pocohantas:
What your gf did was painful, but then she is only human. Some women are there for the moment and I can't even guarantee you that I would be there forever for a temporarily disabled boyfriend. That is a whole lot of work for anyone. Some will do it out of pity, few out of love.

I assume you have family and day one niggas. I am wondering where they all went to too.

Anyway, It is not compulsory you have the ability to love, date or have sexual excitement. There is MGTOW on Nairaland, you can join them.

If you don't want to join them, seeing that you are obviously concerned- you can speak to a professional.

Congrats on your recovery and success story.

pocohantas:
What your gf did was painful, but then she is only human. Some women are there for the moment and I can't even guarantee you that I would be there forever for a temporarily disabled boyfriend. That is a whole lot of work for anyone. Some will do it out of pity, few out of love.

I assume you have family and day one niggas. I am wondering where they all went to too.

Anyway, It is not compulsory you have the ability to love, date or have sexual excitement. There is MGTOW on Nairaland, you can join them.

If you don't want to join them, seeing that you are obviously concerned- you can speak to a professional.

Congrats on your recovery and success story.

emmaodet:


You are a very dangerous woman.
Which one be make e go join MGTOW for nairaland chapter again?
Seems a guy you once really loved dumped you hence the sheer hatred for men

Bytestream:

Tanks , buh... don't you think I need a child, or is it a good idea to adopt ?

Bytestream:

Tanks , buh... don't you think I need a child, or is it a good idea to adopt ?

Bytestream:
Hello nairalanders, I am going to share my heart break story hoping it will get off my chest it's been 6years now and today is my birthday and I don't want to celebrate another birthday still wishing I hadn't dated Chrissy.
Actually we first met at my matriculation party , I came to the party alone,and I wasn't too gee and excited about matriculation because I didn't see the university as a thing of fun but as a new challenge.
I just sat in a canteen thinking of how I was going to see myself through school since I was the one financing myself, I was still in thought when I heard a friendly tap on my back, I expected to see bro Alex who was my church member and the only person I told about the matriculation.
Buh lo and behold I saw dis nice looking babe smiling at me.
I was surprised buh I Sha smiled back, she asked me why I was sitting all by myself, I just told her that I wanted to have a drink and return to the party.
To cut the story short we danced together dat day (we rocked each other, you Sha know how guys and girls dance dat the lady's ass will be below your belt and she will be twerking) and we started see each other, I was den a very lively person and enjoyed outings and having fun ,then I was working as a project manager for an anti-child trafficking ngo and a girls initiative I also did health lectures for several female rights foundations, so back den I was Making money and me and chrissy started dating.
She was very supportive, caring for me and helping me balance btw sch and work (cus den I was reading health science ) we where Sha together till 300lev when I had a fatal accident that made me start using clutes.
I couldn't work again,I became broke, and of course no family support except occasionally from the church.when d wounds on my legs where fresh, she always visited, always called, always showed me love, always cooked etc.
And I felt motiv to get better and start working again (my hip and leg was dislocated and a bone was fractured).
However everything changed when I could no longer afford my sch fees omo I tried doing health talks on wheelchair, I didn't have much success, d organizations I worked with only gave me a small upkeep stipend, which wasn't enough for my fees.
After sometime my once nice babe started misbehaving always telling me dat one guys george was the one that gave her the money she is using to cook, and when will I get better, I told her "soon". She always nagged me, saying I was now a liability, sometimes she will answer some guys calls in my presence and when I asked her she will say "does are the people feeding you".I Sha didn't say anything cus even her presence around irritated me.
I still couldn't walk for almost a year and 3months( buh I could stand unaided and move some steps).
It was before her graduation she started calling me vegetable, useless and other names, (it was not dat she was feeding me all through I still received money, buh from time to time I was broke) she started saying dat she couldn't marry a cripple oo dat her father would disown her I Sha told her dat I was not cripple and dat I will get better.
To cut d long story short dis babe dumped me (you will know what it means when your only support as a temporarily disabled Is gone) I couldn't wash my clothes cus as I my legs healed they hurt alot...I lived in biscuits...and when I told my pastor what happened and that I wanted to end my life...he adbadvi me against it and gave me his laptop dat was how I started coding omo i coded den with anger...hammering at my laptop and even writing python with paper and pencil it was as bad as that I started avoiding people infact anybody dat told me sorry I hated that person.
To cut it short I started making money from my wheelchair infact I enjoyed staying on that wheelchair , I did a facial recognition app called Iris for a client in Dubai for about 5million naira, and that was how I was able to hire a physiotherapist to repair me lol...
I rewrote jamb and this time I went for computer science....I spend more time with my computer than any human and since haven't been able to get over my ex...
Even now dat I am in 300lev and am living in my own house at igbo-efon and work for andela..
I don't know how to get back my self because sincerely I have forgiven Chrissy buh I don't seem to have the capability to love anymore..
A responsible lady in my church has been making passes at me and have even told me that she loves me....buh I don't even feel any single thing for anyone even sexual excitement...
Please any advice concerning this matter

