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Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Rubbiish(m): 8:49pm On Dec 04, 2019
paix:
This is not about age o. There are some married men that are shy to look their wife in the face after sex.
Age is a contributing factor in all we do in life
As u grow older u experience more things which gives u a broader view of life. I find it hard to believe the bold
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by paix(m): 8:50pm On Dec 04, 2019
emddi:
haha,we don't even have the energy to sight the bush
Na you biko.
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by paix(m): 8:52pm On Dec 04, 2019
Rubbiish:

Age is a contributing factor in all we do in life
As u grow older u experience more things which gives u a broader view of life. I find it hard to believe the bold
Maybe because you are not the shy type.
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by bobojoshua(m): 8:53pm On Dec 04, 2019
mrpoul:
is there any book you can suggest for me?
Drop your email address.
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by dietola01(m): 8:58pm On Dec 04, 2019
bobojoshua:
Drop your email address.
can I drop mine too?
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by MichaelSokoto(m): 8:59pm On Dec 04, 2019
mrpoul:

why do u say, I should avoid sex?
so u will b more focused on winning her trust...
thank d 1st guy instead cool
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by HenryThegreat1(m): 8:59pm On Dec 04, 2019
mrpoul:
I'm Confused, I Don't Want To Lose Her

There is this girl that I met in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture.

After the lecture, I disappeared because I'm this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture.

So I saw her on Facebook, I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finished eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5 mins. I told her we need to go, that her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was excited to see me.

After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

What do you suggest I do from here? pardon my grammatical blunder.
. I hate to advice all these secondary/undergraduate students all relationship that will end up in school.
Oga pls read ur book.
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by sexysage(m): 9:05pm On Dec 04, 2019
I'm also on this table you're shaking but I think I'm more precise than you're. Once it gets to the peak I speak up. It's just that the two ladies I've ever asked out in my life turned me down and I am not pained by that cos most times they are the ones who do the chasing... I do not chase!
Work on your life and your career man.. A majority of these ladies aren't worth wasting anytime on.

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Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Nature8(m): 9:07pm On Dec 04, 2019
mrpoul:
I'm Confused, I Don't Want To Lose Her

There is this girl that I met in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture.

After the lecture, I disappeared because I'm this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture.

So I saw her on Facebook, I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finished eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5 mins. I told her we need to go, that her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was excited to see me.

After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

What do you suggest I do from here? pardon my grammatical blunder.
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by MusaDanladi1: 9:09pm On Dec 04, 2019
Seventy7kings:
Harlequeen baby, anytime I see your handwriting on this forum, my body go just dey shake somehow and na so my heart go just dey beat fast, my dada go come dey plait. I dey trip for you o Harlequeen baby. grin
grin this guy you dey craze I swear. This your lines got me laughing hard..
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by GeneralShepherd(m): 9:10pm On Dec 04, 2019
Ariza:
And I wonder why it is the guy that must work on his conversation skills and keep the communication on.Is friendship/ relationship a one sided thing? Or communication a gender thing? .

If the conversation is one sided it is mostly a sign that the lady is not interested It's unto the next one.

Uni is the best place to be free as there is a limitless supply of women.

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Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Nobody: 9:12pm On Dec 04, 2019
NoGender:
Your Grammar sef dislocate my neck.

Girl wey you dey cry for has probably gone fucking in another niggas crib.

You swallow lizard for mouth? What was stopping you from making your intentions known from the first day, just tell her one big talk;

"I can't seem to understand my self since I left you the previous time, I'm losing it and have got no coherent way to put this. Do I like that I've got nothing to say when we see? Not inherently, but please understand that I may be meandering and trying to lull but I've got you and your thoughts full to the brim in my heart"

Two seconds she go..!!


Buhari need to ban Oshogbo weed
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Seventy7kings: 9:17pm On Dec 04, 2019
MusaDanladi1:

grin this guy you dey craze I swear. This your lines got me laughing hard..
bros, na confession of love. grin

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Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Nobody: 9:20pm On Dec 04, 2019
wussy guy /

wussy - Urban Dictionary
https://www.urbandictionary.com › define
A person with no guts. A person who whines all day and sits around and cries like a little baby for years over nothing.



