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|Strange Urges In My Body by WinningEleven(m): 11:17pm On Dec 17, 2019|
please help me before I do something stupid. its a very simple yet complicated thing
lately, I dunno what is wrong with me. when I see girls, my body quakes.
by quakes, I mean that there is this movement inside of me that makes my heart, chest and stomach hurt for a second. like something inside me is moving uneasily. I don't understand this and it began lately.
what is wrong with me? I have prayed and prayed about it to no avail
FYI I'm a teen
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by dawnomike(m): 11:30pm On Dec 17, 2019|
It is all in your mind i guess... Make a conscious effort to always look away from ladies. That might help. It is well!!!
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by hakeem4(m): 11:41pm On Dec 17, 2019|
maybe you should go to the hospital. But i do not know why you came to the religious section, is it that all the believers should pray and fast for you ?
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by Janosky: 12:02am On Dec 18, 2019|
Nothing is wrong with you. calm down.
You are passing through a normal phase of development ,puberty phase.
Your parents should have educated you and made you aware of the changes in your body as well as fluctuations of feelings and emotions you would pass through as you transition from teenage years to mature, adulthood.
Beware of the counsel of Ahithophel,that is your peers and others who may mislead you with half truths about sexuality education.
Please Google this very informative book, "Questions Young People Ask- Answers That Work", published by Jehovah's witnesses.
The Official JW website has lots of practical counsel for young people/youths.
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by MEGA4BILLION(m): 12:55am On Dec 18, 2019|
If you are of age and financially ok, please, go and marry before you rape someone's daughter. Pointless prayer won't solve this your body quake problem.
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by mumumugu(m): 2:48am On Dec 18, 2019|
listen to banky w. strong thibg
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by MuttleyLaff: 4:07am On Dec 18, 2019|
Janosky:WinningEleven, just be alert and on guard, so when/if you do eat the "The Official JW website lots of practical counsel for young people/youths" that you have the sense wisdom, good and right strength of mind to spit out the bones
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by Finallydead: 4:32am On Dec 18, 2019|
WinningEleven, let me ask, apart from this strange symptoms, do you feel the regular urges(arousal) that men get in their late teens?
Well if you do, you need to not only pray but to fast and pray. Fasting is the age old medicine for quenching the body's urges and appetites. Not once or twice but regular fasting, as a part of your life, at least throughout your youth. Not warming up fasting either but raw fasting, minimum 3 days(only water). You may not successfully pull this off in your first attempt, or second or fifth..., but the point is if you're serious about bridling the body's appetites, you will have keep pushing till you pull it off. If you don't win your body in the fast, don't expect to do so in the playground full of ladies. So just keep pushing it, at some point, it will become natural to your body to fast and be subjected generally.
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by deuzgreat: 12:36pm On Dec 18, 2019|
And you had to attribute it to religion! It's basically hormones. Even angels saw beautiful girls and fell to earth to fvck dem. Who then are you for hormones not to mess with u? Read more biology books and stop being stupid
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|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by WinningEleven(m): 12:51pm On Dec 18, 2019|
deuzgreat:FYI, the "angels" you said impregnated ladies were not the kind of spirit beings you think
The bible call them "Sons of God" not angels.
And also, the nature of the children they bore from women showed that their nature wasn't godly but EVIL
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by MuttleyLaff: 2:35pm On Dec 18, 2019|
WinningEleven:Please dont make the mistake of believing that lie, because the Bible never called any angels anywhere the "sons of God"
PS: Well done WinningEleven for correcting deuzgreat. I'll soon get to you. You're a smart guy and you wouldnt have any problem overcoming this seemingly problem after I have shared some info and realities with you
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by MuttleyLaff: 3:00pm On Dec 18, 2019|
WinningEleven:What examples of something stupid, do you think you'll and/or might do?
WinningEleven:1/ Do you have a mother, sisters, aunts, nieces etc at all?
2/ Do you have this same experience when with any and/or each of them?
3/ Describe what "my body quakes" is and what this specifically means?
4/ Describe the urges you have, when you see girls, do you have any ill or evil intentions in your mind whenever you experience this feeling towards girls/women?
5/ When precisely did you start developing this urges towards girls/women?
6/ What to your mind, do you think triggered you having this to behave this way to girls?
7/ Does it matter if the girls are good looking or not, if well physically blessed or not, or it doesn't matter because you feel this way regardless of if good looking or not, if well physically blessed or not, hmm?
WinningEleven:Why does it need to be that something is wrong with you?
WinningEleven:Describe in the detail, what the prayers were about and give example of how you made or give the prayer
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by WinningEleven(m): 4:12pm On Dec 18, 2019|
MuttleyLaff:Exactly my point
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by WinningEleven(m): 4:12pm On Dec 18, 2019|
MuttleyLaff:Sir, I need help not a exam now
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by Finallydead: 4:33pm On Dec 18, 2019|
WinningEleven:Did you read my post?
