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Benclever1:
Hello everyone.

So I met this girl through a mutual friend and we started bonding. Initially, I didn't take the friendship seriously because this lady is a little older than me and I do not see any future between us.

Now, things got more intense between us. She visited me one time, one thing leading to another, we were in bed, about to have sex and then I pulled out the condom but she refused, insisting that she doesn't enjoy sex with condom. I was very surprised to hear that, so I tried to make her see reasons why the condom is very necessary. She adamantly refused. We ended up not having the sex that day.

Just last week she visited again and we spent the night together. We tried to have sex again but the same issue came up again. She insisted I must not used condom. Now this got me upset. During the conversation that ensued, she made it very clear to me that she does not have any STD/STI so I should not be afraid. She however admitted that she was ovulating and that the chances of getting her pregnant was high, but that I should not worry that she'd take care of herself and the pregnancy, if it happens. She said that she would not force me to get involved with the baby if I don't want. However, she made very clear that she's not ready to get married. This got me confused.

I don't want to let my guards down by indulging in unprotected sex with someone I don't trust. I also do not want to hurt her feelings. So I plan to take her for medical tests next week and then we can kick it off from there.

What's your advise for me.

Thank you.

abeg pass d woman to me i need a baby mama na too just go do medical test for her first case closed

Wow

Pls, be wise! She is up to something.

Don't even think is only guys that uses girls for Y+ you better be careful and use protection if not see your life for outside ooo[color=#990000][/color]

Op, sex and pu*ssy kill you there.

Benclever1:
Hello everyone.

So I met this girl through a mutual friend and we started bonding. Initially, I didn't take the friendship seriously because this lady is a little older than me and I do not see any future between us.

Now, things got more intense between us. She visited me one time, one thing leading to another, we were in bed, about to have sex and then I pulled out the condom but she refused, insisting that she doesn't enjoy sex with condom. I was very surprised to hear that, so I tried to make her see reasons why the condom is very necessary. She adamantly refused. We ended up not having the sex that day.

Just last week she visited again and we spent the night together. We tried to have sex again but the same issue came up again. She insisted I must not used condom. Now this got me upset. During the conversation that ensued, she made it very clear to me that she does not have any STD/STI so I should not be afraid. She however admitted that she was ovulating and that the chances of getting her pregnant was high, but that I should not worry that she'd take care of herself and the pregnancy, if it happens. She said that she would not force me to get involved with the baby if I don't want. However, she made very clear that she's not ready to get married. This got me confused.

I don't want to let my guards down by indulging in unprotected sex with someone I don't trust. I also do not want to hurt her feelings. So I plan to take her for medical tests next week and then we can kick it off from there.

What's your advise for me.

Thank you.

It's a good idea to take her for medical tests

She wants a child and she may not care if you don't provide for her

I think you need to help her get pregnant but before then, let her open up to you why she desperately needs a child

And what will be the child future is you decided to leave the relationship

As you said she is older than you, maybe she is capable of taking care of b the child with or with out you

There is also another possibility of you getting married to her, you won't be the first

Fountainofyouth:



It really beats me that a guy, at the climax of arousal and urge, would really not have the sex raw, no matter the consequences.

the fear of STD is real

this one she insisted no cd . my bro is better to run for ur precious life. than had I know comes at last.tnx

Follow your mind


Sex does not last more than 6hours

is it that sex before marriage does not count/matter anymore??

Okoroawusa:

For your mind you are advising people abi?

Abeg no make me laugh

Me keh? I get mouth....

You can laugh all you want. I kmow all I'm saying is falling on deaf ears but me I'll sha say my own. So laugh weh weh

SBL28:
Free her, sex should not be that complicated. Unless you want to risk it all! But over what

A very apt summary.
Babe,you get sense well well ooo

Two of you should just go do a test before you proceed and if your both clear hit her front right and center raw but alway obey your first mind

Bed time post. Give a gal what a gal wants, then enjoy it!

meanwhile, tell her you are HIV plus if you haven't taken the bond seriously. Then watch her demo

Benclever1:

No, I haven't had unprotected sex with her. I'm really confused. I don't know if I should stop seeing her or just take her to a hospital for test then start having unprotected sex with her. But then again, how am I sure she isn't like that with other people.

Stop seeing her jor. In this age I wonder how folks have unprotected sex with whom they are not legally married to.

Team 'Trust nobody'.

Bro, I had similar experience from an older lady who once came to visit me knowing too well that she was on her ovulation, she planned this with her elder sister before visiting. I never knew until after the first round and I realized it, so I asked her and she confirmed it so I went quickly for postinor 2. To my greatest surprise she rejected the drugs and told me its for girls within the age bracket of 20-27, she was about 36 then, and so she refused and I never plan to settle with her so I was left with my fate, I thank my stars when she called me few weeks later that her plans didn't play out. Not to forget she was telling me the same thing that she doesn't mind if I support her to raise the child or not, whenever am ready to father the child I am welcome. Now that's to show how desperate most of these menopause approaching ladies could be. So my advice, stand your ground unless you see her as your wife in the future, secondly she might even have a deadly infection and is looking for how to infect you as her victim.

