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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Equity15: 11:45am On Nov 20, 2019
mudiana:
If she didn't call u to say she wants to have sex. If it was all chat plus d styles. Bros no go, na set up.
you get sense

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Sunisonflex39(m): 11:49am On Nov 20, 2019
openmine:
Op She is a selfish and manipulative person.....you should not hang around these kind of ladies!
Just leave before she sets a trap for you!
thanks man..
I never expected this many insults from people here like I planned for everything..it makes me depressed.
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by DennisEche(m): 11:50am On Nov 20, 2019
Sunisonflex39:
I met this girl two years ago, to cut long story short, she told me that she is in a relationship. I respected the fact that she has a guy and I stopped making advance as a gentleman. But I call as much as possible just to check on her.

Then one night, her boyfriend chatted me up on Whatsapp and as gentlemen, we talked about it like matured people and I told him I am not gonna stick around that he should talk to his girlfriend.

I asked how he got my number, he said he secretly took it from her phone because of the many calls and most times I call, both of them are together.

I asked him what has the girl been telling him about me, he told me she is saying we are just friends and nothing much.

II apologized to him and said I will watch my limits that he should talk to the girl himself about it.

Two days passed, I have stopped calling the girl like I used to, then on the third day she called and asked me why did I change all of a sudden that I no longer chat her up or call like I used to, she was being emotional, and as a good friend, I love her and wouldn't want to see her sad.

I opened up to her about what transpired between me and her guy and I begged her not to confront him. She was so mad at the guy for chatting me up after she has told him many times that I am "just a friend".

I told the girl that for the sake of her relationship, I don't want to stick around and I don't want to be the guy that breaks people's relationships.

The girl started crying and said I should not leave her, that I should at least be her best friend that she can't loss me..

I agreed to be the bestfriend so as to make her feel happy..

Fast forward to this week, the girl said she loves me so much and didn't know how to tell me before and she is kind of confused to chose between her guy and me. I told her that I love her too but she should not leave anybody for me that we should just continue being friends and see what the future holds because no one knows tomorrow.

Few days ago, the girl said she wants to have sex with me.. and even going as far as telling me the style she wants..

I respect the fact that she is in a relationship and I even told her about it, but she was having non of it.

Please nairalanders, what should I do.



you are a useless moderfuka, you always had the intention of sleeping with her, why did you tell her the guy called you ? breaking the bro code

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Sunisonflex39(m): 11:50am On Nov 20, 2019
Equity15:
you get sense
are u saying she might not be the one I was chatting with?
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Puregold3: 11:50am On Nov 20, 2019
Imagine..
You invited her over...
Really...
How would u feel if u had a gf nd maybe someday u called., then she says her bestie invites her over..(spits)
You not a man at all..
You re Just a pussy nigga.

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Equity15: 11:52am On Nov 20, 2019
Sunisonflex39:
are u saying she might not be the one I was chatting with?
yah..possibly. try to confirm with a call .
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Sunisonflex39(m): 11:53am On Nov 20, 2019
Puregold3:
Imagine..
You invited her over...
Really...
How would u feel if u had a gf nd u call, then call her, she says her bestie invites her over..(spits)
You not a man at all..
You re Just a pussy nigga.
were was it written that I invited her over?
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Sunisonflex39(m): 11:54am On Nov 20, 2019
Equity15:
yah..possibly. try to confirm with a call .
with what's going on now, I have kept my distance since Sunday.. no call or chat again
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by etrange: 11:57am On Nov 20, 2019
Hahaha... guys think they're the only ones who can play girls anyhow. See a lady playing two guys like a queen! I stan!

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Khalidase83(m): 11:57am On Nov 20, 2019
You are more or less a standby generator in this scenario. You are a back up plan for her. You know what to do bro.

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by oyinda1599(f): 11:58am On Nov 20, 2019
Edyice:
How will you tell the gal what her man told you ?

Uncle both of us know wella say you want knack

Just go and knack , that's what you wanted for telling her and bringing confusion....

You should know that if you spoil this and successfully take her away , another lad will work on her same way grin and pray it's not me because with my 6.3 inches eggplant cool .. I don't need to explain the damage to you..

