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Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by meobizy(m): 12:06pm On Dec 05, 2019
OP is finally becoming a man and taking an interest in females. This is so cute.

What you're experiencing now is one out of many crushes you'll come across in life. I didn't care to thoroughly examine your query because to ask here means you've already lost. With time things will become easy and you'll handle attraction to females a lot better. Come to think of it you'll prefer to engage females who actually like you than the other way around.

Enjoy life and stay safe until you experience my advice manifest.
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Munzy14(m): 12:28pm On Dec 05, 2019
frozen70:

In this gender issue, am the Prof and you are the student
K... cheesy

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Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Ishilove(f): 12:50pm On Dec 05, 2019
anonimi:


You should stop reading and/or applying the lessons of the book- How to Say No and laugh at the toaster tongue tongue
I don't have that book. What I have is 'How to Say No Politely'. cheesy

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Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by TrumXray: 12:58pm On Dec 05, 2019
I will kindly advice you to set your goals right.
If relationship at this level will affect your academics, why not get done first before adding more loads.

mrpoul:
I'm Confused, I Don't Want To Lose Her

There is this girl that I met in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture.

After the lecture, I disappeared because I'm this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture.

So I saw her on Facebook, I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finished eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5 mins. I told her we need to go, that her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was excited to see me.

After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

What do you suggest I do from here? pardon my grammatical blunder.
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Anijay1212(m): 2:05pm On Dec 05, 2019
NoGender:
Your Grammar sef dislocate my neck.

Girl wey you dey cry for has probably gone fucking in another niggas crib.

You swallow lizard for mouth? What was stopping you from making your intentions known from the first day, just tell her one big talk;

"I can't seem to understand my self since I left you the previous time, I'm losing it and have got no coherent way to put this. Do I like that I've got nothing to say when we see? Not inherently, but please understand that I may be meandering and trying to lull but I've got you and your thoughts full to the brim in my heart"

Two seconds she go..!!

Oga NoGender you be real legend for the game.
See format nah.
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by oshobugiesamuel(m): 5:34pm On Dec 05, 2019
Devops:
How many of these skills do you have?

All three Sir,
In excellent condition
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by AnointedG(f): 4:42pm On Dec 06, 2019
What is our generation turning into for Christ's Sake? cry embarassed
CreepyBlackpool:
She came to your place and you did not fvck her?

you've forever lost her
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Tangmaniandevil(m): 10:06pm On Dec 06, 2019
Uhmm... Bruv.

First off, you don't have her yet.

So get the whole "I don't want to lose her " shit out of your head.

Secondly, you have a bigger problem. You don't yet know what to do at the different stages.

I'm not saying this to diss you or anything. It's just that you sound a little inexperienced and considering you're also shy and from your tone in this post, I'm guessing this is the first girl in a while to give you attention.

And that's okay.

Now... From what you wrote, you may have dulled her or bored her and she may have lost interest (or found a new Bros to be interested in) which is why she is now acting up.

Here's what you should do.

Give her space. Don't call or text her for a while. Still say hi and all when you see her in class and all. Just don't be all over her.

Next, get busy meeting other women and learning how to hold conversation, and what to do at each stage - first meeting, hanging out at your place, getting her into bed (if that's what you want) and just generally getting comfortable talking and flirting with women.

Then, after a few weeks... If she has not texted you or called you by then, call her up and tell her it's been a while and that y'all should hang out. She'll most likely say yes. If she says no though, it's no biggie. Free her and continue doing your thing.

Still say hi when you see around. The last thing you want to do is do that immature malice bullshit thing.

Funny enough, if you do this, you might get her back or even meet somebody better.

Whatever you do, do it for you. Not as a move to get her back. And have no attachment to the outcome - whether you get her or not.

Also, for next time, know what you're going to do and what you intend to do with her and lead her there. Because most of the time, women won't take things to the next level. They expect you to.

Hope this helps


mrpoul:
I'm Confused, I Don't Want To Lose Her

There is this girl that I met in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture.

After the lecture, I disappeared because I'm this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture.

So I saw her on Facebook, I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finished eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5 mins. I told her we need to go, that her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was excited to see me.

After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

What do you suggest I do from here? pardon my grammatical blunder.
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by mrpoul(m): 10:58pm On Dec 06, 2019
Tangmaniandevil:
Uhmm... Bruv.

First off, you don't have her yet.

So get the whole "I don't want to lose her " shit out of your head.

Secondly, you have a bigger problem. You don't yet know what to do at the different stages.

I'm not saying this to diss you or anything. It's just that you sound a little inexperienced and considering you're also shy and from your tone in this post, I'm guessing this is the first girl in a while to give you attention.

And that's okay.

Now... From what you wrote, you may have dulled her or bored her and she may have lost interest (or found a new Bros to be interested in) which is why she is now acting up.

Here's what you should do.

Give her space. Don't call or text her for a while. Still say hi and all when you see her in class and all. Just don't be all over her.

Next, get busy meeting other women and learning how to hold conversation, and what to do at each stage - first meeting, hanging out at your place, getting her into bed (if that's what you want) and just generally getting comfortable talking and flirting with women.

Then, after a few weeks... If she has not texted you or called you by then, call her up and tell her it's been a while and that y'all should hang out. She'll most likely say yes. If she says no though, it's no biggie. Free her and continue doing your thing.

Still say hi when you see around. The last thing you want to do is do that immature malice bullshit thing.

Funny enough, if you do this, you might get her back or even meet somebody better.

Whatever you do, do it for you. Not as a move to get her back. And have no attachment to the outcome - whether you get her or not.

Also, for next time, know what you're going to do and what you intend to do with her and lead her there. Because most of the time, women won't take things to the next level. They expect you to.

Hope this helps




yes boss, I really appreciate
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by SirMichael1: 9:26pm On Dec 22, 2019
totosucker:
Call her and tell her you love her and would not like to loose her. Tell her she means the world to you. Tell her it's she or nobody else. Find out what her interests are and talk about it.


Seems you're still in the 20th century. Who does this anymore? You're setting yourself up for heartbreak.
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by tobby20: 10:19pm On Dec 22, 2019
Your Grammar sef dislocate my neck.

Girl wey you dey cry for has probably gone fucking in another niggas crib.

You swallow lizard for mouth? What was stopping you from making your intentions known from the first day, just tell her one big talk;

"I can't seem to understand my self since I left you the previous time, I'm losing it and have got no coherent way to put this. Do I like that I've got nothing to say when we see? Not inherently, but please understand that I may be meandering and trying to lull but I've got you and your thoughts full to the brim in my heart"

Two seconds she go..!!

That banging gif is mad oo
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Digmygold: 7:49pm On Dec 23, 2019
Speak and be a man dude.
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Nobody: 6:09pm On Mar 06
Harlequeen:
just be honest and upfront that you are a shy person and like her. Your communication isn't the best, but ask her if she really likes you or not. Then proceed from there
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Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Harlequeen: 6:16pm On Mar 06
Logoobenz:
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thank you. Will do that straight away
Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by Nobody: 6:41pm On Mar 06
Harlequeen:
hey logoobenz,

I've been trying to log in to my email and it was giving me issues.

Can I get your Whatsapp no, or if you are not comfortable, WhatsApp me on 89
ah ok I've sent you a message on whatsapp even though your last seen no be here.
Try take out your number too,thanks.

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