Dulcinea:
The kind of guys we have in Nairaland are something else. Tufia! You men expect a woman to marry a widower but frowns when a man marries a widow. It's indeed an unequal world!


Op if you really love her and is prepared to accept her kids you can go ahead. The decision all boils down to you.

It's your choice to be happy, you have only one life to live

ikwedim:
Is that why you kill her husband? 😂 😂 😂 😂

okk4sure:

Confirm mumu!

Angelacruz:
Find out wat killed d husband n also make a thorough investigation on her background.if u are okay wit everytink,u can marry her.

isthatso:



he asked a question? ....in the same way as you are commenting


Most men die before their wives for a good reason. Open your eye when you marry wife!!!

EmptyCoconutHead:
hi! u don't Know my real name?

shestrong:



the poster earlier mentioned that he had an accident, so what with d suspicion? or perhaps i do not understand wat u mean.

stupidity:
This life shar!!! Same blood runs in our veins but how it operates differently and individually still beats my imagination.

Those of you castigating the OP, I don’t see anything wrong in marrying a widow. Nothing wrong at all. If you know you have the money to feed extra mouth, why not? People out there adopt kids. So....... I see nothing wrong in marrying someone you love and taking care of her kids as your own

Let’s all assume she made a mistake by having those two kids(got pregnant by mistake or married the wrong person and divorced) She now have to pay for it by not getting a man coz she’s had two kids??

OP, marry her if you love her and don’t listen to what any motherfvcker says.


Someone should tell me where I can catch that chenzen guy. I want to tell him something

Ladyhippolyta88:

So who will marry widows and widowers since you reason like this.

If you were the one and a lady says something like this to you how will you feel.
If you were a widow you nor go marry again

karashita:



Your moniker and your comment are poles apart.I agree with you.
Meanwhile, Chenzen is in his house,awaiting you

Rozaytee:
like ur foolish mum

WorWorBoy2:
Godforbid, them swear for you?
of all the women to marry na widow with 2 children na you wan go marry?
spit.

zeenaman:
I will go straight to the point. In the past, I have had a few unpleasant experiences with girls, ranging from cheating to gold digging habit, for that reason, my heart got hardened and I barely treat girls with any seriousness.

Lately I met this lady, she reignited the love in me. I fell in love with her as if she's the first lady I will be meeting in life. I desire to settle down with her. But the challenge I'm having with her is that, she was previously married with two little kids. She lost her husband two years ago.

Please good people, I will like to know the dangers, if any, that come with marrying such ladies. I so love her. I will like to hear from experienced people. Thanks.

zeenaman:
I will go straight to the point. In the past, I have had a few unpleasant experiences with girls, ranging from cheating to gold digging habit, for that reason, my heart got hardened and I barely treat girls with any seriousness.

Lately I met this lady, she reignited the love in me. I fell in love with her as if she's the first lady I will be meeting in life. I desire to settle down with her. But the challenge I'm having with her is that, she was previously married with two little kids. She lost her husband two years ago.

Please good people, I will like to know the dangers, if any, that come with marrying such ladies. I so love her. I will like to hear from experienced people. Thanks.

chenzen:
Oops! maybe the accident was caused by her village people.

WorWorBoy2:
Godforbid, they swear for you?
of all the women to marry na widow with 2 children na you wan go marry?
spit.

madridguy:
Islamic view: Very good and you also get big reward for doing so.

Street wise: You won't have the fear of her going behind to see her ex like single mother.

The koko be say you must be sure she's really in love with you make he no be say she just dey look for who she go take train her kids...don't get me wrong, there's reward training and helping orphans too but no one will be happy to know say person dey hold him for work.

Have you also discussed this with your parents?

BigGuyMan:
No its not advisable to marry all these expired old newspapers.

Go for young under 26 fresh laps all these old newspapers should go to Congo or Venezuela to look for their husband's.

Don't ever marry any lady above 27. They are all expired and useless

stupidity:
This life shar!!! Same blood runs in our veins but how it operates differently and individually still beats my imagination.

Those of you castigating the OP, I don’t see anything wrong in marrying a widow. Nothing wrong at all. If you know you have the money to feed extra mouth, why not? People out there adopt kids. So....... I see nothing wrong in marrying someone you love and taking care of her kids as your own

Let’s all assume she made a mistake by having those two kids(got pregnant by mistake or married the wrong person and divorced) She now have to pay for it by not getting a man coz she’s had two kids??

OP, marry her if you love her and don’t listen to what any motherfvcker says.


Someone should tell me where I can catch that chenzen guy. I want to tell him something

Looks like stupidity is on break.
Quite in love with your wise intervention here save the swear word. Kudos.

WorWorBoy2:
Godforbid, them swear for you?
of all the women to marry na widow with 2 children na you wan go marry?
spit.

WorWorBoy2:
Godforbid, them swear for you?
of all the women to marry na widow with 2 children na you wan go marry?
spit.