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Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by skales67(m): 1:39am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: We will not jump and pass! Her story is twisted! You did not do anything bad to your husband, you never treated his mother bad (which means his mother is suppose to love you like her own daughter) and he suddenly wakes up one day and starts treating you with disdain? With the "calm" and "sober" way you present it, you never did anything wrong to your husband yet he makes such threat to you? The poster should tell this super-story to kids in creche! 4 Likes
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Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Magicians: 1:43am On Dec 17, 2019 |
If you tell your husband to treat people right 10 times n he insult you 10 times, does your common sense not tell you need to approach such situation in a different manner ? For example proud people are nauseating to me n I can imagine my wife daring to tell me to treat such people right ? ebyjoyken: |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Daboomb: 1:53am On Dec 17, 2019 |
ebyjoyken: You know the problem, which l have highlighted in your Post, why then do you still seek advice? Obviously, you "challenge" your husband in front of your children, that riddicules him in front of the children, as a father in the house. Now that he wants to riddicule you in trun, you feel sad! Do unto others as you want them to do unto you. Respect your husband and your children will respect you, no matter what. Riddicule your husband (in their presence especially,) and they will just learn from you and multiply it by x10. KARMA is a biatch! If you have unresolved issues, try and sort it out but dont make a mickey out of your husband, it comes back to you. Children of today learn a lot by observation, not necessarily by wat they are told. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Daboomb: 2:05am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Pataricatering: Let us assume you are right and what you say is true (just for argument sake) If she is not submissive as you advice, then the opposite is for her to be Confrontational, Challenging and Arguementative with her husband. Do you think this will make her husband kind to her or it will brew conflict in the marriage, which will eventually crash the marriage? Do you confront and challenge your own husband? ( if you are married) 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by loswhite(m): 2:58am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:madam give your own advice....lol you are just busy quoting ppl |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by wany(f): 2:58am On Dec 17, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls: You are a bigger joker yourself,a father Inlaw died and no regard was shown,please where are you from.she should find out what please.I pray such doesn't come your way.things we read this days,I tire walai 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by loswhite(m): 3:03am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:We know your problem....men haters...lol |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Nobody: 3:11am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:This won wick me jo Woman always feel like the know everything in a Relationship chai Uwa nka although they said it's a woman world |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by jaxxy(m): 3:16am On Dec 17, 2019 |
ebyjoyken: If Ure saying the whole story then ur husband’s attitude is very wrong and uncalled for, the home is a partnership with the man leading bt not a dictatorship. U have a right to gently question things were necessary and put heads together. That’s how it’s supposed to be. 1st off I wud like to understand what ur husband means by u challenging him and what it entails based on issues btwn both of u. Definitely Smtn occurred for him to make this statement. Be respectful bt speak up where it’s necessary bt don’t go into unnecessary arguments dat can be negative. At the end of the day it also depends on the kind of person ur husband is. Sm men can be difficult. Understand him then know how to manage him. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by wany(f): 3:27am On Dec 17, 2019 |
vickydankal:You mean ego massage,for this melinia . 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by NwsBoy: 3:39am On Dec 17, 2019 |
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Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by agarawu23(m): 3:55am On Dec 17, 2019 |
ebyjoyken:is that why u wanted to abort a 18weeks pregnancy? ,Cos he wants to turn your kids back at u. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Liposure: 4:27am On Dec 17, 2019 |
It seems ur hubby is tryin 2 blackmail u.talk 2 him about d consequences of his action. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by IprintMONEY: 4:36am On Dec 17, 2019 |
ebyjoyken:why will u be challenging or inslting him? see if you guys are not ready to tell the real detail of the story, dont write it na 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by kingchuks500(m): 5:12am On Dec 17, 2019 |
My advice to u is to be more close to ur children, let them see how much you love them. It will go a long way. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by oziamaka: 5:38am On Dec 17, 2019 |
My dear mothers influence on their children can be signficant and can be life long. If you don't do anything to a manand he is traitening you already with this haba! Use ur power as a mother over your children, he will come begging. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by joyandfaith: 6:32am On Dec 17, 2019 |