Unless you only want knack regularly or sometimes not letting her man knows... (Its called bestie with benefits grin)

Hmmm... 6.3 inches!
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Chingykay77: 12:03pm On Nov 20, 2019
Dude my advice is just Bleep her very well cos if you let her then you'll never see that kinda opportunity again
Talking from experience



Just do either the banging or the love making but never let her escape from your amiable D
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by lereinter(m): 12:05pm On Nov 20, 2019
rooster and Bull story
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by azbus54(m): 12:07pm On Nov 20, 2019
[quote author=MrBrownJay1 post=84176692]you have to be honest with your own self.... IS THAT THE TYPE OF WOMAN YOU WANT IN YOUR LIFE? a deceitful, disrespectful, dishonest person who is willing to sleep with you?!

remember, what you wish will be what you will get, and when she will be tired of you, she will play you the same way she has been playing this guy all along (and he was right to be suspicious about her). a woman who cheat on her man to be with you, will cheat on you to be with other men....FACT!!!!
Your head dey there
[b][quote author=MrBrownJay1 post=84176692]you have to be honest with your own self.... [b]IS THAT THE TYPE OF WOMAN YOU WANT IN YOUR LIFE?
a deceitful, disrespectful, dishonest person who is willing to sleep with you?!

remember, what you wish will be what you will get, and when she will be tired of you, she will play you the same way she has been playing this guy all along (and he was right to be suspicious about her). a woman who cheat on her man to be with you, will cheat on you to be with other men....FACT!!!!
Your head dey there
[quote author=MrBrownJay1 post=84176692]you have to be honest with your own self.... IS THAT THE TYPE OF WOMAN YOU WANT IN YOUR LIFE? a deceitful, disrespectful, dishonest person who is willing to sleep with you?!

remember, what you wish will be what you will get, and when she will be tired of you, she will play you the same way she has been playing this guy all along (and he was right to be suspicious about her). a woman who cheat on her man to be with you, will cheat on you to be with other men....[b]FACT!!!!
Your head dey there

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by mechanics(m): 12:09pm On Nov 20, 2019
You made a mistake by telling her you love her.

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by jaxxy(m): 12:10pm On Nov 20, 2019
Sunisonflex39:
why is everyone acting like am a devil.. this was never my plan.. and I have even talked to the girl about all of this recently.


I’m not blaming u at all for anything here bro. Uve done the right thing sofar. Sm talking here are even big hypocrites who have done worse than u.

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Nobody: 12:10pm On Nov 20, 2019
Why do you keep calling her when you know she's in a relationship there's nothing like just friend's one way or the other it may end up in tears, now you've blown up a relationship because you want to make her happy as just friends. brother are you the minister of happiness? There's a limit to everything but you went to far my advice don't even think of bleeping her stay back. Be wise young man don't bring ruin to yourself.

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by oyinda1599(f): 12:12pm On Nov 20, 2019
MrBrownJay1:


from the beginning you want this babe, the only reason you stayed around is to be with this babe... you were willing to disregard r/ship common sense and stick around even after her dude asked you to back off, and most importantly, YOU are the reason why they are having difficulties in their r/ship..... and now that you have succeeded in your evil plan and the babe decided that she wants to give you a shot at her coochie, you want to pretend holier than thou coming to NL asking what to do?!?!?!?!? really?!?!?!?!?



What a beautiful analysis....

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Edyice: 12:14pm On Nov 20, 2019
oyinda1599:
Hmmm... 6.3 inches!


Yes when sleeping ooh cool

I saw your fine picture and I like your waist grin
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Sunisonflex39(m): 12:14pm On Nov 20, 2019
jaxxy:



I’m not blaming u at all for anything here bro. Uve done the right thing sofar. Sm talking here are even big hypocrites who have done worse than u.
thanks bro
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by JastSiryin(m): 12:15pm On Nov 20, 2019
No offense bro, but you've acted unwise. Why? Because you not only went ahead to rat on a guy who reached out to you in respect and confidentiality, you're playing along like an ignoramus to the whims of an indecisive cheat who claims to "love" you but can't leave her bf for reasons best known to her. I just feel for the guy, cuz you both are crazy. Talking 'bout "you love her too" are you for real!!? angry

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by seyithug(m): 12:15pm On Nov 20, 2019
GeniusWannabe:
You said he confronted you gentlemanly, and you both reached terms of agreement. With this, you shouldn't have opened up to the lady, giving her the benefit of the doubt that she wouldn't confront her partner.

To be honest, you have destroyed that relationship, even though you don't realize it. Trying to fix it might be ineffective but you have to try anyway, so you only have two options. You either cut all ties with the lady and go your way, and let things naturally fall into place, or stick with her as a friend and maybe become her man later on. Remember one thing however, what goes around comes around.
Couldn't have said it better. You make so much sense.

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Mutemenot(m): 12:22pm On Nov 20, 2019
Sirvingeo:
Young man that lady is playing both of you . Both of you are important to her one way or the other . From your story I think the real boyfriend provide the cash while you will supply her a mind blowing sex. Her asking you for sex proves she is not enjoying sex with her main boyfriend .

Guy leave that lady, money will always win over anything . In fact you are already a looser .

