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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by livebyday(m): 2:45pm On Nov 22, 2019
Sleevia:


Being entitled to your opinion does not mean you should speak as one with misplaced priorities.

Someone who still has bills to pay such as rent, feeding, taking care of his family (siblings if not yet married) will not have time for what the OP wrote or bother his brain with such.

It is very clear to see he is still under the roof of another.

People are called adults for a reason, which means it none of your business what they choose to do with their life.

The OP and his supporters are shallow.

When I was in school and while on phone with my sister, my elder sister said "I love you" and I respond "I love you too". My roommate heard it and queried me, asking whom I was telling "I love you" and I told him it was my sister, he tried to rebook me and sounded like I was immoral, as in over Righteousness was written all over his disposition that day.

When we finished that phase of life before he could return to further his education, same room mater impregnated a girl, and became a father fare earlier than we expected while me whom he was scolding didn't impregnate a girl within that same period.

Someone like the OP can easily be fooled and his writeup shows he is not exposed.

I asked him how old is he and is he still in school or out, he has not quoted me since then.

That says a lot.
Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by livebyday(m): 2:46pm On Nov 22, 2019
Skepticus:


Fisher007 oil dey your head.

This is a vital truth for the captain save-a-hoe(s) and their " She is my heart throb for life" fools who are men.
grin

The elders council endorses this comment

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by livebyday(m): 2:48pm On Nov 22, 2019
Skepticus:


grin grin

The mumu guy just expose im foolery as a common case of Captain save-a-hoe.

It's always painful when men who keep their end of the bargain as virgins marry these ungrateful and spent hoes.

I have a pathetic case of jeezuzpick at the moment. I have a female friend with a dick mileage longer than a Lagos molue bus with 2 kids for different men, about to wed a young naïve hustler who has struggled all through his young years and just hit financial balance in his late 20's. He is also a virgin.

This guy is paying for the school fees of these kids while this friend of mine is still entitled as fûck and would even mock the guy telling me about his naivety when the guy funds her transport to come fûck me.

Some of these men sef!

The council of elders frowns upon this angry

So how are you helping that's brother up?
Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Jeezuzpick(m): 2:48pm On Nov 22, 2019
KevinDein:

This is the ultimate Beta bux. Just the type of man women prefer make up the majority of the male population. They definitely want the alphas around of course; those they can fuckkk during their peak years. However with betas being the majority, she's safe in the knowledge that her and her offsprings would be provided for if Alpha doesn't want her anymore. Sometimes you get to alpha's child as a bonus grin


The man died before the child was born.
You think you're so smart, you deduce and conclude with no information.
Keep it up, Einstein.

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Jeezuzpick(m): 2:49pm On Nov 22, 2019
livebyday:


You should not say this in public undecided

This is not public.

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by KevinDein: 2:49pm On Nov 22, 2019
revolt:
so you really believe that was a guy that typed that. Mtchweee... dont u know these feminists are trying to mke the world believe single mothers are bae.... lool
That poster could very well be a male. Believe it or not there are many white Knights and captains save a hoe in the world.

He traded his best years for her years of decline, parting away with resources while at it. Some other dude(s) however, had enjoyed her best years at almost no cost.

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by livebyday(m): 2:52pm On Nov 22, 2019
KevinDein:

This is the ultimate Beta bux. Just the type of man women prefer make up the majority of the male population. They definitely want the alphas around of course; those they can fuckkk during their peak years. However with betas being the majority, she's safe in the knowledge that her and her offsprings would be provided for if Alpha doesn't want her anymore. Sometimes you get to raise alpha's child as a bonus grin


The council of elders endorses this
Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by themaestro08(m): 2:52pm On Nov 22, 2019
Though this doesn't apply to everyone but I must commend the brutal honesty in your post.

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Jeezuzpick(m): 2:52pm On Nov 22, 2019
Skepticus:


grin grin

The mumu guy just expose im foolery as a common case of Captain save-a-hoe.

It's always painful when men who keep their end of the bargain as virgins marry these ungrateful and spent hoes.

I have a pathetic case of jeezuzpick at the moment. I have a female friend with a dick mileage longer than a Lagos molue bus with 2 kids for different men, about to wed a young naïve hustler who has struggled all through his young years and just hit financial balance in his late 20's. He is also a virgin.

