studentofTruth:


So, if your loved one is having some issues — mental or not — you will abandon her to avoid being associated with the problem? You have shown your worth!

What happens to loyalty?

what happens to love and care?

I said she should be sent to a rehab centre y should I abandon her,is she not my relative,with drugs she can be treated ,if she is not given medical attention now she fit enter street o,and when she enter street is d family fault for not sending her to a rehab centre

osazsky:
if u are caught in girls hostel u will be suspended too who does that,I regret attending that sch but I had a target,I just wanted to leave with my cert that was d only thing dat kept me going

You're still mentioning school rules inside the school premises. Show me the rules that guide what students do in private outside the school when on break!

CsRockefeller:


Day after day, I see reasons why I should leave this country. It's sinking deep everyday in all facets.

please stay! Others fixed theirs, let's fix ours too, we can maybe manually wash the brains of this morally decadent youths

studentofTruth:



A private room in a hospital is not a public place! It is a private place, and people still care for their loved ones there.

is it not because he was given a room come ubth or uselu psychiatric, no room there na ward they there wat will u call that,and for ur info most of these rehab centre and psychiatric homes have CCTV cameras installed in them to monitor d behaviour of thier patient so the thing for still leak,but y didn't they go to d hotel the hospital can even sue both of them if it's a private hospital cuz it may spoil d image of d hospital too

CsRockefeller:


Do u really know what you are saying?

A student in one of the Ivy League Universities in the US made a professional porn to raise funds for her tuition, students stumbled on it, it went viral and they expelled her, she never returned or sued the University.

Do u guys talk because you want to say something or because you have something to say?

lolz! Good question! Now see how he or she went "in saner climes" those famous lines they like using to sound intelligent

timidapsin:
Rubbish school..
Hypocrisy everywhere..
They claim to be a Christian school..
Even Jesus didn't expel the prostitute he had encounter with.

So you expect the university to break their rules I suppose huh? Wouldn't you bash them if they had condone such behavior

Jordan97:
Amongst the so many evidences against the girl and the guy, these are my conclusions.

1. The moral standard of our country and the world at larger keeps going down.

2. Seemingly religious people might not be religious at all.. Seeing this lady, one can conclude hastily that she is religious.. God alone can tell

3. Konji can make you do silly things.. Why did the guy convince the girl to do the video? And why did the girl agree? Konji.

4. Don't be quick to condemn anyone.. You could be a hypocrite anyway..

5. They never used protection.. STD could be calling

6. Both the girl and guy will FOREVER have the mark/effect of what they did.. They might heal, but they will NEVER be the same again.

7. If you want to be religious, be serious with it.. Learn not to compromise your standards, or God's standards..Also learn not to Judge Irreligious people..
If you don't want to be Irreligious.. . Learn not to JUDGE religious ones. You have no right to Do so..

8. I believe in Jesus, and if the girl confesses to Christ and repents.. God will show her mercy.

9. Don't blame the girl or the boy or the school.. If you love them, pray for them.

10. God is love

Good points

computergeek:
So that's how this girl's life has just been destroyed? For having sex outside the school environment? And the boy's face didn't even show in the video.

I'll keep saying it. Ladies need to be smarter. The moment you agree to making a sex tape is the moment you hand over the reins of your life to someone else. No matter how much you love and trust him, wait till his friends place him on a stupid dare. He'll just hide his face and destroy your life. Be smart. Some ladies won't even know they are being recorded by these blackmailers and predators.

Some are reading this and would fall for that trap

studentofTruth:


You're still mentioning school rules inside the school premises. Show me the rules that guide what students do in private outside the school when on break!

once it's a leaked video,it becomes an issue cuz the girl is thier responsibility,so she carries the image of d sch,if she had gone to America to win a Nobel prize for d sch,even if she won it in secret she will be rewarded openly,no sch will leave her to go Scot free it ,the school is suppose to mode ur character and u must show that character everywhere u go even outside d country its in thier rules and conduct ones y have been caught not worthy of good character d sch has d right to revoke ur certificate even after graduation what I just said is in thier rules and conduct

Brightgem:
yes pls give up, because your energy and that crying out loud is misplaced. You really believe you are making sense? Okay well you can also get her a lawyer, a good move to make. Foot all her bills in the lawsuit.

A school is meant to instill character in you as well. We are still Africans and have values. You can say it's holding us back all you want, but moral decadence is a problem in itself, tied to the bigger jigsaw of corruption.

