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Friendship Ends Badly Over Follow Request by flyingdutchman(m): 7:41am On Nov 23, 2019
I have brought a case to the house for your opinion. A friend recently complained that he sent a follow request to a girl who commented on his supposed best friend's IG page. She is a white girl. Fast forward weeks ago, his friend sends him an angry message saying he should ask him before following his friends in future. And that, he had unfollowed him and told the girl to block him.

He was also informed that the girl complained that one other follower of his sent her a friend request as well that that is stalking and such men are creeps. Hmm...house pls dissect this one.

My own advice was for him to cut off all ties from this "child" and move on. What is your take house?
Re: Friendship Ends Badly Over Follow Request by Nobody: 7:44am On Nov 23, 2019
So the girl is not even his girlfriend?

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Re: Friendship Ends Badly Over Follow Request by DanDeeBoss: 8:07am On Nov 23, 2019
Some people mumu sha.... How childish undecided

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Re: Friendship Ends Badly Over Follow Request by flyingdutchman(m): 8:54am On Nov 23, 2019
Mindfulness:
So the girl is not even his girlfriend?
No. They aren't dating. And my guy says he never uttered a single word or even sent the girl any message. He swears that it was only a follow request. And oh...the best friend who warned him is indian.
Re: Friendship Ends Badly Over Follow Request by Nobody: 9:06am On Nov 23, 2019
flyingdutchman:

No. They aren't dating. And my guy says he never uttered a single word or even sent the girl any message. He swears that it was only a follow request. And oh...the best friend who warned him is indian.

The dude is quite possessive but why did the girl report it to him in the first place? There is more to this story.

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Re: Friendship Ends Badly Over Follow Request by yeyeosoronga: 9:26am On Nov 23, 2019
flyingdutchman:

No. They aren't dating. And my guy says he never uttered a single word or even sent the girl any message. He swears that it was only a follow request. And oh...the best friend who warned him is indian.

He should move on from the friendship. It's not worth the hassle. By the time the said girl deals with the Indian friend, his eye will clear
Re: Friendship Ends Badly Over Follow Request by flyingdutchman(m): 12:27pm On Nov 23, 2019
Mindfulness:


The dude is quite possessive but why did the girl report it to him in the first place? There is more to this story.
I just had a chat with him and he showed me a screenshots of their convo. It appears that all he did was a follow request. Also, I believe him cos there is nothing to gain from lying in this case.
Re: Friendship Ends Badly Over Follow Request by flyingdutchman(m): 12:57pm On Nov 23, 2019
Mindfulness:


The dude is quite possessive but why did the girl report it to him in the first place? There is more to this story.
I think the girl was just thrown off that his black friend tried to follow her.
Re: Friendship Ends Badly Over Follow Request by bukatyne(f): 5:06pm On Nov 23, 2019
flyingdutchman:

I think the girl was just thrown off that his black friend tried to follow her.

Both the girl and boy are Indians? If yes, it is more of a racist issue then romantic.
Re: Friendship Ends Badly Over Follow Request by flyingdutchman(m): 5:28pm On Nov 23, 2019
bukatyne:


Both the girl and boy are Indians? If yes, it is more of a racist issue then romantic.
She is a foreigner.
Re: Friendship Ends Badly Over Follow Request by armadeo(m): 5:49pm On Nov 23, 2019
Small children everywhere .


Nigga get rid of that friend.
Re: Friendship Ends Badly Over Follow Request by pocohantas(f): 5:59pm On Nov 23, 2019
Let me get this right,

Your FF is Indian.
The girl is a foreigner.
Your friend is Nigerian.

My take; Your friend was too forward to go send the foreigner a request. You think they don't hear all what your brothers are doing? African Princes them. The chick probably freaked out, like "they have come again o". She told your FF.

Your FF reserves the right to be angry. Go send your Nigerian sisters friend request. See your coconut head. Next thing you will start asking her; "how is life in Finland?" and claiming TeamForeignGirls on NL grin

FF = friend's friend

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Re: Friendship Ends Badly Over Follow Request by Nobody: 6:01pm On Nov 23, 2019
pocohantas:
Let me get this right,

Your FF is Indian.
The girl is a foreigner.
Your friend is Nigerian.

My take; Your friend was too forward to go send the foreigner a request. You think they don't hear all what your brothers are doing? African Princes them. The chick probably freaked out, like "they have come again o". She told your FF.

He reserves the right to be angry. Go send your Nigerian sisters friend request. See your coconut head. Next thing you will start asking her; "how is life in Finland?" grin

FF = friend's friend

grin
Re: Friendship Ends Badly Over Follow Request by Thegamingorca(m): 6:04pm On Nov 23, 2019
flyingdutchman:

I just had a chat with him and he showed me a screenshots of their convo. It appears that all he did was a follow request. Also, I believe him cos there is nothing to gain from lying in this case.


So why it con dey pain the guy that has been blocked to the point of telling you. Shey he want beg?

Is she rich? As itibolibo would say Lol
Re: Friendship Ends Badly Over Follow Request by Thegamingorca(m): 6:05pm On Nov 23, 2019
pocohantas:
Let me get this right,

Your FF is Indian.
The girl is a foreigner.
Your friend is Nigerian.