This guy is paying for the school fees of these kids while this friend of mine is still entitled as fûck and would even mock the guy telling me about his naivety when the guy funds her transport to come fûck me.

Some of these men sef!

So, what would you do?

Keep searching for a virgin when you yourself are not?

Men do this stuff to women without a drop of remorse yet a woman can't get a second d chance?

Well, good luck finding a dumb virgin girl to keep house for you while you sleep around.

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by LilMissFavvy(f): 2:53pm On Nov 22, 2019
Is that a problem? He married a woman he can cope with. His life, his choice.
MrHistorian:

You married a single mother (not a widow) as a virgin??

OMG!!!

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by LilMissFavvy(f): 2:56pm On Nov 22, 2019
The guy is sick.......what's the issue with a daughter in-law who is above 30?
Fountainofyouth:



I would gladly accept her 100%, your own promiscuous daughter will marry in her 20s, and the marriage wouldn't even last one month, simple.

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Jeezuzpick(m): 2:56pm On Nov 22, 2019
MrHistorian:

You married a single mother (not a widow) as a virgin??

OMG!!!

So?

Am I not alive to type this?

What's the big deal?

Married for more than a decade and still going strong!

Me, I have a happy home o, people like the OP, maybe are just looking to start but think they're wiser than me.

Let them enjoy. They think I'm the fool here.

Young people need to set priorities right, but nooooo, you gotta reinvent the wheel.

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by LilMissFavvy(f): 2:59pm On Nov 22, 2019
You are sick...... mentally deranged. What's wrong with a daughter in-law in her 30s? Do you know the number of ladies who were stuck up in a relationship of many years, waiting for their men to be ready, but it never turned well, making such ladies single at 30? In such situations, where is the hoeing phase?
Fisher007:


Pained bitter truth but you cant just accept it.. Please don't involve God in this. If you feel am wrong and don't have any valued points no problem, when your sons bring a Lady in her 30's or late 30's to marry gladly accept her. Simple.

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by bukatyne(f): 3:02pm On Nov 22, 2019
Fisher007:
Hmm where do I start from?

This is a subject matter that most of us avoid because the truth of the whole matter is too bitter. It is like a big elephant no one talks about.
We all act calm and cold cause this matter brings out the rotten decay worms or spiders from our personal cupboards.

For ladies above 30:

Every wedding I attend, I observe the same thing which is the ladies are happy for the bride, knowing in most cases she as caught a slave, a big mumu to accept her despite her slutty past. But she has not been saved from her slutty behaviours. She is now off the sexual market place for the moment and have found security. Until the husband looses what he can provide in all aspects of life ( money, security, care, job, attention, sex, family etc). ( I didn't mention love cause it literally doesn't exist at this age). Then she will divorce him if he is lucky. If he is unlucky she will enter back into the sexual market place codedly with her exlovers, boyfriend, uncles etc. She might even cook meals with money collected from such men for her husband (marital curse don enter).

We all know women who have had more than 2-3 sexual partners can never bond with their husbands. In most cases the wife sexual partners and escapades are always more than the husband. She might just lie to rub on the man's ego. The bride body is a container for various sperms, which has been proven scientifically that the DNA of such men stay in her body till death. This is the reason why most women are emotionally unstable.

We know that most ladies have been sexually active and have had multiple sexual partners from age 16yr to 30yr and can never be satisfied with one. No matter how you lie to yourself. She has gone through the hoe phase and her bodycounts will digust you as a man if she really tells you the truth at age 30. She was used and enjoyed at her sexual peak. Her body starts given up from 30 above and that is why most mothers rush them to marry. Because they know the truth, they will say because of children but the truth is they know she will soon become an expired milk.


For men above 30:

The men are quite looking at the groom like only if we could tell you that you just caged yourself and turn yourself into a full time slave. In most cases some men at the venue have slept with your so called bride. Some uncles that sponsored too have used her inside out. Some former boyfriends imagining the amount of sex and abortions, they both committed and are saying you just saved a hoe.

The man's ex girlfriend too are present. All they see is the useless sex manaic, demented weak guy, abortion specialist is fooling himself and his getting married. Some see him as a prize they never had but are ready planning how they will cheat with him even next week or months to come. And that the wedding is just a show.

