bukatyne:


You are late to the party

I have already stated it earlier.

Let me find it

Note the bold:

So why you con dey edit my post na if we are already on the same wavelength?

Fountainofyouth:



Yes if you calling me a bitch hurts me, I'd trace you and beat you up, isn't your point verbal abuse equals physical abuse?

Yes it is same cos you both said negative untrue words about me,

Did I give you the impression that verbal and physical abuse is right?

Lol.

@Fountainofyouth:

If a random online user calls you a b!tch and it hurts you, you will search for the person and beat the person?

The Oshogbo weed you are taking is very strong.

Before you go all 'this is all verbal abuse' on me, I am just making a statement of fact.

crackhaus:

So why you con dey edit my post na if we are already on the same wavelength?

Because men sometimes instigate verbal abuse too.

bukatyne:


Because men sometimes instigate verbal abuse too.

Yes, but is it on the excuse that the wife should not respond with physical abuse because she's stronger?

bukatyne:


@Fountainofyouth:

If a random online user calls you a b!tch and it hurts you, you will search for the person and beat the person?

The Oshogbo weed you are taking is very strong.

Before you go all 'this is all verbal abuse' on me, I am just making a statement of fact.

Lol funny, why do you think I wouldnt or shouldn't react? Because it is online? ever heard of cyber bullying? i think not, anyone is allowed to react to whatever they feel isn't right nah, verbal abuse breeds physical violence, whether online or reality.

bukatyne:


People can walk away.

Do I want to find out if the person I am fingering their mind would walk away?

No.

I am not that bold.

And if someone close to me keeps saying the wrong things after warnings and even looking inwards, they will pay for it (whatever I deem appropriate) .

Aren't you Dr. Manhattan?
You ought to be able to control how every human being on earth should respond to you.

How dare you be timid when you can use your superpowers?

bukatyne:


People can walk away.

Do I want to find out if the person I am fingering their mind would walk away?

No.

I am not that bold.

Lol, good for you!

What does what you would do personally to prevent a physical beatdown got to do with how the law has defined fair justification for the use of violence

The law is very clear on the definition of fraud but personally, we take precautions to avoid been a victim. Ditto any crime. What’s your point?

crackhaus:

The Dunning-Kruger Effect can do that.

Abi, smh

midnighter:


Abi, smh

Yes o.

BTW, I saw where you were being accused of being male. So are you male with a dangling asherah pole?
Someone here wants to know...with photo proof if possible

crackhaus:

Yes o.

BTW, I saw where you were being accused of being male. So are you male with a dangling asherah pole?
Someone here wants to know...with photo proof if possible

Lol this has been suspected of me many times. But I think its obvious that I am female so no picture for you

liberalchick:

A legal based post.

Yes! 1. Based on his physical size, the force is not going to be comparable 2. He can walk away 3. His life was not in danger.

The law expects the man to walk away and report the girlfriend for assault.

On the verbal assault, the legal process will do its work. The police will investigate, people in their lives will be interrogated etc and the man will be legally represented in court.

In a civilized society people are not expected to take the law into their hands, if not, it becomes a slippery slope. What level of verbal abuse is enough to warrant a slap?

Rubbish. What if the girl doesn’t faint when the man reciprocate the slap?

Plead:



Rubbish. What if the girl doesn’t faint when the man reciprocate the slap?

If you’re asking if the boyfriend’s use of force will still be justified, if he can prove the following:
- threat to life
- no means to escape
- comparable force
Then, it is. If he can’t, then it wasn’t. The appropriate action is to report his girlfriend to the police. Of course this is the law in my neck of the woods. If you’ve a violent significant other, I advise you check your local laws on assault and battery or you breakup with her.

liberalchick:


If you’re asking if the boyfriend’s use of force will still be justified, if he can prove the following:
- threat to life
- no means to escape
- comparable force
Then, it is. If he can’t, then it wasn’t. The appropriate action is to report his girlfriend to the police. Of course this is the law in my neck of the woods. If you’ve a violent significant other, I advise you check your local laws on assault and battery or you breakup with her.