I think the girl is a typical Nigerian girl that wants to grab everything she sees in a fast food shocked ma to chop her n clean mouth like lizard

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Viktorino: 12:28pm On Nov 20, 2019
She wants to trap you with pregnancy,simple grin She sees you as a good father that will always stick with her.I believe she has intentions of getting married soon.That is why she is weighing you both.Use condom grin cheesy

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Avast(m): 12:30pm On Nov 20, 2019
Sunisonflex39:
I met this girl two years ago, to cut long story short, she told me that she is in a relationship. I respected the fact that she has a guy and I stopped making advance as a gentleman. But I call as much as possible just to check on her.

Then one night, her boyfriend chatted me up on Whatsapp and as gentlemen, we talked about it like matured people and I told him I am not gonna stick around that he should talk to his girlfriend.

I asked how he got my number, he said he secretly took it from her phone because of the many calls and most times I call, both of them are together.

I asked him what has the girl been telling him about me, he told me she is saying we are just friends and nothing much.

II apologized to him and said I will watch my limits that he should talk to the girl himself about it.

Two days passed, I have stopped calling the girl like I used to, then on the third day she called and asked me why did I change all of a sudden that I no longer chat her up or call like I used to, she was being emotional, and as a good friend, I love her and wouldn't want to see her sad.

I opened up to her about what transpired between me and her guy and I begged her not to confront him. She was so mad at the guy for chatting me up after she has told him many times that I am "just a friend".

I told the girl that for the sake of her relationship, I don't want to stick around and I don't want to be the guy that breaks people's relationships.

The girl started crying and said I should not leave her, that I should at least be her best friend that she can't loss me..

I agreed to be the bestfriend so as to make her feel happy..

Fast forward to this week, the girl said she loves me so much and didn't know how to tell me before and she is kind of confused to chose between her guy and me. I told her that I love her too but she should not leave anybody for me that we should just continue being friends and see what the future holds because no one knows tomorrow.

Few days ago, the girl said she wants to have sex with me.. and even going as far as telling me the style she wants..

I respect the fact that she is in a relationship and I even told her about it, but she was having non of it.

Please nairalanders, what should I do.




Congratulations guy

You just found a new intimacy gadget, make sure you use it very well because it's not going to last.

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Avast(m): 12:35pm On Nov 20, 2019
Edyice:
How will you tell the gal what her man told you ?

Uncle both of us know wella say you want knack

Just go and knack , that's what you wanted for telling her and bringing confusion....

You should know that if you spoil this and successfully take her away , another lad will work on her same way grin and pray it's not me because with my 6.3 inches eggplant cool .. I don't need to explain the damage to you..

Unless you only want knack regularly or sometimes not letting her man knows... (Its called bestie with benefits grin)


The lady below wants to have a taste I guess.

oyinda1599:
Hmmm... 6.3 inches!
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by MPESA(m): 12:36pm On Nov 20, 2019
Sunisonflex39:
I am not a relationship breaker bro. that's why I have been trying my best.

You have been trying your best by sticking around her, calling and keeping communication regularly with her ....
Bro you are responsible for whatsoever that happened between them even for the guy to reach out to you without a fight sayz alot About the energy and resources he/they have put together Yet you still went ahead to destroy what they have built together for a time.
P.s.
Bro you have taken a repayable loan for tomorrow with an interest because what goes around comes around best of luck in your marital life.

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Nobody: 12:41pm On Nov 20, 2019
Tell that girl to choose between you and her boyfriend,and tell her to do it amicably possibly having a meeting between you three.If she's not brave enough,my guy you better withdraw totally from every thing including the friendship,don't allow a girl bring problem between you and another guy,it isn't worth it

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by 3kay945(m): 12:41pm On Nov 20, 2019
Edyice:
How will you tell the gal what her man told you ?

Uncle both of us know wella say you want knack

Just go and knack , that's what you wanted for telling her and bringing confusion....

You should know that if you spoil this and successfully take her away , another lad will work on her same way grin and pray it's not me because with my 6.3 inches eggplant cool .. I don't need to explain the damage to you..

Unless you only want knack regularly or sometimes not letting her man knows... (Its called bestie with benefits grin)


grin wink

No be only 6.3 eggplant
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by KingUg(m): 12:44pm On Nov 20, 2019
Sunisonflex39:
I met this girl two years ago, to cut long story short, she told me that she is in a relationship. I respected the fact that she has a guy and I stopped making advance as a gentleman. But I call as much as possible just to check on her.

Then one night, her boyfriend chatted me up on Whatsapp and as gentlemen, we talked about it like matured people and I told him I am not gonna stick around that he should talk to his girlfriend.

I asked how he got my number, he said he secretly took it from her phone because of the many calls and most times I call, both of them are together.

I asked him what has the girl been telling him about me, he told me she is saying we are just friends and nothing much.