Lionpikin:
So sorry for your predicament....if there is any way I can help, all you need do is mention it as I live at igbo-efon too, I can occasionally be dropping by to check you when coming back from work...all the best

ornicus:


https://www.nairaland.com/bytestream/topics

Nigga why u trolling

Bytestream:

Tanks , buh... don't you think I need a child, or is it a good idea to adopt ?

Bytestream:

What do you mean please? Is there anything wrong with my topics

Bytestream:

Tanks bro, I attended David christain center...maybe we could meet on Sundays

ornicus:


I can't quite match your post and topic history with your story.

Add to the fact that you claim to be an UNDERGRADUATE working for andela, who recently did mass layoffs...

Bytestream:

Did I say I was a graduate in my last post.. LoL...
Tanks if you feel I am buh in reality am not a graduate am still schooling and working as a remote developer....
It doesn't change anything does it

ornicus:


You said you were an undergraduate employed by andela

No company will give full employment to
an undergraduate
a person without an NYSC discharge certificate


Andela recently laid off everyone but their senior engineers. Are you a senior engineer?

Bytestream:

Remote developer sir.....I don't go on internship..
Only developers that go on internship are classified as senior per say...
Buh if you have are good as a remote developer... you are classified as senior by the ways you recieve jobs and some other conditions, d let off didn't affect us, cus my project manager isn't d one at main hub,Lagos

Vicboy1:
Can python be used in developing of Android apps

ornicus:


You said you were an undergraduate employed by andela

No company will give full employment to
an undergraduate
a person without an NYSC discharge certificate


Andela recently laid off everyone but their senior engineers. Are you a senior engineer?

chigoizie7:



What are you even saying?

That no company will give full employment to a non graduate? Where do you live bro? This is 2019. Some companies no longer go for certificates, they go for skills.

In the world of I.T, you really do not need to be a graduate to excel.

ornicus:


It is illegal for a person without an Nysc certificate to be employed in Nigeria. You claim to be in IT and you are ignorant like this?

chigoizie7:



You are speaking as if you do not live in Nigeria.

You are speaking as if you do not know how things Work’s especially when you are with a private sector.

You are talking as if those people who have only OND do not work in this country.


Baba, you must not be a graduate before you can be fully employed in this nation.


It might be against the law, but that doesn’t mean that private sectors do not do it, that also doesn’t mean that it is right especially if it is against the law, but it happens.



Btw, I am not an I.T person.


When I was still working with a private firm, I knew that so many people were recruiting with only OND, and some of the existing staff were OND holders. This company I am talking of is a firm with over 88 branches in NIgeria as of 2018.
And i know so well that OND holders do not go for NYSC.

ornicus:


It is illegal for a person without an Nysc certificate to be employed in Nigeria. You claim to be in IT and you are ignorant like this?

ornicus:


Maybe if you are working in a garri factory as a casual worker. You work in Nigeria in a company like andela, especially in an entry position, you have your papers.

pocohantas:


How? Isn't MTGOW for men who do not want to love or fall for female manipulation?

I have never "really" loved anyone. It works like crazy. No unnecessary expectations from mortals... Yea, I am very dangerous.

chigoizie7:



Baba go sit down you are just ignorant.

What you said is that no company will employ anyone without NYSC. As it is illegal. I only gave you instances and places where it happens. Weda na garri factory or sugar cane factory, where they employed? Yes or No? Entry level or not, bottom line is that you are a big fat LIAR.or plainly IGNORANT.

SECTION 12
For the purposes of employment anywhere in the Federation and before employment, it shall be the duty of every prospective employer to demand and obtained from any person who claims to have obtained his first degree at the end of the academic year 1973-74 or, as the case may be, at the end of any subsequent academic year the following-
a copy of the Certificate of National Service of such person issued pursuant to section 11 of this Decree
a copy of any exemption certificate issued to such person pursuant to section 17 of this Decree
such other particulars relevant there to as may be prescribed by or under this Decree
It shall also be the duty of every employer to produce on demand to police officer, not below the rank of an Assistant Superintendent of Police, any such certificate and particulars or copies thereof