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My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Nobody: 3:56pm On Nov 23, 2019
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by healthserve(m): 3:58pm On Nov 23, 2019
Get a lawyer first and pull the first bullet

You see thats why y'all should have elders like us.

I won't talk again. This na small matter. I once used to like buying trouble but have vowed not to make positive contributions to aid any Nairalander again


Good luck with this. wink

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by sweetonugbu: 3:59pm On Nov 23, 2019
Leak it before him, he will be confused

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Nobody: 4:00pm On Nov 23, 2019
healthserve:
Get a lawyer first and pull the first bullet

You see thats why y'all should have elders like us.

I won't talk again. This na small matter. I once used to like buying trouble but have vowed not to make positive contributions to aid any Nairalander again


Good luck with this. wink
It is not too late to help me pls.
I don't have money to hire a lawyer, I am still a student.

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Nobody: 4:01pm On Nov 23, 2019
sweetonugbu:
Leak it before him, he will be confused
I don't have the clip,it is with him.

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by healthserve(m): 4:02pm On Nov 23, 2019
pamelaayomide:
It is not too late to help me pls.
I don't have money to hire a lawyer, I am still a student.


Maybe others will help

I've vowed to be unhelpful even in the face of death of a Nairalander. Sorry, its all about the game, not you. Don't take it personal.

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Nickisindigo(m): 4:02pm On Nov 23, 2019
he didn't deserve you though you cheated that shouldnt result to blackmail
release the video yourself if you have a copy

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by SmellingAnus(m): 4:03pm On Nov 23, 2019
pamelaayomide:
It is not too late to help me pls.
I don't have money to hire a lawyer, I am still a student.
the guy that fvcked you has already leaked the tape undecided

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by NaijaDonCast(m): 4:03pm On Nov 23, 2019
the best way is to trace and threaten the rapist guy of charges in connection with felony, breach of privacy and conspiracy, by so your fiancee will see he will also go in for it, because how come he got the tape if they don't mutually know each other

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Nobody: 4:04pm On Nov 23, 2019
healthserve:



Maybe others will help

I've vowed to be unhelpful even in the face of death of a Nairalander. Sorry, its all about the game, not you. Don't take it personal.
pls don't be this harsh.
I need all the help I can get to stop this guy before he finish me off.

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by healthserve(m): 4:05pm On Nov 23, 2019
pamelaayomide:
pls don't be this harsh.
I need all the help I can get to stop this guy before he finish me off.

Not interested. ODAs can help. Since people have resorted to foolishness, ive promised to make innocent others pay for their foolishness. Shikena

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Nobody: 4:06pm On Nov 23, 2019
NaijaDonCast:
the best way is to trace and threaten the rapist guy of charges in connection with felony, breach of privacy and conspiracy, by so your fiancee will see he will also go in for it, because how come he got the tape if they don't mutually know each other
That is what I have been thinking actually.
He have a hand in this.

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Nickisindigo(m): 4:06pm On Nov 23, 2019
pamelaayomide:
It is not too late to help me pls.
I don't have money to hire a lawyer, I am still a student.
which level are you and try to get proof that he wants to blackmail you

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Alexk2(m): 4:07pm On Nov 23, 2019
Report the case to your school security just the way you explained here and let them get him arrested. you'll laugh last in the end.

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by NaijaDonCast(m): 4:08pm On Nov 23, 2019
pamelaayomide:
That is what I have been thinking actually.
He have a hand in this.
you can in turn use his weapon against em

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Nobody: 4:09pm On Nov 23, 2019
SmellingAnus:
the guy that fvcked you has already leaked the tape undecided
To him,the tape is with him.
I may involve the school security or a dreaded cult guy.
Maybe if the former didn't work,the latter will.

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by donbachi(m): 4:12pm On Nov 23, 2019
Tell him u still love him and lure him into a trap with some niggas around...unclad him and take pics and videos of him,then let him go.

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by emmydiamon(m): 4:12pm On Nov 23, 2019
I dont think he will, if Truly he loves you like you said. But how far ave you gone with the guy? Did he promise to Marry you at the first place?

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Nobody: 4:12pm On Nov 23, 2019
Nickisindigo:

which level are you and try to get proof that he wants to blackmail you
I am in my 300level going to my 400L,I still had a lot to go.

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Olalan(m): 4:13pm On Nov 23, 2019
At this point you need to open up to your parents and get the police involved........truth is you can't afford to let the tape leak out and cause you and your family monumental embarrasment

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Nobody: 4:16pm On Nov 23, 2019
emmydiamon:
I dont think he will, if Truly he loves you like you said. But how far ave you gone with the guy? Did he promise to Marry you at the first place?
He said so that is why we always had sex.
I gave him my body but he decided to toy with the same body.
I regret ever knowing him,he is a scum and a misogynist.

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by AfroKnight: 4:16pm On Nov 23, 2019
He took advantage of you when you were unable to give consent? That’s rape. Your boyfriend wants to leak the tape? Your lawyer is going to kill two birds with one stone.



I have a question though. Somewhat Unrelated to the thread.
A man and a woman are both drunk. They have sex. Who took advantage of whom? These days, consent is defined by the woman. Why? (The Context is Heterosexual relationships)

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by emmydiamon(m): 4:17pm On Nov 23, 2019
sweetonugbu:
Leak it before him, he will be confused
It would ave been better if you didnt comment to this at all, Nigeria Dont know when someone is serious, africa mentality.

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Nobody: 4:17pm On Nov 23, 2019
Why has your brain not told you to report the "rape" at a police station or was it an audio rape?
Involve the police asap before you bring shame and high BP to your parents. I don't pity you, I only pity them.

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Nobody: 4:18pm On Nov 23, 2019
donbachi:
Tell him u still love him and lure him into a trap with some niggas around...unclad him and take pics and videos of him,then let him go.
He will know I only said that because of the threat.
I will involve the security or the dreaded students in the campus.

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by SmellingAnus(m): 4:19pm On Nov 23, 2019
pamelaayomide:
To him,the tape is with him.
I may involve the school security or a dreaded cult guy.
Maybe if the former didn't work,the latter will.
Why Cult guy? What if they kill him and you are arrested as one of the culprits undecided

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Nickisindigo(m): 4:20pm On Nov 23, 2019
pamelaayomide:
I am in my 300level going to my 400L,I still had a lot to go.

his he also a student or try talk to him and don't try to leave him
Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Nobody: 4:21pm On Nov 23, 2019
Nickisindigo:

his he also a student or try talk to him and don't try to leave him
He is.
The guy that record the video is also a student.

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Helada(f): 4:22pm On Nov 23, 2019
Oshey... Someone will trend very soon....

Anyways... That's a nice story o...

I don't believe all dx "advice me stories on nairaland"....

They will write emotional stories and sit down to watch how comments are flying in......
Una try o

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by ruggedtimi(m): 4:22pm On Nov 23, 2019
so in other words any new sextapes that comes before the year end is yours

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by Nickisindigo(m): 4:22pm On Nov 23, 2019
pamelaayomide:
He will know I only said that because of the threat.
I will involve the security or the dreaded students in the campus.
if involve cult guys you are a risk sef

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Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by donbachi(m): 4:23pm On Nov 23, 2019
pamelaayomide:
He will know I only said that because of the threat.
I will involve the security or the dreaded students in the campus.
act fast.

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