WTF! Bros, please don't do it. She's definitely wants to implicate you. Run for your life...she's just an imp!

Fountainofyouth:



It really beats me that a guy, at the climax of arousal and urge, would really not have the sex raw, no matter the consequences.

I am sorry if I will offend you with this but I always read your comments on threads with hope of seeing a free and intelligent mind. This comment is not from your brain I have been following

Benclever1:
Hello everyone.

So I met this girl through a mutual friend and we started bonding. Initially, I didn't take the friendship seriously because this lady is a little older than me and I do not see any future between us.

Now, things got more intense between us. She visited me one time, one thing leading to another, we were in bed, about to have sex and then I pulled out the condom but she refused, insisting that she doesn't enjoy sex with condom. I was very surprised to hear that, so I tried to make her see reasons why the condom is very necessary. She adamantly refused. We ended up not having the sex that day.

Just last week she visited again and we spent the night together. We tried to have sex again but the same issue came up again. She insisted I must not used condom. Now this got me upset. During the conversation that ensued, she made it very clear to me that she does not have any STD/STI so I should not be afraid. She however admitted that she was ovulating and that the chances of getting her pregnant was high, but that I should not worry that she'd take care of herself and the pregnancy, if it happens. She said that she would not force me to get involved with the baby if I don't want. However, she made very clear that she's not ready to get married. This got me confused.

I don't want to let my guards down by indulging in unprotected sex with someone I don't trust. I also do not want to hurt her feelings. So I plan to take her for medical tests next week and then we can kick it off from there.

What's your advise for me.

Thank you.

Sorry sir, but I may be harsh here...

“You are foolish.”

If you did not see any future then quit rather than fucking.

Fountainofyouth:



It really beats me that a guy, at the climax of arousal and urge, would really not have the sex raw, no matter the consequences.

You are real...I like your sincerity.

It's very hard for a man to have a woman alone n he is aroused n in the mood for sex n because the girl said no condom he will now say "I no do again"....man!...a full blooded man!


Abeg make una no dey whine me!

Bleep Raw jor..
Its only Genital warts she will give you.
We have doctors here on Nairaland to help you out after

Benclever1:

No, I haven't had unprotected sex with her. I'm really confused. I don't know if I should stop seeing her or just take her to a hospital for test then start having unprotected sex with her. But then again, how am I sure she isn't like that with other people.

If you are truly clever as your username implies,I bet you will run for your life

Is it a must for you to ***fill in gap* her?

Benclever1:
Hello everyone.

So I met this girl through a mutual friend and we started bonding. Initially, I didn't take the friendship seriously because this lady is a little older than me and I do not see any future between us.

Now, things got more intense between us. She visited me one time, one thing leading to another, we were in bed, about to have sex and then I pulled out the condom but she refused, insisting that she doesn't enjoy sex with condom. I was very surprised to hear that, so I tried to make her see reasons why the condom is very necessary. She adamantly refused. We ended up not having the sex that day.

Just last week she visited again and we spent the night together. We tried to have sex again but the same issue came up again. She insisted I must not used condom. Now this got me upset. During the conversation that ensued, she made it very clear to me that she does not have any STD/STI so I should not be afraid. She however admitted that she was ovulating and that the chances of getting her pregnant was high, but that I should not worry that she'd take care of herself and the pregnancy, if it happens. She said that she would not force me to get involved with the baby if I don't want. However, she made very clear that she's not ready to get married. This got me confused.

I don't want to let my guards down by indulging in unprotected sex with someone I don't trust. I also do not want to hurt her feelings. So I plan to take her for medical tests next week and then we can kick it off from there.

What's your advise for me.

Thank you.

How does that concern us. You are on your own

Butoneday2:
If you did not see any future then quit rather than fucking.

Well said

All I see here is someone's destiny up for sale and it is yours @OP

Desist from it and turn to God or this could turn out to become that bad story you'll be telling your children or grandchildren.

As long as she is not South African u re safe......

She just needs a child to call her own not that she has any negative idea in her mind. She's probably wanting to rush it because she feels she's aging. I'm sure she's very clean and she isn't trying to implicate you for anything.
My advice : do it if you also feel like having a child with her but don't if you don't feel like.

Jewessgratitude:


Me keh? I get mouth....

You can laugh all you want. I kmow all I'm saying is falling on deaf ears but me I'll sha say my own. So laugh weh weh

Am not laughing...am just trying to make you realize that abstinence is not in the dictionary of youths these both christians n Muslims...

. . . Think with your head and not with your d**k. She has ulterior motives. She is desperate to either be a baby mama or to force you to settle down with her. Still, run when your dicknity is intact. Again, the choice is yours OP. GOODLUCK in your future adventures.