It's lewd, and barbaric. It's sex yes, not meant for public viewing like in the animal kingdom. But since a girl who's fees is still being paid thinks it's okay to embarrass her family name. What can I say.

Now rules are rules. Wonder if you'll say the same if that school belongs to you, and you wake up to find your investment trending for the very wrong reasons.

We need sanity in this country and it starts from little things. Go to school and face your studies but no. You are making sex videos with an ex student of your school. And you oga are hear ranting. Also imagine this is your sister or daughter and you wake up to this horror. You may not survive the shame. Think!

Was she the one who released the video?

Did she sanction the release of the video?

Show me the school's rules that prohibit students from having sex when they are outside the school when the school is on break!

If the crime is that the sex was made public, she wasn't the one that made it public. She's the victim here. A crime was committed against her, and the people who should help her get justice are condemning her. Unbelievable!

osazsky:
once it's a leaked video,it becomes an issue cuz the girl is thier responsibility,so she carries the image of d sch,if she had gone to America to win a Nobel prize for d sch,even if she won it in secret she will be rewarded openly,no sch will leave her to go Scot free it ,the school is suppose to mode ur character and u must show that character everywhere u go even outside d country its in thier rules and conduct ones y have been caught not worthy of good character d sch has d right to revoke ur certificate even after graduation

was she the one that made it public?

She's the victim. A crime was committed against her. Should be helped to get justice and punished for being a victim!

[quote author=OlujobaSamuel post=84213865]Hmmmmmmm, the event never happened in the school premises nor within school period, I think the sch should have just subjected the girl(since she was a student as at the time of event) to some counseling measures, no need to expel such student.
Our schools should understand the role of counseling in moulding life, every mosquito should not be terminated with Raid or Baygon[/quote]
Why? Do you know how many times those students have been counsel? Do you know that many of them mock counsellors on talk shows?

But it happened outside the school premises na..

The only sin they committed was that they're Babcock students

Brightgem:
lolz! Good question! Now see how he or she went "in saner climes" those famous lines they like using to sound intelligent

My Sister, I'm tired o.

studentofTruth:


was she the one that made it public?

She's the victim. A crime was committed against her. Should be helped to get justice and punished for being a victim!

the video has already been released that where it becomes an issue to the sch,she signed a contract with d sch for 4 years on d day she took d aoth which is binding,she has no biz with d sch,she cannot sue d sch what she should do now is to sue the family of d mentally unstable guy for a reasonable compensation,the sch has nothing to do with this again,he don commot for thier hand ,everyone want to remain in biz,will u send ur child to the sch if d sch had not taken disciplinary actions?its not a public sch they have standard and moreover from the video d girl was fully aware that she was been recorded,but she didn't send the boy to share the video,d girls family should take d boyd family to a good court,them go pay compensation tire if they have a good lawyer,leave d sch out of this.those supporting her let's assume d sch did not rusticated her,if it were u will u go back to that sch?when I was suspended for fighting in my sec sch,after serving my two weeks suspension I didn't have d balls to go back,I go go they play ball for another field,it was a female friend Pamela that put my parents on d know before I was beaten and dragged to sch,when I got to sch I was just praying that the ground should open and swallow me cuz of my friend esther

Las las the girl is nothing but an Olosho forget grammar and sympathy up and down. How could she be so daft and senseless when you know that, number 1 your so-called boyfriend is rehab Center meaning nigga head no correct and you still position yourself so well for the video to form champion. Thou I know the girl so very well I even know her name and her parents and she is even my friend Church member at Calvary Church at Calvary Bus-Stop after Idimu Ikotun road. I know her family so well and her Dad is even a senior man in the Church lol I'm even going to church on Sunday to see how they will bounce to the Church����� follow me cos I will drop more gist on Sunday about her after church. Yeah

Hmm nawa o...

About the sextape issh, I guess both partners agreed to it coz the girl was aware too sha..

U know say children of God ft nack anywhere these days

Brightgem:
please stay! Others fixed theirs, let's fix ours too, we can maybe manually wash the brains of this morally decadent youths

If it's just d moral challenge then staying back wouldn't be an issue, it's more on the financial challenge.

I've been trying to do my part since I was a kid to see Nigeria shine like a million stars, but I'm beginning to reconsider my decision, my blind loyalty may just be my undoing.

