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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by MedicH: 11:10pm On Nov 20, 2019
midnighter:


Better get back to your umunna meeting and stop looking for garri to drink in my mentions

lol
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by midnighter(f): 1:07am On Nov 21, 2019
MedicH:


lol
cheesy
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by ZaOzaRoom(m): 5:28am On Nov 21, 2019
awwfar:
if the story is true... you're a bastard for telling her about her foolish insecure bf..and who you dey fool sef? isn't that what u want deep down? and now that she's all yours ..we go see if that mumu love fire burning in your Brain won't go down when u finally bang her and trust me you will always watch your back even if the fire no go down..you will most likely end up like her mumu insecure bf cos you go dey fear for history Everytime she introduce a guy to u as her friend,especially if that one con dey alright pass u..Na heart attack go finally kill u laslas
Awesome comment.
The guy is a chicken.

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by ZaOzaRoom(m): 5:37am On Nov 21, 2019
Sunisonflex39:
bros I was willing to back of.. you should have seen the way this girl cried and plead that I should not leave her life completely...i agreed to be her best friend.. there was no issue at first but just recently she started behaving abnormal.i told her I v always respected the fact that she has a man.. that if I was in his shoes, I will be feeling bad to what she is doing.
Calling her everytime to check on her was the greatest mistake you made. You knew she had a guy but you kept calling her to check on her. Is she your sister or related to you?
I have a principle, if I'm not dating you then I have no business with you whatsoever.
If you need anything from me then contact me by any means necessary. Not me creating a dirty friendship avenue that may bring calamity like the one you just brought to this headless hoe of a girl.

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by ZaOzaRoom(m): 5:44am On Nov 21, 2019
Bang that bitch and don't ever think of wifying her.
Stop being a fvcking gentleman.
She badly needs your preek hence she will not calm down.
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by ZaOzaRoom(m): 5:45am On Nov 21, 2019
Sunisonflex39:
do u prefer I rejected her all together and see her depressed?
This comment shows you can easily be manipulated by a woman.
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by toprealman: 9:15am On Nov 21, 2019
Sunisonflex39:
I met this girl two years ago, to cut long story short, she told me that she is in a relationship. I respected the fact that she has a guy and I stopped making advance as a gentleman. But I call as much as possible just to check on her.

Then one night, her boyfriend chatted me up on Whatsapp and as gentlemen, we talked about it like matured people and I told him I am not gonna stick around that he should talk to his girlfriend.

I asked how he got my number, he said he secretly took it from her phone because of the many calls and most times I call, both of them are together.

I asked him what has the girl been telling him about me, he told me she is saying we are just friends and nothing much.

II apologized to him and said I will watch my limits that he should talk to the girl himself about it.

Two days passed, I have stopped calling the girl like I used to, then on the third day she called and asked me why did I change all of a sudden that I no longer chat her up or call like I used to, she was being emotional, and as a good friend, I love her and wouldn't want to see her sad.

I opened up to her about what transpired between me and her guy and I begged her not to confront him. She was so mad at the guy for chatting me up after she has told him many times that I am "just a friend".

I told the girl that for the sake of her relationship, I don't want to stick around and I don't want to be the guy that breaks people's relationships.

The girl started crying and said I should not leave her, that I should at least be her best friend that she can't loss me..

I agreed to be the bestfriend so as to make her feel happy..

Fast forward to this week, the girl said she loves me so much and didn't know how to tell me before and she is kind of confused to chose between her guy and me. I told her that I love her too but she should not leave anybody for me that we should just continue being friends and see what the future holds because no one knows tomorrow.

Few days ago, the girl said she wants to have sex with me.. and even going as far as telling me the style she wants..

I respect the fact that she is in a relationship and I even told her about it, but she was having non of it.

Please nairalanders, what should I do.



