. She's already watching daddy and mommy and reenacting what she's seen with her dolls. But then men were busy with superman.

DenreleDave:
Go to family thread, romance section , every thread about problems in marriage and relationship is most created by guys.
Why aren't women coming online to post their relationship issues?
Are men the victim?
Are women the wicked ones?

Upon Ubunja miseducation, Omar, red pills, Martinez, yet every thread you open about marriage or relationship problems are created by men.

What is wrong? Men are supposed to be strong, why are we this weak?

See evidence:
https://www.nairaland.com/5533279/screenshot-experience-hands-terrible-gold
https://www.nairaland.com/5535255/what-could-wrong-girl-serious
https://www.nairaland.com/5536129/seems-lady-more-than-power
https://www.nairaland.com/5535996/how-whatsapp-hacking-saved-me
https://www.nairaland.com/5537245/think-girlfriend-abortion-hiding-it
https://www.nairaland.com/5535499/fiancee-lied-me-now-find



Ladies, are you guys not facing any issue in ur marriage or relationship?

Why are guys the victim on nairaland?

Cc: hamachi Pocohantas Omar Lalasticala and few to mention

Yes women talk but they can never present themselves as the one with the problem. The give scenarios as to a friend of a friend something... Something... And boom they get the advice they needed. Sometimes the gossip about someone who doesn't have any problem at all with relationship and there looking for the solution to the said relationship, you won't know what's up when you are around there but she, she knows she's the one with the problem. To meet ladies where they discuss such problems visit their hairdresser.

So we don't even know what we're getting ourselves into till we are deep in it. That's why we ask questions. Most of us got into relationships because all of our friends are into. I did it. I had a girlfriend because all my friends were in a relationship. Later I was manipulated in it, till it became hard to leave. So.

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Re: Why Always Guys? Why Are Guys Most Victim On Nairaland? by ubunja(m): 3:34pm On Nov 19, 2019
anslem04:



You mean a " coven " .
yes sir. Those salon visits, the girls night out etc. Then WhatsApp groups, closed Facebook groups etc.

And that attached pic is spot on.
Re: Why Always Guys? Why Are Guys Most Victim On Nairaland? by derrydinny: 3:44pm On Nov 19, 2019
they have no need to bring their matter to nairaland since they will not get any useful advice except insults and misogynistic comments from the frustrated males
Re: Why Always Guys? Why Are Guys Most Victim On Nairaland? by nlPoster: 3:52pm On Nov 19, 2019
ubunja:
yes sir. Those salon visits, the girls night out etc. Then WhatsApp groups, closed Facebook groups etc.

And that attached pic is spot on.

You folks should just post a list of businesses you want nairalanders to patronize and you approve of.

Every business not vetted by you gets bad feedback from you. Not saying you're not right though.
Re: Why Always Guys? Why Are Guys Most Victim On Nairaland? by emmaodet: 5:31pm On Nov 19, 2019
DenreleDave:
Go to family thread, romance section , every thread about problems in marriage and relationship is most created by guys.
Why aren't women coming online to post their relationship issues?
Are men the victim?
Are women the wicked ones?

Upon Ubunja miseducation, Omar, red pills, Martinez, yet every thread you open about marriage or relationship problems are created by men.

What is wrong? Men are supposed to be strong, why are we this weak?

See evidence:
https://www.nairaland.com/5533279/screenshot-experience-hands-terrible-gold
https://www.nairaland.com/5535255/what-could-wrong-girl-serious
https://www.nairaland.com/5536129/seems-lady-more-than-power
https://www.nairaland.com/5535996/how-whatsapp-hacking-saved-me
https://www.nairaland.com/5537245/think-girlfriend-abortion-hiding-it
https://www.nairaland.com/5535499/fiancee-lied-me-now-find



Ladies, are you guys not facing any issue in ur marriage or relationship?

Why are guys the victim on nairaland?

Cc: hamachi Pocohantas Omar Lalasticala and few to mention

You want to know why?
Because men invest more in relationship/marriage than women.
Women mostly bring nothing to the table than pvssy and that is why it's very easyyyyy for them to move on without hitch.
Note one thing in life - whatever you struggle for, struggle to get, maintain and impress will make you cry when you lose it.
Women don't struggle to get love, gifts, ride, money etc They just wake up, dress normally and surprisingly they see people running after them, giving recharge cards, money, gifts etc
So they don't know what it takes to get been loved, it's free and whatever you get free or easily without much effort naturally we tend not to value it.
Only fewwww ladies that invested in relationship by giving there bf money, gifts, everything tends to know how it feels to get dumped or cheated on and such thread only comes once a year on nairaland bcus most don't invest there all in relationship.
Ohun taba sise fun ni pe lowo eni.
It's easier to spend looted or stolen country or company funds or money than your salary you sweated for.
And it's easier to damage a car given as gift to you than the one you saved, took loans and paying back to get.
Cc

Martinez39
Pansophist
Ubunja
Franchasng

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Re: Why Always Guys? Why Are Guys Most Victim On Nairaland? by Martinez39(m): 6:09pm On Nov 19, 2019
emmaodet:


You want to know why?
Because men invest more in relationship/marriage than women.
Women mostly bring nothing to the table than pvssy and that is why it's very easyyyyy for them to move on without hitch.
Note one thing in life - whatever you struggle for, struggle to get, maintain and impress will make you cry when you lose it.
Women don't struggle to get love, gifts, ride, money etc They just wake up, dress normally and surprisingly they see people running after them, giving recharge cards, money, gifts etc
So they don't know what it takes to get been loved, it's free and whatever you get free or easily without much effort naturally we tend not to value it.
Only fewwww ladies that invested in relationship by giving there bf money, gifts, everything tends to know how it feels to get dumped or cheated on and such thread only comes once a year on nairaland bcus most don't invest there all in relationship.
Ohun taba sise fun ni pe lowo eni.
It's easier to spend looted or stolen country or company funds or money than your salary you sweated for.
And it's easier to damage a car given as gift to you than the one you saved, took loans and paying back to get.
Cc

Martinez39
Pansophist
Ubunja
Franchasng
You nailed this magnificently. If this were a boxing match, experts would say you gave the op a K.O.

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Re: Why Always Guys? Why Are Guys Most Victim On Nairaland? by Hamachi(f): 6:40pm On Nov 19, 2019
wink
ubunja:
girls talk. You have to know WHERE they talk. They have their own spaces far from the judgy eyes of men where they open their hearts and frustrations.
Re: Why Always Guys? Why Are Guys Most Victim On Nairaland? by maak400: 7:32pm On Nov 19, 2019
Because men usually love genuinely unlike women who love as far as the juice is still flowing but show their true colors when the cash dries up. A woman’s love is conditional therefore it’s easy for them to become cold hearted in relationships when the main thing that attracted them to the man is no longer present.
Men will always be the victim as long as they keep loving like mugu undecided

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Re: Why Always Guys? Why Are Guys Most Victim On Nairaland? by Lonelypacifist6: 8:41pm On Nov 19, 2019
Go to the family section and check the threads properly.
Re: Why Always Guys? Why Are Guys Most Victim On Nairaland? by DenreleDave(m): 12:13am On Nov 20, 2019
Lonelypacifist6:
Go to the family section and check the threads properly.


U no check am pass me Bro.

So just cool down

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