JamesHanu:
But it happened outside the school premises na..

The only sin they committed was that they're Babcock students

uniben would have done same ,I work there,we don see these kind cases tire no need to ague

OlujobaSamuel:
Hmmmmmmm, the event never happened in the school premises nor within school period, I think the sch should have just subjected the girl(since she was a student as at the time of event) to some counseling measures, no need to expel such student.
Our schools should understand the role of counseling in moulding life, every mosquito should not be terminated with Raid or Baygon

I think the school only did her a favour, because if they had allowed her to continue the shame won't let her, and I know Babcock students they would mock her till she. Commits suicide

osazsky:
see internet lawyer,better people like permanent secretaries,managers,Clinton doged d bullet though have been sacked cuz of this not to talk of a student,no wonder we celebrate corruption in this country,if this thing happens to any president in d world apart from Nigeria d president go resign before d sack letter comes but if na Nigeria he will start begging and d people will b supporting him like the slapping senator,in a sane country dat slapping senator suppose they jail not national assembly but I still saw people begging for him no wonder nobody takes us serious as a country

once you want to push for what is right, once you speak with a voice of reason. You begin to hear things like, you are forming holier than thou. You begin to see pity party, ayah forgive them now.

As in this case you begin to hear steewpeed questions like have you never had sex? Same youths meant to have sense, meant to push for the right narratives are here defending rubbish.

They always fail to see how every matter relates in the bigger picture when they say things like what has this got to do with corruption in the nation.

How can multitude of people not have sense all at once? No wonder the country remains like this, it's a painful process to watch.

Great one by Babcock. Maintaining excellence all the way. Its becoming very obvious that there are a lot of morally decadent people on social media who want to drag others into hellfire with them. Some of them have sweet tongues like serpents. They actually make debauchery sound like a right. Just like the ones in Sodom and Gomorrah.

studentofTruth:


Was she the one who released the video?

Did she sanction the release of the video?

The boyfriend committed a crime against her, and instead of helping her get justice, everyone is condemning her. What a people!

Dear human! If indeed you are a student of truth, then maybe your truth is just relative. What is truth and what is absolute truth? Everyday you make decisions, there's always an outcome of the decision. What you chose to eat, what you chose to wear. Sometimes outcomes of decisions are consequences. She knew it was on camera, she allowed it with her eyes and brain wide open.

It didn't matter that day, but months later, it mattered. Mind you, it's not yet clear, through who or how it got leaked.

Actions and outcome of actions. Remember that in your truth and stop getting all emotional.

timidapsin:
what did Jesus do with the prostitute?
Yet you claim to walk in the light.
I never said what she did was right.
But there are better ways to punish her than expelling her.

the school did wat dey were supposed to do and dats all... bringing shame to the school.
if you own a company and a sex tape went in to air btw a lady and a guy in ur company, wat will u do?....
so think abt it bro, it can bring the down fall of ur company if care is not taken.... so such is wat is abt to happen to the sch and the sch acted quickly......

see all the post, it wasn't put this way 'leak sex tape btw a guy and his girlfriend' but instead the name Babcock was included which drew attention to the school and you are here justifying sometin else.

D guy ws lyk;;;;
I haven't made it if I haven't made your day
I'm not a rider till I've learned to drive your pain away
lol

A lot of things are wrong, apart from the fact that fornication is being celebrated with joy.

Why will people still record all these awful and shameless act.

Well, what do I know?

studentofTruth:


Was she the one who released the video?

Did she sanction the release of the video?

Show me the school's rules that prohibit students from having sex when they are outside the school when the school is on break!

If the crime is that the sex was made public, she wasn't the one that made it public. She's the victim here. A crime was committed against her, and the people who should help her get justice are condemning her. Unbelievable!

I can see that you are a student.

My guy, find knowledge and understanding, it will help you in life. Don't just say i go school, go the school like a proper individual.

Ignorance is not bad o, unless you decide not to learn.

CsRockefeller:


Do u really know what you are saying?

A student in one of the Ivy League Universities in the US made a professional porn to raise funds for her tuition, students stumbled on it, it went viral and they expelled her, she never returned or sued the University.

Do u guys talk because you want to say something or because you have something to say?

Please which Ivy League school is that? In this age of information and internet, you need to get your sources right. Not everyone will fall for your hypothetical story if you can't convince with evidence.