Report her to EFFC tell them that you are being molested......mtchew!
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by maximusprime2000: 10:19am On Nov 21, 2019
this op is just playing with una brain around here as if his less than ten years old. he did asked for advice wen he was calling her often and now he needed advice on where to put his prick. only a fool of a took will reason with you here. mtchew let him quote me if thunder no go kill him mama. traffic parody seekers. mtchew spit. d mumu boifriend played himself by chatting him up. i dont care to know who call my gf. she always wondered why i dont care n she respect me more. but her days r numbered anyway. loose girls will always used insecurity as excuse to back out of their relationships. lesson fi di learners lol.
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by vincentjk(m): 10:36am On Nov 21, 2019
You've broken the "bro code" bro

What you wouldn't like someone to do to you, do it not to another bro
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Nig4Greatness: 1:30pm On Nov 21, 2019
Beverlyjean:


The day she will dump ur sorry ass, she will not care if u die on the matter ... Keep on formi g what u don't know ... Better hit her b4 she hits u ... Someone that doesn't care about her bfs feelings ...is it ur own she will care about when she meets someone new .... Better b wise... Smash her and dump her quickly ... Attach emotions and sorry will b ur last name

You talk like a nigga...
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by whodohgeepee(m): 2:55pm On Nov 21, 2019
Sunisonflex39:
with what's going on now, I have kept my distance since Sunday.. no call or chat again

You lie Mr J! Which distance?

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Sunisonflex39(m): 3:17pm On Nov 21, 2019
whodohgeepee:


You lie Mr J! Which distance?
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Sunisonflex39(m): 3:17pm On Nov 21, 2019
whodohgeepee:

You lie Mr J! Which distance?
I have
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Sambaby7640: 4:23pm On Nov 21, 2019
Sunisonflex39:
i told her I wouldn't be sticking around anymore,but she was crying and begging that I shouldn't cut my self away from her.
she asked me to at least be her best friend which I agreed on. everything was going on well until recently she started this behavior.
dude bleep her silly joor
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Puregold3: 5:07pm On Nov 21, 2019
Sunisonflex39:
were was it written that I invited her over?
Here

Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Sunisonflex39(m): 6:49pm On Nov 21, 2019
Puregold3:
Here
I just invited her to talk to her about it.. it's not bad
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by dnawah(m): 7:42pm On Nov 21, 2019
Sunisonflex39:
I met this girl two years ago, to cut long story short, she told me that she is in a relationship. I respected the fact that she has a guy and I stopped making advance as a gentleman. But I call as much as possible just to check on her.

Then one night, her boyfriend chatted me up on Whatsapp and as gentlemen, we talked about it like matured people and I told him I am not gonna stick around that he should talk to his girlfriend.

I asked how he got my number, he said he secretly took it from her phone because of the many calls and most times I call, both of them are together.

I asked him what has the girl been telling him about me, he told me she is saying we are just friends and nothing much.

II apologized to him and said I will watch my limits that he should talk to the girl himself about it.

Two days passed, I have stopped calling the girl like I used to, then on the third day she called and asked me why did I change all of a sudden that I no longer chat her up or call like I used to, she was being emotional, and as a good friend, I love her and wouldn't want to see her sad.

I opened up to her about what transpired between me and her guy and I begged her not to confront him. She was so mad at the guy for chatting me up after she has told him many times that I am "just a friend".

I told the girl that for the sake of her relationship, I don't want to stick around and I don't want to be the guy that breaks people's relationships.

The girl started crying and said I should not leave her, that I should at least be her best friend that she can't loss me..

I agreed to be the bestfriend so as to make her feel happy..

Fast forward to this week, the girl said she loves me so much and didn't know how to tell me before and she is kind of confused to chose between her guy and me. I told her that I love her too but she should not leave anybody for me that we should just continue being friends and see what the future holds because no one knows tomorrow.

Few days ago, the girl said she wants to have sex with me.. and even going as far as telling me the style she wants..

I respect the fact that she is in a relationship and I even told her about it, but she was having non of it.

Please nairalanders, what should I do.



you want person way you go say na him talk,on the judgement day abi?my hands no dey
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by dairykidd(m): 2:57pm On Nov 30, 2019
Guy Bleep that bitchh very hard like u mean to kill her... When i tell people never take a girl serious if her bestie is a guy like u. dem say na lie. Op if u no Bleep that girl ehn, make thunder fire u dick bend angry
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Deeminaj(f): 7:37pm On Feb 26
my dear u want her to be happy doesnt mean u will devalue yourself for her,let her be ,because she wan use u warm body, If you are okay being a side dude or bestie with benefit then go for it but remember KARMA .
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by izibili44: 2:39am On Feb 27
yes na waiting him wan hear.
charleff512:
Nna! You know what to do. Why asking?
All you want is approval and validation.No be so?

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