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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Greyman11(m): 3:27pm On Dec 15, 2019
mechanics:
Hope the advice you want to give him is a godly one.
Have you ever heard that an ungodly habit was by using an ungodly step?
You must not be too quick to quote what you don't understand.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by AngelicBeing: 3:28pm On Dec 15, 2019
wordbank:
If your preek will lead you to death, cut it off
Gbam cheesy
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Mykel51(m): 3:28pm On Dec 15, 2019
tyup:


I swear.....ceeroh never sabi what real addiction means, when I was on training at FAAN ikeja I'll wake up 4:30am prepare bfr 5:30am I'll be on my way to ikeja, reaching work at about 7am

would be busy all thr the day till around 6pm with traffic and everything I'll be reaching home 10pm coupled with headache and body pain

Bro the truth is those stress din stop me from wanking o embarassed embarassed

Hello bro...I sent you a mail...want to make some enquiry... Thanks
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by RealMillennial(m): 3:28pm On Dec 15, 2019
soberdrunk:
Kneel!!!! I hereby knight you Sir Wanksalot of Masturbadia!!! First of his name.....

As much as I pity the OP, this Knight line is hilarious o.. 'first of his name..' ���
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Ashley86400: 3:29pm On Dec 15, 2019
mechanics:
Meet your pastor for deliverance, the act is not ordinary, there is a spirit behind that addiction, and doing it for up to four times a day is something else, masturbation will surely affect your performance and is a sin in the sight of God.
His pastor will just help him succk his dick properly.
All these pastor visits never yield anything . . .
Just saying. . . undecided
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Dickson44: 3:29pm On Dec 15, 2019
I'm not here to tell u weda or not masturbation is a sin or not, no, rada, I will tell u a few tinx to avoid.
1. Quit being alone. This is the very first tin to avoid.
2. Avoid the urge of opening the site to see what is there. U may tell ursef, I jux want to see, no touching. But no it never works bcoz ones u see those divas there the next is erection and to touch ensues.
3. If u enter bathroom, try as much as possible to do ur bathing or shitting business and leave asap.
4. Try and reduce it from 6x to 2x daily, from there to once a week, to once a month. If u can go one week u can go 2,3,4weeks and so on. Don't try to be automatic while trying to quit, it won't work.
5. Don't do long distance relationship. Have a babe nearby who can always cure ur craze wen u need it. You will start enjoying sex again if u quit masturbation.
6. U may need to copy this out (and of course other helpful tips) and always refer to them, keep tabs with them and see ursef change for good. I wish you luck.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by AngelicBeing: 3:31pm On Dec 15, 2019
Amuatulu:
Lalasticlala sef
Hian wink

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Kokoebapluse(m): 3:32pm On Dec 15, 2019
I can see you don't have work,

Try and find work that will keep you busy, and stop staying alone always stay with people,

And promise yourself u won't watch porn again or go and buy small phone that can't download, and don't buy DvD disc, and always control your mind away from your dick and always think like you don't have dick at all,

God will help you, allah said he won't help anybody situation until they first start helping themselves
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Cutehector(m): 3:34pm On Dec 15, 2019
And you are not dead? You never start.


And where is paroh? You are here someone is doing soapy, you will not come and sell market here. grin
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Vicyace: 3:35pm On Dec 15, 2019
horpigee1:
I have solution for you if only you can do it... it sound crazy and funny..don't do it if u tink u can't stop masturbating.
(1) take ur bible or Quran, open the middle of the Bible/Quran, then say it loudly that God I don't want to be masturbate again and if you do, all the curse in d bible/Quran shall be on to you.... pls don't do this if u know u can't stop this masturbate of a thing.
(2) step on cutlass or any iron sheet, then say to urself that... if i masturbate after today, make Ogun kill u.
.
pls don't do any of the two if u know u can't stop masturbating...may God help u bro

That's not gona work. Its the mindset and porn
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Nobody: 3:35pm On Dec 15, 2019
shocked
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Blabbermouth: 3:35pm On Dec 15, 2019
Vick4rill:


The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.
When the urge for masturbation comes, porn follows. Vick4rill, there is only one solution and if you ask I will give you. Before you ask me though, do you really want to stop or you just want it reduced so you can still enjoy yourself once in a while?
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by MrNipplesLover(m): 3:37pm On Dec 15, 2019
Haaaaah!!!


wetin I just read?

from primary school days now a grad!!!

haaaaah!
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Greatness28: 3:37pm On Dec 15, 2019
Nice One
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Tomilola360: 3:37pm On Dec 15, 2019
Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.

l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me.