WinningEleven, let me ask, apart from this strange symptoms, do you feel the regular urges(arousal) that men get in their late teens?You may of course, consider this discipline a heavy one, but the only encouragement I leave you with is the benefits of choosing it are as great as the negative consequences of not of not choosing it.
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by MuttleyLaff: 5:07pm On Dec 18, 2019|
WinningEleven:This is how you'll effectively get the help you so much need my dear new friend.
I don't know why you seem to find those seven simple, harmless, easy, direct and straightforward questions hard for you to answer. Trust me, when/if you answer those questions, I will be able to educate and/or re-orientate you on what you need to know about women/girls. The information will re-align and set up you to look at women/girls in a different, respective, appreciative and admirable light so that you won't necessarily anymore be having at all, any of those body quakes you say are giving you concerns.
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by WinningEleven(m): 5:32pm On Dec 18, 2019|
Finallydead:I'll try this sir. Definitely
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by MuttleyLaff: 5:58pm On Dec 18, 2019|
WinningEleven:You will definitely try what, hmm? Medication before and/or without diagnosis, erhn? Finallydead, should know better that prescription before proper and correct diagnosis is malpractice, lol.
Do not fear those simple questions, dont be afraid of any of those questions WinningEleven, but fear sidestepping them. Be afraid of not answering the questions.
We would have made some advances in to this situation of yours if you had made it to answering those questions and even possibly discoveries made likely further questioning your answers, lol. WinningEleven, please find the courage to answer those questions you're afraid to hear the answers you're going to give.
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by Finallydead: 6:14pm On Dec 18, 2019|
MuttleyLaff:Your right on this one. But observe my initial post, I offered this only if his problem was as I suggested. Its up to him then, to say if it is or not and to follow through based on that. I love to save time, so I do such at times. Lol. It probably is, if he took it. By the way, did you see my reply to you on the image of God by stupiditi
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by MuttleyLaff: 6:37pm On Dec 18, 2019|
Finallydead:"... I've learnt to give answers rather than raise questions,"
- Religion / Re: Bible Scholars Should Help Me Out With This Teachings. PLEASE. by Finallydead: 3:03pm On Dec 17
Tbh, you're not helping him and matters when you do things that way. Whats the rush, why the quick fix? I think, I know why, it's because you dont according to the above quote, like asking questions, is why, lol, but meanwhile, the art and science of asking questions is the source of all knowledge, that's Thomas Berger for you, by the way, lol.
WinningEleven, is not sincerely, honestly and truthfully ready yet for any help sought, take that from me, lol.
Finallydead:Yes I did see your reply on the other thread Finallydead. It was because of you actually that I veered to join the thread, in fact, it was because of your initial "sensus plenior" comment before your last reply you're referring to, that made me decide to join the thread. Why I hear or sense you ask, lol. Well so you know that you're not alone, so you know there are are others who seem to think like you think, lol, and because not many usually stick their neck(s) on the block here, lol.
I am about popping out shortly for a bit, when I come back in, I will try to drop some comment to your reply on the other thread, lol
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by WinningEleven(m): 6:56pm On Dec 18, 2019|
MuttleyLaff:lemme kuku answer the questions
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by MuttleyLaff: 6:59pm On Dec 18, 2019|
WinningEleven:Thank you my brother. You wont regret you did. Just make sure you give your answers in the same format, order and style the questions were asked, meaning they need to be numbered, lol.
PS: I am now briefly popping out, say for an hour, lol
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by WinningEleven(m): 7:01pm On Dec 18, 2019|
MuttleyLaff:1. Yes I have them all
3. An intense desire stirring in me
4. I won't call them ill or evil but from my small knowledge its not supported by the Bible. But yes, some of them are evil but I shot them out quickly. This is part of my worry
5. 4-3 days ago
6. I honestly don't understand this question
7. Honestly it matters.
The reason why I am worried is because this has never happened like this before. Before you yarn puberty, I am in my late teens so I have mostly gone past puberty.
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by Image123(m): 7:01pm On Dec 18, 2019|
Hehehehe. Even the body can quake anyhow after those questions. That's how Muttley like to do us here oh. Maybe he's working in jamb.
But he's right sha. You should give clarification. But get busy and get Jesus is the answer sha.
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by Image123(m): 7:07pm On Dec 18, 2019|
They are evil according to Jesus. Lust is evil and immoral and lands people on the bad side of God, hell fire actually. You've possibly been involved in masturbation or pornography. Those are the root cause. If not, sorry to say, the truth will be that you are possessed.