Rubbish.

Plead:



Rubbish.

There is no need to be rude to her. She is replying from a legal perspective.


@liberalchick i assume you are a lawyer(correct me if am wrong on this).

My personally opinion on this

I have never seen the law advocate for retaliation of any crime except in cases of self defense. I always advice people to walk away / press charges if you are abused.
This aint a gender based thing but a general law dont take laws into your hands.
My question is,in case there is a feud between two opposite genders and one(male/female) offer a slap to another (male/female) and the recipent of the slap retailated without the grave effects(slumping,death) or any injury on both the parties .how will the law address it? (If both parties are in good shape afterwards).

I dont know why a sane person cant just walk away ,why do humans love stress?

Michellekabod2:

There is no need to be rude to her. She is replying from a legal perspective.


@liberalchick i assume you are a lawyer(correct me if am wrong on this).

My personally opinion on this

I have never seen the law advocate for retaliation of any crime except in cases of self defense. I always advice people to walk away / press charges if you are abused.
This aint a gender based thing but a general law dont take laws into your hands.
My question is,in case there is a feud between two opposite genders and one(male/female) offer a slap to another (male/female) and the recipent of the slap retailated without the grave effects(slumping,death) or any injury on both the parties .how will the law address it? (If both parties are in good shape afterwards).

I dont know why a sane person cant just walk away ,why do humans love stress?

Rubbish. You’re in Nigeria abi? Go and slap one person first, hopefully you’ll live to tell the story and nothing will happen.

Maybe the fellow you quoted is living in the west .

If you don’t wanna get hit don’t hit anybody ,if you hit me God knows you’re collecting it back.

Michellekabod2:

This aint a gender based thing but a general law dont take laws into your hands.
My question is,in case there is a feud between two opposite genders and one(male/female) offer a slap to another (male/female) and the recipent of the slap retailated without the grave effects(slumping,death) or any injury on both the parties .how will the law address it? (If both parties are in good shape afterwards).

I dont know why a sane person cant just walk away ,why do humans love stress?

Thanks Mich.

I thought it meant the law was “rubbish”, anyways, I didn’t think it deserved a response.

To the above, generally, if the retaliatory force is comparable to the one you received then it’s not an assault. The aim of the law is, provocation is not an excuse for a physical beatdown. If you’re going to give someone a beatdown then your life must have been in danger or you had no means to escape. The law no longer sees you as a victim.

I agree. It’s always best to keep your hands to yourself don’t go slapping or hitting people. If you can, always walk away from provocation. Also, believe it or not those provisions for defense of an assault is in the Nigerian criminal code, it’s not just a “Western” law but laws are rarely enforced in Nigeria. Ironically, if people are on the receiving end of a slap/provocation by a bigger and stronger person, they’ll walk away and bemoan the lawlessness in our country, most people don’t like the law until they need it.

liberalchick:


Thanks Mich.

I thought it meant the law was “rubbish”, anyways, I didn’t think it deserved a response.

To the above, generally, if the retaliatory force is comparable to the one you received then it’s not an assault. The aim of the law is, provocation is not an excuse for a physical beatdown. If you’re going to give someone a beatdown then your life must have been in danger or you had no means to escape. The law no longer sees you as a victim.

I agree. It’s always best to keep your hands to yourself don’t go slapping or hitting people. If you can, always walk away from provocation. Also, believe it or not those provisions for defense of an assault is in the Nigerian criminal code, it’s not just a ‘Western’ law but laws are rarely enforced in Nigeria. Ironically, if people are on the receiving end of a slap/provocation by a bigger and stronger person, they’ll walk away and bemoan the lawlessness in our country, most people don’t like the law until they need it.

I don’t do this but I’ll have to do it today , your father/mother is the it you’re referring to.

Shalom