Most husbands hit their sexual peak just after wedding. That is why in most cases they can never stay committed. From age 35yrs to 60yrs is when most men are stable. They have attained wealth in some cases meaning younger ladies will flock them like bees. The wife will see this and know because she was once like those young ladies before chasing men with Money, looks and status.

So at the end all I always see is two damaged goods getting married. The bride who feels she needs to retire into her husband house. And the groom who is just about to fully start is sexual escapade and slavery because the wife will definitely never give him her best years.


Interesting view.

I agree with you that the earlier the spouses meet or the fewer their previous sexual partners, the better.

My ideal situation is an open minded virgin lady meeting an open minded virgin man.

However, going through your other comments, you seem to unconsciously believe that 30s females are worse off than 30s males.

As always, there are exceptions for older singles who were sexually disciplined in their youth and promiscuous men and women who have healed psychologically and are able to bond with their spouses.

This however doesn't take into cognizance the people who got inspiration for their spouses irrespective of their past.
Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by LilMissFavvy(f): 3:02pm On Nov 22, 2019
Just look at the efrontery of some vagabonds insulting responsible married men. Go and marry your own, he has married his.
Designerdollars:
bro don't reply that fool abeg grin, he will learn later on, give him time

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by LilMissFavvy(f): 3:06pm On Nov 22, 2019
What time? Sadly, social media gives lowlifess like you, who isn't mentallyy stable an opportunity to meddle with responsible fellows. Listen, it's easy to spot a madd man behind a keyboard through his messages, that's who you are. Your problem isn't immaturity, you are simply sicckkk
Fisher007:


Time will definetly tell.

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Skepticus: 3:07pm On Nov 22, 2019
livebyday:


The council of elders frowns upon this angry

So how are you helping that's brother up?

Lol.

When it comes to a grown man, you can only help him if he desires help.

If you try to help without his desire, you'll face a wall and he'll resist the more.
Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by livebyday(m): 3:10pm On Nov 22, 2019
Skepticus:


Lol.

When it comes to a grown man, you can only help him if he desires help.

If you try to help without his desire, you'll face a wall and he'll resist the more.

Hmmm

Good point

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by MarianaTrench: 3:11pm On Nov 22, 2019
Fisher007:


The truth no one tells you before marrying a Lady or a man in their 30's.

Why that is a terrible choice for men and women too.

So people should not get married cos they're above 30?

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by KevinDein: 3:12pm On Nov 22, 2019
Skepticus:


grin grin

The mumu guy just expose im foolery as a common case of Captain save-a-hoe.

It's always painful when men who keep their end of the bargain as virgins marry these ungrateful and spent hoes.

I have a pathetic case of jeezuzpick at the moment. I have a female friend with a dick mileage longer than a Lagos molue bus with 2 kids for different men, about to wed a young naïve hustler who has struggled all through his young years and just hit financial balance in his late 20's. He is also a virgin.

This guy is paying for the school fees of these kids while this friend of mine is still entitled as fûck and would even mock the guy telling me about his naivety when the guy funds her transport to come fûck me.

Some of these men sef!
They tend to have some degree of disdain for the same beta simps that "Captain save the hoe" them. The guy kinda remind her how low she's fallen to have to settle for such a loser. She'll never love him, he won't even get good fuckkss. Her love is for her children and as for great sex, she'll probably get that from one of her baby daddies (or you cheesy).

He's just a provider; one that can easily be discarded when he no longer serves that purpose. Or when someone else can do better.

I love this cruel cruel world. grin

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by maximanuel: 3:14pm On Nov 22, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Lies.
Who got Facebook account to sell?

I do....Send me an email at vivianobodoeze18@gmail.com
Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Skepticus: 3:21pm On Nov 22, 2019
KevinDein:

They tend to have some degree of disdain for the same beta simps that "Captain save the hoe" them. The guy kinda remind her how low she's fallen to have to settle for such a loser. She'll never love him, he won't even get good fuckkss. Her love is for her children and as for great sex, she'll probably get that from one of her baby daddies (or you cheesy).

He's just a provider; one that easily be discarded when he no longer serves that purpose. Or when someone else can do better.

I love this cruel cruel world. grin

Aswear!

I love this "cruelty" too. It's biological selection at work.

