IAmStrange:
Getting a space somewhere around the house. Then she can:

sell puff puff and buns.. or akara
Or boli (roasted plantain) or agbado sisun (roasted maize)
or any other kind of food.
Or she can be polishing shoe and shoe cobbler things.. We hardly have any female around doing that so that make her outstanding which is a plus...
Or she can selling sweets and kuli kuli.. ehn ehn!!

so there you have it OP. which one do you like?

Casemiro:



nice suggestions there..




You can keep saying insecure all you want, but Everyman to his own..


some men want women working in big organizations and offices, while some prefer them stay at home..



Stories flying up and down especially on Nairaland are enough to make such men not change their mind.



from colleague colleague,

they start something funny.

Before you know one thing has happened and the do done.



It's not insecurity on the part of such men,

they just don't want their wives to always be in an occasion of sin, where there would be much pressure..





no need trying to sound politically correct, we know what really happens inside life..



once again thanks for your suggestions.



MODIFIED !!!!!!



If you like quote me full textbook calling me insecure, I will never try to sound politically correct just to win cheap likes on nairaland.




You can give motivational quotes or try to win likes all you want, but we know that


theory is different from practical.




Inside life, we know how things operate.




I asked a simple question,

'' What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? "


Can't you just pass if you don't have contributions?





marriage is for two who agree to get together.



If you are a career woman, marry a career man.


Simple!

vickydankal:
Supermarket
Freelancing
Manage osusu small scale
Blogging
Bitcoin etc

Any man who doesn't want his wife to work in a cooperate office is insecure

24kmagic:
Teaching job is the best for a wife.
She leaves 7am and comes back by 2:30pm

She can use 1hr to rest or sleep, after which she enters the kitchen and prepare something for the family.

During holidays, she will be at home all through.
Wives/mothers should be home anything 4PM, not all these nonsense Carrer ladies that will be having board meetings even as late as 6PM.
Having a teacher as a wife and mother is bae.
All ye NCE and B.Edu girls, I'm coming for you..


NB: Im talking about reputable or public schools, not all these 15k private school ooo.

luminouz:

E PAIN AM OOOOOOOOO...




E PAIIN AMMMMMMMMMMMM!!!

Casemiro:





I'm glad you understand where I'm coming from.




The nature of our jobs can sometimes make the family duties we are supposed to carryout suffer.


I don't support husbands cheating, but let's face reality.




Inside life, and in Africa, men are always the pacesetter and leader of the home.


women should support their husbands and live in harmony.



like I said, I don't support men cheating on their wives, but in reality some men do!


The society won't frown much at it, but reverse is the case for a woman.



A female created a thread asking why men never forgive a cheating partner, and if you have gone through that thread you will have a little understanding of how men are designed.



So wouldn't it be better for the man to reduce the heat and plan a better occupation for the wife? An occupation that would make her have time to build the family and reduces to the nearest minimum her chances of cheating?


Mind you, it's not insecurity like some think above. The truth is that these things do happen!

At first it starts as ordinary colleague, but we are humans and have feelings.


I've read countess threads here where women used anonymous monickers to seek for advice because they have been cheating on their husbands. 90 percent of such cases are career women working in coporate offices.



The truth is that they never ever wanted to cheat on their husbands, but when it lead to it, they didn't just do it once or twice, they kept on doing it codedly.






The fact is that we are humans and as mentioned before, these things happen everyday! Would you lock up a priest with a lady all because you trust him?



let me pause here.


All I'm saying is that a faithful wife will remain faithful no matter what, but a career oriented faithful wife will be exposed to more temptations to cheat on her husband compared to a faithful housewife or work at home mum..

Casemiro:
Some men would prefer their wives not working under someone or in an office, but wifes need to be supportive. So how do we balance it?

What wife friendly occupation would you suggest for a married or intending married lady?

24kmagic:
Teaching job is the best for a wife.
She leaves 7am and comes back by 2:30pm

She can use 1hr to rest or sleep, after which she enters the kitchen and prepare something for the family.

During holidays, she will be at home all through.
Wives/mothers should be home anything 4PM, not all these nonsense Carrer ladies that will be having board meetings even as late as 6PM.
Having a teacher as a wife and mother is bae.
All ye NCE and B.Edu girls, I'm coming for you..


NB: Im talking about reputable or public schools, not all these 15k private school ooo.

lilyheaven:
Keep her at home and pay her salary, that's the best

Pavore9:


I suggest nothing, a woman should not be restricted from legally earning a living to be able to financially contribute to the upkeep of the family or do we have husband-friendly occupations?

Can a widow whose late husband left her and their children with nothing be assessing "wife-friendly" means of livelihood?