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by MuttleyLaff: 7:19pm On Dec 18, 2019|
WinningEleven:Thank you thank you, thank you
WinningEleven:You said at #5 above, the whole urges problem started 4-3 days ago, which considering you're at least between 15-18 years old at least implies the issue is a recently developed one, so the question here at #6, is asking that, what to your mind, do you think caused you to begin all of a sudden, develop this seemingly unhealthy strong and compelling attraction to women/girls. Something must have triggered this. You dont seem to have same urges towards your mother, sisters, aunts, nieces etc. You dont seem to have this uncontrollable urge/desire feelings, that is going unchecked, towards not good looking, shapeless and/or not well physically blessed women/girls
WinningEleven:Lol, I am not Finallydead. I dont do presupposition and if I do, I often will tell that I am doing it, lol. Dont get worried my brother, this is a shut and close case. You dont really have a problem, what you are in need of is a paradigm shift, once you have it, as I earlier said you'll see all women and/or girls in a different light, lol and all those lust will evaporate, disappear, lol
PS: I really need to already be out, else I'll be late for my appointment. Excuse me. Ah, I've seen Image123 waving the stick at you and beating you with it, lol. It is well, lol
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by Finallydead: 7:35pm On Dec 18, 2019|
MuttleyLaff:Naah! You misunderstood my statement. I meant I prefer to give answers that wouldn't raise too many other questions with them, especially on a public forum where every Tom, Dick and Harry would quote and question your propositions, so I actually limit my points to what can be chewed by most, just to save myself time. I agree with you on Thomas Berger. Believe it or not, I'm usually accused of asking questions a lot, where others assume and don't believe in presumption. Take this to be an exception, in the worst case, and that with a caveat, if you saw how I presented it. Was still up to him to answer my question. I believe more in principles and can tweak methods around a principle sometimes. The way it works is I expect more specific questions or clarifications from the inquirer, from wherever I leave off. I can save time that way and focus on specific needs. I think you understand that.
I await your reply to the other thread
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by Image123(m): 7:37pm On Dec 18, 2019|
Brother i come in peace, i'm not accustomed to violence, sticks, beatings etc. All that has gone with Calvary. Mind yourself oh
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by Finallydead: 7:53pm On Dec 18, 2019|
WinningEleven:Thanks to MuttleyLaff for helping you expatiate, so you can be better helped. You see from diagnosis that this is the usual urges that accompanies youth stage, else it should happen with your relatives and should not depend on ladies' looks. Do not think urges begin for all at the same age, let's say yours just began. For some, it won't begin until their twenties, for real. Well, you should still use my advice. Then for the prayer part, you need to be really intentional and PERSEVERING to receive personal directives from God. In other words, tell God exactly how it is with you (trust me He's not embarrassed by it, but only wants to help) and persevere UNTIL he gives you directives. While fasting will be helping to subdue the body's appetites as you grow in it. Don't ever condemn yourself, for your urges too, it will do you no good, and though your mind and demons, convince you, God never condemns you for the urges, but you will have to answer to Him if, now you know what to do about them, you don't do so. Its fallen flesh we all have that's responsible for those urges not you. Its just another battle in life to win and you can with the direction above.
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by Finallydead: 12:36pm On Dec 19, 2019|
WinningEleven:WinningEleven, you've acted in overzealousness in spiritual knowledge backed by teenage inexperience/immaturity. Sorry if that sounds too hard on you. But as a spiritual rule, learn never to spread knowledge you're yet to test yourself. It leads to abuse and misconstruing by others, causing more harm than good. You cannot fast away your body's urges in 3 days btw, but as a consistent discipline, it EVENTUALLY brings your urges to barest minimum, making it easy for your control. You should at least have done this for over five years as regularly as possible before you feel the benefits and before you ever talk about it in public space. Fasting is a sensitive topic and is not easy for anyone, especially in today's environment, but only becomes natural by practice, so only those really serious about their devotion to the Lord should be taught. The prayer part however is equally important, as it is the means of securing grace to rise in spiritual strength. Please kindly take my name out of your thread immediately, first of all, as a reference or authority on the subject. I don't want all kinds of people quoting me to argue about fasting(feel free of course, to invite me on any other subject). It's still okay to leave openureyes there since he's already done a thread on this subject. Secondly, in response to this, I suggest you modify that thread to a subject of inquiry(like what is the essence of fasting for a believer or so), rather than a declaration of fact(since you're yet to try it yourself), so others can give their opinions without arguments. I would also love to hear of your development as you grow in this newfound discipline.
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by WinningEleven(m): 12:46pm On Dec 19, 2019|
Finallydead:I have actually tried it yesterday and it worked on me
|Re: Strange Urges In My Body by WinningEleven(m): 12:47pm On Dec 19, 2019|
You think I haven't tried it at all?
I haven't felt anything since yesterday and today too
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