Hmmmm. So much pity.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Eroms4life17(m): 3:38pm On Dec 15, 2019
And masturbating girls full here ooooo
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by lereinter(m): 3:39pm On Dec 15, 2019
What of that lady you want to bring to your unfurnished room


She no agree for you?
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by SweetOlive(f): 3:39pm On Dec 15, 2019
I hope you find help.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by walexyatzion: 3:41pm On Dec 15, 2019
Brother you are fighting a battle you can never win by your own strength. You need divine help. Seek help from Jesus.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Mayflowa(m): 3:41pm On Dec 15, 2019
horpigee1:
I have solution for you if only you can do it... it sound crazy and funny..don't do it if u tink u can't stop masturbating.
(1) take ur bible or Quran, open the middle of the Bible/Quran, then say it loudly that God I don't want to be masturbate again and if you do, all the curse in d bible/Quran shall be on to you.... pls don't do this if u know u can't stop this masturbate of a thing.
(2) step on cutlass or any iron sheet, then say to urself that... if i masturbate after today, make Ogun kill u.
.
pls don't do any of the two if u know u can't stop masturbating...may God help u bro

You're wicked. #inside evil
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by respect80(m): 3:42pm On Dec 15, 2019
Kokoebapluse:
I can see you don't have work,

Try and find work that will keep you busy, and stop staying alone always stay with people,

And promise yourself u won't watch porn again or go and buy small phone that can't download, and don't buy DvD disc, and always control your mind away from your dick and always think like you don't have dick at all,

God will help you, allah said he won't help anybody situation until they first start helping themselves

Really? cheesy
He should always think like he doesn't have dick at all?

I would advice you to always think like you don't have brain at all...

Guy, you funny die... No offense pls cheesy

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Humblemayor007: 3:42pm On Dec 15, 2019
Masturbation is not an easy thing to stop like that, its only God that can help you.. You can just pray and fast about it and also avoid every possible temptations you know within yourself that might leads you back to it....

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Ekestar(m): 3:44pm On Dec 15, 2019
Masturbation is a mindset. When you masturbate you don't even really get motivated when you see a naked girl. Your appetite for the opposite sex drop. Porn is one of the easiest triggers of masturbation. To come out of it, you must cut of yourself from porn. But the truth is you lack the power to stop this addition to porn unless additional help come to you. Know that if you fill your mind with the word of God, you will stop porn. Let me tell you, you can work from morning till 12 midnight, if your heart is not filled with God's words, when the spirit of masturbation comes at that lonely hour, it can be 1,2, 3, 4:00am you will see yourself submitting to that desire because you wouldn't be able to resist it. Occupying your days with activities will change nothing. Somebody may have been able to stop masturbation in another way which I doubt. This I know for sure, that if you come to Christ Jesus, he would set you free. 2Corithians 5:17, 3:17.
If you desire this freedom as you said, just accept Christ into your life. Dont mind what any body may say agsinst this, this I have seen it worked. But know it that if you genuinely accept Christ, the desire will not stop instantly, but from that day you will receive the power to resist it, because masturbation is a spirit. And as you give yourself to the word and stop every channel through which this feeling might be triggered, such as sensual music, videos and picture, this demonic operation will stop.
I pray for you to receive the strength to take this step by inviting Christ into your life as your Lord and Saviour.
Thanks. Evangelist Theophilus.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by XOGBADO(m): 3:44pm On Dec 15, 2019
wordbank:
If your preek will lead you to death, cut it off

...And if your hand leads you to sin, cut it off. For it is better to be an agile man with one hand than to have a preek that doesn't work grin

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by mechanics(m): 3:44pm On Dec 15, 2019
Ashley86400:

His pastor will just help him succk his dick properly.
All these pastor visits never yield anything . . .
Just saying. . . undecided
hmmm, easy, not all pastors are fake, am sure he knows genuine pastors.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by 0monnak0da: 3:44pm On Dec 15, 2019
Masturbating that many times a day is what is described as "compulsive" behaviour.