I know of a case of Robert Marucci who was expelled for participating in porn and reinstated after he threatened legal action. I also know of Belle Knox who was a renown IndecentStar before proceeding to Law School. None of these people that I know were expelled for appearing in porn videos.

To the issue at hand, it's so sad that we find ourselves in this position where individuals justify indiscretions by using issues that are morally reprehensible. There's nowhere in the handbook or the extant laws where a student (of adult age) can be expelled for having consensual sex outside the university walls.

Of course, I'll be ashamed if the actors in the sex tape are my relatives or people I know. However, the fact that an act is morally reprehensible doesnt make it legally unacceptable too. Babcock as an institution doesn't have the power to expel based on the sex tape that went viral. In fact, procedurally, it is wrong to expel in such a rash manner.

Some commenters here have strongly based their reasoning on moral grounds and the image of the school. No institution has power to punish it's student for acts done in their private life, whether or not the school authorities feel personal prejudiced is not a question of law.

I have much to say but the bulk of things I would like to explain pertain to the provisions of the law and not based on moral sentiments (that most people here believe in). Hence, if you don't have a superior intelligent legal argument to confront me with, don't bother replying or quoting my "short message"

Ps: if anyone has the contact of the lady in question, please let me know as I am willing to take this case up pro bono. She doesn't have to return to the school (even if she wins) but she may just have to prove a point to moral judges that the action of the school is unconstitutional and that may curtail the unchallenged excesses of these so-called tertiary institutions in the future.

Rumxy:


Maybe because our legal system is flawed. You know in saner climes, she would probably win because I still cannot see what school rule she disobeyed here looking at the circumstances. What happens to all d millions being spent so far by the parents so far to get her to that level. I am not trying to exonorate the girl for her stupidity but at the same time expelling her was too harsh on her. She is an adult and there are better ways to punish her since the act didn't happen within the school's jurisdiction.

Even in saner climes as you stated, she has to prove that she was discriminated against.
That every other group would have been forgiven but she was specifically targeted by Babcock.

She might ask the court to declare Babcock's action as illegal. This is a tall order because the courts
would consider the implication of voiding institutional rules or discretion when unlawful victimization is not involved.

mozzking:


I think the school only did her a favour, because if they had allowed her to continue the shame won't let her, and I know Babcock students they would mock her till she. Commits suicide

The last part of your post might eventually happen if the girl do not receive adequate care, imagine the parents having a feeling of "you brought shame to the family, wasted millions of scarce, blah blah blah, scolding her daily", she would just avoid seeing anyone at home, before you know it, one fateful morning, we hear the avoidable, and we all gathered to speak on how things could have been done better.
That's why I said counseling measures should be adopted.
The school right as to expulsion or otherwise is a different issue to me, I'm not speaking of the legality.
The case at hand is not just that of Babcock, virtually all our schs act in such way, most cases are seen as let's terminate his studentship status.
When I was in school, if you commits some kinda moral misconduct or including fighting (non violent), you will be subjected to some measures that you will have to consider your future actions very well before doing it. 1 of such measures is that you report to the DSA everyday at a given time of the day, either you are having lectures, exam, test, travelled or on holiday is irrelevant, this might take a month or two, some for a full semester or session if it's cult suspected issue, and it worked with victims even preaching the gospel to would be offenders

ursullalinda:
Ah.....expelling a girl because of sex is wrong.....that is a school not a church.....I'm just feeling for her parents

So u expect the school to pretend or play deaf ears to the viral video?? What should they have done?? give her scholarship for having sex on cam i guess.... The way we reason things in this Country shaah

studentofTruth:


You didn't show me what I asked for.

Weed smoking is a crime both within and outside the school premises. A private consexual sex is not a crime outside the school premises. It would be against the school's rules if done inside the school premises, but outside the school premises when the school is on break, a private consexual sex is not an issue.

Now, an irresponsible boyfriend leaked a private affair; he committed a crime against the girl. she's the victim here and not the offender. Instead of helping her seek justice, everyone is condemning — this is beyond hypocrisy, it's betrayal!

I can't stop laughing at this ur comment....
If only u applied knowledge in your reasoning, maybe your comment might as well made little sense....!!
So u expect the school authorities to remain silent over a viral video that has the university name attached to it irrespective of where and how the act was perpetuated...?? Nawa ooO!! And moreover the school has no part to play in seeking justice or investigating those that released the video because it's none of their business at all....