Slang. A person regarded as weak, ineffectual, or overly fearful. [Perhaps blend of wimp and pussy, or short for pussy-wussy, reduplication of pusssyy.] wuss′y adj.

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Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by emonis88: 9:26pm On Dec 04, 2019
mrpoul:
I'm Confused, I Don't Want To Lose Her

There is this girl that I met in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture.

After the lecture, I disappeared because I'm this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture.

So I saw her on Facebook, I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finished eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5 mins. I told her we need to go, that her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was excited to see me.

After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

What do you suggest I do from here? pardon my grammatical blunder.
Shoot ur shot n keep ur fingers crossed. But she already likes u so she might want to go further or not? u can't findout if u keep quiet about it, u ve have to pop the question before u can know the answer. N do it bf another guy takes her attention away.
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Nobody: 9:26pm On Dec 04, 2019
Strica:
you're not shy, you've just run out of things to talk about for now. take her to a movie and allow her pick the movie. you can discuss the plot, characters and alternative endings over ice cream and fries or Pepsi and popcorn. then schedule another date for the following week.

if she's up for it, you can go foodstuff shopping together and make the meal together. you'll bond without breaking the bank.

these are just a couple of suggestions and please keep sex off the table, at least for now. there's a high chance it'll ruin your chances at something lasting. also ensure you're clean and well groomed too.

and remember, you're a student first. having good grades is another way to stay attractive.
All This one just to woo a girl?All the guy has to do is take her to a place they would be alone,even if it's under a plantain tree and tell her his mind.He doesn't need to spend shi shi
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by okokkk(m): 9:29pm On Dec 04, 2019
cry

You don't need to woo her. You just need to masturbate with her picture in mind. Satisfaction is a thing of the mind. Cheers!

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Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by NELLY1990: 9:29pm On Dec 04, 2019
mrpoul:
I'm Confused, I Don't Want To Lose Her

There is this girl that I met in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture.

After the lecture, I disappeared because I'm this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture.

So I saw her on Facebook, I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finished eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5 mins. I told her we need to go, that her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was excited to see me.

After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

What do you suggest I do from here? pardon my grammatical blunder.
hmmm. Pray
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by NELLY1990: 9:31pm On Dec 04, 2019
Pray to God
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Nobody: 9:34pm On Dec 04, 2019
You can't loose what you don't have! wink

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Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Godhatesodomy: 9:36pm On Dec 04, 2019
Wow

Wake up out your slumber

Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by CEO07(m): 9:36pm On Dec 04, 2019
inspirator1:

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first..within you there's something that boosts your morale, it might be something people would feel akward to. Invest in that thing with all civility you have; mine was perfume, funny enough i don't even have body odour but it makes me feel i have an edge over others...then i invested into it.
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secondly...try and be versatile.. Know something in every field dear, it builds confidence.
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thirdly...know some stuffs about ladies esp their body anatomy, when you tell them stuffs which they don't know about themselves that's true; they will value you.
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fourthly...be yourself and package well even if you are broke, learn to speak the class language you aspire for. Hope this suffices.
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by zimdante(m): 9:46pm On Dec 04, 2019
SillyeRabbit:
You been rolling with sluts if you fck girls on first visit.

Or rapist
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by zimdante(m): 9:51pm On Dec 04, 2019
Op Learn to steady your nerves with a bottle of beer, always be the man in you.
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Munzy14(m): 9:52pm On Dec 04, 2019
LOGOBELT:
A shy guy for this 21st century? Guy send me her number, let me help you talk to her, she will say yes to me in no time......Oh sorry! She will say yes to you in no time.


Guy, work on yourself, your boldness matters alot. Apart from that Girl, you need boldness for your Seminar Defense, Project Defense and even Interview when you are done with your studies.

Your boldness will make most people believe you even when what you have to say is stupid.