Fountainofyouth:



Ah fada lawd, most mothers of old did a very terrible job bringing up men of these era, look at this one giving excuses for promiscuous horseband, terrible creatures springing up everyday, especially here, SMH!!!

InvertedHammer:

/
Some of these behaviours seem normal and natural with the exclusion of "excessive/control/demand/constant/paranoia" which push the actions to extreme. But by recent events, none of those conditions were met before men were tagged insecure. That moment your side girlfriend tells you that her husband is insecure and you wonder why.

Secure men are the gifts that keep giving. They are the ones that allow their wives to go and do night vigils with pastors because they are secure. They let their wives or girlfriends travel for a business getaway with their male bosses to exotic locations. In other words, if you are not a mugu to your female partner, you are insecure.

Some are looking for wife-friendly occupations while others are looking for pocket-friendly wives.

/

cerpvad:
I don't support hundred percent that a woman should do corporate job, especially if she will be earning more than her husband. The consequences are multifaceted. It is either she loses respect for her husband or she blackmails him that he is irresponsible whenever he is broke and could not meet up with financial responsibility. She can also start cheating on the husband in that situation

jefy:
Sad to say, there isn't no equality between both sex.. Modernization has truely made some to forget their place in the home and society.. Even nature made certin things the way they are. 'change it if you can,or by yourself,abolish those traditions. Just a post for some ranting and calling op names. MEN AND WOMEN CANT AND WILL NEVER BE EQUALS..sad reality. Oga op,abeg,do what you have to do to secure your help mate. Regards.and for those who want to quote me,you shall be violently ignored..

joyandfaith:


what about house wives that sleep with neighbours, pastors, artisans, family drivers and gate men?
the only reason I feel women should work from home is to take care of children. Growing children need time and attention from parents. Both parents should not be busy looking for money. sexual predation and bad influence are rampant nowadays.

HIbreed:

sorry, they are not insecure. They've seen it all

Microwhy:
Insecure!
Maybe you're still single.

lekspot01:
BAD INFLUENCE? Malian spotted

24kmagic:
Teaching job is the best for a wife.
She leaves 7am and comes back by 2:30pm

She can use 1hr to rest or sleep, after which she enters the kitchen and prepare something for the family.

During holidays, she will be at home all through.
Wives/mothers should be home anything 4PM, not all these nonsense Carrer ladies that will be having board meetings even as late as 6PM.
Having a teacher as a wife and mother is bae.
All ye NCE and B.Edu girls, I'm coming for you..


NB: Im talking about reputable or public schools, not all these 15k private school ooo.

Zizza:



Please just shut up!!!
I'm married, but I won't take any form of cheating from my husband. What makes it more acceptable for a man to cheat? Who accepts it?? The womenfolk? The day I catch you cheating, you're done for.

They'll keep saying don't go through your husband's phone if you want to remain sane. Brother, hold your phone let me hold mine.

Please, let's borrow sense biko

vickydankal:


Insecurity in men could clearly be seen but not limited to the following :
Consuming jealousy
Fear of losing your mate to another
Spying your wife
Excessive monitoring
Excessive control
Demanding explanation for every friendly greeting, sms, chat or call
Demanding access to your phone
Stop every outdoor activities especially with the opposite sex
Paranoia and disbelief as to your partner’s whereabouts
Constant reassurance
Fear of your wife's exposure
Fear of financial independence
Among others

Jokerman:


You be Ode. So I see my wife chatting with one man, so I shouldn't get to know because it's friendly??

I bought new SIM cards for my wife

vickydankal:


Now that you have insulted me just because I'm entitled to my own opinion, has your account balance changed for better.

In my comment, did I call you names or insult you. Why call me that. I hate toxic people. I don't have anything else to tell you, I don't want more insult this good morning.

Casemiro:



nice suggestions there..




You can keep saying insecure all you want, but Everyman to his own..


some men want women working in big organizations and offices, while some prefer them stay at home..



Stories flying up and down especially on Nairaland are enough to make such men not change their mind.



from colleague colleague,

they start something funny.

Before you know one thing has happened and the do done.



It's not insecurity on the part of such men,

they just don't want their wives to always be in an occasion of sin, where there would be much pressure..





no need trying to sound politically correct, we know what really happens inside life..



once again thanks for your suggestions.



MODIFIED !!!!!!



If you like quote me full textbook calling me insecure, I will never try to sound politically correct just to win cheap likes on nairaland.




You can give motivational quotes or try to win likes all you want, but we know that


theory is different from practical.




Inside life, we know how things operate.




I asked a simple question,

'' What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? "


Can't you just pass if you don't have contributions?





marriage is for two who agree to get together.



If you are a career woman, marry a career man.


Simple!