My take; Your friend was too forward to go send the foreigner a request. You think they don't hear all what your brothers are doing? African Princes them. The chick probably freaked out, like "they have come again o". She told your FF.

He reserves the right to be angry. Go send your Nigerian sisters friend request. See your coconut head. Next thing you will start asking her; "how is life in Finland?" and claiming TeamForeignGirls on NL grin

FF = friend's friend


Con turn coogar
Re: Friendship Ends Badly Over Follow Request by pocohantas(f): 6:31pm On Nov 23, 2019
Thegamingorca:



So why it con dey pain the guy that has been blocked to the point of telling you. Shey he want beg?

Is she rich? As itibolibo would say Lol

She doesn't have to be rich, just be a foreigner. I follow Paul Nicklen on IG, he is a wildlife photographer. If you see how your brothers asslick foreigners ehn. If she types lol, they will reply "lol lol". I don't see their useless comments these days. Be like they done dey block them grin

Nigerians should keep endorsing yahoo boys and African princes. We don't know how low our global image has dropped. He is even lucky she didn't give his name to Interpol. Let them put him on watchlist...

Re: Friendship Ends Badly Over Follow Request by flyingdutchman(m): 9:15pm On Nov 23, 2019
Thegamingorca:



So why it con dey pain the guy that has been blocked to the point of telling you. Shey he want beg?

Is she rich? As itibolibo would say Lol
Lol...I don tell am to cut him off.
Re: Friendship Ends Badly Over Follow Request by SolomonGrundy: 9:36pm On Nov 23, 2019
pocohantas:
Let me get this right,

Your FF is Indian.
The girl is a foreigner.
Your friend is Nigerian.

My take; Your friend was too forward to go send the foreigner a request. You think they don't hear all what your brothers are doing? African Princes them. The chick probably freaked out, like "they have come again o". She told your FF.

Your FF reserves the right to be angry. Go send your Nigerian sisters friend request. See your coconut head. Next thing you will start asking her; "how is life in Finland?" and claiming TeamForeignGirls on NL grin

FF = friend's friend
Poco baby grin
Re: Friendship Ends Badly Over Follow Request by flyingdutchman(m): 1:59am On Nov 24, 2019
pocohantas:


She doesn't have to be rich, just be a foreigner. I follow Paul Nicklen on IG, he is a wildlife photographer. If you see how your brothers asslick foreigners ehn. If she types lol, they will reply "lol lol". I don't see their useless comments these days. Be like they done dey block them grin

Nigerians should keep endorsing yahoo boys and African princes. We don't know how low our global image has dropped. He is even lucky she didn't give his name to Interpol. Let them put him on watchlist...
So, lemme get this straight: The only problem here is that the guy happens to be Nigerian? Inside life!
Re: Friendship Ends Badly Over Follow Request by pocohantas(f): 7:07am On Nov 24, 2019
flyingdutchman:

So, lemme get this straight: The only problem here is that the guy happens to be Nigerian? Inside life!

Isn't it?

A lot of homebased people do it. The ladies target Nigerian guys based abroad. The guys target both and all.

Most times, it is just parasitism disguised as genuine interest. They always deny this, but it is only a matter of time before they start asking for help or immigration questions.

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Re: Friendship Ends Badly Over Follow Request by flyingdutchman(m): 9:15am On Nov 24, 2019
pocohantas:


Isn't it?

A lot of homebased people do it. The ladies target Nigerian guys based abroad. The guys target both and all.

Most times, it is just parasitism disguised as genuine interest. They always deny this, but it is only a matter of time before they start asking for help or immigration questions.
Mehn! It is bad already that one comes from a bleeped up country where no one gives a hoot about you now, having to contend with racial bias? Best thing is just to keep to your lane when abroad. That is just downside of living abroad. For someone like me who has a great deal of self discipline, that shouldn't be too difficult.
Re: Friendship Ends Badly Over Follow Request by pcguru1(m): 9:31am On Nov 24, 2019
Hmmm the whole thing sounds silly to me. If you follow my friend why is it my headache ? It's up the person to accept or deny or unfollow me. Soyboys lol
Re: Friendship Ends Badly Over Follow Request by pcguru1(m): 9:34am On Nov 24, 2019
flyingdutchman:

Mehn! It is bad already that one comes from a bleeped up country where no one gives a hoot about you now, having to contend with racial bias? Best thing is just to keep to your lane when abroad. That is just downside of living abroad. For someone like me who has a great deal of self discipline, that shouldn't be too difficult.

The isolation abroad is not funny, that feeling knowing if anything happens you are on your own, you will always be working to secure yourself, plus depending on the country, you will always be a second class citizen unless you are a serious expatriate making the money, then you have no problem as you will be mixing with the upper class who would want to have African friends as novelties. If you are self disciplined you will be fine, it's the problematic Nigerians abroad I tend to avoid.
Re: Friendship Ends Badly Over Follow Request by flyingdutchman(m): 12:11pm On Nov 24, 2019
pcguru1:


The isolation abroad is not funny, that feeling knowing if anything happens you are on your own, you will always be working to secure yourself, plus depending on the country, you will always be a second class citizen unless you are a serious expatriate making the money, then you have no problem as you will be mixing with the upper class who would want to have African friends as novelties. If you are self disciplined you will be fine, it's the problematic Nigerians abroad I tend to avoid.
On point!!!

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