You can't blame women though. It's their inbuilt way of screening out "weak" men like our primate cousins and almost all animals do.

Since humans are more complex and it won't do women any good to remain alone, they use the years when their sexual market value is very high to sleep with alphas and try to keep them and occasionally, betas for money or as a reward for other "services" the betas render.

When their sexual market value has hit a decline, then they seek the beta males that they rejected earlier to be the providers, and they still disdain them till a better offer comes up.

Women are the masters of monkey branching!

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Hisduchess(f): 3:23pm On Nov 22, 2019
Dimples0303:


grin grin grin grin

He won't troll me because he knows I'm sensitive, and I am a fan... He likes his fans grin grin grin

You two been cracking me up for years though kiss

You ain't sure oooo.just be praying that the bad spirit wouldn't enter him ooo.the guy is a dwarf who actually gives me headache here.the way he sees my mentions nah wetin dey baffle me aswear.but nah I ve come to understand that he is a babCOCK student who wants to troll me into giving him puna,but he no go see pant rope
Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Lording123(m): 3:25pm On Nov 22, 2019
I feel you @op. I am scared of this generation and the people we will all end up marrying. The kind of past they will have.

In this case op, what is your own solution to this? I mean will you marry earlier or how won’t you also end up with the same fate you wrote about.

(This is my first comment on nairaland since 2015 of being a visitor grin)

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Incandescent: 3:28pm On Nov 22, 2019
My question is this.. Who are "these" ladies sleeping with? Men or wood?

You see why your post is useless @ OP?

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Skepticus: 3:33pm On Nov 22, 2019
KevinDein:

This is the ultimate Beta bux. Just the type of man women prefer make up the majority of the male population. They definitely want the alphas around of course; those they can fuckkk during their peak years. However with betas being the majority, she's safe in the knowledge that her and her offsprings would be provided for if Alpha doesn't want her anymore. Sometimes you get to raise alpha's child as a bonus grin


grin grin grin

Make una no allow d guy dey get double mind about im madam oooo.

The guy even dey proud to raise another man seed.

Tufia kwa!
Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by KingWarri: 3:36pm On Nov 22, 2019
queenitee:

Bless you. I don’t agree with the op one bit. All he wrote up there has nothing to do with age.

I think the op is just sharing his own life experience..... Eyaaaaah

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by franchasng: 3:37pm On Nov 22, 2019
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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Jersuiyjoe(m): 4:06pm On Nov 22, 2019
Fisher007:


You also have reading.comprehension Mr white Knight in.shinning garment.

I never said all. I said MOST, but it seems your wife's case seems to be confusing you. You married at 30 as a Virgin. Was your wife one too?

Cause if she was not a virgin like you, she saw you as a male provider, after all her own experience with various men. I can purely see she has you under her control with the number one manipulation tool of men ( Toto). You can not just beleive the pure truth.

She took you at the beginning of your prime years all in the name of love and marriage. While her prime years were over. She gave you her emotional trauma's and garbage which you must have been noticing silently at home. But you are here claiming Captain save a hoe.

Well done Sir, your case too might have been an exception indeed lipsrsealed grin
Lol. Such a hit

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Airtimex(m): 4:09pm On Nov 22, 2019
Fisher007:


Pained bitter truth but you cant just accept it.. Please don't involve God in this. If you feel am wrong and don't have any valued points no problem, when your sons bring a Lady in her 30's or late 30's to marry gladly accept her. Simple.


My bro are you saying people should not marry women who are above 30yrs?


Even if you say some, does being promiscuous in the past have anything to do with a healthy marriage? And who told you girls below 30yrs are perfect match for marriage...

This article is not necessary...

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Fountainofyouth(f): 4:27pm On Nov 22, 2019
Sammy555:
I've never seen someone as vindictive as you, you'd always condemn everything with your hate speech. SMH


Hate speech? LMAO, buzz off abeg
Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Fountainofyouth(f): 4:33pm On Nov 22, 2019
livebyday:


Listen here woman !

You are a woman so act like one! I see how you hurl insults and abuses all in disagreement with another member

Do you think that makes you appear intelligent, woke, or right? It just makes you come off as a bully , uncouth , poorly educated and myopic

Enough of this or you will be banned

Censor your speech

Cheers


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