II apologized to him and said I will watch my limits that he should talk to the girl himself about it.

Two days passed, I have stopped calling the girl like I used to, then on the third day she called and asked me why did I change all of a sudden that I no longer chat her up or call like I used to, she was being emotional, and as a good friend, I love her and wouldn't want to see her sad.

I opened up to her about what transpired between me and her guy and I begged her not to confront him. She was so mad at the guy for chatting me up after she has told him many times that I am "just a friend".

I told the girl that for the sake of her relationship, I don't want to stick around and I don't want to be the guy that breaks people's relationships.

The girl started crying and said I should not leave her, that I should at least be her best friend that she can't loss me..

I agreed to be the bestfriend so as to make her feel happy..

Fast forward to this week, the girl said she loves me so much and didn't know how to tell me before and she is kind of confused to chose between her guy and me. I told her that I love her too but she should not leave anybody for me that we should just continue being friends and see what the future holds because no one knows tomorrow.

Few days ago, the girl said she wants to have sex with me.. and even going as far as telling me the style she wants..

I respect the fact that she is in a relationship and I even told her about it, but she was having non of it.

Please nairalanders, what should I do.



bro stop abusing the word Gentleman if you were a gentle man, you won't have opened up to the babe about your conversation with her guy, you intentionally wanted to break their relationship knowing fully well the babe would get furious & confront the guy stop all the cheap lies you knew what you wanted all the while stop asking us for approval & you even seem like a guy who is easily manipulated emotionally, truth be told dude you sound like all these weak guys who are easily pushed around.......

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by GhostWisperer: 12:45pm On Nov 20, 2019
Sunisonflex39:
I met this girl two years ago, to cut long story short, she told me that she is in a relationship. I respected the fact that she has a guy and I stopped making advance as a gentleman. But I call as much as possible just to check on her.

Then one night, her boyfriend chatted me up on Whatsapp and as gentlemen, we talked about it like matured people and I told him I am not gonna stick around that he should talk to his girlfriend.

I asked how he got my number, he said he secretly took it from her phone because of the many calls and most times I call, both of them are together.

I asked him what has the girl been telling him about me, he told me she is saying we are just friends and nothing much.

II apologized to him and said I will watch my limits that he should talk to the girl himself about it.

Two days passed, I have stopped calling the girl like I used to, then on the third day she called and asked me why did I change all of a sudden that I no longer chat her up or call like I used to, she was being emotional, and as a good friend, I love her and wouldn't want to see her sad.

I opened up to her about what transpired between me and her guy and I begged her not to confront him. She was so mad at the guy for chatting me up after she has told him many times that I am "just a friend".

I told the girl that for the sake of her relationship, I don't want to stick around and I don't want to be the guy that breaks people's relationships.

The girl started crying and said I should not leave her, that I should at least be her best friend that she can't loss me..

I agreed to be the bestfriend so as to make her feel happy..

Fast forward to this week, the girl said she loves me so much and didn't know how to tell me before and she is kind of confused to chose between her guy and me. I told her that I love her too but she should not leave anybody for me that we should just continue being friends and see what the future holds because no one knows tomorrow.

Few days ago, the girl said she wants to have sex with me.. and even going as far as telling me the style she wants..

I respect the fact that she is in a relationship and I even told her about it, but she was having non of it.

Please nairalanders, what should I do.



you're the disgusting type of people no one would keep as a friend or trust. Very two-faced, hypocritical and deadly.

A girl told you she's in a relationship and you're still calling to "check up on her". Are you her guardian Angel? Deadly and plastic pretentious plague like you are very good in manipulation.

While calling and checking up on her, you were still passively wooing her with frequent calls and caring and in the same process jeopardising her relationship and you know exactly what you were doing. You stuck around her DM like a toilet revisionist fly pretending to be a friend when what you had in mind is manipulation and pushing your own agenda.

The boyfriend even called you to complain about the frequency of your chat with his girl and you went back to tell the girl . What a dripping gaping cunt you are!!!

Anyways, she's a confused LovePeddler and will still dump your wuzzy ass for another "friend" very soon.

Snaky creep!!!

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by babadeee(m): 12:47pm On Nov 20, 2019
GeniusWannabe:
You said he confronted you gentlemanly, and you both reached terms of agreement. With this, you shouldn't have opened up to the lady, giving her the benefit of the doubt that she wouldn't confront her partner.

To be honest, you have destroyed that relationship, even though you don't realize it. Trying to fix it might be ineffective but you have to try anyway, so you only have two options. You either cut all ties with the lady and go your way, and let things naturally fall into place, or stick with her as a friend and maybe become her man later on. Remember one thing however, what goes around comes around.
Nice one bro, best comment here so far. Karma is real

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