It is not driven by high libido necessarily but by deeper psychological problems like anxiety, depression ,low self esteem or PTSD

Basically you are using that activity as a form of MOOD REGULATION to manage feelings of dysphoria

This could also be seen with social media/internet addiction, smoking, drugs etc.
For some people it is not masturbation but actual sex with real partners with a compulsive pattern
Many people are addicted to their phones/internet and do not know.
For some it is eating FOOD. Compulsive eating is also a common and related problem but quite hidden
It really makes little difference
Masturbation is not good or bad just like eating .... it depends . When it becomes compulsive or is used to regulate mood or "feel better" then you have a problem

So the activity is a SYMPTOM of the problem and not the real problem. If you stop it without dealing with the real problem a different set of symptoms would emerge.

Life is a journey and problems are there to teach us lessons
Giving up the breast is painful for the child but is necessary to progress to the next level
Try reading up on Attachment Theory
You will be fine when the time comes

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by drezzyx(m): 3:45pm On Dec 15, 2019
Even you bang women u still masturbate, I told them here yesterday on a particular thread that having galfrd cannot stop masturbation even some married people indulge in it.

Even after 2-5 years of no longer masturbating some people relapse .

It takes d grace of God to control it and stay away from whatever causes this masturbation.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by eliabah12(f): 3:45pm On Dec 15, 2019
cheesy grin grin
wordbank:
If your preek will lead you to death, cut it off
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Heyzee5: 3:46pm On Dec 15, 2019
horpigee1:
I have solution for you if only you can do it... it sound crazy and funny..don't do it if u tink u can't stop masturbating.
(1) take ur bible or Quran, open the middle of the Bible/Quran, then say it loudly that God I don't want to be masturbate again and if you do, all the curse in d bible/Quran shall be on to you.... pls don't do this if u know u can't stop this masturbate of a thing.
(2) step on cutlass or any iron sheet, then say to urself that... if i masturbate after today, make Ogun kill u.
.
pls don't do any of the two if u know u can't stop masturbating...may God help u bro
Chai!! What kind of demonic advice is this?? shocked Pls don't follow this and curse yourself for nothing.

OP, I congratulate you.......your deliverance has started already since you have the courage to come out. Masturbation is a sin and there is obviously now a spirit involved in your case. OP, you have obviously enslaved yourself to the spirit of masturbation and pornography........Yes, they are not just mere actions but there is a spirit of masturbation and pornography. By the consistency of your practice of this act, you have invoked the spirit of masturbation and pornography into your life. What you need is deliverance and genuine determination to stay away from those evil porn videos and any explicit movie that bring temptation your way. If you are a Christian, look for any mfm church around you and attend their deliverance service and also never forget to meditate on the word of God......it is your strongest defense against these evil spirits. I will recommend that you meditate on these scriptures and confess it out loud: Hebrews 1:9, James 1:7. Also, please pray the following prayers: I break any covenant I have with the spirit of masturbation and pornography by the blood of Jesus, O thou spirit of masturbation and pornography, get out of my body, soul and spirit in Jesus name.
I have been there and I submit to you that it is indeed tempting but, you must resist those wicked devils that want to destroy your life. I pray the Lord Jesus gives you strength to stand your ground and resist. Amen

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Emmasnoop(m): 3:49pm On Dec 15, 2019
Marry and stop this madness or fill your mind with the Word of God, stop watching porn video.
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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Nobody: 3:49pm On Dec 15, 2019
Nwodosis:
Don't bother yourself about looking for solution on how to quit masturbation, it never works!
It is only ageing, regular sex or denying youself the privacy of being alone when the urge comes that can put an end to masturbation.
Masturbation is harmless unless from the religious angle. Even when it comes to religion, if you can masturbate without thinking about sex, it is not a sin.
How you can achieve that fit of masturbating without thinking about sex is left for you.
Finally, think about this before self guilt kills you that nature is in support of masturbation, have you ever wondered why you can't tickle youself but you can excite your sexual organs?
How is it possible to masturbate without thinking about sex?

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