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Lady Laments As Fine Boy Who Collected Her Number 3Months Ago Refuses To Woo Her / I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. / Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. (2) (3) (4)
|Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by meobizy(m): 12:06pm On Dec 05, 2019|
OP is finally becoming a man and taking an interest in females. This is so cute.
What you're experiencing now is one out of many crushes you'll come across in life. I didn't care to thoroughly examine your query because to ask here means you've already lost. With time things will become easy and you'll handle attraction to females a lot better. Come to think of it you'll prefer to engage females who actually like you than the other way around.
Enjoy life and stay safe until you experience my advice manifest.
|Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Munzy14(m): 12:28pm On Dec 05, 2019|
|Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Ishilove(f): 12:50pm On Dec 05, 2019|
anonimi:I don't have that book. What I have is 'How to Say No Politely'.
|Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by TrumXray: 12:58pm On Dec 05, 2019|
I will kindly advice you to set your goals right.
If relationship at this level will affect your academics, why not get done first before adding more loads.
|Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Anijay1212(m): 2:05pm On Dec 05, 2019|
NoGender:Oga NoGender you be real legend for the game.
See format nah.
|Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by oshobugiesamuel(m): 5:34pm On Dec 05, 2019|
All three Sir,
In excellent condition
|Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by AnointedG(f): 4:42pm On Dec 06, 2019|
What is our generation turning into for Christ's Sake?
|Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Tangmaniandevil(m): 10:06pm On Dec 06, 2019|
First off, you don't have her yet.
So get the whole "I don't want to lose her " shit out of your head.
Secondly, you have a bigger problem. You don't yet know what to do at the different stages.
I'm not saying this to diss you or anything. It's just that you sound a little inexperienced and considering you're also shy and from your tone in this post, I'm guessing this is the first girl in a while to give you attention.
And that's okay.
Now... From what you wrote, you may have dulled her or bored her and she may have lost interest (or found a new Bros to be interested in) which is why she is now acting up.
Here's what you should do.
Give her space. Don't call or text her for a while. Still say hi and all when you see her in class and all. Just don't be all over her.
Next, get busy meeting other women and learning how to hold conversation, and what to do at each stage - first meeting, hanging out at your place, getting her into bed (if that's what you want) and just generally getting comfortable talking and flirting with women.
Then, after a few weeks... If she has not texted you or called you by then, call her up and tell her it's been a while and that y'all should hang out. She'll most likely say yes. If she says no though, it's no biggie. Free her and continue doing your thing.
Still say hi when you see around. The last thing you want to do is do that immature malice bullshit thing.
Funny enough, if you do this, you might get her back or even meet somebody better.
Whatever you do, do it for you. Not as a move to get her back. And have no attachment to the outcome - whether you get her or not.
Also, for next time, know what you're going to do and what you intend to do with her and lead her there. Because most of the time, women won't take things to the next level. They expect you to.
Hope this helps
|Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by mrpoul(m): 10:58pm On Dec 06, 2019|
yes boss, I really appreciate
|Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by SirMichael1: 9:26pm On Dec 22, 2019|
Seems you're still in the 20th century. Who does this anymore? You're setting yourself up for heartbreak.
|Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by tobby20: 10:19pm On Dec 22, 2019|
Your Grammar sef dislocate my neck.That banging gif is mad oo
|Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Digmygold: 7:49pm On Dec 23, 2019|
Speak and be a man dude.
|Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Nobody: 6:09pm On Mar 06|
|Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Harlequeen: 6:16pm On Mar 06|
Logoobenz:thank you. Will do that straight away
|Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Nobody: 6:41pm On Mar 06|
Harlequeen:ah ok I've sent you a message on whatsapp even though your last seen no be here.
Try take out your number too,thanks.
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