Now when you have boldness, when you have accomplished it, then you will not look for what to say to THAT GIRL you said you dont want to LOSE, what to say WILL COME ITSELF

We Nairalanders won't help you, rather YOU GAT TO HELP YOURSELF. Thank You

Lala! I made it! FTC. I dedicate this to people thriving hard to survive in this country, may SUCCESS locate us all in all our endeavours.
Tell him to read his book and leave woman for made men... cheesy
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by frozen70(f): 9:54pm On Dec 04, 2019
mrpoul:
I'm Confused, I Don't Want To Lose Her

There is this girl that I met in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture.

After the lecture, I disappeared because I'm this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture.

So I saw her on Facebook, I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finished eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5 mins. I told her we need to go, that her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was excited to see me.

After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

What do you suggest I do from here? pardon my grammatical blunder.

If you don't gain your confidence and courage as a man to woe a lady, you are gone ❗❗❗

Tell her how you feel about her and its either she accepts or not

But if you are still a virgin, give yourself time and read books on how to win a ladies heart
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Munzy14(m): 9:55pm On Dec 04, 2019
mrpoul:
I'm Confused, I Don't Want To Lose Her

There is this girl that I met in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture.

After the lecture, I disappeared because I'm this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture.

So I saw her on Facebook, I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finished eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5 mins. I told her we need to go, that her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was excited to see me.

After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

What do you suggest I do from here? pardon my grammatical blunder.
I suggest u leave woman matters and focus on your studies to make good grade and learn a skill to make money.... cheesy

Don't waste ur time on car weh another guy man will drive for life... na only tire u go wash for now... grin

Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by stanvesco(m): 9:58pm On Dec 04, 2019
[quote author=mrpoul post=84604585]I'm Confused, I Don't Want To Lose Her

There is this girl that I met in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture.

After the lecture, I disappeared because I'm this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture.

So I saw her on Facebook, I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finished eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5 mins. I told her we need to go, that her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was excited to see me.

After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

What do you suggest I do from here? pardon my grammatical blunder.

Check for ilegend and ubunja here on Nairaland. Follow dia teachings carefully except the ones your moralvalues won't allow you to.
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Munzy14(m): 10:00pm On Dec 04, 2019
frozen70:


If you don't gain your confidence and courage as a man to woe a lady, you are gone ❗❗❗

Tell her how you feel about her and its either she accepts or not

But if you are still a virgin, give yourself time and read books on how to win a ladies heart
Frozen when ur heart is not open......I. hope urs is open and aren't Madonna track?...cheesy

so people na read book to woo a woman?

Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by LOGOBELT: 10:02pm On Dec 04, 2019
Munzy14:

Tell him to read his book and leave woman for made men... cheesy
grin Bro, Studies mixed with a lovely girlfriend on campus, aids easier assimilation in school. You suppose understand na.... Have you ever noticed that a girl/guy wey no dey any relationship for campus, na dem dey fail course pass

Reason Am.... All work no play, makes MrPoul a dull boy grin he needs that girl

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Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by mrpoul(m): 10:05pm On Dec 04, 2019
Meklex:
You started well, but ended badly. Don't make the mistake of asking her out, that will give her an edge over you.

The girl came to your place prolly because she was bored and instead of you to switch things up you were asking her to go because of her roommate, what nonsense.

You could have entertained her, made her feel comfortable, play games (games that gets you to know her more) with her, and prolly Bleep her.

I see some people saying, don't Bleep her. Here's the thing, if you want sex go for it, delaying it will make you do stupid things. Things you would later regret.

If a girl digs you, she'll want to have sex with you immediately.

Don't be an asshole with her, or try to be shady. Show her how cool you are (but not at your expense), if you are shy, let her know, do things together. Be open, but not too open (only say the things that will help your cause)

A girl recently came to my house, we played a lot of games such as sharing house chores and racing to see who would finish first (it was her first time coming to my house), and I bleeped her that same day. And I was able to do this because I got to know her and what she stands for and used it.

Always know your girl first, always know what you want, then go for it. She would either oblige you or not.

But first, always be a cool guy.


thanks for this
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by frozen70(f): 10:05pm On Dec 04, 2019
Munzy14:

Frozen when ur heart is not open......I. hope urs is open and aren't Madonna track?...cheesy

so people na read book to woo a woman?

Woing a woman is a tough task

As you prepare to present your self to woe her

She is reading everything about you from your appearance to your speach

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