crackhaus: I like your submission. her husband will cry in his old age because children will abandon him. most men are suffering in their old age because they mistreated their wives with no good reason. if you see any child that hates his mother, such mother is wicked. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by gaddafe(m): 6:35am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Larryfest: Even if she is a bad mum the kids will still love her. The only exception is if she divorce the man and leaves the kids with the man for years, especially during the early stages of the kids life say 0-10 years. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Oshin56(m): 6:37am On Dec 17, 2019 |
I'm not trying to condemn your husband or trying to justify his act but find a period that you know his happy or try to give to him what you know that will make him happy after that ask him what you have done to him that makes you deserve that treatment or if he is a such that take alcohol look for his brand and give him and I believe he will tell you what you have done for him.l 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by true2god: 6:38am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:Why call him horseband instead of the normal husband? You are part of the problem; very rude and disrespectful. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Nobody: 6:40am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Like seriously,a lot of people didn't marry,strangers are living together and have children and they call it marriage. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by crackhaus: 6:46am On Dec 17, 2019 |
joyandfaith:Very true. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by thymm50(m): 6:48am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Some men feel insulted when their spouse tell them the truth during an argument, especially when you just slap it on his face. Some ladies are not sensitive when dealing with issues that can affect a man's ego. I'm sure this is the reason he wants to turn the children against you so you have a taste of how you make him feel. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Adams12345: 6:54am On Dec 17, 2019 |
ebyjoyken: pray for God to touch your husband, i persive its may be spiritual, pray hard and fast go for church councilling, you need to defend your home woman, dont just complain, be patient and caring to your husband overlook his comment and action, dont reaction it will lead to crisis. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Bluffly: 6:57am On Dec 17, 2019 |
ebyjoyken:If you must challenge him, work on your approach. Don't be blunt, work your words to be soothing. He won't see it as challenge anymore but more of opinion. Take your time to respond, always |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Dreamchaserz(m): 7:02am On Dec 17, 2019 |
ebyjoyken: Wow... Just wow! |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by adontcare(f): 7:14am On Dec 17, 2019 |
ebyjoyken:madam, most men don't like their wives family especially when they r richer than the wife's. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by richPHAROAH: 7:20am On Dec 17, 2019 |
NwsBoy:did buhari say anyone can come here? why he close benin border na? |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by BluntBoy(m): 7:38am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Pataricatering: SMH... So, your mind is already made up never to be submissive. Let me tell you, it is far better to be submissive than to be confrontational. A good man will choose a submissive woman over a confrontational woman anytime any day. In addition, there is nothing in the OP that suggests that she is submissive to her husband. For a man to threaten to turn his children against his wife, it must be that that wife is rude to him or has no regards for elders. In that case, when she receives a dose of her own medicine, she would understand how painful rudeness can be. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by CasNova: 7:48am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Marriages have many challenges. A successful marriage needs tact, patience, wisdom and prayerfulness. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by smithbidy(m): 7:52am On Dec 17, 2019 |
healthserve:Be calm and decisive, ask him to forgive your wrongdoing, and beg him not to use your children as a bait to correct your whatever wrong doings. Let him understand that it's a curse on the children to disrespect their parent, and pls beg him not to be an architect to that curse. Do all this in front of the children, he will change and the children will pity your tears and not submit to their father's will to disrespect you. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Airhix(m): 7:56am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Its only very clear that your husband has been brain washed, he ought not act this way,someone must have told him something about you,which he doesn't have the moral courage to ask you, couples should first be best friends before love crips in,pls you are a woman, save your family, apologize to him, pray without season, God of Hannah will see you tru, so many evil in the society, your husband is not in the right state of mind,he only sees your errors now. Keep loving him,keep praying together,do all you can which is godly to reclaim your man.God bless you. |
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